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Anonymous 11/9/2025, 4:49:31 AM No.33917778 [Report]
Thread 33917778 /adv/
What percentage of women will actually not date/break up with a guy over differences in political views?
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Anonymous 11/10/2025, 12:23:31 AM No.33920461 [Report]
ATOGA /adv/
Ask The Opposite Gender Anything
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Anonymous 11/9/2025, 9:03:31 PM No.33919841 [Report]
Thread 33919841 /adv/
how to flirt with bf? please help me I'm so terrible at this. how would you like your girlfriend to flirt with you?
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Anonymous 11/9/2025, 5:53:04 PM No.33919306 [Report]
Advice being smart /adv/
What is your vision of being smart? How do you define true intelligence and wisdom? Can you give examples—authors, projects, or achievements—that you think show real intelligence in action?
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Anonymous 11/8/2025, 3:15:30 AM No.33914000 [Report]
Thread 33914000 /adv/
>. A person who's very outgoing, has an active circle of friends, charming, and takes control of the situation.
When you're with him, he takes you around places, he leads conversations, he introduces you to other friends, and treats you nicely. You'll probably want to be around him, you're free to be a submissive person towards him because he makes you feel safe socially. The entire experience of being around him is exiting and addictive.
How do I become more like this?
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Anonymous 10/24/2025, 7:36:41 PM No.33849758 [Report]
Thread 33849758 /adv/
How do I last longer in bed?

As soon as I put it in her, I cum within 3 minutes.
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Anonymous 11/1/2025, 9:53:38 PM No.33885514 [Report]
Thread 33885514 /adv/
So apparently women think being in a relationship is going to make them miserable. That's what one of them told me when I asked them why they don't want a relationship.

How the fuck then do I get a girlfriend if this attitude is what I have to face before they even meet me?
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Anonymous 11/7/2025, 4:26:29 AM No.33910023 [Report]
Thread 33910023 /adv/
Is it normal for people to get bored and move in in relationships after the honeymoon phase ends?
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Anonymous 11/9/2025, 12:42:56 PM No.33918590 [Report]
Thread 33918590 /adv/
How do I go from being an uptight, feminine neurotic gay man to being the chill go-with-the-flow wigga who's attracted to chicks? Not trolling, I literally want to do this IRL.
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Anonymous 11/9/2025, 8:50:14 PM No.33919791 [Report]
Thread 33919791 /adv/
I’m looking for working, actionable advice to get a gf and am willing to pay up to $1000 for it.
Not “just be urself bro” or “ask out the girl in your class bro” tier shit. It has to be real /adv/ice.
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Anonymous 11/9/2025, 10:30:12 AM No.33918354 [Report]
Thread 33918354 /adv/
Need advice on interpreting the situation, Advice from girls would be much aporeciated.
short background on situation:
>Decide to remain friends with girl after a fling (we had nothing physical) because we are coworkers and she is married and feels guilty
>We agree to speak strictly in friendly manner from now on
>We are in love
>Insane sexual chemistry between us
>She then tells me she wants to send me some pictures as a parting gift since I never got to see her naked
>Sends me nudes
>We start sexting and I make her cum twice
>She feels guilty again agree to continue as friends again
>Fast forward to the morning and we talk like friends
My question is how real is the intention to send nudes as a "parting gift"? does everything really end here? Was this action actually motivated by a "goodbye" or should i expect more to cone from her?
I decided to not pursue aggressively for now what are your thoughts?
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Anonymous 11/9/2025, 11:19:18 PM No.33920256 [Report]
RE:what is love /adv/
>>33909181
>that's not love its infatuation
love is just infatuation with longevity,
however the closest thing to True love you can find if you want it is to buy a dog because a dog is
Never gonna give you up
Never gonna let you down
Never gonna run around and desert you
Never gonna make you cry
Never gonna say goodbye
Never gonna tell a lie and hurt you
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Suicidal_furry 11/9/2025, 10:57:29 PM No.33920193 [Report]
Suicide advise Archived /adv/
I want to kill myself. My planned method is combining vinegar and bleach to make a form of Chlorine gas. I live in a duplex, with my mother, younger sister, and I living on one side, with a single man what is only home 33% if the time, and has some marriage drama that I will not get into because his personal info does not need to be on the internet. Either tonight, tomorrow after school, or another day, I was going to shut myself in the garage we share with our neighbor, combine the chemicals in a small plastic water bottle, or some other container, breathe it in, and finally find freedom. I understand that Chlorine gas is fatal, but I only want myself to be the victim. I have failed 8 other suicide attempts (by different methods) and only 2 were even somewhat close to death before family showed up, or I gave up. Any ideas on how I can contain the gas within my garage so I don't harm neighbors, dogs/cats, and especially my own family, and a family with 2 5 year old's that live behind me? Please. Anything will help.
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Anonymous 11/9/2025, 6:26:51 PM No.33919387 [Report]
attraction to degenerate men /adv/
I'd never (and have never) dated one, but I keep becoming attracted to men who are low or highkey alcoholics. How to stop it?
I think it might just be my immature self finding that sort of thing ""cool"" and not being able to get rid of this pattern. I've never gotten used to drinking, have been to a bar only a few times in my life, never alone, and have never tried even the mildest of drugs, like weed. I don't feel "cool" or experienced enough to hang out with someone like that, and if I do, I tend to overthink a lot and get nervous.
(not a tranny)
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Anonymous 11/9/2025, 3:54:23 PM No.33918982 [Report]
Thread 33918982 /adv/
Do you think studying systems engineering is a good option?
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Anonymous 11/9/2025, 1:30:58 AM No.33917194 [Report]
I feel I'm wasting my 20's /adv/
I'm 27 and never had the crazy life or even normal experienced people have. I'm basically a neet and having no job, friends or girlfriend isn't helping. I don't know where to go because everywhere I go I feel out of touch.
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Anonymous 11/9/2025, 7:08:03 AM No.33918052 [Report]
Thread 33918052 /adv/
For some reason I don't like being in relationships with non virgins, it's like if a girl has even kissed another guy or especially had sex with them I see them as disqualified from a life partner or someone worthy of love so the relationship is doomed from the start and no matter how much fun we have or how good the intimacy gets its like I know something is past its expiration date

How can I change this mindset, there are so few virgins that aren't insanely fat or mentally ill
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Anonymous 11/9/2025, 1:19:06 PM No.33918628 [Report]
Thread 33918628 /adv/
>feel bad because not studying so i get my shit together and start studyin
>brain physically hurts
>"I'll bear with it"
>understand nothing AND my brain still hurts
>now i feel fucking depressed ontop of everything else
>literally don't know from where to tackle this shit
am i even supposed to "push through" when things are like this? Do i apply effort when it does nothing and feels horrible ? i feel like giving up and just waiting for a time when studying actually does something
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Anonymous 11/9/2025, 3:03:09 PM No.33918847 [Report]
NEVER GO TO THERAPY ANONS /adv/
Never go to therapy anons, the people shilling this shit are often "therapists" themselves, which are grifters. These parasites need to get a real job, starve them out.

IGNORE THERAPY POSTERS AS THEY ARE MOSTLY THERAPISTS SHILLING THEIR GRIFT
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Anonymous 11/9/2025, 9:20:43 PM No.33919906 [Report]
Thread 33919906 /adv/
Was a shut-in for 3-4 years, Now I'm more or less cured and decided to socialize but I've literally forgotten how to talk to people, Not hyperbole someone says something and I just stand there like a fucking retard
Conversations *can* flow but I don't know the mechanism behind it, I literally didn't have a friend since elementary. and haven't had a conversation longer than five sentences in 4 years.
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Anonymous 11/9/2025, 10:53:45 PM No.33920183 [Report]
Thread 33920183 /adv/
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Anonymous 11/1/2025, 1:02:10 PM No.33883716 [Report]
I'm dying in 1 year-many points of advice asked /adv/
I finally, have been given 1 year to life- acute myeloid leukemia. I will ask a bunch of different topics, i'm ESL so my prose is messy...I'll just ask bullet-point type questions so its clear.
>Should I really plan my own funeral? Music choice, slideshow, photos, shrine arrangements(?) etc? or, that makes it more painful and I should just do an austere, solemn event?
>Since I will literally die: Should I "let it out all out" and confess to crushes, curse and abuse (verbally) former enemies, try out every legal possible pent-up desire?
>I have two items from a Bucket List which are : meet a celebrity (I have a short list of possible ones; only one is ok), and pay for a "femdom beating up" session--just a woman kicking and punching me whilst wearing some type of costume like police or so on--Are these so utterly retarded I should, just forget about them altogether?
Any additional advice is welcome.
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Anonymous 11/9/2025, 10:43:51 PM No.33920161 [Report]
Thread 33920161 /adv/
>be me (20M) at home
>receive two videos from my female friend (late Halloween party I think? that's what my cousin told me) at 5 am
>too sleepy and lazy to watch them now
>go to bed instead
>in the afternoon, I remember them videos she sent me last night
>she deleted the messages, they ain't there no more
>msg her "too late lol" even tho I didn't watched them
>hasn't answered yet

Maybe I'm overthinking, but this can't be good, right?
We haven't talked in a while, we were supposed to meet up 3 days ago and she kinda ghosted me.
Maybe she said summ in the videos about me and regretted it next morning.
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Anonymous 11/9/2025, 10:41:56 PM No.33920157 [Report]
Thread 33920157 Archived /adv/
The day of the Lord is near, a day of clouds.
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Anonymous 11/9/2025, 10:39:50 PM No.33920152 [Report]
Thread 33920152 Archived /adv/
/thread
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Anonymous 11/9/2025, 9:24:05 PM No.33919919 [Report]
How do you tell a woman's age when cold-approaching? /adv/
Im 19 and keep accidently cold-approaching woman that are like 35 and then its awkward as fuck and I just walk away. Even worse I accidently did this to a high schooler the other day cuz she looked early-twenties. What are some signs a woman is 18-29?
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Anonymous 11/9/2025, 10:01:23 PM No.33920020 [Report]
How do I cope with seeing women of my race with white guys? /adv/
I’m seeing more and more women of my race with white guys. Being lonely and single it’s ripping me to shreds. I know deep down they all prefer white guys (even mediocre looking ones) than the ones from our culture.

I’ll sometimes meet girls from my background saying shit like “I really want a guy who understands my culture and traditions” and I can’t help but feel it’s total bullshit. They put white guys on a pedestal and would go for even a mid white dude if he gave them any attention at all. The double standards are killing me mentally and making it feel even more hopeless for me.
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Anonymous 10/31/2025, 7:56:09 PM No.33880928 [Report]
How to prevent premature ejaculation? I'm kind of at a loss /adv/
Me and my gf got together a few months ago, we're both seniors in college and it's my first relationship.

We finally started getting intimate about six weeks ago and at first I was super thrilled to finally lose my virginity, but I quickly realized that I had a little bit of a problem in that I can't really control when I cum. I asked a couple friends of mine if it was normal to only last a few seconds, and they told me not to worry, that I was probably just nervous (which I was) and this happens to every guy their first time.

But it's been several weeks now and it still hasn't gotten any better. I've searched the web looking for strategies to hold it in, but so far their tips haven't worked for me at all. I think my diet and exercise regimen are pretty healthy, so is my sleep schedule. None of the recommended mental or physical techniques seem to help, condoms don't slow me down either and they also introduce their own host of issues too.

(1/3)
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Anonymous 11/9/2025, 10:37:28 PM No.33920141 [Report]
Thread 33920141 Archived /adv/
/thread
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Anonymous 11/9/2025, 10:16:07 PM No.33920057 [Report]
Thread 33920057 Archived /adv/
/thread
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Anonymous 11/9/2025, 10:32:11 PM No.33920117 [Report]
Thread 33920117 Archived /adv/
For thousands of years men have carried all the burdens of providing and everything that comes with civilization. Now it's women's time to pick up the slack and carry civilization forward.
My plan is to be a neet and for women wagies to pay their fair share by providing for me and everybody else in society for the next six thousand years.

It's time for men to sit back, relax and take it very easy for the next two thousand years at the very least. We earned it after all.
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Anonymous 11/9/2025, 3:24:10 AM No.33917525 [Report]
Am I being selfish? /adv/
I've been asking myself this question for a year now, and I honestly don't know the answer

When my parents separated because the situation was no longer bearable, I ended up with my mother and three other idiots I have for younger siblings. I've taken care of each of them since they were babies while I was a 9-year-old kid, I've seen them grow up and all that shit, it would be nice if it weren't for the fact that I practically had to learn to be a father. My father was drunk all day long, and my mother was always out of the house to avoid fighting with him, so she left the work to me

I'm almost 20 now, and I feel like I haven't really lived. My classmates go out to parties, have girlfriends, and seem to be okay with it. Meanwhile, I have to figure out how the hell to bring money home because one salary is no longer enough. All I want is to finish my accounting degree and find a job far away from here and never contact my family again, Because for the last 10 years, I've done nothing but put their needs before my own. I just want to get away from this lecture about how I have to do what my father couldn't and make this family work

I simply don't want to keep doing that anymore
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Anonymous 11/4/2025, 2:46:23 AM No.33896995 [Report]
/htgwg/ - How to Get Women General #325 /adv/
>What is /htgwg/?
How to Get Women General is by men, for men, about women, so bring all of your questions about getting and dealing with women here. Some anons on this site actually get laid, and some of them even want to help. If you're trying to meet and date women, then this is the place to ask questions, seek advice, and share experiences. We know how hard it can be. We got you bro.

>What is /htgwg/ not?
These threads are NOT for whining, moping, incels, volcels, MGTOW, hopelessness, or demoralization. We're all aware that meeting and dating women is hard today, and even harder for some, but /htgwg/ is for trying to overcome the challenges. IGNORE the posters who complain, give up, or insist there's nothing they can do. This site has other boards and threads that they can pollute. BE SMART: Spot the bait, don't reply, and DON'T WASTE TIME ARGUING WITH THEM!

>How to ask for advice
Context is important: be more specific than "This girl ghosted me, why?" We can't help if we don't know the situation, so try to provide as much (useful) info as possible ("I was at the bar, this chick was checking me out..."). What's your relationship with the girl? How long have you known her? Any conversation screenshots? Etc... Don't forget to ask an actual question.

>Resources and Books
https://wingman.live/ (AI dating coach)
https://pdfcoffee.com/318797392-mark-manson-models-2016pdf-4-pdf-free.html
https://archive.org/details/robert-glover-no-more-mr-nice-guy-id-353324692-size-612
https://www.youtube.com/@YourWingmam
https://www.doctornerdlove.com/blog/
https://pastebin.com/7U5Sdhwq (Leykis 101)
https://dokumen.pub/why-women-deserve-less-firstnbsped-1467978302-r-1917433.html
https://www.fantasticanachronism.com/p/how-to-be-good-at-dating
(new suggestions with working links are welcome)

REMEMBER: It's good to read and prepare, but don't overdo it. Get off this site: go learn and build up your social skills by meeting actual women in the real world.

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Anonymous 11/9/2025, 10:22:07 PM No.33920071 [Report]
Thread 33920071 /adv/
>fucking my gf
>shes really into it
>blurts out "fuck me with that beastly dick"

Is she fetishizing me? Im black. Don't want to be seen as a "beast".
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Anonymous 11/7/2025, 8:41:29 PM No.33912607 [Report]
I have company secrets. /adv/
Boss put me on PIP after one of our foreign workers pissed onsite. It happened after I'd told my colleagues I was leaving for dinner. There were two superintendents and one safety person on duty that night, I'm the only one being punished.

PIP accuses me of some few actual mistakes I made (I was twice late for work, one was weather related) and around a dozen insane points. Either small incidents which were settled on the spot now dug back up, or even when someone else fought me. The piss incident happened less than 3 weeks after I provided proof of overtime work to HR and asked for overtime pay. It also follows lots of other safety violations. Many safety incidents were the result of senior supervisors telling me to allow violating safety rules as long as our workers are not caught by other contractors' workers. Boss didn't let me explain my side of the accusations at all during the PIP meeting, but now has responded to my signature & amended statement saying I was the one who didn't want to explain anything during the meeting.

TLDR; boss likely wants me gone. I have hard evidence that superiors in our company have been allowing violations and telling me to cover for them. Note I did not protest these orders until after my PIP because I was fresh and didn't want to lose my job. Well it seems I'm about to lose my job anyways given PIP protocol. When & how should I be prepared to present my recordings to our GC and maybe OSHA?

>t. superintendent at foreign construction firm
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Anonymous 11/9/2025, 10:18:03 PM No.33920061 [Report]
Thread 33920061 /adv/
I want to match a couple of a beautiful woman and AN extremely repulsive man.
How do i do that?
>Why
I want tò see the woman's parents and friend cry while She drolls over a genetica failure
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Anonymous 11/7/2025, 6:45:44 AM No.33910504 [Report]
Trans Dating /adv/
How do I (bio male) approach dating when I want strictly want trans men? I've hooked up easily enough in apps with all kinds, but even on Grindr saying "looking for trans men" gets me hate for "being a strait man looking for women!"

If anyone knows how to properly constructively approach the subject, or if you know of dating sites/apps that welcome it, I'm all ears. Thanks kindly.
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Anonymous 11/9/2025, 5:52:25 PM No.33919303 [Report]
Thread 33919303 /adv/
how do i stop worrying about very unlikely bad scenarios?
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Anonymous 11/9/2025, 10:10:23 PM No.33920048 [Report]
Thread 33920048 /adv/
We were sent here by the creator to put an end to the current creation. You see when ITS creation becomes too corrupted and the power players become too powerful, Chuds are sent to annihilate everything in it so that a new world can be made.

This is the will of the creator and nothing can stop what is coming.
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Anonymous 11/9/2025, 10:04:33 PM No.33920029 [Report]
Thread 33920029 /adv/
Is it possible to cope with a life in which you simply care for nothing? I have no interest any any of the hundreds of careers Ive researched. I have no real hobbies or things I want to do. I have no aspirtaions, no dreams. Nothing to work towards and nothing to live for. The only reason I evade death is for short-term dopamine.
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Anonymous 11/9/2025, 9:56:28 PM No.33920009 [Report]
What can I do to stop feeling like shit every other month? /adv/
Every couple of months I feel sad (not depressed) for like a week and then I'm back to normal.

It sucks cuz sometimes I even have suicidal thoughts (not really worried about it tho, never would do something like that) and it really makes me dislike social interactions during that time, and I think that people can also feel that Im not ok.

I usually feel like this after I go through something "bad". I really dont know how to explain it, hopefully yall understand what I'm saying.

20M btw, sorry for the semi blog post
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Anonymous 11/9/2025, 7:03:55 PM No.33919466 [Report]
Struggling with autism and dating /adv/
I am an autistic person. However, I don't think I got the full brunt of it. I autistically go to the gym and I have made myself to be pretty strong. I did this thinking I could make up for being autistic. Now I just feel like a retard who is strong. I still don't have much going for me. I become upset and angry when I see a guy who is dating a woman and the guy is way less strong than I am. Like obvious pencil neck etc. I don't think I am a gigachad or anything but I have definitely put in the time within the gym. I feel upset that I am still missing something I might never have. I honestly just wish I wasn't autistic. But would I be as strong as I am today if I were not autistic? What can I do to help my situation? I am 32 and it feels like I have no hope because what woman wants to date what is effectively someone who is "retard strong". I hate this.
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Anonymous 11/9/2025, 9:02:58 PM No.33919838 [Report]
Advice? /adv/
Found out in my dads phone a screenshot of my brothers gf. What should I do? To be honest even I was amazed on how sexy she looks but still I would not think about it to have a fantazy at all. Should I tell my brother?
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Anonymous 11/9/2025, 2:41:08 AM No.33917399 [Report]
I really want to be a cult leader and I also want to be a god. /adv/
I really want to be a God. Like really badly. So badly I cry about not having worshippers and power some days. I have always had a feeling of being ":superior", I don't wanna sound like some retard trying to act like an anime character but that's just how I am. I hate feeling weak, I've gone to the extreme just to not feel weakness. I hate it. I also have psychotic episodes which lead me to believe I'm genuinely a god. I really, really want to be a cult leader as well and these thoughts have persisted on for a very long time. I used to get bullied back in middle-high school, for unrelated reasons, and I hated it so much, mainly because it would always make me feel weak, and I would always yell and scream at people. This was involuntary/uncontrollable. I do not believe this is some sort of mental illness, and I don't believe I have a superiority complex or a god complex or whatever, I just am a god. I'm going insane. I need advice or help. I don't want therapy or professional help though just tell me how to get rid of these thoughts please guys. I beg of you. This is my first time on this site and I just need help. Oh dear. Please help me. I think everybody wants to be God or has wanted to but I do find this concerning. What should I do about this? I want to be God so badly it drives me crazy and makes me sob for hours!!!
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Anonymous 11/9/2025, 8:47:48 PM No.33919781 [Report]
Memory /adv/
I struggle to remember anything.
I can -recall- information, technical stuff, but my memories feel muddled at best, gone at the worst.

I can't remember much of anything a few months back, let alone much of my childhood.
I've kinda always been forgetful, but it's gotten to a new level the past while...

Is this normal? It can't be, right?
Is there even anything I can do about it?
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Anonymous 10/30/2025, 9:28:17 PM No.33877671 [Report]
Tried Losing Virginity to Escort /adv/
I need help. I went to see an escort to lose my virginity and now my libido is totally gone because I couldn't maintain an erection with her and didn't do anything except kissing and oral. I'm 29.

I just got too nervous and couldn't have sex. This is despite me not watching any porn for a week or so, so I was quite horny. She was very nice, I admitted my situation to her and we talked for a while. Did a bit of oral, she said I had beautiful eyes. She seemed surprised when I said I was a virgin but maybe that was just an act. We seemed to have a good rapport and talked about interesting things but again, don't know if she was just acting. She did seem quite engaged when she was talking to me and we kissed a lot which I liked. The more we talked the more I relaxed but I felt bad. I'm so pathetic. I genuinely feel worse in a way now. I wandered around afterwards feeling completely alone in this world and wanted to cry. 29 years on this planet and aside from escorts, I'm still a kissless virgin. I deserve to be a Wizard.

Maybe it's a mental thing? I just don't think I can meet a woman and within 5 minutes be having sex with her.

I feel completely drained and I want to vomit. How can I get over this? I feel like I've ripped my soul out and I feel like a husk.

If I keep abstaining from porn, will my libido reboot? Should I try to see her again in a few weeks?
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Anonymous 11/9/2025, 8:45:48 PM No.33919776 [Report]
Can't have a long term relationship for the next three years? /adv/
It's the only thing left that I care about.

Making friends isn't an issue for me. It comes as easy as butter. Anyway, here's the context.

>Mom financially dependent on father
>Father wants to cut
>Okay fine, Ill take over
>Hmm... How to support two?
>Enlist, declare her as dependent
>Receive allowances for mom
>At the defense language institute currently
>Basically gonna be hopping between places for the next three years, the time left on my contract
>Meet this one girl
>She's leaving the school next week
>We talk a bunch
>Multiple months have passed since she left, we still continue to talk over text
>I find that I really like her
>Obviously pursuing her would be retarded, I'm never gonna realistically see her again
>This is true of anybody I date in the next (slightly less than) three years
What now? I already have money figured out. Fitness figured out. I'm progressively looksmaxxing with fitness and tretinoin. I just want a life long partner. What now. I can't do it for the next three years. Just hiatus until then?
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Anonymous 11/9/2025, 8:36:50 PM No.33919740 [Report]
Thread 33919740 /adv/
How do i stop getting all my opinions from 4chan? I can't think for my myself and just go with whatever 4chan thinks about things. I don't know why i am like this. How do i change?
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Anonymous 11/7/2025, 7:55:13 PM No.33912445 [Report]
Want to get Italian? /adv/
I just got a gift card for a favor I did a friend.
It's for Italian food.
Should I use this as an opportunity to ask a girl to dinner?
It would be nice to go get some good food.
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Anonymous 11/9/2025, 7:30:42 PM No.33919527 [Report]
Girlfriend has a horseface Archived /adv/
Is there anything I can do fix her stupid horseface? I'm getting tired to look at it and she has become annoying too. I'm willing to pay a doctor for a procedure.
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