>32 yo
>do biology tutoring
>one of my students is this pretty 18yo minx with huge boobs
>end up becoming fuckbuddies
>want to keep it casual and on the down-low but she now wants to introduce me to her friends
>refuse because I feel like it could get out of hand
>she insists and it’s caused a bit of tension between us
>don’t want to break things off because she is super hot and the sex is great
>she’s basically one of the few good things I have in my life right now

What to do?

How can someone succeed in the dating realm at 5’3?
Please no bs platitudes. I just want a gf.

I’m in Aus if it matters

I'm on the spectrum (Assburgers) and I just got a job opportunity to work as a salesman. I'm becoming very nervous and I don't want to fuck this up.

I got some benzos and anti-deprassants lying around (Lorazepam, Xanax and Zoloft). Is it a good idea to take at least half a pill to help relax in the morning the first week?

How can I permanently stop masturbating?

Why am I never complimented or approached in public by strangers despite being good looking, charming and in shape?

How do I analyze what went wrong and learn from it for the future? It's been like a year since it ended and it was my first real relationship (I was in it for like 10 months) and I still don't think I'm fully over it.

I try to talk to friends about it a little when I feel comfortable sharing, I try and analyze it as if I were an outsider but I did so many things wrong myself and I feel like he also did and that he sucked as a person. Well, I guess you shouldn't date somebody 12 years older than you as your first bf.

In a way, I guess I feel a little cheated and maybe manipulated? I'm not sure what to say about it. There were just multiple moments with this man where you get that gut feeling that's telling you "oh this is a bad idea" but not just like "oh it's bad for you" but rather a more primal "fight or flight" scenario type of thing, where you kind of fear of what he's going to do next.

He never hurt me or did anything bad to me but there were just multiple moments where I feel he was just like, trying to drill into the insides of my mind and basically manipulating it to his whims to get me to feel like he feels. I feel really awkward about it. I don't know what else to say or how to describe it. I've also been sort of mentally not that well for a few years now, sort of an asocial shut-in person so somebody holding my hand and hugging me and well, "loving" me for the first time felt good, it felt really comforting. Maybe that's why I don't want to let it go.

i dont know what to do, every day i feel more warped, frustrated, and dissociated and nobody knows what to do, whenever i try asking for advice, i either get mocked or get bandaid solutions like "hit the gym" or "go on a diet" if not blatant dismissal disguised as help like "touch grass" or "go to therapy"

everything feels so fucking useless and my inner monologue is desperately trying to convince me that this is useless to but surely I have to do something before i give into breaking in some regard by doing something incredibly evil and/or stupid

the only things i give a shit about are finding a way to get rid of the increasing omnipresent background stress that never goes away no matter what or finding a distraction to it or finding ways to cope by understanding it more. my memory is severely horrible and there are many parts of my psyche i cannot access such as feeling connected to any feeling besides lust or anxiety

i have no idea what caused any of this but its been getting progressively worse since i was 13 and now i am 20. i dropped out of high school in 11th grade because i didnt give a fuck about my future or anything

sometimes i think i should try to help others but i wouldnt know where to begin because i suck at literally everything except being annoying (this is not depression speaking, I am able to "feel" good moods but no connection to them) even then, the "good" moods come out of nowhere and I still acknowledge i am a drain on everyone around me

what can i do to stop this spiral of madness?

I am bothered sexually by every sounds that anyone makes. It doesn't matter if I wear headphones or I'm just busy it makes my privates tingle and I writh in pain. I live with other people so trying to be occupied doesn't work because they make noise. What are some ways that will help me not be so horny?

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how can i make the world a better place and make people happier on a large scale?
>inb4 kys

Get it off your chest, friends!

>Talking to a therapist, she asks me about my sexual history
>Tell her I'm a virgin still at 28
>"Oh, so you're asexual?"
>"No, I'm not, I want to have sex I just haven't."
>"What do you mean?"
>"What do you mean what do I mean?"
>"You can't tell me you've honestly been trying this long and are still a virgin?"
I didn't know what to fucking say to that and she changed the subject. Therapy is fucking useless.

My girlfriend I met online suddenly had a set of life circumstances hit her and we took the opportunity to move in together. She's now a few states away from her family and I'm right at home in my home state. It is great, and I really love her, but there are some things I'm not certain how to deal with and it can be exhausting. Things like
>not really having any alone time or peace because I'm an EXTREMELY introverted person
>always feeling like I need to be an entertainer and in some kind of fun mood
>always feeling guilty if I'm not actively doing something with her even if I want to do my own thing for a day or two
>feeling like I need to be dependable even as I'm going through my own problems
>not being able to sleep in the same bed as her because we have exact opposite sleep habits (I need to doze off while watching or listening to something, she needs total silence and darkness)
What can I do? Open communication about things helps of course, but the problems keep cropping up. Is this normal? It's been about two months now.

I don't want to wear a poppy this remembrance day.

Don't get me wrong, I 100% appreciate the sacrifice that our veterans in WW1 and WW2 had made for my country. However, the freedoms and values that were protected ultimately led to fucktons of pajeets invading our country. You see them on the street, in the office, or at stores, all speaking in tongues and refusing to assimilate in the country they chose to call home. They take jobs away from our own citizens, take plenty of government money to support them, and us natives get jackshit.

Some may say this is because they were exploited by a guy in India promising them a better life, the government looking to boost the population, or companies looking for cheap labor, but the matter of fact is they CHOSE to come here. They CHOSE to come to a country they probably know jack shit about, don't improve their English, and don't adopt our values. I have seen pajeets at work drink water out of the bathroom sink, as well as wash their face in the water like it's a shower.

Unfortunately, I can't accept the excuse of "You can still honor their sacrifice and criticize the current government". The fact of the matter is, it was the people our great-grandfathers died to defend, the values they fought for, that led to this. The culture and values that they died defending decided to bring in villagers from a shit heap in India en masse.

Maybe we wouldn't be in this situation if the enemy won. Or maybe I'd be complaining about other problems should they have won. Either way, I can't stand for a nation that has now disrespected it's own people, and begun favoring foreigners.

>. A person who's very outgoing, has an active circle of friends, charming, and takes control of the situation.
When you're with him, he takes you around places, he leads conversations, he introduces you to other friends, and treats you nicely. You'll probably want to be around him, you're free to be a submissive person towards him because he makes you feel safe socially. The entire experience of being around him is exiting and addictive.
How do I become more like this?

How do I last longer in bed?

As soon as I put it in her, I cum within 3 minutes.

I want to kill myself. My planned method is combining vinegar and bleach to make a form of Chlorine gas. I live in a duplex, with my mother, younger sister, and I living on one side, with a single man what is only home 33% if the time, and has some marriage drama that I will not get into because his personal info does not need to be on the internet. Either tonight, tomorrow after school, or another day, I was going to shut myself in the garage we share with our neighbor, combine the chemicals in a small plastic water bottle, or some other container, breathe it in, and finally find freedom. I understand that Chlorine gas is fatal, but I only want myself to be the victim. I have failed 8 other suicide attempts (by different methods) and only 2 were even somewhat close to death before family showed up, or I gave up. Any ideas on how I can contain the gas within my garage so I don't harm neighbors, dogs/cats, and especially my own family, and a family with 2 5 year old's that live behind me? Please. Anything will help.

I'd never (and have never) dated one, but I keep becoming attracted to men who are low or highkey alcoholics. How to stop it?
I think it might just be my immature self finding that sort of thing ""cool"" and not being able to get rid of this pattern. I've never gotten used to drinking, have been to a bar only a few times in my life, never alone, and have never tried even the mildest of drugs, like weed. I don't feel "cool" or experienced enough to hang out with someone like that, and if I do, I tend to overthink a lot and get nervous.
(not a tranny)

Do you think studying systems engineering is a good option?

For some reason I don't like being in relationships with non virgins, it's like if a girl has even kissed another guy or especially had sex with them I see them as disqualified from a life partner or someone worthy of love so the relationship is doomed from the start and no matter how much fun we have or how good the intimacy gets its like I know something is past its expiration date

How can I change this mindset, there are so few virgins that aren't insanely fat or mentally ill

>feel bad because not studying so i get my shit together and start studyin
>brain physically hurts
>"I'll bear with it"
>understand nothing AND my brain still hurts
>now i feel fucking depressed ontop of everything else
>literally don't know from where to tackle this shit
am i even supposed to "push through" when things are like this? Do i apply effort when it does nothing and feels horrible ? i feel like giving up and just waiting for a time when studying actually does something

Never go to therapy anons, the people shilling this shit are often "therapists" themselves, which are grifters. These parasites need to get a real job, starve them out.

IGNORE THERAPY POSTERS AS THEY ARE MOSTLY THERAPISTS SHILLING THEIR GRIFT

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I finally, have been given 1 year to life- acute myeloid leukemia. I will ask a bunch of different topics, i'm ESL so my prose is messy...I'll just ask bullet-point type questions so its clear.
>Should I really plan my own funeral? Music choice, slideshow, photos, shrine arrangements(?) etc? or, that makes it more painful and I should just do an austere, solemn event?
>Since I will literally die: Should I "let it out all out" and confess to crushes, curse and abuse (verbally) former enemies, try out every legal possible pent-up desire?
>I have two items from a Bucket List which are : meet a celebrity (I have a short list of possible ones; only one is ok), and pay for a "femdom beating up" session--just a woman kicking and punching me whilst wearing some type of costume like police or so on--Are these so utterly retarded I should, just forget about them altogether?
Any additional advice is welcome.

>be me (20M) at home
>receive two videos from my female friend (late Halloween party I think? that's what my cousin told me) at 5 am
>too sleepy and lazy to watch them now
>go to bed instead
>in the afternoon, I remember them videos she sent me last night
>she deleted the messages, they ain't there no more
>msg her "too late lol" even tho I didn't watched them
>hasn't answered yet

Maybe I'm overthinking, but this can't be good, right?
We haven't talked in a while, we were supposed to meet up 3 days ago and she kinda ghosted me.
Maybe she said summ in the videos about me and regretted it next morning.

The day of the Lord is near, a day of clouds.

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Im 19 and keep accidently cold-approaching woman that are like 35 and then its awkward as fuck and I just walk away. Even worse I accidently did this to a high schooler the other day cuz she looked early-twenties. What are some signs a woman is 18-29?

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For thousands of years men have carried all the burdens of providing and everything that comes with civilization. Now it's women's time to pick up the slack and carry civilization forward.
My plan is to be a neet and for women wagies to pay their fair share by providing for me and everybody else in society for the next six thousand years.

It's time for men to sit back, relax and take it very easy for the next two thousand years at the very least. We earned it after all.

I've been asking myself this question for a year now, and I honestly don't know the answer

When my parents separated because the situation was no longer bearable, I ended up with my mother and three other idiots I have for younger siblings. I've taken care of each of them since they were babies while I was a 9-year-old kid, I've seen them grow up and all that shit, it would be nice if it weren't for the fact that I practically had to learn to be a father. My father was drunk all day long, and my mother was always out of the house to avoid fighting with him, so she left the work to me

I'm almost 20 now, and I feel like I haven't really lived. My classmates go out to parties, have girlfriends, and seem to be okay with it. Meanwhile, I have to figure out how the hell to bring money home because one salary is no longer enough. All I want is to finish my accounting degree and find a job far away from here and never contact my family again, Because for the last 10 years, I've done nothing but put their needs before my own. I just want to get away from this lecture about how I have to do what my father couldn't and make this family work

I simply don't want to keep doing that anymore

>fucking my gf
>shes really into it
>blurts out "fuck me with that beastly dick"

Is she fetishizing me? Im black. Don't want to be seen as a "beast".

Boss put me on PIP after one of our foreign workers pissed onsite. It happened after I'd told my colleagues I was leaving for dinner. There were two superintendents and one safety person on duty that night, I'm the only one being punished.

PIP accuses me of some few actual mistakes I made (I was twice late for work, one was weather related) and around a dozen insane points. Either small incidents which were settled on the spot now dug back up, or even when someone else fought me. The piss incident happened less than 3 weeks after I provided proof of overtime work to HR and asked for overtime pay. It also follows lots of other safety violations. Many safety incidents were the result of senior supervisors telling me to allow violating safety rules as long as our workers are not caught by other contractors' workers. Boss didn't let me explain my side of the accusations at all during the PIP meeting, but now has responded to my signature & amended statement saying I was the one who didn't want to explain anything during the meeting.

TLDR; boss likely wants me gone. I have hard evidence that superiors in our company have been allowing violations and telling me to cover for them. Note I did not protest these orders until after my PIP because I was fresh and didn't want to lose my job. Well it seems I'm about to lose my job anyways given PIP protocol. When & how should I be prepared to present my recordings to our GC and maybe OSHA?

>t. superintendent at foreign construction firm

I want to match a couple of a beautiful woman and AN extremely repulsive man.
How do i do that?
>Why
I want tò see the woman's parents and friend cry while She drolls over a genetica failure

How do I (bio male) approach dating when I want strictly want trans men? I've hooked up easily enough in apps with all kinds, but even on Grindr saying "looking for trans men" gets me hate for "being a strait man looking for women!"

If anyone knows how to properly constructively approach the subject, or if you know of dating sites/apps that welcome it, I'm all ears. Thanks kindly.

how do i stop worrying about very unlikely bad scenarios?

Is it possible to cope with a life in which you simply care for nothing? I have no interest any any of the hundreds of careers Ive researched. I have no real hobbies or things I want to do. I have no aspirtaions, no dreams. Nothing to work towards and nothing to live for. The only reason I evade death is for short-term dopamine.

I am an autistic person. However, I don't think I got the full brunt of it. I autistically go to the gym and I have made myself to be pretty strong. I did this thinking I could make up for being autistic. Now I just feel like a retard who is strong. I still don't have much going for me. I become upset and angry when I see a guy who is dating a woman and the guy is way less strong than I am. Like obvious pencil neck etc. I don't think I am a gigachad or anything but I have definitely put in the time within the gym. I feel upset that I am still missing something I might never have. I honestly just wish I wasn't autistic. But would I be as strong as I am today if I were not autistic? What can I do to help my situation? I am 32 and it feels like I have no hope because what woman wants to date what is effectively someone who is "retard strong". I hate this.

Found out in my dads phone a screenshot of my brothers gf. What should I do? To be honest even I was amazed on how sexy she looks but still I would not think about it to have a fantazy at all. Should I tell my brother?

I really want to be a God. Like really badly. So badly I cry about not having worshippers and power some days. I have always had a feeling of being ":superior", I don't wanna sound like some retard trying to act like an anime character but that's just how I am. I hate feeling weak, I've gone to the extreme just to not feel weakness. I hate it. I also have psychotic episodes which lead me to believe I'm genuinely a god. I really, really want to be a cult leader as well and these thoughts have persisted on for a very long time. I used to get bullied back in middle-high school, for unrelated reasons, and I hated it so much, mainly because it would always make me feel weak, and I would always yell and scream at people. This was involuntary/uncontrollable. I do not believe this is some sort of mental illness, and I don't believe I have a superiority complex or a god complex or whatever, I just am a god. I'm going insane. I need advice or help. I don't want therapy or professional help though just tell me how to get rid of these thoughts please guys. I beg of you. This is my first time on this site and I just need help. Oh dear. Please help me. I think everybody wants to be God or has wanted to but I do find this concerning. What should I do about this? I want to be God so badly it drives me crazy and makes me sob for hours!!!

I need help. I went to see an escort to lose my virginity and now my libido is totally gone because I couldn't maintain an erection with her and didn't do anything except kissing and oral. I'm 29.

I just got too nervous and couldn't have sex. This is despite me not watching any porn for a week or so, so I was quite horny. She was very nice, I admitted my situation to her and we talked for a while. Did a bit of oral, she said I had beautiful eyes. She seemed surprised when I said I was a virgin but maybe that was just an act. We seemed to have a good rapport and talked about interesting things but again, don't know if she was just acting. She did seem quite engaged when she was talking to me and we kissed a lot which I liked. The more we talked the more I relaxed but I felt bad. I'm so pathetic. I genuinely feel worse in a way now. I wandered around afterwards feeling completely alone in this world and wanted to cry. 29 years on this planet and aside from escorts, I'm still a kissless virgin. I deserve to be a Wizard.

Maybe it's a mental thing? I just don't think I can meet a woman and within 5 minutes be having sex with her.

I feel completely drained and I want to vomit. How can I get over this? I feel like I've ripped my soul out and I feel like a husk.

If I keep abstaining from porn, will my libido reboot? Should I try to see her again in a few weeks?

It's the only thing left that I care about.

Making friends isn't an issue for me. It comes as easy as butter. Anyway, here's the context.

>Mom financially dependent on father
>Father wants to cut
>Okay fine, Ill take over
>Hmm... How to support two?
>Enlist, declare her as dependent
>Receive allowances for mom
>At the defense language institute currently
>Basically gonna be hopping between places for the next three years, the time left on my contract
>Meet this one girl
>She's leaving the school next week
>We talk a bunch
>Multiple months have passed since she left, we still continue to talk over text
>I find that I really like her
>Obviously pursuing her would be retarded, I'm never gonna realistically see her again
>This is true of anybody I date in the next (slightly less than) three years
What now? I already have money figured out. Fitness figured out. I'm progressively looksmaxxing with fitness and tretinoin. I just want a life long partner. What now. I can't do it for the next three years. Just hiatus until then?

How do i stop getting all my opinions from 4chan? I can't think for my myself and just go with whatever 4chan thinks about things. I don't know why i am like this. How do i change?

I just got a gift card for a favor I did a friend.
It's for Italian food.
Should I use this as an opportunity to ask a girl to dinner?
It would be nice to go get some good food.

Is there anything I can do fix her stupid horseface? I'm getting tired to look at it and she has become annoying too. I'm willing to pay a doctor for a procedure.

how tf do i stop crushing on disgusting ppl

How do you develop an "interesting" personality and set of hobbies if all you've liked for so long are just video games and bodybuilding?

I really want to branch out a lot. What are some cool hobbies you guys do and especially that encourage touching grass?

I've noticed that smelling bad is pretty much a free excuse to dunk on someone and be applauded for doing so.

So how do I not only ensure that I don't smell bad, but can be confident I smell, like, really really good? Shower daily, deodorant, wash laundry regularly, but what else? Cologne? Dermatologist tricks? I don't want people to even have an excuse to dismiss me based on smell