/adv/ - Advice

hello all, i'm a evangelical christian and i've been having a real crisis of faith as of the past year or so. one of the atheist kids at my local junior college showed me this devil-worshipper cartoon called "helluva boss" and ever since then, i've developed an unhealthy obsession with a demonic furry character named Loona.

i'm afraid to talk to my youth pastor about it, because it's just so shameful, but she makes my sinful parts tingle and i've started to engage in onanism because of her. i'm really afraid, friends. do you have any advice?

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I don't want to sound like an incel but seeing her makes me want to end it all. How can I live knowing I'm simply not good enough for such a woman? I'm doomed to live a life where I will never be able to find someone like her

Look at screen.
Fyi i toldhim we cant sleep together, talk dirty or sent nudes to each other because i was datinf someone ele. Few days later my date went partying, kissed other girls, went on dating apps etc. So i toldmy fwb what happened and he said this.

Is it because he likes me or because of friendliness?

>What is /htgwg/?
How to Get Women General is by men, for men, about women, so bring all of your questions about getting and dealing with women here. Some anons on this site actually get laid, and some of them even want to help. If you're trying to meet and date women, then this is the place to ask questions, seek advice, and share experiences. We know how hard it can be. We got you bro.

>What is /htgwg/ not?
These threads are NOT for whining, moping, incels, volcels, MGTOW, hopelessness, or demoralization. We're all aware that meeting and dating women is hard today, and even harder for some, but /htgwg/ is for trying to overcome the challenges. IGNORE the posters who complain, give up, or insist there's nothing they can do. This site has other boards and threads that they can pollute. BE SMART: Spot the bait, don't reply, and DON'T WASTE TIME ARGUING WITH THEM!

>How to ask for advice
Context is important: be more specific than "This girl ghosted me, why?" We can't help if we don't know the situation, so try to provide as much (useful) info as possible ("I was at the bar, this chick was checking me out..."). What's your relationship with the girl? How long have you known her? Any conversation screenshots? Etc... Don't forget to ask an actual question.

>Resources and Books
https://wingman.live/ (AI dating coach)
https://pdfcoffee.com/318797392-mark-manson-models-2016pdf-4-pdf-free.html
https://archive.org/details/robert-glover-no-more-mr-nice-guy-id-353324692-size-612
https://www.youtube.com/@YourWingmam
https://www.doctornerdlove.com/blog/
https://pastebin.com/7U5Sdhwq (Leykis 101)
https://dokumen.pub/why-women-deserve-less-firstnbsped-1467978302-r-1917433.html
https://www.fantasticanachronism.com/p/how-to-be-good-at-dating
(new suggestions with working links are welcome)

REMEMBER: It's good to read and prepare, but don't overdo it. Get off this site: go learn and build up your social skills by meeting actual women in the real world.

Prev: >>33874509

You're a low genetic quality man, so your lot in life is waging for benefit of other (higher genetic quality) people until you die. There's no need for any woman to bother with you, and there's certainly no want. Either accept it and spend next decades engaging in escapism and jerking off, or kys, it doesn't really matter.

>Received an envelope from my boss today
>It was my 10 year bonus. Supposed to be a thank you for sticking with the company.
>Went into the locker room to get some privacy. Didn't wanna boast at how much money the company gave me!
>I read the check.
>Have to read it again. It doesn't make any sense.
> $0.11
>I take it to boss, she's like "This must be a mistake. You have to call HR!"
>I talk to HR. They give me some round about explanation of "TAXES DID IT!"
>I call the guy that helps me with my taxes and finances, and he calls bullshit
>Call HR and try to talk with them. They tell me to basically drop it.

I... HAVE to get a new job now, right? My coworkers were able to buy PS5s and Used cars with their bonuses... I get 11 fucking cents.

How do I actually do things? If I want to clean a table I have to think CLEAN THE TABLE CLEAN THE TABLE CLEAN THE TABLE multiple times to go from though to action

I've had a full time job for two months and I honestly hate it and want to quit asap. What will happen to me professionally if I do this?

my name is yukihiro, i have been diagnosed with depression, lately ive been having really bad mental issues, i just want to sleep and never wake up, i just want friends.... im sorry

I don't mean that the stories are fake, or that people are simply making things up. A vast majority of the posts and videos you will find online now are completely fabricated by LLMs and generative text/picture/video programs. Until governments decide to ban this shit or the economic realities of these platforms backed by huge data centers stop being available for free/peanuts, it will flood every single website you post on. If you fall for any of it, or willingly permit yourself to be deceived for amusement, you are actively damaging your critical thinking, your reasoning, and your soul/sanity. Please stop falling for it.
Pic unrel.

im getting worse,im finally in the school where i wanted to be and now im not going there either i dont know why i have friends there but im scared of something but dont know what.i cant not go to school i feel like a failure, but i dont wanna speak to someone ive already have a therapist but she only said that i behave like a druggie even tho ive never did them and im too young to do that.i asked her maybe she ment psychosis but she said that psychosis is far away from that.i have dreams abt my trauma almost every day and it keeps getting worse i hate myself i dont know what to do.(english isnt the first language)

I've always been quite passionate about anime and the culture behind it. Usually, I've placed my favorites in anime which was humorous, adorable and captivating at the same time, which resulted in me liking Lucky Star the most. All of the characters had this quirky aura around them tat drove me closer and closer every single moment. Now, I came here to ask for help since I wanted to become like my dearest and most silliest Konata. She is just the colorful spark that I love to stare at whenever I feel down. She is friendly with people, funny, has a good pack of people around her, reads like a boss and has the most beautiful smilein the world. I greatly aspire to be like her! The issue is...my world is very bleaky and depressing. It lacks the same color that is in the animation. It lacks the cartoonishness and goofiness. I lack many values that could make me be like her, but I'm quite much incapable of change and I'm very stubborn and prone to not taking criticism well. And while I'm not like an infant doll, there's still a long way ahead of me. So, please help me out! Any tips or piece of advice? Can a person change to be like her?

I'm an incel who never has to work due to high income from the internet and it's made me extremely depressed. I have no reason whatsoever to go outside. I just wake up, make money on my computer, then lounge around the house the rest of the day. I'm not in college, I don't have any hobbies. There's no way for me to make friends. I guess I can buy some material copes but that isn't what I want out of life.

How do you not be intimidated by guys that say they've been in prison and can beat you up?

So apparently women think being in a relationship is going to make them miserable. That's what one of them told me when I asked them why they don't want a relationship.

How the fuck then do I get a girlfriend if this attitude is what I have to face before they even meet me?

theres this guy in my class hes perfect never fucks up always focused calm smart confident gets insane grades on every test like its nothing
i started copying him handwriting voice walk notes everything when i lose focus i write his name and somehow i feel him in me again like im channeling him
any psych trick or ritual that can make this transformation real? i dont care if its occult shit i just want to stop being me and become that guy

Why do girls immediately lose interest when they find out im a loner?

You don't have to carry that weight.

I finally, have been given 1 year to life- acute myeloid leukemia. I will ask a bunch of different topics, i'm ESL so my prose is messy...I'll just ask bullet-point type questions so its clear.
>Should I really plan my own funeral? Music choice, slideshow, photos, shrine arrangements(?) etc? or, that makes it more painful and I should just do an austere, solemn event?
>Since I will literally die: Should I "let it out all out" and confess to crushes, curse and abuse (verbally) former enemies, try out every legal possible pent-up desire?
>I have two items from a Bucket List which are : meet a celebrity (I have a short list of possible ones; only one is ok), and pay for a "femdom beating up" session--just a woman kicking and punching me whilst wearing some type of costume like police or so on--Are these so utterly retarded I should, just forget about them altogether?
Any additional advice is welcome.

How do I last longer in bed?

As soon as I put it in her, I cum within 3 minutes.

The lockdowns (2020) combined with discovering /pol/ as well as other alternative outlets and learning the truth has crippled me.

Always was an outcast but when I finished high school and went down the self-improvement road I had a plan and hope for the future. I spent 2 days in college before the lockdowns began and both men and women swarmed to me.
Weight loss, strenuous exercise, grunt jobs, martial arts, cold showers and austerity beyond normal, all self-imposed for years combined with surrogate and academic education on all practical subjects was my path to becoming what can only be referred to as Nietzsche's Overman.

But my will has been exhausted. The veil has been lifted. Reached the conclusion that I am a tax-cattle serf in prison nation where everything human and masculine is either illegal or prohibitely expensive. I can't hunt, I can't own firearms, I can't drive a motorcycle at full speed. Can't be a man. My only options are to drink, smoke, do drugs and gamble. If you keep up on global events you can see everything and everyone has gradually become gayer and more retarded and insane. Consequently I have become more alienated and ostracized.

I'm fine with being alone. Fine with nobody remembering or caring about any important conversation. I'm fine with life being cruel and unfair. I'm fine with at 24 never having had a social circle, a woman, real friendship, or any other milestone. I said it'd get better. It's fine. Life doesn't guarantee "Happiness".

Can anyone clue me in on the reason on tinder I primarily only attract short black women that are into hello kitty. Or just black women?

I don't want to go to college anymore and the careers I was setting myself up for are going to vanish if I seek professional help. What do I do? Give up? Become a depressed fat dropout wagie?

>What is /htgwg/?
How to Get Women General is by men, for men, about women, so bring all of your questions about getting and dealing with women here. Some anons on this site actually get laid, and some of them even want to help. If you're trying to meet and date women, then this is the place to ask questions, seek advice, and share experiences. We know how hard it can be. We got you bro.

>What is /htgwg/ not?
These threads are NOT for whining, moping, incels, volcels, MGTOW, hopelessness, or demoralization. We're all aware that meeting and dating women is hard today, and even harder for some, but /htgwg/ is for trying to overcome the challenges. IGNORE the posters who complain, give up, or insist there's nothing they can do. This site has other boards and threads that they can pollute. BE SMART: Spot the bait, don't reply, and DON'T WASTE TIME ARGUING WITH THEM!

>How to ask for advice
Context is important: be more specific than "This girl ghosted me, why?" We can't help if we don't know the situation, so try to provide as much (useful) info as possible ("I was at the bar, this chick was checking me out..."). What's your relationship with the girl? How long have you known her? Any conversation screenshots? Etc... Don't forget to ask an actual question.

>Resources and Books
https://wingman.live/ (AI dating coach)
https://pdfcoffee.com/318797392-mark-manson-models-2016pdf-4-pdf-free.html
https://archive.org/details/robert-glover-no-more-mr-nice-guy-id-353324692-size-612
https://www.youtube.com/@YourWingmam
https://www.doctornerdlove.com/blog/
https://pastebin.com/7U5Sdhwq (Leykis 101)
https://dokumen.pub/why-women-deserve-less-firstnbsped-1467978302-r-1917433.html
https://www.fantasticanachronism.com/p/how-to-be-good-at-dating
(new suggestions with working links are welcome)

REMEMBER: It's good to read and prepare, but don't overdo it. Get off this site: go learn and build up your social skills by meeting actual women in the real world.

Prev: >>33850893

Mine is like 6 inches long but only has 4 inches of girth which is extremely thin. I have no dating experience to be honest but the conensus online seems to be that 5-5.5 inches of thickness is the best for girls. Below that they don't feel much and sex is not enjoyable.
Is that true? It's my biggest nightmare to meet a girl and she lies about her being fine with my dick. But then after a few years she starts to miss some ex or college FWB who was much thicker and cheats on me. I know girls constantly lie about everything.
I am so fucking scared of dying alone because of my skinny dick. I even have to buy extra small condoms, I hate myself so much.

I've had a shitty life. Now I'm almost 40 and I spent too much time overthinking shit and thinking I'm a genius or some shit. I've wasted a ton of time in my life being a "victim" of my own victim mentality and fear of others, while other people lived and enjoyed their lives without issues.
I seriously need to change. Otherwise I'll end up killing myself.

Why are incels and blackpillers obssesed with looksmatch thingy?
Ive seen ugly guys with girls far above their leagues.
I dont see why a man should Just accept anything less,
Ive seen them attacking guys with Better booking girlfriend multiple times.
I dont get why i should seetle for an ugly Becky when i can have a Stacy.
Why do they seethe so much at that.

I've heard stories of America's Medicaid system taking people's houses to cover their hospital bill.

How is that even possible? I thought if you get approved for Medicaid, then they pay for your hospital bills.

Why are they taking people's stuff?

Any idea?

>meet new people at school
>talk to them, get to know them, they are nice to me at first
>i didnt fumble yet, right?
>over time they become distant and colder, they immediately stop talking when i come near and start up their conversations again when i leave
>i think they dont like me but i dont know what i did
>this repeats with everyone i meet and i end up alone again

how can i cope with being alone? will this last forever?

You ever worked with people that act like they own the business but they're just a low paid wagie like you and me?

How do you handle those types of people?

'sup /adv/,

when I was in highschool, my family promised me an apartment as a future inheritance after I finish university.

finished university late, got a job, lived there for like 6 months after which I was fired. Parents kept visiting every 1-2 weeks to check if I was ok. After I got fired, they let me live back in their house.

The apartment needed renovations anyway, tried to fix a couple of things, but nothing major happened due to no job/money. Now my dad wants to steer the renovations, and wants to decide how the place will be arranged/look, despite me being against his ideas.

I'm still jobless. Should I just get a job in a different city and go no contact with my family? I'm starting to feel that my dad just doesn't want to give me the apartment.

Des my room look comfy, how would you make it comfier?

Hi, I am a porn addict (Tried countless time to quit but always come back) and I have to study many things and I had this idea:
Basically get the text I have to study near porn (Or maybe like the captions thread on /gif/) images and jack off to the image while I read the text that I have to memorize so I can get addicted to studying and maybe actually remeber and recall facts and knowledge due to the high dopamine spikes that porn gives to me.
Or maybe not porn but something else addictive but that can keep me focus on both the text and the addictive part?
Would that work or I am beign retarded?
Since I can't quit porn I thought of using the addiction to my advantage instead

Rather than playing games (something I love) I've been wasting time on /soc/ and /adv/.

Idk why I'm depressed. A girl was super toxic to me and it made me question my faith in people but idk why the effect is lingering.

How do I undepress myself so I can stop wasting xp? I lost faith in people and can't recover. I'm spending my time on /adv/.

I'm 22 years old and I don't know what the fuck to study for in college, please help

I think I'm in love bros. What nou? it's my coworker and I don't wanna her to call human resourcers.

How hard is maintaining a relationship after the initial honeymoon phase?

Hi /adv/ I need help on what to do about this situation I find myself in.

>My best friend went to a different country recently for an internship.
>His ex-girlfriend currently lives in the city he was staying in.
>His current girlfriend knew this and asked him if he had any desire to meet up with her while he was out there.
>He told her he didn’t and had no plans to do so.
>My memory is hazy but I think he implied that his girlfriend would be okay with him seeing her for a platonic lunch but I could be mistaken on this.
>In any case he confided in me that while he was out there he was in constant communication with her to get her recommendations on things to do while in the city.
>So much so that she essentially became his guide for a while and they ended up having dinner together and exchanged gifts with each other in appreciation.
>The whole situation really disgusts me.
>He doesn’t see it as cheating but does feel some sort of guilt because he did not disclose this to his girlfriend when he came back.
>My conflict stems from the fact that I didn’t tell her about this because he means a lot to me and it was said in confidence.
>His girlfriend is an incredibly kind, adventurous, intelligent, beautiful, and brave woman who’s always pushing herself.
>Frankly, after getting to know her over the course of a year I found myself having developed a crush on her.
>She's secretly the motivation behind why I started doing certain hobbies and improving my physical health and looksmaxxing.
>We’d exchange texts on the daily and she would ask me for advice regarding her own life and her thoughts on her boyfriend.
>In fact there was a conversation where she asked me about his negative traits and how she should handle them.
>Out of respect to my friend I told her to work through the issues in their relationship even though I inwardly believed it best for her sake to not be with him.

How do you cope in a clown world?

How do I go about telling people I'm dating a mom and her daughter?

The daughter is 21 and we are in a threesome.

She said “I don’t think I’m ready for a relationship”.
I feel like this is one of the most common things in the world, and it’s happened to me before, but this time it really stung.

Been talking to this girl (lives in another state) for about 2 months. Having video calls weekly, texting, the whole lot. She says she’s down to meet in person so I go there.
After I get back I ask her if she would be interested in a second meeting. She’s a bit hesitant, I leave it alone for a couple days and then call her and ask her if she’s thought about it any further. She says she’s “confused” and “not sure if she’s ready for a relationship.”

Hits a bit worse than usual because the date actually went well, we had a good time and she was laughing, but seems like I wasn’t enough. She said she enjoyed the date like she was out with a friend but was unsure if she wanted to continue.

I think it’s either my looks or my lack of “rizz”. Maybe I should’ve complimented her more directly (I’m pretty bad coming up with good compliments beyond “You look pretty”, and on the first date idk what else to say) or maybe trying to get more physical touch…

I’m 27M and have little experience with dating, so it might be joever for me

I'm a khhv at 27. I'm not a "loser" who lives in the basement or something. I work as an engineer and my parents are rich. I'm just really short (5'4") and have a very ugly face. No gym or haircut is going to fix that. I've been bullied through my life because of my appearance despite supposedly being privileged compared to my peers.

Virtually zero matches on dating apps and matrimonial websites (used for arranged marriages). Actually I did get one match but the account was being run by her dad and he was using me to get a visa for his daughter.

I think I might stay single forever and never have a wife and kids. I feel very depressed and can't cope.

What exactly do women want out of a man?

>Tall
>Fit
>"Feel safe"
>"Feel excitement"
>Exciting experiences
>Money
>Provider
>Bad boy
>listen/be empathetic as opposed to offering solutions
>No alcohol/drugs

I'm basically 40 years old and I have somehow managed to convince this freshly 18 year old girl to date me.

She turned 18 back in January

How do I deal with people calling me a pedophile when they see me with her?

She graduates high school next year.

There's a certain type of person I've felt I should be since adolescence. This is based on both what I think is beautiful and a person I feel should exist but largely doesn't so it's my duty to ensure 'she' exists. It is embarrassing, childish and borderline schizophrenic, but for me it is to essentially be a real life 'waifu'. To fulfil that sense of beauty and not waste being a biological female who is more in touch with 'male' interests and more 'based' with my views. It is entitled and delusional but I do not know why I think like this or want it.
Nevertheless, I am nearing 22 and I am still the same old me. I tried so hard to achieve this ideal for a decade now but have failed. I'm scruffy, I'm unrefined and uncomfortable taking myself seriously, I'm interested in different things, I've looksmaxxed but am a 5/10, and time is running out. I constructed this ideal in my head to strive for because I genuinely love 'her' and what she represents to me but is just not me. Whenever I see something that reminds me of 'her' I feel jealousy that I'm not like that and a sense of regret and loss for 'wasting' myself.
I've tried reminding myself it's just a fantasy and everyone an idol they'll never be but I can't let go, maybe because I know technically it is still achievable in reality.

So I got cheated on by my now ex-girlfriend, and one thing that perplexes is why was she crying and so regretful when I decided to break up?

I thought our relationship was perfect - appearently it wasn't, so they decided to cheat, so why were they bawling their eyes out when I said I want to break up?

Isn't this what they wanted? Now they can fuck anyone they want at any time without remorse or risk, why are you crying that I am giving you that freedom?