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Tea is now the number one app on the App Store
Tea is a women-only app where users anonymously share info and warnings about men to spot red flags and get feedback.
Why do people date nowadays?
Thread 33404915
I am a grad student. I want to fuck my doctoral advisor (she's 26). Is this possible?
Wife turning on me because of her family. What should I do?
My wife and I have been together since we were 18, almost 8 years. Her childhood was fucked up: her mom was abusive and an addict, her dad was a passive cuckold (like actual cuck, saw his wife kiss ot...
Thread 33402170
>be my mom
>signs her son up for ballet classes at 4 bc she thinks motherhood is build-a-bear workshop, and wants him to be a candy-ass
>is surprised when he hates it and wants to play outside inste...
/gioyc/ - Get It Off Your Chest Thread
Do it now
Why are there no livable wage jobs?
I can't find a single fucking job above $14/hr that isn't 50 miles away.
$14 an hour and you want me to have 2 years experience in a niche and a bachelors? FUCK YOU. Rent near me is $2k alone for a 1 ...
Turbogooning
I just jerked off to one of the Idaho murder victims testimony. Pic related. Is there any hope for me?
Thread 33404937
Can a bug enter one ear and crawl into the other? Yesterday my left ear was in pain and clogged and now today my right ear is in pain and clogged.
meeting women
To add to all the relationship advice threads on this board. I want to ask advice for where you can meet women in the first place.
The right answer most people say is "anywhere", but I haven't seen t...
Where are the Escapist Girls?
Where do I go to meet and woo a girl who is into anime and video games and old movies other geeky hobbies?
I hear they are mostly in discord servers, but I have no idea what to do with that informati...
Thread 33404560
how to be happy with chronic illness?
it’s all just dissatisfaction, misery and waiting
How do I have sex with this girl
I have a gf and we’re both pretty young. She’s fresh out of high school and I’m a sophomore in college. Problem is though it’s really difficult to spend time with her. I live with my mom and it’s near...
Life with asexual wife
I am married 30M to a wonderful 28 wife, and we have a 2 years daughter.
My wife loves me, she does sometimes breakfasts, cleans the house. Grabs me drink when I am not even asking. I can see a huge ...
Thread 33404911
what are some games where I can meet cute girls (so no troons) to turn into my wife? either in multiplayer servers or single player communities (I don't play online games usually though)
How did you feel about an ASD diagnosis?
Hello, fellow eccentrics. I've just been diagnosed with Autistic Spectrum Disorder and am wondering how I feel about it. I'm kind of an oldfag; old enough that when I was at school, and even at univer...
Thread 33378918
Need some advice as it comes to gf
Catch her liking and saving Instagram reels of various models and hollywood actors, all more attractive than myself and look nothing like me (picrel)
She attempts ...
how normal is it for a 27 year old to date a 19 year old
my younger sister's friend likes me, we get along well when she comes over but do i look like a fucking pedo dating someone that young? for the moment i didn't feel any "childish" behavior from her
Thread 33402898 Archived
Anyone know a good place to beg for Bitcoin?
Can i grow my boobs naturally?
18f here, is there any way to make my boobs bigger without pregnancy or implants? Some oils or a diet? Is there a site or a community where i could read more about the possibilities?
Thread 33396134
Sup, /adv/, so I decided last week to approach this girl at work, but it didn't go exactly as planned
My original plan was to go by her desk every day and say hello in a way that's not suspicious but...
/htgwg/ - How to Get Women General #309
>What is /htgwg/?
How to Get Women General is by men, for men, about women, so bring all of your questions about getting and dealing with women here. Some anons on this site actually get laid, and som...
I'm 18 and wanna fuck so badly. How can I?
I'm fine with spending money honestly. I just have to get laid. Preferably by meeting online. My standards are so low I'd fuck any woman. Any advice
Practice girlfriend
Where is the easiest place to find a girl that will just let me do and say whatever within reason
I just need some practice before I actually start the game
Thread 33381473
I'm a man and I'm currently 21. My goal is to be married by 25, but I haven't had a girlfriend in 3 years. I'm trying to get a gf by the end of this year. How do I accomplish that?
am i cooked because of my bedroom
I just moved somewhere and my sister visited today and she told me my bedroom was terrifying. It's a mix between crypt, science study, art museum, and national socialist room. I then realized that yea...
Thread 33385794
I deserve a girlfriend, I deserve love, and I deserve sex. help me get these things before I kill someone
Way to get ride of tranny thoughts?
I have finally decided that I dont want to troon out for a myriad of reasons.
>no proof that transitioning can improve your life
>majority of suicides happen after trooning out
>Most men including mys...
Burned out, can't come back from depression
I had plans and dreams before I realized I was so powerless to change anything and it's all pointless anyway. I should have managed my expectations and been more self-centered, focusing on small wins ...
How do I explain a 7 year employment gap?
>24 and about to graduate college
>Parents always insisted I never needed a job as long as I was going to college and living under their roofs
>Spend 1 year in CC
>Covid hits and spend two year in onl...
Thread 33381574
Why is it that none of my friends ever ask me to go anywhere and whenever we do something it is me who has to organize everything? Anyway i still see them on social media doing stuff without me and wi...
Thread 33401830
I need some advice guys
I can’t help but see women as leeches. As succubus.
They look good so we want them but they make us jump through god knows how many hoops just FOR THE CHANCE to be with them...
Why am I depressed, lonely, and gay?
> live 1 hour from city, 8 lane roads sprawling for hours in any direction
> no social life, nowhere to go outside
> walking distance from house: Petco, fuel station, Soup 'N Sand, a Mexican restauran...
Thread 33404887
More than a year ago, I spent a few months getting much less sleep every day. Although I feel a lot better now, I still feel unwell. Is there anything I can do to make up for that period?
Thread 33401936
how do you guys balance a gym life and a full time job?
I’m going crazy over here
I have like an hour to myself at the end of the day
What do couples even do while they're dating?
I've never gotten past 3 dates without girls rejecting or ghosting me. At first they think I'm 'cute' or 'quirky' but before long they find out that I'm actually just an autistic loser and they disapp...
I fell in love with a my soon to be sugar baby
I gotta preface this by saying that I’ve fucked more than 200 girls by now, both paying and for free, as a transaction for it, as fun on a night out on a weekend and as part of a long loving faithful ...
Thread 33404850
"I'm such a failure. I fail at everything I attempt. I feel so dumb and I hate myself so much"
It's because you don't have Christ in your life.
Deuteronomy 30:9
>The LORD will make you prosperous in...
Sex not being enjoyable
Is it just me or does having sex/doing sexual things just… not feel that nice? Like yeah, it feels fine but it’s nothing crazy. I don’t even really want any relationships because I know that it’ll mea...
Thread 33404832
To all the short kings and manlets on dating apps who do well, what do you do? Just have a handsome face?
Thread 33395446
I have an issue: I tend to overfocus on one thing, and dismiss everything else. Say, I liked a game. Suddenly, all I can think about is playing this series, and everything else looks like shit, can't ...
I think I have experienced a car seizure
I'm probably fucked.
I don't have the money to repair a damage of that magnitude.
The mechanic will analyze the car only tomorrow or Thursday.
Do I try the fundraising way?
Anyone have any advice?
Thread 33404642
How do I cope with being a retard who has to use guides in video games, doesn't understand the plot and major themes of movies, and can barely even talk to people irl?. I can't even have a meaningful ...
I can’t with normie foids
I had a weird girlfriend, we broke up a few months ago and I went on a date for the first time since then, and holy shit I’m so fucking autistic. Even with like quirky arthoe types I’m so undersociali...
My latino co-worked is making my work life miserable
I've started at this company recently, a pretty good deal for someone with relatively low qualifications. Its demanding, but not stressful, let me just put it that way
It would be all great if it was...
Thread 33403004
Does ignoring workplace bullies work?
Thread 33404708
How can I fix my hairloss when it doesnt follow the pattern of "skipping a generation"? Could be reversible then?
Me - receeding around 26, currently at NW3 vertex at 33. no crown balding yet but clo...
Thread 33400217 Archived
Everybody wanting me to improve myself only makes me want to become worse out of spite.
Is the Black Pill real?
Can you genuinely be loved by a woman if you are ugly or is it all a lie?
Thread 33404332
Any advice for a guy dating a girl miles out of his league?
Thread 33399340
This board used to be helpful. Now it's full of gaslighting, obtuse, confrontational toxic shitheads. What happened?
Degrees
2023-2025, switched from pursuing med to studying to get a science degree to a law degree and it's not working out. i hate doing law but was forced to get into it.
now, i'm thinking of doing somethin...
How to get a passport to see my dying aunt
I just found out that my aunt has cancer and I need to visit her before it's too late. Unfortunately she is outside of the US and I don't qualify for the "life and death emergency" category. The last ...
Thread 33395451
How am I supposed to compete with this? I'm pretty sociable, but even if I were to just talk to women irl, then the only difference would be making them laugh, but the more I think about it the more i...
Struggling with dating
I am struggling with dating because I have to plan the dates etc. Me being a neuro divergent male(autism), I struggle because I find that I am trying to plan things while trying to do it from a regula...
Thread 33404261
Is it eating disorder if I sometimes stop eating to lose weight? I could easily go back to eating but won't.
is Height really that important?
is being tall really that big of a deal for women?
I know a guy who barely brushes his teeth, is fat, has a neck beard is basically a man child at 26, cuts himself and still manages to get women beca...
Thread 33404534
I have a ton of good venues for my career but I can't bring myself to pursue anything. For two years, I've been sitting on my ass, playing videogames and just rotting. How do I find the strength to ac...
Thread 33404305
>write to her
>she doesn't reply for 2 weeks
>reacts to my post
what does this mean? Why won't she reply?
Thread 33401122
Is it fine to hang out with my parents at malls and restaurants on the weekends? I'm 19 and an only child and have no friends. A nigga I wouldn't dare call friend called me out for it.
Am I the main character
I go outside and I feel like I’m the main character, everyone is such an NPC with their normal greetings and their hellos and happiness like it pisses me off. Im young and have lots of cash (for someo...
Thread 33401449
Is it possible for a man to become multi orgasmic?
And by that I mean cumming multiple times without losing their erection.
Thread 33404644
I'm nocturnal
>Society demanding I be awake during day
>Go to nocturnal job
>Everything is shut apart from the pub
>Parents think I have no life even when I live on my own just because I stay up at 1...
Thread 33403398
My daughter is turning 16 and makes a lot of innuendo and brushes up against me on "accident"
My wife gets home from work very late and sometimes my daughter and I will cook together. At first I tho...
How do you even move to a different state
Picrel is literally me. I've been on hormones for literally 2 years now but I still can't present fem or even grow out my hair. I've been hiding my body under layers of thick clothes and I hate it. It...
The first true challenge to my athiesm
>on holiday in UK
>coworker I like tells me she has a bf
>probably the first woman I have truly loved, beyond a crush
>become alcoholic wreck
>two days later visiting St Pauls cathedral
>not religiou...
Thread 33400626
I think one of the family friends I see occasionally might have a crush on me, but she's like 14. I'm a decade older than her; am I gonna be fine if I never bring it up? I feel like a conversation lik...
Thread 33403800
I'm a white guy, look fine. I would like to try a relationship with a girl of another white nationality or race. What would you advise, where is the best place to look for them, and so on?
Thread 33404200
I am never going to make things right with some people, and have nightmares about it for the rest of my life, and I have to accept that... don't I?
How to foster discipline within oneself?
I've had an unfulfilling life so far. Although I think it's better to spare you guys from another blogpost similar to the ones posted here everyday, after some inteospection I concluded that my dissat...
Thread 33404348
I'm very concerned about my relationships with the opposite gender. I feel like I'm being too pushy and open-minded, and as a result, I'm either forgotten or always chosen over someone else. Despite t...
Thread 33393233
I dont love my fiance. I like her a lot and think shes a very good person and an excellent marriage choice and mother to future children, but I have never felt the tidal wave of emotion and passion th...
Need advice Archived
17M here.
There’s a girl on my team and I can’t stop thinking about her. Not sex, just this feeling of being close, sharing something real without words.
We barely talk but it’s stuck in my head for d...
Thread 33404259
Recently I reached out to a guy I hadn't seen in a while. He lives in the area, but idk, we didn't really see each other, and I thought that maybe it's not a bad idea to give him a chance. Who knows, ...
HELP: How to talk in the DMs?
This has never happened before.
A female has given me their phone number through a mutual male acquaintance.
The problem is I'm 23 KHV and I've never had to start a convo in the DMs.
How do you go ab...
Thread 33403551
I punched a hole in the wall earlier out of frustration because I failed that days wordle and now my landlord is evicting me with the full support of my roommates. What do I do? I can’t afford to get ...
Annoyed
Don't malesperg at me but I am annoyed cause I like my face other than some stuff (need a second septoplasty, wish I didn't have dark circles but idk if that is possible, wish I had blue eyes but the ...
Thread 33399737
Where can I buy a pendant or a swastika charm like this?
Disillusioned with fiction
I recently took up writing and the more I try to find a topic that is not shallow to me the more grounded in reality my pre-existing conviction that all fiction is shallow and pointless becomes, it's ...
Thread 33398483
Why is it "not appropriate" to talk to your coworkers just because you're younger?
I started an office job a few months ago, and while it's not a bad job, it's also lonely, and I've hardly talked to ...
Thread 33395176
How do I stop feeling like shit, sleepy and groggy after a nap?
I also feel like shit even when I cannot take a nap because I have chronic fatigue, I just feel tired and sleepy but cannot rest. I once...
Thread 33404277
finally mustered up the courage to talk to my crush at work. Who has been exchanging glances with me..
But I think I did it in the most dorky way. I told her "Hey I don't think we've been properly int...
Thread 33369408
What exactly is blue balls?
Cause I went 5 whole days of masturbating everyday WITHOUT ejaculating, and each time I masturbated, my balls would be in so much pain and pleasure at the same time. And ...
Are woman just passive by nature?
Something I’ve noticed is that women seem to want guys to do all the work. Even the ones that try to get my attention eventually want me to initiate every time. I always second guess whether or not th...
Is vaping retarded?
I bought a vape last week and I just can't get enough of it. I used to smoke socially regularly in my younger years but was never addicted. I'd do 10 cigarettes on a Friday night and that was it. When...
Thread 33401300
Are these women mentally ill?
I matched with one chick, and she had list of things that I had to like in order to date her. Like exactly that list. If I didn't like even one item on that list or sort...
Roblox?
Uh, hello? I need advice on what to do in a situation where you can't get through to roblox support? I had a situation where the refund verification is not confirmed at all. I was transferred to the s...
Thread 33403106
>dropout (compsci (no I didn't because of AI, everything went to shit during coof and I wasn't going to keep paying into that)
>look for jobs (no internships because retarded)
>tech jobs won't reply b...
How can I let go of my grudges?
It’s been almost five years I finished school and I still only think about revenge. I went to an all-girls secondary school and was bullied relentlessly. I was already spergy when I started so I don’t...
How to lock in after burnout?
Basically I (hopefully) have a very depressing depressing period behind me and i really don't feel like i can do anything right now. Nothing 'career' or hobby related ever gets finished and the time i...
ATOGA - Ask The Opposite Gender Anything Archived
ITT We ask the opposite gender anything. (With a few exceptions: see below).
Note: the clue is in the name. If you're not replying to another anon, your post MUST be in the form of a question, and di...
Why not give up on women
Between pocket pussys chatbots and IDF what can i get from a woman that i cant replace with a trinket from our techno overlords if om going to give up why cant i just ignore the other sexes existence ...
Thread 33400132
I want to try some natural supplements like 5htp and St. John's Wort to remove my anxiety but I also tend to drink two, three times per week and I heard that combining them is bad. If I only take them...
Thread 33403403
Any advice on handling conflict better? Whenever I find myself in an argument, I get too emotional and lose the plot. Or if someone is obviously bullshitting me, I don't realize it till after the fact...
Thread 33404043
on vacation with my first love and probably the only one i will ever manage, small frustration blew up and i said something possibly beyond forgiving about a deep insecurity of hers after she escalate...
Mind control
My guy friend of 4 years has a gf as of recent. We stopped talking for about a year but we always had a bond that could pick up again whenever and we met up a few days ago to check in on each other.
...
Thread 33394332
I'm 33. My only girlfriend was a single mother of three who I dumped within a week of being with her because I knew I could not raise another man's kids (and these kids each had a different dad) and s...
Where do I go from here?
I've fallen into an extremely depressive hole over the last 3 months and can't get back out again.
>29/M/LA
>marriage dissolving
>wife basically put me through a con act lasting years
>going to have t...
like depression but not really
>lots of ambition in life
>eating well, sleeping well, getting exercise and sunlight
>plans
>well-structured paths to attaining those plans
>try to work
>summon all the willpower in the world
>can't ...
The doctor is *IN*
I would like to offer advice to people on /adv/. Come ask me a question that doesn't have it's own thread and I'll do my best.
To the guy spamming the board at moment: my advice is to kill yourself
Thread 33404117
How do I make sure thst women don't feel like they are suffering in silence?
jobs that don't check for diploma?
Need a job that requires diploma but doesn't check. I also don't have a license so I can't do delivery jobs. Wagie jobs like Mcdonalds and walmart don't wanna hire me. I'm 18+ tho and working on getti...
Thread 33401620
I am starting law school late next month. Please give me all the tips and advice you can for my first year thank you.
Thread 33400336
I am 20 and this started happening when I was 16/17. No other male in my family started balding until their late 50s, and it began with their hairline receding. My hairline is at norwood 0. No doctors...
I'm a 18-years-old loser who's afraid to talk to women
I have an intense fear of talking to women. I was never very self-confident because I grew up isolated during the pandemic, and I was also obese. Now I'm just overweight, but I still struggle with sel...
Thread 33404034
>be minimum wagie in job I enjoy.
>Decide to go casual/on-call since manager at workplace is a bitch and my other rcoworker is lazy so not only do I do more than my fair share, I also get berated by m...
how do i stop loving a person?
hello people, i'm trying to deal with a conundrum right now. i'm like very, very attached to this person i met online. it's the kind of wholesome relationship you have with a person, she's the best pe...
Why does my mouth keep building up salivia?
What on earth is going on with me?
Like no joke For the past couple of months I've been dealing with Salivia buildup that constantly happens that I end up either having to swallow or spit. It's been...
Hot cums
dose capsaicin get into cum?
I should know this as I am a pepper head but after particularly hard meals of hot food usually more than a few over a few days my cum feels spicy.
is this a thing or am I...
I've solved OCD.
Any anons in here with genuine OCD?
Ask a brother for advice. I can genuinely help you.
t. saw two expensive pros and had an insane journey. OCD for 35 years. Seize the opportunity.
Thread 33402715
Any point in proposing a strictly sexual arrangement with a girl who shot down my attempt at a relationship? For context - we've hooked up here and there, and it's always been a good time.
Thread 33395358
I'm really attracted to Latinas. How do I get a Latina gf? I'm white and live in Texas.
Thread 33403385
>me and my best friend engaged in cocsa when i was 10 and he was 11 in 2015
>60% him 40% me
>he taught me how to masturbate and essentially had anal sex with me
>for context, we both watched porn at a...
Thread 33401843
So I was on Facebook dating andthis cutie in pic related had her snapchat on there and I added her. She has been responsive and hasn't ghosted (a rarity). The problem is she has two new borns so she w...
Thread 33382637
What do I do if I witnessed a food service employee use the restroom and then not wash their hands and instead went right back to working in the kitchen and handling food?
Moral OCD struggle
My OCD is making feel like I'm a sex offender for liking anime girls and boys and liking moe despite I knowing that it's not true.
Now, I'm finding it hard to enjoy anime or manga anything, this spaw...
Thread 33384931
No fap
Real or gay?
Thread 33310888
I have these porn videos of these asian women strip dancing to music. These videos are from like 2006.
Am I weird if I have like an emotional and sentimental bond to these videos?
Like I look at th...
Scared of telling parents about my job status
I’m almost 21 and have been working my current and first job since May 2024. It’s data entry but for a serious organisation (not trying to be vague, don’t want to dox myself). Long story short I’m a b...
Should I got to a psychologist?
I have this weird thing where I always get obsessed with a certain thing, dedicate the entirety of my time to it and then after some time I completely lose interest in it and forget about it. Then I g...
Thread 33394165
I am afraid that I might have herpes - if so how bad is it and how long does it take to find out? Maybe I'm just paranoid and I don't really know what other way there is to avoid it outside of just li...
Troubling finding happiness outside of the thought of a relationship
I'm very unhappy doing the hobbies I have now, sometimes being with my friends I'm starting to feel nothing
the only thing that makes me feel a little joy is the thought that someday I'll meet someone...
Thread 33380129
How do I assemble a team?
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