How am I supposed to get a gf if they all have headphones in all the time.

- Don’t put her on a pedestal. Being needy, overly excited, be cool, calm and collected. She can strongly sense the desperation if you do - Be funny when it matters and isn’t forced - Don’t speak too...

How to get gid of unwanted fetishes and unwanted sexual thoughts about my family members and future wife? (I don't even have one yet, but even the thought having a future of my future wife cheating ma...

My long-term girlfriend wants me to move to China to live with her and spend my life there. We met and go along very well. How viable is it working and living there as a german foreigner? I've heard...

My husband never gets time off. I've hated where we live for years. It doesn't have the opportunities I want for my family in many ways, especially social. I would have had a lot of options elsewhere....

As the title says I used to watch and download a ton of WMIF cuck porn and I keep thinking what if I ran for office and it came out and I was exposed and me and my whole male race was humiliated.

I'm a 26 year old autistic male. No woman has or will ever give me a chance. I can't even look people in the eye. I can't go to college because being surrounded by normal people who get to be happy an...

My life as it stands has never been better. I went from a stressful hellhole of a job to an extremely easy one. I'm on medication now, and my once unstable mind is now balanced and manageable. But I'm...

Realistically how many girls will I have to ask out before getting a girlfriend as a average man?

How do you talk to women without being awkward and creeping them out?

I’ve lived all over the place. Spent my toddler years in Georgia, experienced first grade in japan, entered middle school in South Carolina, spent my teens in wyoming, became an adult in California. ...

Is being 24 old? I wasted 18-23 years old (excluding 22 bcuz I dated and had fun that year) Is it redeemable saars?

I am 32, have aspergers and get ghosted or friendzoned after first dates. I mostly go out with women who are 26-32. I noticed I had more chances with women around the age of 20 but even then it's stil...

> be me > have fairly conservative dad > always told me to “never do drugs and never be gay” > cooking with him today > see generic porn ad on his phone, think nothing of it his friends are goone...

Where can I have a genuine conversation about my suicide plan where somebody will listen to me and have a real discussion about whether or not I should go through with it? I know most people will just...

How hard is it to get a college aged gf as a neet? I’m not chad

I've always wanted to be a creative ever since I was young. I've day dreamed about being one and tried working my ass off trying to write ever since I was around 12. My parents tried pushing me toward...

She’s 21. She’s pretty trad 4 months pregnant and we have a 1 year old son. I’ve noticed that her boobs are starting to sag and I am extremely worried because of how young she is (we are). When we met...

how do i get an e-gf? i've been online my entire life but i've never gotten attention from girls online. i see tons of people edating but i dunno how they do it. i'm extremely lonely and i feel like i...

I don't expect to ever see a psychiatrist or get a diagnosis or meds or anything, but I just want some control over my brain for once. It just feels like constant noise, I get distracted and drop eve...

Are brothels and escorts worth it?

Why are some women rude and unpleasent when they are attracted to you? Is it some ego defense mechanism. This has happened to me twice. Some bitch even tried to bully me when I was in school.

A lot of my depth (and by that I mean my interest in philosophy n shiet) was just drugs. I've quit, so what now? Do I continue doing things from my old life or just move on with new stuff? One is comf...

Due to recent circumstances, I've found myself in Los Angeles long term. I initially started to follow my interest in film, hoping to make a career as a video editor and make use of my BFA in Film & A...

How do I get to do this in real life?

Me: >23 >Studying >Attractive, social, successful, good family Her: >Miserable >Educated, good job with insane schedule (6-5) >Attractive but depressed >Probably on meds, didn't tell me though We we...

I just can't do this anymore; I abstain from this shit and it keeps coming back like it's a NEED. I can't talk to my friends properly or even remove thoughts that I seriously do not want. How do you...

Which fields, cities and universities are they referring to?

Am I an asshole for being pissed and breaking up with my gf who wants to go on a hiking trip / mini road trip with a male friend she just met? She said she planned to go on this with this guy and that...

Is it over if im 18 still a virgin no friends?

I'm a stoner. I got a positive pregnancy test yesterday and I want to keep doing weed but they say it's bad to do during pregnancy. Is there a safe way to do weed while pregnant and if not what are s...

My parents do not value education. My parents do not value relationships, partners, friends etc. My parents are completely delusional when it comes to the cost of education. I was accepted to my...

Where do I meet someone if I'm out of school and I don't work with females? Don't say church or tinder, churches here don't work this way and tinder is impossible to get any reply, I did try. I'm norm...

How do people get over having missed out on teenage love? DOES anyone actually get over it, or do people just cope for the rest of their life?

I've jerked off frequently for over a decade now. I don't know why, but lately I've been feeling super depressed after masturbating. I'm not a christian or anything; I just feel really fucking down th...

We found a kitten on June 13. She was in bad shape, but we did everything we could to help her get healthy. She was a beautiful calico-tabby mix. I'm 18. On the evening of July 4, around 5:30 p.m., I...

I don’t know why but I go into long bouts of not wanting to do anything I don’t think there’s a cause, it just sort of happens And it isn’t just me getting bored of one hobby or something and needing...

Tldr should I try dating men who only share hobbies with me that I am not that interested in? To explain, my main interests are tistic music stuff since that is atleast a media you can always consume,...

I am 28 years old. I am 6'0" and 170 lbs. I workout regularly. I am white and my face is handsome. I make around 500k a year. I am married. I have very few friends and travel often for work. I am auti...

I got broken up with & was sent this last. She deleted whatsapp as well so my response was never sent to her. Should I message her through text since I'm not blocked completely? I don't know what to d...

How do I cope with being older than the rest? I couldnt drive or swim or work until my early 30s, now Im doing good for myself but I don't feel like I.belong anywhere.

Any cheap way to keep a few cold drinks in my room that doesn't take much space? I was looking into mini fridges but they seem a waste of money, but during the night I can't go in the kitchen because ...

Recently, I actually got a compliment from a woman who was the cashier at a store I go to. She told me my shoulders were looking broad and she can tell I go to the gym. I hadn't gotten a compliment in...

I’ve never talked to women, I live online, and my social skills are MIA, how would you recommend I reenter society? I'm in my mid 20s and work in the plant department of a store.

How do I identify whether a coin is worth a lot of money?

My friend group is a bunch of Gundam guys I've been talking to on discord for two years, they play videogames together and I admire every one of them. Something about me is just so wrong with me, I am...

I know it's bad for the soul, but does it make me lame? I'm trying to get a job and I just finished high school, but for a very long, long time I was a neet. A long time ago this site taught me that b...

Boyfriend: >"I want you to be healthier and exercise more, altough I like your body. I'd still like you if you lost weight." >Says "good job" when I go to the gym and seema excited. Also boyfriend a...

In 2022, i met this girl which to me is very cute and all, she comes from a conservative religious household and so, im her first serious relationship. She was still a virgin and to me, she's the thir...

If your hobbies consist of fashion and hiking or walking with airpods on, how the fuck can I make friends? I don't want to go shopping with other guys or girls or talk about clothes with other people....

i've been looking for a gf for 2 years and so far nothing. >"what's your kind of gf?" gentle dom or switch (dom+++). should i just give up? i'm not a coomer or porn addict, i'm just looking for a gf...

I long for the weekends and, when they come, I feel an annoying restlessness...an uneasiness that comes from within but I don't understand why. This bothers me so much that I start to anxiously await ...

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Just graduated college and nothing’s really worked out how I hoped. High School especially, but also college to some degree, were rough for me socially. Barely got attention from guys most of my life....

is it still worth getting revenge on all the people who hurt your feelings? or just leave them all behind?

Is it a bad idea to ask ChatGPT for advice?

>26 >4 year old son >Friendless for 5 years >No social life >Drink in bars alone >Decently paid job at local airport >Smoke 20 a day Am I fucked?

Seems like therapists just nod and ask 'how does that make you feel?' while charging $100/hr. Has anyone actually been helped by therapy or is it just a meme?

I want to become someone who develops new pharmaceuticals on a chemical level, working in a lab and not facing patients or anything. I’m currently about to major in chemical engineering, but i want to...

My aunt wants me to dog- and house-sit for her for 2-3 weeks. I've sit for her before, but only for 2-4 days so I don't ask for money. However, for 2-3 weeks I expect to be paid. I'm bad with money an...

Writer's Block Edition

I'm 21 years old working a shitty minimum wage summer job and my life seems to be passing by so fast without me doing anything. My last year in college is after this summer and I don't even know what ...

I have them before going to sleep and they disrupt my sleeping schedule

31, female. I don't mean to be rude to any man, except maybe jealous incels, but I simply can't find myself to be physically attracted to avg looking men with a really kind & helpful personality. I've...

My eyes burn and the corners are very red and it's 5am and I can't even sleep trying to rub them, I tried to wash them but it felt like I had glass shards in them every time I tried to open them after...

I used to be an alcoholic drug addicted club crawler and you wouldn't believe how many guys like this there are. They're 6'3" with hair like a shampoo commercial and a jawline that can cut glass. They...

How can I tell if I made another chick jealous and she's upset with me?

entry level job w/ flexible hours that can make enough to afford a cheap apartment? perfer to work 40 or less hours a week too. right now all i can think of is restaurant serving and pizza delivery.

what meme aggregator do you guys use? I need somewhere to get good memes that won't take me hours

I answered the doorbell today, and a pair of cute girls handed me a leaflet from JWs. It's an invite to an event several hours away (lol), but it got me thinking. I'm a 26-year-old KHHV who could use ...

I was apprehended by some fuck by knife. He knew everything about me he knew where I lived where I work and told me I needed to find out where she lives. He’s always fucking watching me. He scares the...

What advice do you have for someone who's about to adopt a german shepherd puppy in a few days?

My advisor is a coward! I'm finishing my extension scholarship and, since there is only one spot to continue in the next cycle, my advisor decided to draw lots between me and the other student. Yes, a...

Fed up with this shit. Going to my boss to demand a raise in salary. Let's go boys Any last minute advice?

I have this issue of medical people telling me, "It's stress/that's normal/see me again in a few months if it's still there" for shit that...does not turn out to be normal and is still there months la...

is there something seriously wrong with you if you’re 24 and never had a girlfriend?

Hi this is my first time on 4chan and i dont rlly know how all this works. I am a 15 year old boy at the time of writing this and i wanted to share my experience anonymously here and wanted to ask if ...

How does one completely detox their thoughts and set level back to 0 so that the normal stuff feels exciting again, I am talking in a sexual sense, as a man

I'm an ex-incel but I'm still too mentally ill and literally careless/emotionless to maintain a relationship. I can have sex with dating apps but relationships fall apart after a couple months or so w...

SSRIs are extremely dangerous, demonic drugs that will fuck your life up and steal years from you. The withdrawal can take years to do correctly. I never wanted to kill myself before taking these drug...

might have sex for the first time on monday, how long do you usually go without jerking off before doing it to "save up"? normally doing it at least twice a day

I've never known what career I've wanted in life, genuinely no fucking clue and even worse I've NEVER had a child-like dream about what I've wanted to become. Perhaps it's because I've had no real lif...

This may sound silly, but I have developed a sort of personal philosophy, one that literally only applies to myself, that was born from self hatred. My question is should I hold onto a belief that pro...

Should I retire from vidya as a NEET and start watching movies instead? I'm about to get a minivan which I'll be moving into, to help buy it I might sell my PC and then just torrent movies on my lapto...

How do I recover from work exhaustion faster? I've reached a point where I walked up to a coworker and he just exclaimed >Wow you're looking dead, anon! It's especially bad right after I come home, o...

whats the point of living when i , as a low iq subhuman, will never own or accomplish anything?

Hi.40 year old female here. I need some advice. I just lost 15 pounds but my tits seem to have grown bigger. Not saggier as might be expected with weight loss. Larger, in size. What happened? Any expe...

My hobby is to engage in acts of perversion with virgin lolitas For example last night I have a sex doggystyle position With a woman from New York I do a bang fuck in her anushole I was pretty intense...

>come from an abusive household >was living with GF in a 2BR Apartment >Move my younger sister (early 20s) to the empty room to get her out of that hellhole >...a month later just constant arguments w...

Once again Im struggling to make this relationship work. Its either a combination of fear, autism, or anxiety which is making normal interactions and relationship activities so difficult. I am beginni...

I’m getting bullied in college. I’m 22 Does ignoring them work? When I fight back they just mock me or say “cringe”

>ex-friend that I unfriended 3~ months ago sends a friend request out of the blue >readd them solely because im curious what they have to say/want >all they have to say is “hru” Tf do they want? Surel...

>meet this girl online >we get to talking, have some rather niche interests in common >she cooks, crochets, plays vidya, etc and wants to marry a good man >the first woman who actually wanted to have ...

Basically I’m a failson. Two years ago I’ve graduated with a degree in something that’s not 100% a meme. It wasn’t field that I’d call my passion (especially not after five years of studies), but hist...

>be me, straight 24M >just broke up with gf >when we started dating she was like "Anon I like everything about you" >thought I won the gf lottery >fast forward 7 months >suddenly dating a drill sergea...

What do I tell people when they ask me where I'm from? It seems like such a stupid question for them to ask, cause then they base my whole identity on a stupid piece of land that doesn't mean anythin...

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I’m 24 and I was never really interested in women except when I was horny and jacking off. Always been kinda overweight, never had the drive or confidence to even bother trying with girls. Then like 7...

If you think about it, we have always been here, the chemicals that constitute our existence have always been present, the chemicals within us are changing every moment. So what big change happened th...

What’s the point of life when 99% of humanity have mundane and boring lives?

What do you do with the personality of this guy? For all the comparisons I get to le bazinga man, I identify much more with picrel. Emotions are a burden. Only logical things are worth doing. Only log...

I'm a third worlder and I'm visiting for ten days. How do I land a job where I can be sponsored and eventually be a citizen? I want to be an American and I don't want to stay in my crappy country. Any...

I forced myself to have sex with a man last night. Not a trap or a femboy or anything. Just a regular, grown-ass man. I had to close my eyes and try to shut him out to the best of my abilities. His aw...

Hi all need your advice >move in with my gf after being long distance >we had to emergency move to a new place earlier this year > move in with work friends, another couple and one dude > one dude is ...

If women want equality, why do I still have to make the first move... and get punished for it if it’s unwanted?

Should I buy Crash Bandicoot Trilogy or Kingdom Come Deliverance 1? Both are about the same price in my country thanks to summer sale.

I have wanted doors to open for years. I live in a place where I just get fatter and older and I don't connect with anyone. No one is nice here . I've been trapped here

As a major autist, should I seek out other autists for friendship or try and make friends with normies? Normies can introduce me to more people including girls to have sex with, but are harder to befr...

The sundress hugs and accentuates the bodylines, has elements of formalware but is actually casualware, and signifies lighthearted-ness/youthful-ness. What equivalent outfit for guys do girls go fer...

>23 years old >med student >never had a girlfriend why do i bother doing as much as work as I do just so I can end up alone and die having never been loved

I don't think I'm a lesbian, but I'm in a lesbian relationship. I care about my partner, she's like a part of me that was always missing until I found her. Sexually, it just doesn't work unless I'm i...

So you know how the modern world has a meaning crisis and how past religions have become largely outdated and unbelievable. People need some security and community in a cooperative, fair and secure sp...

I (18f) just graduated from high school and right now I have two options: I can either stay home w/ economical support and have a college degree or move out and just live my own life out there in the ...

How do I cope with being 18 and being unable to drive because I can't fucking get a license? I need a SSN card, which I ordered 3 weeks ago, never arrived. I need 4 different IDs, and you need an ID t...

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Can y'all tell me what the fuck this is, I don't think it is a sunburn cause there are a few splotches on my feet, but its swollen, also it's warm to the touch like a sunburn would be. It's sounding l...

Is it bad if I prefer action and creation over people's traits and essence ?

I thought I "felt too much" when I was a kid and was crying every night, but I wasn't feeling, I was scared. I've spent years not accepting that our relationship ended and just this week, I learned h...

>be me, almost 21, Asian cuck, HCOL state >rising senior, CS major at big state school >completely jobless, parents pay for tuition and housing because I'm not a wagie yet >manage to find a house with...

it was just so sudden and shocking, even though we never met irl, i'm extremely attached to them, i feel so heart broken i want to kms, like we been together for 8 months, and now i can't to them, i'm...

>be autistic >want friends or a gf >dating apps are a pyramid scheme to milk the shabbos goy with personal data and subscriptions; literally glorified modern day gambling >don't know alternatives irl ...

I was having some beers listening to music and singing along in my room. I talked to my mother about random historical facts I wanted to talk about but now I’m worried I was obviously drunk etc and ma...

What actually matters in a partner? How do you know if the person you're with is someone you'll be happy with for life? I wonder this, because there'll always be someone "better" out there. Out of th...

Is it me or do catholic churches suck if you are single lonely adult?

so essentially this girl i talk to described how much of a posotive influence i was to her and how good she felt talking to me, in like a deep personal way for like 4 hours straight. It kinda overwhel...

I want to be in a permanent state of disconnected calm. I think the himalayan monks were onto something after all. Late at night, laying on your bed, smoking a cigarette, feeling disconnected from you...