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Thread 33406058
Anyone know how you're supposed to talk to women even if you do get their number? I can't put an act on for too long, either they start getting bored or they start acting creeped out. You can't talk a...
Struggling with dating
I am struggling with dating because I have to plan the dates etc. Me being a neuro divergent male(autism), I struggle because I find that I am trying to plan things while trying to do it from a regula...
Medanons
Should I go to an ent for a revision nose surgery (my septum is bad along with other issues and it is not symmetrical in appearance) or would a plastic surgeon with some experience be good enough ?
Thread 33407732
How do you handle one-sided friendships and relationships where you invests significantly more effort, time, and emotional energy into the relationship, who only ever talk about themselves, as if they...
Thread 33404259
Recently I reached out to a guy I hadn't seen in a while. He lives in the area, but idk, we didn't really see each other, and I thought that maybe it's not a bad idea to give him a chance. Who knows, ...
Thread 33406132
all my life i wanted to embody a cutesy aesthetic but i became a monster. usually im kinda happy if i dont look in the mirror. any tips? im thinking of maybe getting surgery but it's all very bizarre ...
Women say they love confidence
Is that true? Is that really I gotta do? Just have confidence? So when a woman asks me about what do I do Will she fall head over heels for me if I confidently say I'm a Stay- At - Home Son
Thread 33405311
How do I stop being a fucking loser?
Thread 33401620
I am starting law school late next month. Please give me all the tips and advice you can for my first year thank you.
Thread 33405620
>finish working out in my home gym
>look in mirror, think I look great
>go outside
>see a woman my age who doesn't look at me/makes eye contact with but doesn't smile or anything
>self esteem instant...
Thread 33405439
how do i even date if every woman is taken or is talking to another guy
do single women even exist?
Thread 33406053
Why is it that I never seem to make my family proud, have almost no meaningful friendships, and even my neighbors seem to dislike me yet people I interact with professionally, like teachers or lab par...
Thread 33406598
How good looking do you have to be as a guy to say you're not interested in dating and have it be believed? Is it worth it to looksmaxx just for this?
Thread 33406117
>at work
>feel like there is a million things i want to do at home, excited to leave
>at home
>bored out of my mind, nothing to do, lose interest in all of the things i originally wanted
how fix
how do i not care about stupid shit
ive always been someone that overthinks stupid shit and cared about how random people see me and it gets to a point where i cant sleep sometimes, recently ive felt alienated from friend groups online ...
Choked my Dad, advice pls
So my parents were away on holiday for a week without me, which they generally don't do because they're pretty emotionally tied to me. They came back yesterday and this morning my Dad apparently was l...
Thread 33407742
Any advice for a guy dating a girl miles out of his league?
Addendum yesterday’s thread: there 100% are couples where the girl could do better or the guy could do better. What keeps them together?
Where can I meet women who could be compatible with me?
I'm 26 and I have somewhat niche interests, I like to study religion, philosophy and paranormal stuff. I also like rock and metal music as well as horror movies. It's no secret that none of these thin...
Can i grow my boobs naturally?
18f here, is there any way to make my boobs bigger without pregnancy or implants? Some oils or a diet? Is there a site or a community where i could read more about the possibilities?
Thread 33407567
Writing isn't my strong suit, also I'm lazy so bear with me. So, I have a friend in his late 20s that lives in Florida who has family in the PNW. His mother is a ham planet, controlling narcissist and...
Burned out, can't come back from depression
I had plans and dreams before I realized I was so powerless to change anything and it's all pointless anyway. I should have managed my expectations and been more self-centered, focusing on small wins ...
Annoyed
Don't malesperg at me but I am annoyed cause I like my face other than some stuff (need a second septoplasty, wish I didn't have dark circles but idk if that is possible, wish I had blue eyes but the ...
AMA Mr. Professor (episode 3)
hi, it's me, Mr. Professor again. Just ask me anything, I'll guide you through all battles of life
I'm addicted to 4chan and it's ruining my life
I'm a 4th-year college student and I'm supposed to be graduating soon, but I still have 3 exams to retake this summer. Problem is that I’ve spent this entire month on 4chan doing literally nothing. No...
Thread 33406181
am i wrong for not wanting to date a guy with dyslexia?
Tell me what to do
found out that my sister in-law has been cheating on my brother for over 4 years. She has a boyfriend and has also been seeing multiple men around. Goes out of her way to meet them. My brother may be ...
Is fire fighting an artistic practice Archived
I mean 70% of them do do it for free , or volunteer as they call it.
>I am doing a ride along tomorrow with my local fire station.
am i cooked because of my bedroom
I just moved somewhere and my sister visited today and she told me my bedroom was terrifying. It's a mix between crypt, science study, art museum, and national socialist room. I then realized that yea...
Pro tip: Archived
have a youtube playlist specifically for while eating
Thread 33406638 Archived
How do I explain to my parents I'm an incel and they'll never get grandchildren out of me?
Thread 33406856 Archived
im afraid my girlfriend might break up with me today. if she does i will want to kms but i cant do that to her because i love her still and ive made her sad enough already. how do i not kms if the wor...
I need some advice on what to do with my fucking life lol Archived
Hey dudes, first time posting here
Im 22 years old and got out of a 6 year relationship about 9 months ago, now Im really lost and dealing with depression and ADHD. I dont really have any goals for th...
Thread 33406095 Archived
can you really shower in public gyms or YMCA type places?
is that feasible?
do the staff stop you from doing that if they think you're homeless?
is disease/fungus common?
i'm weighing my options, and...
G.I.O.Y.C Archived
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Thread 33406781 Archived
My car was just illegally towed. Rather than waste my time and money with legal proceedings can I just paid the towing company with a credit card then dispute the charge right after?
How do I move on? Archived
I had an online relationship. It was all online, no face or voice just text and emotion. Its over now but I find myself crippled thinking about her. Others have come and gone and I still talk to women...
/bbki/: Bizarre Burger King Issue Archived
Being in a mall I choose to buy ice cream from Burger King since I have never tasted them.
Choosing an option it surprised me the cashier didn't knew about the product (the one with an advertisement...
Somewhat hot girl obvious plant at hotel with another girl and guy Archived
Is this a prostitute sting operation? If so, why at a hotel that I’m staying at? What exactly is this? Am I overthinking this, why is there 2 half clothed women in a random hotel and a guy hiding with...
Thread 33404708 Archived
How can I fix my hairloss when it doesnt follow the pattern of "skipping a generation"? Could be reversible then?
Me - receeding around 26, currently at NW3 vertex at 33. no crown balding yet but clo...
Way to get ride of tranny thoughts? Archived
I have finally decided that I dont want to troon out for a myriad of reasons.
>no proof that transitioning can improve your life
>majority of suicides happen after trooning out
>Most men including mys...
Can yellow teeth be reversed? Archived
I have a decade of bad oral hygiene due to negligent parents enforcing bad habits as a kid. I’ve been fixing that the past few months. Would it be possible to turn yellow teeth white again without mut...
Lovesick Archived
I've been feeling a bout of love sickness lately. What's the best way to destroy these feelings?
Is the Black Pill real? Archived
Can you genuinely be loved by a woman if you are ugly or is it all a lie?
Scared of telling parents about my job status Archived
I’m almost 21 and have been working my current and first job since May 2024. It’s data entry but for a serious organisation (not trying to be vague, don’t want to dox myself). Long story short I’m a b...
I dont know man Archived
Everything we do are just "things". nothing more, nothing less, just things that we do. whether its dying or getting close to it, or playing video games and jacking off, these are all only things we d...
Homesick Archived
My family (wife, kid, and I) recently moved from the PNW to rural Pennsylvania. The reason was entirely practical... our mortgage cost twice as much in the PNW, and we had no family there so we were c...
Thread 33406592 Archived
what interpretation should I take from women who like to touch and play with my long hair in a non-intimate context?
What do couples even do while they're dating? Archived
I've never gotten past 3 dates without girls rejecting or ghosting me. At first they think I'm 'cute' or 'quirky' but before long they find out that I'm actually just an autistic loser and they disapp...
Are girls not appetizing? Archived
Having discussion with friends about girls, brought up how some of them look tasty and make my mouth water knowing their meat would be delicious, I got told weird but maybe they thought I was joking a...
Thread 33405422 Archived
Proverbs 17:27
>The one who knows much says little; an understanding person remains calm. (MSB)
Better than being a highly opinionated know-it-all. Or speaking a bunch of lies during a date just to ...
Thread 33404850 Archived
"I'm such a failure. I fail at everything I attempt. I feel so dumb and I hate myself so much"
It's because you don't have Christ in your life.
Deuteronomy 30:9
>The LORD will make you prosperous in...
Thread 33406156 Archived
What vaccum should I get for my couch
Thread 33403398 Archived
My daughter is turning 16 and makes a lot of innuendo and brushes up against me on "accident"
My wife gets home from work very late and sometimes my daughter and I will cook together. At first I tho...
Thread 33406396 Archived
Why am I afflicted to internet trolling
Thread 33405162 Archived
are furries actually attractive in real life? I know they are very sexual, does that encourage them to become sexy?
Would dating one be a good move?
and i don't just mean american ones i mean worldw...
Thread 33395451 Archived
How am I supposed to compete with this? I'm pretty sociable, but even if I were to just talk to women irl, then the only difference would be making them laugh, but the more I think about it the more i...
HELP: How to talk in the DMs? Archived
This has never happened before.
A female has given me their phone number through a mutual male acquaintance.
The problem is I'm 23 KHV and I've never had to start a convo in the DMs.
How do you go ab...
Why does my mouth keep building up salivia? Archived
What on earth is going on with me?
Like no joke For the past couple of months I've been dealing with Salivia buildup that constantly happens that I end up either having to swallow or spit. It's been...
Thread 33404034 Archived
>be minimum wagie in job I enjoy.
>Decide to go casual/on-call since manager at workplace is a bitch and my other rcoworker is lazy so not only do I do more than my fair share, I also get berated by m...
like depression but not really Archived
>lots of ambition in life
>eating well, sleeping well, getting exercise and sunlight
>plans
>well-structured paths to attaining those plans
>try to work
>summon all the willpower in the world
>can't ...
How do I live in Japan? What’s the best career path? Archived
I lived in japan for a year as a military brat and I want to go back.
What’s the best pathway for an American to live in japan and not be miserable? Would following my father’s footsteps and joining...
ATOGA - Ask The Opposite Gender Anything Archived
Old: >>33400762
Hot cums Archived
dose capsaicin get into cum?
I should know this as I am a pepper head but after particularly hard meals of hot food usually more than a few over a few days my cum feels spicy.
is this a thing or am I...
Should I give up? Archived
This close on giving up on dating and women all together. I'm not as handsome or as tall as the guys they gawk over so why should I even try? My younger brother is already taller than me and had girlf...
Performance anxiety Archived
Hi frens, I'm in a bit of a pickle and need some advice. I have to play guitar & sing at a wedding next week in front of maybe 70ish people..
3 instrumentals and 4 songs to be sung & played. This is g...
Thread 33380129 Archived
How do I assemble a team?
Should I got to a psychologist? Archived
I have this weird thing where I always get obsessed with a certain thing, dedicate the entirety of my time to it and then after some time I completely lose interest in it and forget about it. Then I g...
Troubling finding happiness outside of the thought of a relationship Archived
I'm very unhappy doing the hobbies I have now, sometimes being with my friends I'm starting to feel nothing
the only thing that makes me feel a little joy is the thought that someday I'll meet someone...
Thread 33394165 Archived
I am afraid that I might have herpes - if so how bad is it and how long does it take to find out? Maybe I'm just paranoid and I don't really know what other way there is to avoid it outside of just li...
This life has been a tough one... Archived
I don't really know what I'm doing here. I think it's a mix of wanting to be heard and wanting advice. Regardless, I've got one hell of a situation for anyone who cares to read it.
(All names hencefor...
Thread 33404534 Archived
I have a ton of good venues for my career but I can't bring myself to pursue anything. For two years, I've been sitting on my ass, playing videogames and just rotting. How do I find the strength to ac...
Thread 33405395 Archived
My relationship of 3 years is in its death throes. She's been pulling away and growing increasingly distant, giving me weird roundabout answers when I ask her what's wrong, not responding to my texts....
Thread 33405127 Archived
The story goes
>do your best so you can after a trillion years become the best, and then your job would be to make other go through that same cycle
>"what if i just don't care because it's lame and wi...
Thread 33378918 Archived
Need some advice as it comes to gf
Catch her liking and saving Instagram reels of various models and hollywood actors, all more attractive than myself and look nothing like me (picrel)
She attempts ...
Thread 33382637 Archived
What do I do if I witnessed a food service employee use the restroom and then not wash their hands and instead went right back to working in the kitchen and handling food?
How do you even move to a different state Archived
Picrel is literally me. I've been on hormones for literally 2 years now but I still can't present fem or even grow out my hair. I've been hiding my body under layers of thick clothes and I hate it. It...
If you pretend to be normal your whole life and stop what will happen? Archived
Did you do this? What happened?
Moral OCD struggle Archived
My OCD is making feel like I'm a sex offender for liking anime girls and boys and liking moe despite I knowing that it's not true.
Now, I'm finding it hard to enjoy anime or manga anything, this spaw...
How to use many condoms in one night Archived
I searched videos about how to use condom. But a uk video said like this 'change the condom for the next round'.
I think it is very fair. But I'm just wondering that how I put the new condom without ...
Thread 33393233 Archived
I dont love my fiance. I like her a lot and think shes a very good person and an excellent marriage choice and mother to future children, but I have never felt the tidal wave of emotion and passion th...
just started talking to a girl but she's probably had mrna vaccines Archived
should i even keep talking to her if there's a greater than 80% chance that she's had two or more doses? there are other things like she seems to hold political views that are probably intolerant of m...
/gioyc/ - Get It Off Your Chest Thread Archived
Do it now
Thread 33395176 Archived
How do I stop feeling like shit, sleepy and groggy after a nap?
I also feel like shit even when I cannot take a nap because I have chronic fatigue, I just feel tired and sleepy but cannot rest. I once...
Thread 33399340 Archived
This board used to be helpful. Now it's full of gaslighting, obtuse, confrontational toxic shitheads. What happened?
Thread 33381731 Archived
Where the fuck do you find a woman to date and eventually marry and start a family with? I'm 31 and despite my best efforts, I've never been able to find anyone to date. I've put myself out and there ...
Thread 33403403 Archived
Any advice on handling conflict better? Whenever I find myself in an argument, I get too emotional and lose the plot. Or if someone is obviously bullshitting me, I don't realize it till after the fact...
I'm 18 and wanna fuck so badly. How can I? Archived
I'm fine with spending money honestly. I just have to get laid. Preferably by meeting online. My standards are so low I'd fuck any woman. Any advice
Thread 33404560 Archived
how to be happy with chronic illness?
it’s all just dissatisfaction, misery and waiting
Thread 33404937 Archived
Can a bug enter one ear and crawl into the other? Yesterday my left ear was in pain and clogged and now today my right ear is in pain and clogged.
Thread 33402898 Archived
Anyone know a good place to beg for Bitcoin?
Thread 33396134 Archived
Sup, /adv/, so I decided last week to approach this girl at work, but it didn't go exactly as planned
My original plan was to go by her desk every day and say hello in a way that's not suspicious but...
Thread 33381473 Archived
I'm a man and I'm currently 21. My goal is to be married by 25, but I haven't had a girlfriend in 3 years. I'm trying to get a gf by the end of this year. How do I accomplish that?
Thread 33385794 Archived
I deserve a girlfriend, I deserve love, and I deserve sex. help me get these things before I kill someone
How do I explain a 7 year employment gap? Archived
>24 and about to graduate college
>Parents always insisted I never needed a job as long as I was going to college and living under their roofs
>Spend 1 year in CC
>Covid hits and spend two year in onl...
Thread 33381574 Archived
Why is it that none of my friends ever ask me to go anywhere and whenever we do something it is me who has to organize everything? Anyway i still see them on social media doing stuff without me and wi...
Why am I depressed, lonely, and gay? Archived
> live 1 hour from city, 8 lane roads sprawling for hours in any direction
> no social life, nowhere to go outside
> walking distance from house: Petco, fuel station, Soup 'N Sand, a Mexican restauran...
Thread 33404887 Archived
More than a year ago, I spent a few months getting much less sleep every day. Although I feel a lot better now, I still feel unwell. Is there anything I can do to make up for that period?
Thread 33401936 Archived
how do you guys balance a gym life and a full time job?
I’m going crazy over here
I have like an hour to myself at the end of the day
Sex not being enjoyable Archived
Is it just me or does having sex/doing sexual things just… not feel that nice? Like yeah, it feels fine but it’s nothing crazy. I don’t even really want any relationships because I know that it’ll mea...
Thread 33404832 Archived
To all the short kings and manlets on dating apps who do well, what do you do? Just have a handsome face?
Thread 33395446 Archived
I have an issue: I tend to overfocus on one thing, and dismiss everything else. Say, I liked a game. Suddenly, all I can think about is playing this series, and everything else looks like shit, can't ...
I think I have experienced a car seizure Archived
I'm probably fucked.
I don't have the money to repair a damage of that magnitude.
The mechanic will analyze the car only tomorrow or Thursday.
Do I try the fundraising way?
Anyone have any advice?
Thread 33404642 Archived
How do I cope with being a retard who has to use guides in video games, doesn't understand the plot and major themes of movies, and can barely even talk to people irl?. I can't even have a meaningful ...
I can’t with normie foids Archived
I had a weird girlfriend, we broke up a few months ago and I went on a date for the first time since then, and holy shit I’m so fucking autistic. Even with like quirky arthoe types I’m so undersociali...
My latino co-worked is making my work life miserable Archived
I've started at this company recently, a pretty good deal for someone with relatively low qualifications. Its demanding, but not stressful, let me just put it that way
It would be all great if it was...
Thread 33400217 Archived
Everybody wanting me to improve myself only makes me want to become worse out of spite.
Thread 33404332 Archived
Any advice for a guy dating a girl miles out of his league?
Degrees Archived
2023-2025, switched from pursuing med to studying to get a science degree to a law degree and it's not working out. i hate doing law but was forced to get into it.
now, i'm thinking of doing somethin...
Thread 33404261 Archived
Is it eating disorder if I sometimes stop eating to lose weight? I could easily go back to eating but won't.
Am I the main character Archived
I go outside and I feel like I’m the main character, everyone is such an NPC with their normal greetings and their hellos and happiness like it pisses me off. Im young and have lots of cash (for someo...
Thread 33404644 Archived
I'm nocturnal
>Society demanding I be awake during day
>Go to nocturnal job
>Everything is shut apart from the pub
>Parents think I have no life even when I live on my own just because I stay up at 1...
The first true challenge to my athiesm Archived
>on holiday in UK
>coworker I like tells me she has a bf
>probably the first woman I have truly loved, beyond a crush
>become alcoholic wreck
>two days later visiting St Pauls cathedral
>not religiou...
Thread 33400626 Archived
I think one of the family friends I see occasionally might have a crush on me, but she's like 14. I'm a decade older than her; am I gonna be fine if I never bring it up? I feel like a conversation lik...
Thread 33403800 Archived
I'm a white guy, look fine. I would like to try a relationship with a girl of another white nationality or race. What would you advise, where is the best place to look for them, and so on?
Thread 33404200 Archived
I am never going to make things right with some people, and have nightmares about it for the rest of my life, and I have to accept that... don't I?
How to foster discipline within oneself? Archived
I've had an unfulfilling life so far. Although I think it's better to spare you guys from another blogpost similar to the ones posted here everyday, after some inteospection I concluded that my dissat...
Thread 33404348 Archived
I'm very concerned about my relationships with the opposite gender. I feel like I'm being too pushy and open-minded, and as a result, I'm either forgotten or always chosen over someone else. Despite t...
Need advice Archived
17M here.
There’s a girl on my team and I can’t stop thinking about her. Not sex, just this feeling of being close, sharing something real without words.
We barely talk but it’s stuck in my head for d...
Thread 33403551 Archived
I punched a hole in the wall earlier out of frustration because I failed that days wordle and now my landlord is evicting me with the full support of my roommates. What do I do? I can’t afford to get ...
Thread 33399737 Archived
Where can I buy a pendant or a swastika charm like this?
Thread 33398483 Archived
Why is it "not appropriate" to talk to your coworkers just because you're younger?
I started an office job a few months ago, and while it's not a bad job, it's also lonely, and I've hardly talked to ...
Thread 33404277 Archived
finally mustered up the courage to talk to my crush at work. Who has been exchanging glances with me..
But I think I did it in the most dorky way. I told her "Hey I don't think we've been properly int...
Are woman just passive by nature? Archived
Something I’ve noticed is that women seem to want guys to do all the work. Even the ones that try to get my attention eventually want me to initiate every time. I always second guess whether or not th...
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