>>101826392
anon, i come from a big family.
5 sisters 4 brothers.
i'm the middle child.
i used to fight with them, spend time with them, play with them, argue, share secrets, share talents, trying to be better than them while also trying to make them better so they'd could be my rivals worthy of challenging.
with a big family you realize that spending time with them is more important that anything else.
now they're all married with kids, and live far away.
so when i see you guys here, i see my family in you guys, in the girls performing, trying their best, and you guys cheering or criticizing, i see how our family used to be.
the only thing is, theres some cruelty here (in the community on the internet), maybe its because there's no actual attachment or understanding of the consequence, or realization of the loss that comes with time.
just know, there's no need to tear others down to feel better.
