>>33661358
>high IQ autismo here
It took me a lot of years to understand all the signs. Or, more correctly, believe my instincts as correct and I should act on them.
How could this be? I did a fearless moral inventory and could point to several traumatic incidents where I was punished for “acting out” towards women by authority figures/family/friends.
It really does miscalibrate our minds due to repetition (almost like a stutter). I once was at a pizza shop with my twin brother, and I chatted up the waitress. He was convinced I was bothering her, even though she showed all the signs of interest. We went a week later and I got her number, fucked her ass before we finished the first beer, and kept this arrangement up for a month before she got a bf.
A similar thing happened with my friend group earlier in high school, where they kept saying “there’s no girls. just wait until college.” Sure enough, a band girl sits in my lap when I was sitting backstage and I get handjobs before noon each day at school. By now, my friends were actively ignoring me, so I couldn’t even share this with them.
Same deal with mom, who once rightfully corrected me when I walked up to random women outside a Friendly’s and said “oink oink I’m a pig” (I think it was a commercial), and I was shamed for even treating people like that. However, was a better example set of how to do it? Nope, so the bad impression stayed. That was cold approach at 12!
So, I’d say fill your mind with good impressions and thoughts. Billions of people have reproduced in the same courtship process, but now it’s convoluted due to our skewed world.
It’s also location. I had only a few gfs in high school and none that wanted to be seen with me in between classes. As soon as I went to college, I was getting laid every other month until I found a 17 yo hottie (I was 19, and felt VERY behind the curve).
Nevertheless, I still had dry spells of agony, wracking my brain for any solution.