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Thread 33327332 Archived
How do I retire from 4chan? I'm a newfag, started coming here 2019 when I was a complete NEET at my lowest. Around 2023 I started fixing my life and am now confidently a normie but I never stopped com...
Jealousy about people in relationships? Archived
I have been trying to work on myself and figure out whats wrong with me. I don't know what you would really call it but I took the gymcel pill ages ago and got strong etc. However, I still am autistic...
Dropping Inhibitions for Sex? Archived
Looking back on the sum total of my life until this moment (22) I'm slowly realizing that every moment I had with a woman where I was able to initiate to the next level came from me just going for it....
Thread 33325551 Archived
I want to start an AI YouTube content farm channel
How easy is this and what AI should I use that can make full videos and songs? I could make millions sitting on my ass making this bullshit I just d...
Thread 33327172 Archived
should you write a suicide note / farewell letter to someone who you were best friends with but ruined it, and have since healed and moved on? or is it better to just do it and have them find out on t...
Thread 33321846 Archived
Tried tinder with gold and boost, got only 20 likes after day, all fatties
What now?
Any painless ways to end it without making it look like suicide? Archived
Need no trouble with the insurance company so my family can get the money without hassle. Need to make it look natural or accident to provide a closure and avoid stigma. Painlessly, if possible.
Thread 33326919 Archived
My friend (and his gf and his gf's mom) found my automatic fleshlight
What do I do?
Have to find a place to move by the end of the month Archived
This will be my first time doing this process and living alone. Currently looking for Studio apartments for $1400-$1600 max. I make about 40k a year. My credit score is like 666 last I checked (father...
Thread 33325496 Archived
Are these types of scooters offputting to girls?
Dating a BPD Archived
I'm a first-year resident in a medical specialty. During a party, a self-proclaimed BPD fourth-year resident from the same specialty seemed to have a crush on me, and we ended up flirting all night in...
Thread 33326702 Archived
Does anyone know if there's a business in New England that buys used appliances? I'm redoing my kitchen and want to get rid of a fridge/dishwasher/range
Obsessed with monster musume Archived
>Always sorta felt funny around half women half creature characters as a kid like Ariel and some monsters in the RPGs my dad played
>Watch monster musume at 14 and instantly obsessed
>Checked for new ...
Is the blackpill cope? Archived
If this guy can get married I feel like I should be able too as well. I'm 19 and my face is a 4/10 but I have a good physique from gymmaxxing. Is this guy just an outlier or is it really just about pe...
Question Archived
How can I kill myself painlessly and easily?
What the fuck do I do? Archived
I'm a computer science student heading into my senior year this fall. I still never got an internship before and my only experience has been this shitty minimum wage job I'm working rn. I'm a bit boug...
Thread 33326313 Archived
I understand that it's normal for guys my age to be thinking about women all the time. Problem is, I'm in no position to even meet women and I'm too much of a social retard. How do I go about being OK...
Not sure if my ex wants to get back together or not Archived
So my ex of about a week now has been very cordial, said that she still loves me, etc. and she said that I shouldn’t wait for her. I love her so much tho, I can’t help myself. We’ve grown to know and ...
ADHD makes me want to kill myself Archived
I've never been able to commit myself to any hobby. I don't really have any hobbies other than laying in my room and sitting on my bed on my phone. The only thing I've ever been able to get good at is...
Thread 33322035 Archived
>Been 420 shitfaced every single day since I was 15
>Fell into a Liver King paranoid psychosis, went to mental hospital
>Got out and instantly started smoking again, been 420 high for years straight a...
/atoga/ - Ask the Opposite Gender Anything Archived
Past: >>33320452
Thread 33324024 Archived
16 year age gap with GF(I am old)
GF has been talking marriage and children, which I am more than happy with the idea of both.
Just wondering if this is a good idea even if I want it because of the ...
How I quit 3 grams a day Archived
just take it easy and let shit play out
Thread 33325675 Archived
How can I make people who hate their life easy to deal with my quirky all over the place antics that given no other choice they have to deal with? I can't be specific on this, but imagine having to de...
Lemme pick your brains Archived
I've got a hypothetical. Let's say you're in the U.S., and you have nearly infinite free time thanks to a very minimal supply of tismbux that just barely gets you by. However, you're broke, no reliabl...
:sob: Archived
so my bf i had for a year and a half broke up with me today and i have absolutely no idea why he didnt elaborate didnt explain shit just told me "were over" this morning
Thread 33324859 Archived
Is it wrong to be in a relationship with somebody quite well-off while I have soul-rending trauma/PTSD that interferes with every aspect of my life including what we have going on? We're in a LDR, cur...
Can’t decide Archived
I can’t decide between two major decisions in my life
To get a full picture:
>im 20
>NEET living with parent
> got 1100 bucks saved
>only income is editing videos online that can make me roughly 40...
Thread 33322624 Archived
>18 year old virgin
>gets horny tries to masturbate (obvious choice of action)
>hurts like HELL but keeps trying overtime at the thought of doing it wrong
>a year of practice and it finally feels dece...
Thread 33325608 Archived
Awhile back someone on the street said that they work for the ISP and he's on every computer in the city. After that people in town knew things about me that they only could know if someone was spying...
Worried I will share dear late family member’s fate Archived
I have to do a two hour commute from O block to make ends meet this month. I will be on foot for at least ten minutes in the dead of night.
It is extremely dangerous. What should I do? My master’s deg...
Decent Dating Apps Archived
Does anyone know a decent app? I've been using a few and in the past year if the app isn't absolute shit the people are, even annoying flood of girls from the Philippines leave you on read or reply wi...
Gooner GF Archived
My long distance girlfriend wants me to goon with her all the time and I don't know what to do. She's really sexy and I know I'll wanna fuck her brains out 24/7 when we actually meet IRL, the thing is...
Be me Archived
>20
>6’3
>180 pounds
>18% body fat
>my face is similar to a young Donald trump however I have brown hair with a very nice haircut.
>I have ridges and wrinkles
>i look 35-40 (not an exaggeration)
>I do...
TW: I groomed my cousin when i was younger Archived
Hi this is my first time on 4chan and i dont rlly know how all this works. i wanted to share my experience anonymously here and wanted to ask if anyone had similar cases and wanted to hear just some g...
Young adult needs job advice Archived
Im 20 and have a degree that allows me to go to universities and apply for jobs that need it too. The idea was basically to be an apprentice for three years and get a job with those skills/certificate...
I need advice on what to do Archived
So my girlfriend lost contact with her 3 sisters 3 years ago and she thinks they’re being sex trafficked. She found one doing hardcore porn online. She thinks that her ex who is in the gang big hazard...
Thread 33325309 Archived
Need some serious advice or guidance regarding "major depressive disorder". I'm a younger guy and I've been pill jewed before, been there done that. Objectively I don't live a bad life, I just make it...
I need advice Archived
Am I a bpd demon or a sociopath for not staying silent about discord drama that a British e-boy made about me?
He kept getting involved in my life by gang stalking me and shit talking me with people...
Roommate Archived
Is it wrong to reject a room mate after an interview because the have hand and neck tattoos as well as bad teeth?
Just feels like red flags.
Pic not related
Thread 33316618 Archived
If I'm having a prostate orgasm, is a lot of precum supposed to come out during the experience?
Thread 33321676 Archived
I haven't been able to get a job after graduating. Right now I have $8 left.
What the hell am I supposed to do?
How do I stop being treated like backround character? Archived
I've been following the book how to win friends and influence people for 5 years now but people just dont want to be around me. My hygiene is fine, my looks are average, I try and be positive but its ...
Thread 33324930 Archived
Why do I feel unworthy of casual sex?
Thread 33325114 Archived
Turning 21 tomorrow. I feel so miserable and sick to my stomach. How do I deal with the fact my life has just been hellish up until now? How do I deal with the loneliness? How do I deal with the const...
Overcoming the Black Pill Archived
I believe that genetic determinism is real. If you are ugly there's no way a girl would genuinely love you as a life partner and father of her kids. If Chad appeared in her life she would leave you fo...
Is it cruel or am I just sensitive? Archived
1/2 I had a call with a guy ive known for a while. He said I'm fat. I got sad. Then he told me not to be sad, that he likes me because he knows that. Like, that's part of why he likes me(ew.) then tod...
Thread 33324718 Archived
How can I offset the fact I'm 5'8"?
Do women consider it too short?
Thread 33324249 Archived
I still live at home with my mother, but I have a decent job. I foot the bill for most things bought in this house (I buy appliances, I buy groceries, I pay her a flat 850 per month for bills, I buy t...
Thread 33324823 Archived
I hate kids/people, but I have younger siblings. Our single parent is useless. Wtf do I do?
Should I avoid dating a Genshin addict? Archived
Girl I'm seeing and have met a few times has just revealed she's a Genshin fanatic, and from a quick calculation she's very active in Discord - she sends an average of 50 messages a day to a Genshin s...
Can I find a partner as a poor female woman? Archived
Serious answers no misogyny replies please. My ex boyfriend who I loved literally was first oh I will pay for you for this and that even when I offered to pay (promises and actions). And then when we ...
SSDI for autism Archived
I have years worth of psych records and hospitalizations child diagnosis, and a physical problem that's recorded. The psych eval went good. How likely am I to get approved?
Thread 33323767 Archived
can somebody tell me if this is real or fake? my friend posted this and it just looks too sus and fake coz it lacks info and all but idk what do u guys think
Thread 33322172 Archived
I put a lot of effort into myself--makeup, cool clothes and all but because of my awkwardness and interests, all the males my age think I'm weird and never approach me
in the rare occurrence I try to ...
Thread 33324772 Archived
>pale skin
>dark blonde straight hair
>square face
BUUUUUT
>t50 eyes
If I move to Europe, how likely is it natives will pick up that I'm not truly white?
Thread 33323877 Archived
tfw I have too much money but no friends to enjoy the money with!!!
I had one person to enjoy with, but he is greedy and always asks for too much money
I don't like to enjoy with a poor person, too
wa...
Thread 33323350 Archived
Am I able to get over someone and make a full recovery and be good on my own or should I find someone new so the healing process accelerates?
Thread 33324482 Archived
Going to the barber for the first time in like 8 months. What haircut should I get?
The language of the NPD-world Archived
I'm looking for advice on YouTube and honestly, the more I watch these grifters making money off their "personality disorder", the more I learn how disinformational it really is.
I'm watching this vi...
Thread 33324295 Archived
I don't need advice I'm superior a winner see ya losers
Thread 33322729 Archived
I met someone I really like, had an amazing date, I really wanna see her again and on paper she wants the same things as me from life.
Only problem is she has a big body count and she's ashamed of i...
My will has been exhausted Archived
The lockdowns (2020) combined with discovering /pol/ as well as other alternative outlets and learning the truth has crippled me.
Always was an outcast but when I finished high school and went down t...
Thread 33315538 Archived
how am I supposed to believe that incels are wrong and deranged when in fact everything they claim is happening in the dating scene is actually becoming true? I would like you to encourage or motivate...
Thread 33317500 Archived
How do I get my boyfriend to admit that he is gay?
How do I not feel like killing myself Archived
Went to a convention the other day. Had fun but I noticed there were lots of couples going there. Many of them were younger, some even kids. Meanwhile I’m still a grown ass man that hasn’t had his fir...
Thread 33321480 Archived
Your crush is out there living her life and enjoying the summer, going out with friends, socializing, having fun, making memories, forging meaningful connections and getting ahead in life. While you a...
From grass to ass Archived
My ex girlfriend's parents are suing me for damages to her apartment in the amount of thousands of dollars. Never lived there so they are wasting money and time. Her mother was a guarantor on the leas...
Did I go too far? Archived
As you know, in Texas we had a flooding and a bunch of people are missing or dead, while talking with some people resturant were in I said that as tragic as it is those people actively chose to live i...
How can I make friends IRL? Archived
Trying to make friends but I can't seem to find any fun events or anything nearby. Not sure what to do, just trying to meet new people and cope with my loneliness.
I’m 18 and I just got a 35 year old woman Pregnant Archived
I don’t know how to start this. Me and this woman are sort of in a relationship. We knew each other beforehand, but nothing sexual happened.
We didn’t talk for a little due to unrelated circumstances...
19M Blackpill has driven me to the point of killing myself Archived
I know “looks aren’t the only things which matters” and all the other bs.
A woman who’s my looksmatch is out there getting fucked by Chads, worshipped by her army of simps, demeaning short men, and ...
My 6yo Nephew keeps calling me Mr. Beast in Public Archived
How do I make him stop?
Watching my nephew for 2 weeks well my sister and her husband go on a trip. 2 days into staying with me, he said I look like Mr. Beast and that I should tell people I'm Mr. Be...
Thread 33323905 Archived
How do I meet weird outsider women who will accept me? I don't care what they look like.
Thread 33323733 Archived
Convince me not to blow 200 on a girl in one night
Thread 33323810 Archived
guys I hooked up with this really cute girl yesterday and she gave me her ig, but Idk how to hit her up. help pls
Thread 33322454 Archived
cat will chill on my desk but not in my bed.
explain this like he's not literally you.
Can sexual deviancy be cured? Archived
And I mean real de deviancy, where normal sex leaves you flaccid, is it possible to get rid of a fetish?
Thread 33323760 Archived
NEVER GOON
NEVER TROON
Thread 33314071 Archived
I took a deworming pill. Then another 2 weeks later as it says. However I didn't bother changing bed sheets as it says you should. The itching was gone. But then a week later it has come back. It's th...
Thread 33286460 Archived
AI is fucking scary, man.
They can do deepfake face swapping in real time.
How the fuck do I know the girl I'm chatting to online is real?
Cause obviously asking them to send a video of them touc...
Thread 33319599 Archived
everyone just gives terrible advice here, is that the point of the board?
why did I think asking 4chan for advice was a good idea? Am I retarded?
GF fell in love with a video game character Archived
About 6 months ago my girlfriend played Yakuza for the first time. Majima became her favorite character instantly. She played every single game in the series after that. I expected she would get over ...
Is this pathological procrastination? Archived
Without going down a useless rabbit hole, I think I have a problem with this but I'm not sure where it comes from.
I basically put a lot of things off for later, only to wind up doing the same thing...
/atoga/ - Ask the Opposite Gender Anything Archived
ITT: We ask the opposite gender (almost) anything.
This thread has no rules of its own. The only rules are the 4chan site rules and the /adv/ board rules.
We do have a request, please keep your post...
Thread 33315707 Archived
How do I escape the bottom right corner?
browsing /gif/ gave me an interracial fetish and I can’t get rid of if Archived
I tried, I quit porn and jacking off for almost 2 fucking years. But even then I would have wet dreams every other month or so, and some of those would involve the bbc shit. Now i just jerk off to nor...
Life update Archived
Hello everyone! Just an update from being gone for several months. Pretty sure I was reported to the police but unfortunately I am still here :(. Anyway, Im still living a sub par life and i’ve accept...
Thread 33319663 Archived
How hard would it be to get a gf like this in Korea if you're a 6'1" Asian American with an average face? Body isn't so important, but I only like this specific type of Asian face.
Thread 33323204 Archived
My life is great, but I want to die.
I have a significant other, and I don't have to work, and I've been doing so for years. I don't have hardship. Hell, I don't even have struggle, I used to, but it...
Making actual friends as an adult Archived
Do you guys know a good approach to go from "acquaintances" to "friends" as adults?
I've been going to a club for five years. I know a lot of people there, talk with them often, volunteer and help ou...
Thread 33321039 Archived
>be me
>have grueling exams
>be a good boy and study for two or three weeks
>take a break from playing vidya
>still daydream about all the cool stuff I will do when exams are over (playing strategy v...
Male Loneliness Archived
The "Male loneliness epidemic" is actually deserved.
"Dying alone" as a concept is actually something that is a bit more relevant to men.
Because, statistically, men have shorter-lived and shallower...
Who do I contact to prevent water damage in laminate? Archived
The floor is being damaged rain flooding. My options are concrete and drain to the front of the house which would be 3k to 5k. Gutters would also help but aren't necessary(?).
Any cheaper options?
Thread 33320142 Archived
What's the most polite, understanding, and empathetic way to tell somebody that it's okay to tell me "nah man, I don't feel it" or "I can't today, another time" instead of leaving me on read and ignor...
the asianfailure experience Archived
I stand out among the Americans for being Asian, as opposed to White or Black.
I stand out among the Asians for being Chinese, as opposed to Japanese or Korean.
I stand out among the Chinese for bei...
Thread 33316132 Archived
Why is life so easy for some people? It's like they never have to practice because they never fail at being a responsible adult. They can get what they want and every road bump is just a minor conveni...
Rattling box fan Archived
The new box fan I bought rattles, but only when it's set to a lower speed. If I have it on full blast it's not nearly as bad, but that level of breeze is a bit much.
The fan came with a little card t...
Thread 33322771 Archived
If I live in So Cal where do I go to find hot bitches? The only places I can think of are beach cities like Santa Monica and Newport Beach. Any other Cali anons have any tips?
Thread 33320277 Archived
How can I get a construction job done if no one will answer the phone? All the builder men were boomers and no one has come up to replace them so it seems like only megacorps have the phone calling ab...
Thread 33315166 Archived
>3 years ago
>match with this girl on tinder
>shes nice, we go to the mall and shit but we dont do much because i was 19 and didn't have my own place
>found out from a friend that she was 16
>confront...
People who post "I won't threads like this one" are absolutely douchebags Archived
You're not funny and are probably massive failures
>inb4 some posts a reply like that
You're so funny, go fuck yourself.
Question of world view Archived
What are we? There is no religion, no mental health, nothing. Just us with different views. We are wild animals. The true value love can offer is security and the question is how. Our decisions are ba...
Thread 33315516 Archived
I fucked a gook prostitute that I've been fucking regularly for the last two years every week at an Asian massage parlor. Today I visited her and she wasn't wearing makeup. I felt like the last couple...
Thread 33322382 Archived
Was friends with my coworker a while back, helped them thru a breakup with abusive bf who groomed them. We had a spark but I was in a relationship so I backed off.
I broke up with gf a couple weeks ...
Thread 33302854 Archived
I'm an antisocial loner who hates people. What are the chances of me finding an antisocial loner woman who also hates people but is also gorgeous and attractive?
Yes, this is a serious question.
Thread 33319626 Archived
Is it possible to get girl like this irl in gen z?
Should I just cut off all my friends? Archived
Am I a dick if I hate my friends? They all treat me like shit, like I'm still the same kid they knew in HS, but we're all in our 20s now. I don't want to be 30 years old still being treated like a lit...
Help me enjoy money Archived
This is completely retarded but it is also sincere. I make a lot of money (about 5 times average). But all I do is work, work out, jerk off and play vidya.
It bothers me I could have the same lifest...
The one who got away Archived
A couple years ago I had a coworker who I have a huge crush on, she's really pretty and really nice
I think she might've liked me too but I don't know
I haven't spoken with her or anything in years...
Dont stick your dick in a crazy Archived
Have you ever taken the phrase dont stick your dick in a crazy seriously?
I got back with my ex and I started feigning erectile dysfunction because she said she wouldn't have an abortion.
This went o...
Femanon here (this is what I look like ) Archived
My husband threw the French toast I made into our pool Just because I put the whole egg instead of just the egg yolk. Look what I have to suffer!!!.. This is not normal behaviour. I’m thinking about d...
Thread 33318721 Archived
besides trying novel/extremely hard things, or trying new things, how can you slow your perception of time as much as possible? lately ive been thinking of time a lot more than i probably should, and ...
Thread 33319265 Archived
How am I supposed to get a gf if they all have headphones in all the time.
Thread 33316675 Archived
- Don’t put her on a pedestal. Being needy, overly excited, be cool, calm and collected. She can strongly sense the desperation if you do
- Be funny when it matters and isn’t forced
- Don’t speak too...
Thread 33322587 Archived
How to get gid of unwanted fetishes and unwanted sexual thoughts about my family members and future wife? (I don't even have one yet, but even the thought having a future of my future wife cheating ma...
Thread 33321130 Archived
My long-term girlfriend wants me to move to China to live with her and spend my life there. We met and go along very well.
How viable is it working and living there as a german foreigner? I've heard...
Thread 33322760 Archived
My husband never gets time off. I've hated where we live for years. It doesn't have the opportunities I want for my family in many ways, especially social. I would have had a lot of options elsewhere....
Can't stop having intrusive thoughts over my former cuck porn addiction Archived
As the title says I used to watch and download a ton of WMIF cuck porn and I keep thinking what if I ran for office and it came out and I was exposed and me and my whole male race was humiliated.
How to cope with spending the rest of my life alone. Archived
I'm a 26 year old autistic male. No woman has or will ever give me a chance. I can't even look people in the eye. I can't go to college because being surrounded by normal people who get to be happy an...
I want to stop feeling bitter Archived
My life as it stands has never been better. I went from a stressful hellhole of a job to an extremely easy one. I'm on medication now, and my once unstable mind is now balanced and manageable. But I'm...
Thread 33322151 Archived
Realistically how many girls will I have to ask out before getting a girlfriend as a average man?
Thread 33318564 Archived
How do you talk to women without being awkward and creeping them out?
I long to return to my military brat life but I don’t know how Archived
I’ve lived all over the place. Spent my toddler years in Georgia, experienced first grade in japan, entered middle school in South Carolina, spent my teens in wyoming, became an adult in California.
...
Thread 33322302 Archived
Is being 24 old? I wasted 18-23 years old (excluding 22 bcuz I dated and had fun that year)
Is it redeemable saars?
Should I date more mature women? Archived
I am 32, have aspergers and get ghosted or friendzoned after first dates. I mostly go out with women who are 26-32.
I noticed I had more chances with women around the age of 20 but even then it's stil...
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