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/atoga/ - Ask the Opposite Gender Anything

Thread ID: 33414874 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 10:14:34 PM | Posts: 1178 | Images: 125
Old: >>33412719

GIOYC – Get It Off Your Chest

Thread ID: 33413069 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 2:05:17 PM | Posts: 73 | Images: 6

how do i actually get a girlfriend/how to approach a girl?

Thread ID: 33416295 | Detected: 7/26/2025, 4:49:15 AM | Posts: 3 | Images: 3
20f, not interested in using apps. I havent had a gf since I was maybe 16, and it's incredibly frustrating. I have no idea on how to get a gf, and approaching women is even worse, as I tense up each t...

Should I sell femboy pictures of myself for money?

Thread ID: 33413254 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 3:23:47 PM | Posts: 83 | Images: 6
I was playing a game yesterday and some guy in chat said if anyone wants to be their boywife and send femboy cosplay pictures for money, I jokingly said yes but they actually added me and are serious ...

Thread 33413815

Thread ID: 33413815 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 6:17:37 PM | Posts: 6 | Images: 2
Following God's statutes and precepts is often linked to promises of blessings, prosperity, and protection, while disobedience may lead to consequences (e.g., Deuteronomy 28 and you feeling like pic r...

Thread 33414513

Thread ID: 33414513 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 8:47:13 PM | Posts: 22 | Images: 2
How do I cope with the fact that I will die alone? Seeing couples IRL hurts me, and I feel like porn just makes it worse but I can't stop using it.

Thread 33416554

Thread ID: 33416554 | Detected: 7/26/2025, 5:25:42 AM | Posts: 3 | Images: 1
why do i keep wanting to disappear from this discord group after a fight, even though i’ve chatted with them daily for 3+ years? we play some games and talk, but it often feels distant — like i’m not...

need weird fantasies to enjoy sex with bf

Thread ID: 33415131 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 11:17:30 PM | Posts: 10 | Images: 2
is it a bad thing or normal? he's my first bf (but we're not a new couple, been together for all of my adult life up till now), and i feel like i always need to imagine weird fantasies in my head so ...

Should I pursue becoming a nurse

Thread ID: 33416086 | Detected: 7/26/2025, 4:03:44 AM | Posts: 3 | Images: 1
I find medicine and human anatomy really interesting and I really can't imagine pursuing a career in any other field. Thinking about pursuing becoming a nurse, I'm 20 and working a shitty job that I h...

What do I say now

Thread ID: 33416288 | Detected: 7/26/2025, 4:48:04 AM | Posts: 3 | Images: 2
What do I say now? I feel like I can fuck, but how?

is it normal i get very aggressive over a fic character ?

Thread ID: 33414446 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 8:33:09 PM | Posts: 4 | Images: 2
so basically, i am what is called a yumeshipper.. yumejoshi.. selfshipper.. yeah whatever. I made a self insert for my comfort jojo character Joshu Higashikata.yeah, ik, he is not the best but whateve...

Can’t get over my burning hatred of Indians Archived

Thread ID: 33413972 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 6:58:27 PM | Posts: 8 | Images: 2
I’m a hispanic american and I’m tired of Indians moving into my fucking country. They smell, steal jobs from us, are ugly, and their food smells like shit. In addition they have great hatred for nativ...

Solo travel, good for sex?

Thread ID: 33416570 | Detected: 7/26/2025, 5:27:52 AM | Posts: 1 | Images: 1
Basically I’m 27 and have kind of just worked and have been loveless for 4 years since I broke up with gf. I had a hard time letting anyone in and just wanted to be left alone, but I’ll be travelling ...

job options

Thread ID: 33414621 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 9:15:32 PM | Posts: 5 | Images: 1
i have a choice between >truck driving class, costs 5k and takes 1 month. enables a variety of employment in the 22-24 dollar range hourly >county road crew extra help position, 6 months of full time ...

How to accept being settled with?

Thread ID: 33415871 | Detected: 7/26/2025, 2:34:42 AM | Posts: 16 | Images: 3
I’m getting too old for this site but recently I’ve gotten a boyfriend who has had quite the list of exes, one even for 8 years. From everything I know, they were all kinda crazy and not good for him,...

is there any actual benefits of using 4chan

Thread ID: 33416367 | Detected: 7/26/2025, 4:58:58 AM | Posts: 5 | Images: 2
this pic have been on many boards could it be truly be right 4chan is a interesting place compared to other social media specially nerd topics and info but should we actually try to leave as best we c...

how??

Thread ID: 33410044 | Detected: 7/24/2025, 10:10:15 PM | Posts: 72 | Images: 6
how the FUCK are fat beta low tier normies able to get sex but I can’t get laid to save my life despite being an in shape decent looking college guy? Tell me right fucking now!!

Job hunt.

Thread ID: 33415085 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 11:04:03 PM | Posts: 11 | Images: 1
I have a bachelors of the arts, I am 31 and I only have experience in retail and food service. I need a better paying job that won't make me want to kill myself. What can I get into? I am short of ide...

Is it okay for a 33yo to date a 20yo?

Thread ID: 33416283 | Detected: 7/26/2025, 4:46:58 AM | Posts: 4 | Images: 1
I am not looking to groom her or control her, I just think we get along well and have similar personalities. I am kind of immature but smart, she is kind of mature but dumb, I don't know. seems like a...

she's getting married

Thread ID: 33415349 | Detected: 7/26/2025, 12:00:44 AM | Posts: 4 | Images: 3
so i havent really had a social circle since 2012, and ive been filling in that gap with streamers when jerma moved to twitch he was my streamer; he did this bit where he muted to record multiple of t...

Quitting Shitty Wagie Job

Thread ID: 33411031 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 3:09:53 AM | Posts: 9 | Images: 2
Sorry if this post is wordy, but to give some background, I'm 22 years old, I live alone in my own apartment in a very cheap crappy town, I've been working at McDonalds for about 3 years now since I w...

how to grow up and mature

Thread ID: 33410581 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 12:50:53 AM | Posts: 19 | Images: 1
Recently at my job i met a girl who just started working with me who is about 8 years younger than me, shes 21, im 28. Shes cute, single, and judging by her behavior around me might have a crush on me...

henlo /adv/ i built something

Thread ID: 33416093 | Detected: 7/26/2025, 4:05:09 AM | Posts: 2 | Images: 1
basically it's Tiktok but 4chan >you scroll, one text post at a time >no algorithm, default sort by newest >no flat design (i miss 2010 internet) the link is in my twitter bio: @kayicp sorry i dont w...

Thread 33403004

Thread ID: 33403004 | Detected: 7/23/2025, 5:29:46 AM | Posts: 67 | Images: 5
Does ignoring workplace bullies work?

Is this fucking normal

Thread ID: 33416358 | Detected: 7/26/2025, 4:57:42 AM | Posts: 2 | Images: 1
So I drop my roommate off occasionally to work at his McDonald’s job. My roommate hasn’t been getting much hours cause their manager is a bitch I’m not sure. I drop them off they call me to tell me to...

Thread 33415870

Thread ID: 33415870 | Detected: 7/26/2025, 2:34:30 AM | Posts: 5 | Images: 1
Should I cut off my only friend because he spends all day before responding to my texts? Fucking pisses me off.

Is the smell from a lithium battery's fire toxic

Thread ID: 33416091 | Detected: 7/26/2025, 4:04:37 AM | Posts: 2 | Images: 1
My laptop's lithium battery exploded and caught fire releasing a fuck ton of white smoke, I managed to stop the fire and throw it outside, but now there's a plastic smell in my bedroom, even after the...

Keeping recycling

Thread ID: 33416170 | Detected: 7/26/2025, 4:26:51 AM | Posts: 3 | Images: 1
How do ya'll keep your trash/recycling? I've been noticing ants in the trashcans behind my house and they're starting to wander into the home which is a pain.

Thread 33416023

Thread ID: 33416023 | Detected: 7/26/2025, 3:31:10 AM | Posts: 2 | Images: 1
Is there someone with a life experience similar to mine, who has the same ideas, concerns, and thoughts as I do? How can I meet someone like me? Can a therapist help me with that?

Thread 33413056

Thread ID: 33413056 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 1:59:49 PM | Posts: 7 | Images: 1
Figured this was the best place to ask instead of /fit/. So I went to have my DOT physical for a driving job and my blood pressure was way too high. Doc told me to come back after my BP was lower but ...

What happened?

Thread ID: 33410264 | Detected: 7/24/2025, 11:10:58 PM | Posts: 13 | Images: 1
I used to have swag or whatever the fuck its called. I remember 18-21 years old i was dumping nut hot girls all the time. Now 29 I just stay at home depressed and browsing 4chan and watching tv I kno...

How do I avoid politics?

Thread ID: 33409856 | Detected: 7/24/2025, 9:10:04 PM | Posts: 10 | Images: 3
I'm exhausted. I'm honestly starting to feel existential dread over this shit. Everywhere I go, people are talking about politics. Doesn't matter if it's in person or online. Every conversation ends...

i think my mom touches and kisses me while i'm sleeping.

Thread ID: 33416019 | Detected: 7/26/2025, 3:29:03 AM | Posts: 5 | Images: 1
she goes to work at 7am, on weekends i tend to keep sleeping until 10 or 11am and she always semi-wakes me up, i'm still really sleepy but she comes and asks me for a kiss to have luck at work and she...

Thread 33416090

Thread ID: 33416090 | Detected: 7/26/2025, 4:04:30 AM | Posts: 5 | Images: 1
>22 >Living with parents >Never worked >No perspective of life >No plans >Spend all day in my room >Scared of the outside world >Can't keep friends >Doesn't exercise >Porn addict >Time is passing How...

Thread 33412981

Thread ID: 33412981 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 1:19:33 PM | Posts: 5 | Images: 1
A nigger I trusted tried to kill me, I think I will never connect with a human again because of this!

Making 4chan greentext YouTube videos

Thread ID: 33415203 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 11:33:19 PM | Posts: 14 | Images: 2
For profit. How hard can it be to steal images from here, narrate with AI, and wait for the money to roll in? Let me know, I wanna do this to make side casg

Where can I find them?

Thread ID: 33416154 | Detected: 7/26/2025, 4:21:44 AM | Posts: 3 | Images: 1
I know this kinda sounds weird but I'm into uglier and/or chubby women. Where can I find them? Which app should I use? I like them because they are more kind and don't have this "attitude" of "I can ...

Thread 33413820

Thread ID: 33413820 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 6:19:29 PM | Posts: 9 | Images: 1
I work a great job, but I get ass pay ($16/hr). I love my co-workers, the work is fulfilling, and this place got me out of a druggie-filled warehouse job. My sister, however, can MAYBE get me a job fo...

Hate coworker

Thread ID: 33413748 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 5:59:45 PM | Posts: 5 | Images: 1
I hate this fucking faggot so much. He started like 3 months ago and he doesn’t know shit about how to do his job or how anything works and he got put in charge of an important project because someone...

Thread 33416147

Thread ID: 33416147 | Detected: 7/26/2025, 4:20:16 AM | Posts: 1 | Images: 1
Im back at NEETdom (involuntary while looking for a job). I dont want to waste my time, what do you suggest doing? I plan on going to the gym, learnign guitar, reading, and maybe I should join some k...

is Height really that important?

Thread ID: 33403916 | Detected: 7/23/2025, 11:02:02 AM | Posts: 48 | Images: 2
is being tall really that big of a deal for women? I know a guy who barely brushes his teeth, is fat, has a neck beard is basically a man child at 26, cuts himself and still manages to get women beca...

Thread 33413995

Thread ID: 33413995 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 7:02:58 PM | Posts: 9 | Images: 2
How do I get better at drawing if my drawings look this shitty? I tried using a reference and everything and it still ended up turning out this shitty. I don't know what else to do.

What actually makes you feel alive, confident and persuasive in the night clubs?

Thread ID: 33416098 | Detected: 7/26/2025, 4:06:11 AM | Posts: 2 | Images: 1
Used to rely on those garbage tier "energy" cocktails like vodka Red Bull. Barely kicks in until the third one, and even then it just makes me feel slightly more awake. Nothing that actually changes h...

should i tell my friend her gf followed me on ig

Thread ID: 33412373 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 8:43:30 AM | Posts: 10 | Images: 1
never seen her or talked to her just said hi on facetime a few weeks ago, she cheated on my friend once a few months ago so i thought it was weird from her to follow me if i don't know her

Thread 33409515

Thread ID: 33409515 | Detected: 7/24/2025, 7:46:07 PM | Posts: 7 | Images: 1
How can I control my desire for sex so that I don't masturbate or look up porn anymore?

Thread 33415874

Thread ID: 33415874 | Detected: 7/26/2025, 2:35:30 AM | Posts: 5 | Images: 1
I'm watching 4 youtube videos, browsing 4chan, browsing xitter, and playing games on my phone, all at the same time. How do I repair my attention span?

Thread 33415160

Thread ID: 33415160 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 11:24:23 PM | Posts: 26 | Images: 3
what should i do when every guy i talk to eventually turns me down and ghosts me when he learns i am waiting until marriage? for context i am diagnosed with aspergers so i usually say whats on my mind...

Thread 33415804

Thread ID: 33415804 | Detected: 7/26/2025, 2:11:48 AM | Posts: 6 | Images: 1
I like the work I do at my job but my boss is an asshole that makes me and the other 2 "assistant managers" do all of his work and he just walks around and looks for little tiny things that are wrong ...

Thread 33411978

Thread ID: 33411978 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 6:16:52 AM | Posts: 11 | Images: 2
Guys what the fuck am I doing with my life. I'm 18, never so much as felt the touch of a woman, I'm addicted to cigarettes, nearly all of my time is consumed with work, nothing seems worth it anymore...

how to cope

Thread ID: 33415433 | Detected: 7/26/2025, 12:19:08 AM | Posts: 8 | Images: 5
i feel completely worthless how to cope /adv/ no im too antisocial to be able to cope with social recognition

Thread 33415982

Thread ID: 33415982 | Detected: 7/26/2025, 3:12:30 AM | Posts: 4 | Images: 1
how to be a productive neet?

Thread 33415730

Thread ID: 33415730 | Detected: 7/26/2025, 1:53:12 AM | Posts: 5 | Images: 2
Is it normal to get tired of porn, movies and video games after work? I feel too tired to pursue new interests. I have more productive hobbies too but I can't do those everyday. I struggle to find m...

Thread 33409199

Thread ID: 33409199 | Detected: 7/24/2025, 6:21:29 PM | Posts: 30 | Images: 4
is my large nose the reason im still a virgin at 20 years old?

Thread 33415461

Thread ID: 33415461 | Detected: 7/26/2025, 12:27:19 AM | Posts: 5 | Images: 1
Since the search funtion is out of service in 4Chan. Is there an alternative way for searching old threads that are not longer in the catalog.

Thread 33412420

Thread ID: 33412420 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 9:06:53 AM | Posts: 9 | Images: 2
After 3 months of daily talking, she stopped texting first. Should I give up? I didn’t see her just like a potential gf, but also as a very close friend (we know each other since 2018) and the tought ...

fitness advice

Thread ID: 33413458 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 4:15:09 PM | Posts: 26 | Images: 11
i'm not very happy with my body so i want to know if i could get anything out of fitness for strength/appearance or if i should just give up and focus solely on cardio for health over everything else....

Thread 33413647

Thread ID: 33413647 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 5:18:10 PM | Posts: 56 | Images: 5
I am slowly developing more anger and rage because women aren't attracted to me and always ghost, ignore, and reject me. Please help me from not going full ER or Brian kohberger on women at my college...

Just saw the girl I like enter the car of another dude

Thread ID: 33415833 | Detected: 7/26/2025, 2:18:57 AM | Posts: 3 | Images: 1
Damn, guys why does it hurts so much, like all my energy was drained. Be me, crossing sometimes paths with this girl who I guess comes from work. First time we saw, she looked at me first keeping an...

Thread 33415702

Thread ID: 33415702 | Detected: 7/26/2025, 1:47:45 AM | Posts: 9 | Images: 1
What would you do if you were diagnosed with a terminak disease? cancer or aids or something.

why am i disgusted by male lust

Thread ID: 33408834 | Detected: 7/24/2025, 4:39:39 PM | Posts: 88 | Images: 3
i like the idea of having a bf but then i remember every man is only driven by the desire to get pussy. even if we go on a cute date or cuddling in bed or playing a video game together, he will alwa...

AMA Mr. Professor (episode 3)

Thread ID: 33408058 | Detected: 7/24/2025, 11:06:31 AM | Posts: 18 | Images: 1
hi, it's me, Mr. Professor again. Just ask me anything, I'll guide you through all battles of life

Thread 33415314

Thread ID: 33415314 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 11:52:48 PM | Posts: 4 | Images: 1
How do I filter out larpers on >>>/soc/

Thread 33415767

Thread ID: 33415767 | Detected: 7/26/2025, 2:00:40 AM | Posts: 6 | Images: 1
I'm spending my summer watching AI music videos and political podcasts for literally like 13 hours a day, and I can't get the energy to work/study. I have no money so I can't go out and socialize. I'm...

Deleted Youtube videos

Thread ID: 33415587 | Detected: 7/26/2025, 1:10:56 AM | Posts: 2 | Images: 2
theres these youtube vides that have been deleted for a while by Youtube that I'm trying to recover, I've tried the wayback and nothing. If anyone knows their shit with the internet can help me get th...

Thread 33401449

Thread ID: 33401449 | Detected: 7/22/2025, 10:54:53 PM | Posts: 55 | Images: 6
Is it possible for a man to become multi orgasmic? And by that I mean cumming multiple times without losing their erection.

Thread 33413489

Thread ID: 33413489 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 4:23:07 PM | Posts: 6 | Images: 2
How a white guy can meet a black girl? White girls more dont interest me. I want new experience.

How pathetic am I?

Thread ID: 33414993 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 10:41:03 PM | Posts: 12 | Images: 1
I just paid a hooker to come over to my house and play Super Smash Brothers on N64 with me. She was actually pretty good at it. No sex was involved.

ADHD medication ?

Thread ID: 33413319 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 3:41:12 PM | Posts: 14 | Images: 2
Looking for some advice, opinions, experiences, ect from some fellow schizo folk

How was your day?

Thread ID: 33414872 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 10:14:15 PM | Posts: 2 | Images: 1
Discussion and /adv/ice

(re) 21 year old socially stunted loser

Thread ID: 33415752 | Detected: 7/26/2025, 1:58:20 AM | Posts: 1 | Images: 1
It's already been 4 months since my birthday. I feel like such a loser, all of my old friends are in college and I'm at home working in construction. I don't really wish to go out with them anymore be...

Am I the asshole for punching my brother?

Thread ID: 33415590 | Detected: 7/26/2025, 1:11:27 AM | Posts: 6 | Images: 1
I was watching TV the other day, and my younger brother grabbed the remote from the table, and started taunting me. I paid no attention, but then he walked over to a corner, and spent 10 seconds rubbi...

Should I just give up on dating and relationships?

Thread ID: 33414894 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 10:19:59 PM | Posts: 12 | Images: 1
My sister just recently moved in with me. We had regular sex until we were about 20 and we decided it was best to try dating other people. It's been over 10 years, we're both in our 30's now, and my d...

Thread 33411046

Thread ID: 33411046 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 3:13:03 AM | Posts: 21 | Images: 2
So I when I was a kid I was bullied a lot, I don't know why they did but I was the scapegoat. I had no friends and even the teachers didn't help me. How do I find out what made me unlikable then so I ...

Thread 33410462

Thread ID: 33410462 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 12:11:30 AM | Posts: 19 | Images: 3
Can losers become winners? I guess I'm just looking for people's stories of turning their life around. I'm down bad right now after a lot of regrettable mistakes, but trying to count my blessings and ...

Thread 33310888

Thread ID: 33310888 | Detected: 7/3/2025, 6:37:25 PM | Posts: 165 | Images: 15
I have these porn videos of these asian women strip dancing to music. These videos are from like 2006. Am I weird if I have like an emotional and sentimental bond to these videos? Like I look at th...

Thread 33410106

Thread ID: 33410106 | Detected: 7/24/2025, 10:24:16 PM | Posts: 8 | Images: 2
Where can I find women on the internet that actually want a boyfriend?

Thread 33415648

Thread ID: 33415648 | Detected: 7/26/2025, 1:33:27 AM | Posts: 3 | Images: 1
Eating makes me feel like a disgusting slob of shit pig but my BMI is 18, how do I fix my relationship with food

Thread 33369408

Thread ID: 33369408 | Detected: 7/16/2025, 1:14:06 AM | Posts: 53 | Images: 7
What exactly is blue balls? Cause I went 5 whole days of masturbating everyday WITHOUT ejaculating, and each time I masturbated, my balls would be in so much pain and pleasure at the same time. And ...

A woman who likes me is coming over

Thread ID: 33415610 | Detected: 7/26/2025, 1:19:00 AM | Posts: 2 | Images: 1
M'kay, 31 year old virgin here. Ive got a girl who likes me. We have had two dates, last time we held hands. Her sister set us up and she insists she is very shy. Tomorrow night we are having a 3rd da...

What the hell is wrong with my mother?

Thread ID: 33412951 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 12:58:05 PM | Posts: 10 | Images: 1
Live in Australia, everything is fucked because let's flood our country with street shitting jeets, no homes available rent is insane move back home. Have mother see that there is a small tear in a pe...

Thread 33415021

Thread ID: 33415021 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 10:47:11 PM | Posts: 10 | Images: 1
How do you usually handle it if the person your dating messes up and says I Love you way too early? Man it seems like something always fucks up. I swear things were going great, I almost had everythi...

Porn for couples

Thread ID: 33410745 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 1:49:05 AM | Posts: 30 | Images: 5
My gf suggested to watch porn together and masturbate together as a change of pace. She dumbed the porn selection on me. I'm not sure what she like and my tastes has been perverted by long exposure to...

I really have to pee.

Thread ID: 33415060 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 10:55:49 PM | Posts: 5 | Images: 2
Should I hold it? How long do you think I can wait?

Thread 33415454

Thread ID: 33415454 | Detected: 7/26/2025, 12:24:57 AM | Posts: 6 | Images: 1
Whenever I go on dates I find it so hard to hide my disgust with female promiscuity and cognitive dissonance, for I believe in Christianity, but at the same time I want to have sex and welcome their r...

/atoga/ - Ask the Opposite Gender Anything Archived

Thread ID: 33412719 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 11:24:02 AM | Posts: 1431 | Images: 98
Old: >>33410963

Should I tell my GF I like to crossdress?

Thread ID: 33415409 | Detected: 7/26/2025, 12:14:00 AM | Posts: 2 | Images: 1
For years, I've been dressing in women's panties, slip and stockings while I'm alone and really like how I feel. I have no interest in transitioning as I'm comfortable being a man, and I have no inten...

Thread 33410395

Thread ID: 33410395 | Detected: 7/24/2025, 11:44:13 PM | Posts: 8 | Images: 2
Should I stay at my current job or find something else, what do you think? >new job, started in march >no experience, only hired on because im versatile and can learn fast and the previous hire before...

Uni going horrible

Thread ID: 33414444 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 8:32:14 PM | Posts: 5 | Images: 2
>already over a year late when it comes to finishing bachelor's due to a chronic health condition when it comes to finishing uni >parents and friends think I was lazy and faked it but whatever >grade...

Need feedback

Thread ID: 33412172 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 7:21:13 AM | Posts: 11 | Images: 2
So, the pussy is an inch from the anus. Now if this was me, I’d be embarrassed— but I’m a dude so it’s all copacetic. All I’m asking is how much more attractive would I be by not being grossed out b...

Can someone explain why I am an extremely pessimistic and negative person

Thread ID: 33415164 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 11:24:55 PM | Posts: 3 | Images: 1
I am the most pessimistic and negative person out there (except when it comes to people’s intentions in a present situation, then I’m pretty positive). I give everyone an existential crisis and everyo...

/htgwg/ - How to Get Women General #309

Thread ID: 33396466 | Detected: 7/21/2025, 9:35:25 PM | Posts: 227 | Images: 19
>What is /htgwg/? How to Get Women General is by men, for men, about women, so bring all of your questions about getting and dealing with women here. Some anons on this site actually get laid, and som...

Minimizing negativity bias.

Thread ID: 33415126 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 11:16:05 PM | Posts: 2 | Images: 1
I've been spending more time focusing on things I enjoy rather than attention-soaking topics which don't matter. Everyone in this thread post about something positive/comforting which you need to appr...

Thread 33413577

Thread ID: 33413577 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 4:53:11 PM | Posts: 5 | Images: 1
It feels like everyone defers to my bf more than me when we're it together. I feel like it's because I'm short, and he has a habit of standing beside me which makes me look smaller. I feel like peopl...

Thread 33414090

Thread ID: 33414090 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 7:18:16 PM | Posts: 14 | Images: 4
Is it me or is 4chan and all other chans pretty much dead? I remember it being way more active everywhere but ever since a few months or maybe a year already or more it's just completely dead and I do...

Boof

Thread ID: 33414945 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 10:31:15 PM | Posts: 2 | Images: 1
The only thing worse than being an incel is a sexless sex god. I swear i was designed for this. Im a beautiful man with an electric aura and have been celibate for years. I know im attractive but plac...

27 and never had a girlfriend because I'm too afraid of rejection.

Thread ID: 33415069 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 10:58:56 PM | Posts: 2 | Images: 1
I never tried to ask any girl out, even the ones where i knew for sure they are into me. I'm not even sure what the problem here is. I just could never get myself to walk up to them and tell them. Any...

Why are there no livable wage jobs?

Thread ID: 33404875 | Detected: 7/23/2025, 7:14:14 PM | Posts: 20 | Images: 4
I can't find a single fucking job above $14/hr that isn't 50 miles away. $14 an hour and you want me to have 2 years experience in a niche and a bachelors? FUCK YOU. Rent near me is $2k alone for a 1 ...

Thread 33414989

Thread ID: 33414989 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 10:40:26 PM | Posts: 3 | Images: 1
I'm suffering from this illusion every time I look at my laptop keyboard.

How can i get a tough job in the USA as a foreigner

Thread ID: 33408335 | Detected: 7/24/2025, 12:53:19 PM | Posts: 14 | Images: 1
I want to work in the USA and eventually move there, and thus have tried to find visa sponsorhip jobs online. However, those either require years of experience(i'm 18, fresh out of education) or are c...

Thread 33406145

Thread ID: 33406145 | Detected: 7/24/2025, 1:24:32 AM | Posts: 20 | Images: 3
How to give yourself malignant cancer?

How should I act before an emotional manipulator?

Thread ID: 33414385 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 8:17:12 PM | Posts: 33 | Images: 2
I can not cut them off. I need to know how to be around them so I can assert boundaries without seeming mad.

[not bait i swear] Should I tell people I'm a trans girl on the first date

Thread ID: 33411795 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 5:32:53 AM | Posts: 21 | Images: 4
I'm new to dating as a was with a highschool gf for a while, but I'm pan, so I'll date any gender and ik that lesbians don't really crae but what about guys? Would you want your date to tell you they'...

Thread 33412546

Thread ID: 33412546 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 10:05:17 AM | Posts: 6 | Images: 1
I won £5 at the National Lottery.

Thread 33410799

Thread ID: 33410799 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 2:09:21 AM | Posts: 13 | Images: 2
How do you deal with people that offer unsolicited help but do so in a condescending and patronizing manner and repeatedly refuse to take no as an answer? Getting more and more rude towards you each a...

Thread 33410607

Thread ID: 33410607 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 12:59:48 AM | Posts: 18 | Images: 3
At what age is it too late to date?

A guy refuses to pay back for things he asked me to buy him

Thread ID: 33412143 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 7:10:30 AM | Posts: 9 | Images: 2
A guy refuses to pay back for things he asked me to buy him. I already gave him that thing back. I know his full name and his car license plate. He also stole a laptop from work and they reported it t...

Thread 33414868

Thread ID: 33414868 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 10:13:35 PM | Posts: 9 | Images: 1
im sick of being called an incel loser by idiot men how hard is it to sign up for one of em dating apps and get a "girlfriend" who can be my trophy and go out for one or two days a week would plan to ...

Thread 33414351

Thread ID: 33414351 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 8:09:25 PM | Posts: 2 | Images: 1
Why would a strobe light get rid of my anxiety? I'm not saying it would make me anxious but just get rid of it by looking at it for a couple of a seconds? I have myclonic epilepsy if that is helpful. ...

Thread 33404305

Thread ID: 33404305 | Detected: 7/23/2025, 3:17:46 PM | Posts: 17 | Images: 3
>write to her >she doesn't reply for 2 weeks >reacts to my post what does this mean? Why won't she reply?

How to get rid of these armpit folds

Thread ID: 33414472 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 8:39:22 PM | Posts: 8 | Images: 1
I never had them when I was younger, and my parents say it happened because I tugged on the skin a lot, don’t know if it’s true but I don’t want to get surgery to fix stretched skin.

lawsuit scam?

Thread ID: 33414526 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 8:50:13 PM | Posts: 2 | Images: 1
are SOME (not all) of "inflammatory" street preachers actually common-criminal, scammers, waiting to get hit by some irritable, insecure, NPC, and thus file a lawsuit for a physical assault, thus quic...

Have I broken my duck?

Thread ID: 33410864 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 2:28:45 AM | Posts: 13 | Images: 1
I can't get an erection to masturbate anymore. I can get hard to fuck my gf or at inappropriate times, such as when I'm extremely tired and I'm trying to stay awake for some reason, but when I want to...

"Casual"

Thread ID: 33414196 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 7:42:13 PM | Posts: 2 | Images: 1
She takes forever to reply to texts She doesn't reciprocate in bed She has initiated 0 dates However she constantly flirts in person, initiates touch regularly and after sex she'll open up about her ...

Thread 33411398

Thread ID: 33411398 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 4:21:23 AM | Posts: 14 | Images: 2
This is going to be the most retarded post you've ever read but I am being entirely serious. What's the fastest way for a woman to arrange an encounter where she gets pregnant if she >is super autisti...

Thread 33414534

Thread ID: 33414534 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 8:54:08 PM | Posts: 14 | Images: 3
There are men out there right now having hot passionate sex with their beautiful girlfriends while I can't get a girl to look my way. How do I cope with this?

My kids are living with my unstable ex – what can I do?

Thread ID: 33414604 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 9:12:37 PM | Posts: 5 | Images: 1
I have two young kids. One was born in Country A, the other in Country B. I used to be with their mother – we moved abroad together years ago, but we’ve been separated for almost two years now. She st...

Help me not to fall of the wagon

Thread ID: 33414656 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 9:21:45 PM | Posts: 15 | Images: 2
I've been sober for a couple of months now. But today was one of those days where everything was fucked. And a couple of beers would make the world go away.

Thread 33414824

Thread ID: 33414824 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 10:00:26 PM | Posts: 3 | Images: 1
Should I blow my head off with a shotgun? I'm not even really suicidal. It'd just be something to do. If there's enough votes I can livestream it.

Thread 33410513

Thread ID: 33410513 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 12:24:25 AM | Posts: 10 | Images: 1
How can I (white and irreligious) convince my girlfriend (white and irreligious) to wear a hijab (or something similar to it)?

Thread 33413027

Thread ID: 33413027 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 1:44:48 PM | Posts: 4 | Images: 2
Spend your single years submitting your emotions to the Word of God. You need to let it mature you. And maturity takes time. That way, the next relationship that He sets you up with won't end up being...

I wanna be alone but being alone makes life pointless

Thread ID: 33413674 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 5:29:37 PM | Posts: 14 | Images: 2
I finally got a gf after 27 years of inceldom. But after a year I've noticed that it's just a massive hassle and I honestly can't be bothered with it. I wanna be left alone. But when I'm alone there...

Thread 33406245

Thread ID: 33406245 | Detected: 7/24/2025, 1:49:21 AM | Posts: 15 | Images: 4
It's been two years. I'm currently reading threads on Reddit by people who settled and are currently miserable. I am diagnosed with OCD. Does anyone here have any /adv/ice for me?

Escaping "son of a single mom"-curse

Thread ID: 33414422 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 8:27:06 PM | Posts: 11 | Images: 1
I'm a son of a single mother and I'm a goddamn fucking loser. Am I a lost cause or can I somehow rewire myself?

Thread 33401300

Thread ID: 33401300 | Detected: 7/22/2025, 10:18:26 PM | Posts: 50 | Images: 3
Are these women mentally ill? I matched with one chick, and she had list of things that I had to like in order to date her. Like exactly that list. If I didn't like even one item on that list or sort...

Thread 33414384

Thread ID: 33414384 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 8:16:50 PM | Posts: 8 | Images: 1
when i get a gf i WILL be slapping her ass all the time. would that be an issue?

making frens

Thread ID: 33414723 | Detected: 7/25/2025, 9:34:50 PM | Posts: 2 | Images: 1
im desperate to have virtual frens and be in a discord server with them and play stuff together but im incredibly retarded. i either ghost (out of shame and anxiety) people who reach out to me or i ge...