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Thread 33377653 Archived
I feel nothing but contempt for everything around me.
I don’t even know how it started exactly, but maybe it was when I saw a group of guys younger than me spend six months of my salary on one meal a...
Thread 33373594 Archived
Why do people treat unconditional love as the ideal? According to unconditional love you're not allowed to judge them or expect them to change or expect anything from them. That means if they're abusi...
Considering Becoming a Figure Drawing Model Archived
Is being a figure drawing model a decent side gig for supplemental income or is it not worth it?
Thread 33374197 Archived
Hello,how do i get friends as a 20 year old troon living in a remote ahh village in poland?
my hobbies are photography,learning languages and listening to music..
gib advice pls
How do I pee properly? Archived
I know how this sounds, but I feel like I'm doing it wrong. How long do I have to stand and shake to get everything out? Why doesn't it feel like I get everything out when I go? Do I squeeze? If I hav...
Thread 33377101 Archived
>Indian anon
>Parents broke, living on my payroll
>Still have the fucking audacity to boss me around
>Where ya going anon? Nunya
>Are girls in the party anon? Tfw?
>Don't drink anon. Please let me do ...
Thread 33367898 Archived
So I was gooning to some lesbian strap on and edging a fuck ton, then as I coomed the cook was so intense that I let out a loud "EHHhhhhhyy".
My grandma (live with my grandma) came and knocked on my ...
Thread 33374543 Archived
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Thread 33375234 Archived
I have trouble spending more than $150 on things unless I really need them, and usually buy the cheapest thing or wait for deals, even though I make more than that in a working day and don't spend muc...
Being a Cult Leader Archived
How do I become a succesful cult leader?
Was I right to quit this job? Archived
>be me
>retail wagie just above minimum wage
>manager lies to my face
>writes me up for something I didn’t even do
sends me home based on BS gossip from one shitty co-worker
>tried switching to part t...
Thread 33376749 Archived
I posted in a /gioyc/ thread a few weeks back about how an ex-friend of mine cut me off suddenly with no explanation, and after brewing on the thought for a few weeks, I've decided I really hate the g...
schizo Archived
Someone suggested this board to me.
Basically I'm diagnosed schizo, major depressive and anxiety disorder. I take heavy meds every day, they help but I still have symptoms(voices), suicide ideation a...
Thread 33377038 Archived
>Your ex is doing amazing, because they're smart, witty, cute, etc
>You're rotting, fluctuating in weight and completely miserable without them
It's been 2+ years and I still miss my ex but I'm suppo...
Thread 33376481 Archived
How do I make myself immune to cringe and embarrassment? I feel like I need to learn this skill as quickly as possible.
Bench dwellers Archived
Im from Spain and i have a situation regarding a group of Morrocans that sit on a bench all day in the small park in front of my house
Among these Moroccans there is an Indian guy who was my colleag...
Thread 33366057 Archived
Being a virgin at 24 is equivalent to being a cuckold
Is this too much to ask? Archived
I just want a girl that looks like picrel with similar interests too, is it possible or are they all damaged as a result of social media?
Thread 33376911 Archived
My boss said that I'm doing so well, I'm basically the equivalent of three other employees. How do I use this information to get a significant raise?
STAY VIGILANT JANNIE Archived
If we catch you slacking off one more time we are gutting your pay you dumb maggot.
Advice for a 26 year old virgin Archived
I'm a 26 year old virgin, just turned 26 last month. I've never had a girlfriend, kissed, or even been on a date. In fact I don't think any girl has even flirted with me or shown interest in my entire...
Advice about College Archived
How do I explain to my French mother and sister about going back to college at 27. Our family was in a messy bind back in 2020 through the spate of covid so I helped try to pay for my sister's college...
How do I become a creative? Archived
I've always wanted to be a creative ever since I was young. I've day dreamed about being one and tried working my ass off trying to write ever since I was around 12. My parents tried pushing me toward...
How do I draw with my ADHD being this bad? Archived
How do I actually force myself to draw? I've been wanting to draw for nearly 2 years now and have barely made any progress towards that goal. I've only done one Loomis face like 2 years ago and haven'...
How do I make myself draw? Archived
How do I actually force myself to draw? I've been wanting to draw for nearly 2 years now and have barely made any progress towards that goal. I've only done one Loomis face like 2 years ago and haven'...
Thread 33375916 Archived
So what do you think about this situation? Casual chat about it
Thread 33375847 Archived
I'm a 20 year old NEET and am too ugly and short to have a normal life. So; should I buy a dual sport motorcycle, a big camping backpack, and just live mobile on the motorcycle? With a dual sport I ca...
getting into digital art Archived
I want to make fan art of a visual novel I really liked but I'm only familiar with real life materials. What software and hardware do I need? Keeping it in a reasonable budget of course.
8 girls 0 SEX/Love, do I have the right to hate women? Archived
>Girl 1
in middle school, went total schizo after her father died just 10 days after asking me out, the guy who dated her a years later said that she was totally mental
>Girl 2
in high school, was too...
Thread 33374487 Archived
So my boss has always been an asshole and he can do whatever he wants because he's been at the company for 40 fucking years (he won't retire), but today I feel like he crossed the line and now I'm thi...
Thread 33376555 Archived
Is learning japanese to make better conversation with the soapland whores a noble persuit?
Girl I like wants to be a Vtuber Archived
Most women are already attention whores with a gazillion contacts, and for some it's merely subconscious. Her little avatar doesn't seem to be revealing beyond showing lots of leg but shes dead seriou...
my House Archived
What should i add to my House, Any suggestion ? Its aboutas tall as me for reference im not very tall . It feels like something ismissing
My brother's wife disciplined my brother's 9 year old son in the middle of conversation today Archived
And I found it disrespectful.
The kid has a habit of responding dismissively: "Ok", "Thank you", "Ok", and she flipped out, raising her voice, threatening to take away his phone for several weeks if ...
Thread 33371684 Archived
Recently my coworker (32F Married, kids) and myself (30M Married) have been crushing on each other pretty bad, we work in different departments but still work with each other every day. It's becoming ...
Literal shambles Archived
I'm a 19yo dude living in a studio apartment that my parents have graciously paid the rent for in addition to my college tuition, which is insanely high due to the fact that I have to pay out-of-state...
is it possible to become a more violent and less inhibited person? Archived
as much as im getting fitter, stronger, and more capable, im still scared of violence. i flinch at small things and would probably lock up and freeze if someone actually hit me. i react to pain easily...
What's wrong with him? Archived
>Tall, attractive, fit and muscular
>Trained many skills, learned languages, read countless books
>Worked in filth and endangered himself for fun, trained strenous martial arts
>Conditioned his body f...
feel second best within friends Archived
i feel second best in my friend group. while my friends seem to socialize with each other freely, it’s a struggle to get one of them to talk with me, since they ignore what i say most of the time. on ...
GIOYM – Get It Off Your Mouth Archived
I wipe my ass with your face mod Archived
MODERATOR BUFFET Archived
all you can eat
Thread 33371489 Archived
In your own words, what does falling in love feel like to you? How do you know there's a connection, a spark, a vibe?
Hey JAN Archived
Your board looks like a fucking toilet again.
Does having a relationshipship with an unattractive girl destroy libido and sex drive? Archived
I remember jacking off more times. Maybe I was younger (31 now).
Cant tell if its age or because im with someone I dont find hot
dealing with stress dreams Archived
I frequently suffer from nightmares that leave me to start the day in a horrible state of mind and body that sometimes takes hours to deescalate. Rapid heart rate, tenseness all over my body, oftentim...
Thread 33373148 Archived
Sup, /adv/, so finally decided to make a move on the frontdesk girl so hear me out and tell me if it's ok
For those of you who advise against work relationships, I've got a 9-6 with 2 hours commute, ...
what should I do? :( Archived
Hello, dear ladies and gentlemen) This is Alexey addressing you all) Guys, I have a big problem: The thing is that in May, in the World Talk app, I met a remarkable girl, her name is Kayla. We talked ...
Thread 33376079 Archived
There's really one faggot on here who spends all day on /adv/ spamming "I won't read X"....let the sink it.
Thread 33376230 Archived
>Uh yea dude just do [retarded shit nobody does but sounds good to redditors] to get a gf
>Me? I got my gf by just existing and not doing any of that though
Thread 33370752 Archived
Is this a ridiculous travel itinerary to spend 6 days in Thailand?
We would leave Saturday at 1:35PM and technically get to Bangkok Monday at 4:30 AM, leaving Thailand on the Sunday and coming back t...
Can't hear or think about casual sex without getting upset Archived
Hello /adv/ bros, throughout my entire life I have always gotten super upset over hearing or thinking about casual sex, I am not asexual, I think about sex, I am not sexually traumatized, I have never...
Name That Thought Pattern Archived
I get what I've been calling "angry intrusive thoughts" where I imagine past and hypothetical scenarios where I'm arguing with/physically fighting someone I'm mad at (or sometimes a stranger). The sce...
/atoga/ - Ask the Opposite Gender Anything Archived
ITT: We ask the opposite gender (almost) anything.
This thread has no rules of its own. The only rules are the 4chan site rules and the /adv/ board rules.
We do have a request, please keep your post...
has anyone had experience dating someone with ASPD? Archived
my girl has just confessed shes a diagnosed psychopath which makes alot of sense. i'm not talking slightly crazy, she has no problem hurting people at all. the thing is she worships me and treats me l...
How do I get people to let me socialize with them? Archived
I'm 31 and despite being well-spoken and having good social skills, I've been an outcast my entire life. I got bullied and beaten up a lot in school, and got punished for fighting back. By high school...
Thread 33367358 Archived
How do you pick the right woman?
Why do street crackheads do this? Archived
>Be me
>Got off late at work as usual
>Rode the bus home
>Crackhead talking to someone
>Says something that reminds me of my coworkers
>Coworkers were figuratively dick riding me today
>We are all m...
Thread 33373108 Archived
When women say they want emotional depth, why do they reject the man who reflects in favor of the one who accommodates her narrative?
Girl I like is dating someone. Archived
That's it.
One of the qt3.14 girls in my friend group. I've been into her for several months now. I used to tease and flirt with her, but this has been devastating.
Deep down I knew I had no chances...
family refuses to treat me like a adult Archived
>in my 20s and work in trades
>something needs fixing in my mothers or grandmothers house
> they always want someone "professional" to do the job and every time i have to convince them that i can do i...
Thread 33371086 Archived
>I just inherited $315k from my late grandma
I’m a 29 year old neet. What steps do I take now?
I know nothing about investing.
Should I travel? Vidya? After living on $8k a year, for the past 7 ye...
Thread 33375707 Archived
Femanon here. I got drunk with some friends about 2 weeks ago to celebrate one of their birthdays. Now I wasn't hammered blind or anything but I was "loosened up". I met this girl and don't remember m...
I'm going to study abroad and it makes me sad Archived
I know I sound like a bitch but I have a great girlfriend who truly loves me and I've already cried twice thinking about how much I'll miss her for a year and a half.
The thing is I really should do...
Thread 33369494 Archived
Why do women ghost so much and what are some tips to stop it? Finally had enough and put this ghosting bitch in her place
Weird Scam Accounts on Teenage Girls Archived
tldr basic teen girls ik are having scarily accurate fake accounts made of them
it's on insta, and it happens repeatedly, so it makes me feel as if it's targeted. the accounts always get to the point...
Thread 33364382 Archived
What's the best option here? I just hit 30 and leaning on hookers and dating 18-20 year old girls (secret 5th option)
Thread 33366849 Archived
What should I know about losing my virginity when she thinks I’m fairly experienced? Any advice?
Ex GF's Birth Cert Archived
So a year and a half ago I broke up with my toxic, bipolor, alcoholic ex girlfriend and I blocked her on everything and I moved on pretty quick (she cheated on me and lied about it) . So during our re...
GF wants a threesome? Maybe? Archived
Hey yall,
Weird thing happened the other day. Me and my gf we're chilling before we met up with her friend, lets call her B. Me and gf are getting a little steamy, making out and feeling each other up...
How do I become less bitter and hateful Archived
I want to become better at expressing gratitude and being earnestly kindhearted. I'm very hateful and cynical, whenever someone tells me their good news I want to punch them in the fucking face. My co...
Can’t stop thinking about the Superman movie Archived
As the subject says I literally can’t stop thinking about the Superman movie and clicking on and making threads about the movie. I am obsessed with the film’s financial performance and keep reading ar...
I don't know how to make my boyfriend happy Archived
My boyfriend is acting really weird. I came on here when he broke up with me in April. He took it back after literally one day. I accepted his apology instantly and understood that he only did it beca...
How long does it take to recover from rebound congestion? Archived
Been taking nasal sprays either since 2019 or 2021 and want to stop but it's hard. Longest I ever lasted was 16 hours and had so my pressure in my nose that I couldn't fall asleep or put my mind on so...
am i white Archived
i identify with my mother's german family more but they think i'm too olive skinned to be one of them. I can't exist in a world created by white people knowing i'm not white myself.
what do i do? I h...
Moderator Buffet Archived
Thread 33375157 Archived
One thing I want you all to recognize is that whatever people go through that isn't of you just is a coincidence day to day in life. There are many things going on that are not your problem. It has no...
Hey JAN Archived
Your board looks like a fucking toilet again.
Thread 33369768 Archived
There's so much wrong with me, I don't even know where the fuck to begin.
I have no hope for the future. I live in the US and I make decent money for someone my age, but it's still not much considerin...
This place has nothing to offer anybody Archived
I've been here since 2022, and every single time I visit here, I am left with the same profound feeling, in that who I interacted with here did not give any further insight or meaningful advice to any...
Thread 33364375 Archived
As an Indian American f (21) how do I get a guy who looks like this, while being mid myself?
I’ve only ever had 1 bf years ago
Thread 33368046 Archived
I never been in a long term relationship with a woman. I fucked women all my life and shit but for some reason I can't seem to be able to form long term relations with them. Anyone here like that? If ...
NOMAD VISAS Archived
Does anyone have any experience with tech nomad visas (or similar programs)?
I'm sick of living in an overpriced first world shithole where rent is thousands a month, daily necessities and groceries ...
lack of assertiveness Archived
Today I had a university oral exam.
I didn't do very well, but I didn't do too badly either.
When the time came, the professor let me choose whether to pass with a low grade or make me come back the n...
Thread 33374733 Archived
I was let go this week. Contrast position unfortunately. But after 2 weeks of training so far and being told I was doing a great job. Was thanked by my boss for coming in early. Passed everything with...
My gf is rewriting my sexuality Archived
The bedroom dynamics with my new gf are unusual.
I never experienced anything like this before and from what I read it is very uncommon:
She is full on dominant and expects me to be submissive.
I ...
Thread 33374280 Archived
How do you all handle people who keep on having a "What the fuck is this retarded bullshit?!" all the time you are with them. It's getting pretty sad I'm having difficulty getting through the day when...
IP of online bully? Archived
Where can I hire someone to hack a Tumblr user’s IP address and get personal info on them? They keep creating new accounts after I block them and they send me gore, comment bomb my posts and flood my ...
idk i feel weird about that Archived
>be me
>straight dude 17yo
>meeting with other two male straight friends
>chilling at one of them's house
>small amount of alcohol
>laying at the freind's parent's bed
>it's getting late
>decide to st...
Am I becoming an abuser? Archived
I'm 24m and live with my mom, but I'm starting to notice how easy it is to make my mom give in to things. She doesn't stand her ground very well, and I'm starting to form manipulative patterns around ...
/atoga/ - Ask The Opposite Gender Anything Archived
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Thread 33368646 Archived
My male best friend's gf is seething and wants him to cut contact with me just because he told her we had sex a few times over 10 years ago as teenagers.
We talk literally every day and she wants him...
Thread 33361794 Archived
>Be me, 19
>Work at supermarket
>Just a cashier and bagger who stands around all day bored as shit
>All my co workers are these fat black girls because it's a black neighborhood so I don't really talk...
Texting a girl after securing a date Archived
I met a girl at a bar, talked for a couple minutes, got her number and then asked to take her out the next week
how much should i be texting her in between? She is definitely very receptive and attra...
Thread 33372028 Archived
Is getting a virgin wife still possible? Or worth it? Or are microchimerism and telogony the only way forward?
Giving up on life at 18 Archived
Hey /adv/ I'm 18 right now and considering just giving up and retiring from life. And you can give me advice whether it's a good idea. here's why I want to do it
>Been a loser since 2020 because I nev...
SSRIS ARE EVIL DEMONIC BULLSHIT Archived
Don’t take SSRIs unless you want to:
-Be stuck on them forever because withdrawal is brutal and can last years
-Gain 100lbs
-Experience depression 1000x worse than what you have now
-Permanently lose ...
Comfortable chair Archived
I want a new chair. I want it to be comfortable. The herman miller embody and aeron are 25% off right now but I really dont want to pay that much for one. Any recommendations?
Thread 33371973 Archived
I plan on doing my MEPs physical next week. I have a lot of recent self harm scars. Would it be wise to use concealer to hide them?
Thread 33372876 Archived
Hi so my girlfriend is a "virgin" (her exes were only allowed to finger lick and get their dick sucked) and she's like super perverted and watches yaoi all the time. She's heavily autistic. She has ma...
Being stupid Archived
I can’t help but feel/know I’m far more retarded than most of the world. I’m 21 in college, but I still struggle with geography, science, math, and basic economics.
I pass all my classes via tutors ...
Thread 33372900 Archived
>People only care about themselves
>People only care about what they can get from you
>People only want to talk about themselves
>People only want to know you when they can get something from you
>The...
Thread 33374014 Archived
How do you deal with workplace cliques? I was a consultant promoted some time ago, and despite efforts to be helpful to others I got a "bad" performance review by a overly zealous manager who said bec...
untreated cancer life Archived
what happens if you have a cancer, say advanced (Stage III), or Leukemia, etc and you only take the bare minimum meds to not die?
does it hurt\cause pain less ,or, more, than chemo\ radiation\ blood t...
Medical Advice Archived
I've been having a GI bleed for a couple of weeks. I ignored it at first, but after a few days I'm filling the whole bowl up multiple times a day with blood. And now there's a sharp stabbing pain in m...
Thread 33373169 Archived
how do i fix this thing where i can't be attracted to men who act desperate/simp-y at all because my type is my old crush who was the opposite of desperate around women? how do i change my type?
99% ...
I dont like sex Archived
Sex is too materialistic imo, I personally like romance, spending time, innocent joy with a woman, this love should need not be matrialised with sex, sex reduced it to a very small form, just pure inn...
Thread 33369279 Archived
I get actually angry when men glance or look at me since I know there's now a possibility of being approached, and I don't want to have to reject anyone since I have abf. And in general as well strang...
Thread 33372061 Archived
What do you do if you have nothing to talk about or run out of things to talk about on a date?
i really hate women, jeets, arabs and negros. how can i get over this? Archived
i live in a smaller city in germany and literally everywhere i go you can see them grouped up.
when i was a kid there were only germans, turks, russians at most and the city didn't look like shit.
i d...
Why am I attracted to dead people? Archived
I don‘t know why but I find dead people more attractive than living people. It‘s just something about their cold pale skin and lifeless eyes that makes them so attractive. Why am I like this?
No one acknowledges me at work Archived
I’m genuinely tired of this I’m gonna crash out WTF am I doing wrong.
I’m 21, 6mnths into a new grad role at a big finance company - all of the other grads suddenly act like I don’t exist anymore. It...
How do I stop being scatterhearted and focus on a passion and life direction? Archived
My greatest weakness is that I look at others and their paths in life and think 'why didn't I do that?'. I'll look at a famous Hollywood director and think "why didn't I try filming my own movies?"
An...
Thread 33373715 Archived
Do you really have to keep being a bisexual male a secret to the grave to get a girlfriend?
Black woman keeps trying to throw her work at me Archived
I am an accountant, and I work closely with the data entry team. Basically, they copy/paste data from the tax forms into our software, while I am tasked with reviewing everything and then managing the...
Thread 33373507 Archived
How do I cope with the fact that I will always be a loser no matter how hard I try?
Thread 33373326 Archived
how do i find a gay monogamous boyfriend in miami
Thread 33372576 Archived
>open hinge
>’someone sent you their weekly rose! Thats a big compliment, check them out!’ Pop-up
>look
>400lb juggernaut
>all of my other ‘likes you’ were overweight to varying degrees as well
Its so...
Thread 33372301 Archived
how do you break out of a rut?
seems like things have been going ok, i just don't feel happy. i have a decent job that pays a liveable wage, am fairly active throughout the week either walking my dog...
Thread 33367464 Archived
I was playing pickleball the other day with a homie against two strangers and decided to be a silly retard after dumping a ball into the net. I let out these weird Indian like war cry like " AEYAYAYAY...
Thread 33372920 Archived
As a test, I wore a shirt for a week then gave it to my girlfriend. She didn't seem to like it and washed it. Should I beak up with her?
Thread 33366436 Archived
What should you do if someone intentionally shoulder checks you or tries to hit you with their umbrella? I live in Tokyo and there's a fuck ton of people so sometimes there's no avoiding it. But I'm t...
Thread 33371637 Archived
What exactly are women looking for exactly during their "bad boy phase"?
How do I stop being a bitter paranoid misanthrope who hates everybody? Archived
My entire childhood was arbitrary and pointless negative social reinforcement constantly - from peers, teachers, and my parents. Because of this I am bitter but also feel no shame. I always expect the...
Thread 33367804 Archived
I want to steal a guy's girlfriend from my church. What's the best way to subtly do it without making me look bad?
She looks like pic related
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