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/atoga/ - Ask The Opposite Gender Anything Archived

Thread ID: 33268266 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 7:27:49 PM | Posts: 1659 | Images: 155
ITT We ask the opposite gender (almost!) anything. This a thread for questions and answers. If what you're posting is not a reply to another anon, it *MUST* be in the form of a question! This is NOT ...

Thread 33269135 Archived

Thread ID: 33269135 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 10:36:36 PM | Posts: 5 | Images: 1
Wherever I go, I'm always the "third wheel." People only talk to me when there's literally nobody else around, and when I'm in a group setting, I'm completely ignored. Nobody remembers I was even ther...

Thread 33269998 Archived

Thread ID: 33269998 | Detected: 6/25/2025, 12:35:49 AM | Posts: 7 | Images: 1
I might have been exposed to rabies and the ER didn't wanna give me PEP.(cat bit me, didn't seem mentally unwell or anything) Every time I get even one of the early symptoms I freak out, am I just go...

Should I kms? Archived

Thread ID: 33264204 | Detected: 6/23/2025, 7:02:59 PM | Posts: 51 | Images: 11
>18 >Kissless virgin >Autistic >Socially retarded because I wasn't made aware of my retardation as a kid ("Autism is a superpower n shiet!!!") >Nerdy hobbies like history and plastic modelling >Doing ...

High Noon Archived

Thread ID: 33272235 | Detected: 6/25/2025, 9:33:36 AM | Posts: 3 | Images: 2
Fuckckkk my security job in the aldi is soo fucking boring how can I make it more exciting? I thought abkut drinking a little and roughing up a chstomer. What are they gonna do? The thought makes me d...

Should I bring my family dog to law school? Archived

Thread ID: 33269944 | Detected: 6/25/2025, 12:28:07 AM | Posts: 12 | Images: 1
I’ve always been the closest one in my family to our now 12 year old dog, I’m the one who walks him every day and he always tags along with me even when we’re all together at home. That said I’m abou...

Too stupid Archived

Thread ID: 33265937 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 5:04:34 AM | Posts: 9 | Images: 1
Am i too stupid? > Have sex only relationships with one slut money involved > Almost 3 years now > Have catch gonorea/clampdia/hpv maybe herpes from her 2 or 3 times > Develop feeling for her but ...

Thread 33266275 Archived

Thread ID: 33266275 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 6:49:18 AM | Posts: 10 | Images: 1
How do I get out more often? I lack social skills and don't have many friends, those I have are not close and I cannot ask them out. I am seeking a job but what else can I do to get out more often. I ...

Thread 33264417 Archived

Thread ID: 33264417 | Detected: 6/23/2025, 8:13:00 PM | Posts: 27 | Images: 1
I don't do this. A neighbor caught me peeing in my backyard, her face was aghast when i saw her, she had her phone, i don't know if she recorded or not. I am now trying to process the fact that i coul...

Thread 33267021 Archived

Thread ID: 33267021 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 2:35:55 PM | Posts: 10 | Images: 1
Have any of you ever been in a relationship where you're just not really feeling it? Where there's nothing bad enough that warrants a breakup, but you're just going through the motions out of familiar...

Thread 33265944 Archived

Thread ID: 33265944 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 5:07:10 AM | Posts: 10 | Images: 2
I miss my ex and kinda wanna rekindle things but she broke up with me for being too distant and not meeting up/taking her out enough plus I didn't want to eat her pussy and I never complimented her. H...

Retard Archived

Thread ID: 33272120 | Detected: 6/25/2025, 8:53:38 AM | Posts: 4 | Images: 1
How do u tell a retard can he stop stalking u because u see their ip address on ur tracker that they visit ur page all day?

Thread 33265605 Archived

Thread ID: 33265605 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 2:49:11 AM | Posts: 42 | Images: 3
How do I escape the friend zone?

Sick Archived

Thread ID: 33266453 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 8:17:28 AM | Posts: 10 | Images: 1
I've been stuck with a cold for the past 10 fucking days. No fever, just coughing and wheezing and tiredness/brainfog. It's definitely a cold, whenever I get sick it's always like this... How do I ge...

Restyle GF Archived

Thread ID: 33267166 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 3:34:21 PM | Posts: 6 | Images: 1
How do I convince my gf to change her hairstyle? I just don't find pulled back hair attractive and she always goes with it. I wish she would wear bangs but she apparently doesn't like them. Is there a...

Buying coworker's wife (for s*x) Archived

Thread ID: 33272307 | Detected: 6/25/2025, 10:07:16 AM | Posts: 1 | Images: 1
My coworker asked me for a favor involving a decent amount of money, essentially money laundering operation. I'm not against it, but I thought I don't really need the money as I have enough of it alre...

Thread 33270364 Archived

Thread ID: 33270364 | Detected: 6/25/2025, 1:32:57 AM | Posts: 24 | Images: 5
What causes this?

Thread 33264494 Archived

Thread ID: 33264494 | Detected: 6/23/2025, 8:41:32 PM | Posts: 26 | Images: 3
How do I get rid of a raging hard erection after I see some hot girl in public wearing skimpy shorts?

ragebait Archived

Thread ID: 33270869 | Detected: 6/25/2025, 3:14:30 AM | Posts: 4 | Images: 1
is it okay to fake disorders/disabilities for ragebait content?

Should I get them back or just change my number and move on ? Archived

Thread ID: 33271572 | Detected: 6/25/2025, 5:53:10 AM | Posts: 4 | Images: 1
Ex group of "friends" decided to fuck with me by posting my number online. I've since been getting numberous scamm calls and messags about crypto scams and such, these ex "friends" also call my number...

Thread 33238405 Archived

Thread ID: 33238405 | Detected: 6/18/2025, 2:11:58 PM | Posts: 80 | Images: 23
I just met a girl a week ago and she already wants to be my girlfriend and move in with me. This is awesome.... Right? It's good, yes?

Thread 33270527 Archived

Thread ID: 33270527 | Detected: 6/25/2025, 1:55:34 AM | Posts: 10 | Images: 2
>24 mtf >living is tel aviv with my boyfriend >happy enuf but longing what are some good places to reach out and make some friends online or irl?

Dysfunctional family Archived

Thread ID: 33270150 | Detected: 6/25/2025, 12:59:16 AM | Posts: 18 | Images: 2
So i’m a 19 year zoomer old and trapped in a dysfunctional family which routinely degrade me and literally treated like a child. I have no friends, no car, and not much money at least I’m employed wit...

Nothing could ever have been different Archived

Thread ID: 33268887 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 9:47:12 PM | Posts: 2 | Images: 2
The other night I realized nostalgia is cancer, the past don't exist, and in fact, all things happen for some reason... totally. So torturing yourself about things that are.. nothing... consumes preci...

Thread 33268752 Archived

Thread ID: 33268752 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 9:12:52 PM | Posts: 4 | Images: 2
>wasted most of my late teenager/early adult years trying to make my dream game >failed multiple times because I didn't have the coding experience to pull such an ambitious idea off >gave up a few yea...

My bf refuses to send me pictures of himself Archived

Thread ID: 33266738 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 12:30:38 PM | Posts: 13 | Images: 3
I started dating my bf after my 19th birthday (this year); we met on 4chan, and he came to see me. He met my mom, and it was nice, but he literally won't send me pictures of himself. I know he's shy, ...

Why do I get bored so fast? Archived

Thread ID: 33268098 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 6:57:48 PM | Posts: 8 | Images: 1
I'm jealous of all these people who can do the same hobby for 10 years and still enjoy it, the longest a hobby lasted for me was 3 years and not even the fact that I was making money from it made me w...

Is getting older just feeling more depressed and lifeless? Archived

Thread ID: 33266117 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 5:54:41 AM | Posts: 29 | Images: 5
Just turned 30 and feel as though the spark is gone. How do I feel alive again and enjoy things like I used to? Is this normal?

Thread 33271494 Archived

Thread ID: 33271494 | Detected: 6/25/2025, 5:37:43 AM | Posts: 3 | Images: 1
Will this be enough to get my bank to approve a refund for a towing charge dispute on my credit card?" "I paid around 6:35 PM after being quoted a 30–60 minute ETA. Around 7:00 PM, the dispatcher cal...

Will pregnancy ruin my life? Archived

Thread ID: 33264004 | Detected: 6/23/2025, 5:52:32 PM | Posts: 23 | Images: 3
25 m here. Fucked around and got a chick off of tinder pregnant. She claimed she was on the pill and I didn’t pull out because I’m a sex addicted retard. She’s adamant about not getting an abortion 6 ...

Help me out!! Archived

Thread ID: 33271448 | Detected: 6/25/2025, 5:26:28 AM | Posts: 2 | Images: 1
I can't find any painless methods to just kms, ITS ANNOYING AS HELL!! I don't live in bus distance or walking distance to a bridge (Don't have the guts anyway) I don't think taking a shit ton of pills...

Thread 33270933 Archived

Thread ID: 33270933 | Detected: 6/25/2025, 3:29:02 AM | Posts: 4 | Images: 1
i hate having symptoms of severe adhd and depression (i'm not diagnosed but i have several symptoms of it). can i still have a future by leaving uni? it's not worth trying to make an effort because i ...

Was this girl into me? Archived

Thread ID: 33270575 | Detected: 6/25/2025, 2:05:25 AM | Posts: 6 | Images: 1
I'm 20 and a khhv chud but I've had a few female friends over the years and when I was 18 there was one girl i thought mightve liked me but never got a second opinion about it. We were coworkers at a...

am i cooked? Archived

Thread ID: 33269516 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 11:32:48 PM | Posts: 3 | Images: 1
18 and depressed, i keep finding my way back here/edtwt/tcc, interested in guns/military shit but people i know irl dont know any of this cuz i dont want to come off as weird too pussy to kill myself ...

Thread 33270703 Archived

Thread ID: 33270703 | Detected: 6/25/2025, 2:38:35 AM | Posts: 7 | Images: 2
Stay away from women

Thread 33267844 Archived

Thread ID: 33267844 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 6:12:18 PM | Posts: 12 | Images: 3
You are fine just the way you are. Don't let anything tell you otherwise.

Thread 33265286 Archived

Thread ID: 33265286 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 1:25:28 AM | Posts: 23 | Images: 3
Why shouldn't I look down on girls who aren't virgins, and consider them just used goods that I can enjoy and toss away since they are apparently okay with that.

ATOGA - Ask The Opposite Gender Anything Archived

Thread ID: 33265053 | Detected: 6/23/2025, 11:55:13 PM | Posts: 2259 | Images: 157
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Thread 33265961 Archived

Thread ID: 33265961 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 5:10:44 AM | Posts: 5 | Images: 1
How do I stop Rizzing XII - XV females on online chats. I am addicted to their attention. I compliment them a lot and like them better than 19-33 women which many of them act like toddlers. They know ...

How do I bring my suicidal thoughts to my therapist without her telling my parents?? Archived

Thread ID: 33265188 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 12:58:07 AM | Posts: 14 | Images: 2
>been suicidal most of my life >/gen though it was the autism >still unsure if it is or not >started to see a therapist since May >been thinking of opening up >I can’t, freeze every single time So… ...

How to settle Archived

Thread ID: 33263492 | Detected: 6/23/2025, 3:55:52 PM | Posts: 32 | Images: 5
Dudes I need some serious setting straight. I have a girl that's great and treats me like a king. I trust her, and I know she will be a fantastic wife and mother. I've never been more certain of an ea...

Only Eat within the same 8 Hour Period Every Day Archived

Thread ID: 33270755 | Detected: 6/25/2025, 2:54:06 AM | Posts: 1 | Images: 1
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Neighbours making fun of you Archived

Thread ID: 33262501 | Detected: 6/23/2025, 10:45:22 AM | Posts: 23 | Images: 5
My neighbours gather around to make fun of me at late hours of the night and there's nothing I can do to stop it. How can I develop thicker skin? I feel deep sense of dread when I overhear these peopl...

Thread 33262058 Archived

Thread ID: 33262058 | Detected: 6/23/2025, 7:35:29 AM | Posts: 56 | Images: 7
As a woman, you often see good men chased by dozens of women tripping over themselves for him, he's the prize and not her, and you are left settling for the ugly men that no other women want. Any adv...

Thread 33266011 Archived

Thread ID: 33266011 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 5:26:04 AM | Posts: 12 | Images: 1
my boyfriend and i have been dating since september 2022, and were unofficially an item for a year before. its been almost four years that we've been together. he's 21, i'm 22. should i start thinki...

Thread 33265358 Archived

Thread ID: 33265358 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 1:40:01 AM | Posts: 8 | Images: 3
The person you are dealing with could be in serious overwhelming pain not be hateful towards you. Try to understand that. There are some people who are so worn out they lash out vocally and behavioral...

MY COWORKERS ARE HAVING A MEETING NEXT TO THE BATHROOM Archived

Thread ID: 33267604 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 5:40:50 PM | Posts: 9 | Images: 1
I NEED TO SHIT

Thread 33269707 Archived

Thread ID: 33269707 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 11:55:05 PM | Posts: 3 | Images: 1
I want to get tested for ASD but i dont know what will happen next. Will they force me to take meds? will it be on every single medical report for the rest of my life? Will i be treated differently af...

Addicted to gore Archived

Thread ID: 33269887 | Detected: 6/25/2025, 12:20:19 AM | Posts: 3 | Images: 1
Hi i need help with stopping watching gore. Im addicted since i was 8 (17 now) i found "comfort" in it after ive seen my best friend at that time get hit and crushed under a car and i cant stop watchi...

Is Love Actually Real? Archived

Thread ID: 33267251 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 4:06:35 PM | Posts: 19 | Images: 4
My gf of 4 years broke up with me back in December. I wont go into the details, but ever since then, I just started believing that falling in love is not real, and love is based rather on how useful s...

Thread 33262316 Archived

Thread ID: 33262316 | Detected: 6/23/2025, 9:35:11 AM | Posts: 9 | Images: 2
I've only been married for eight months. We didn't live together before the wedding, since we both came from religious homes. My husband has been distant the past two months, focusing on stuff with hi...

Thread 33265858 Archived

Thread ID: 33265858 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 4:28:49 AM | Posts: 18 | Images: 2
>boyfriend fucked my ass until it prolapsed >dumps me after a month, unfriends me off league for good measure How the fuck do I get over this? He destroyed my body and left, essentially. I had to get...

Thread 33268105 Archived

Thread ID: 33268105 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 6:59:16 PM | Posts: 9 | Images: 3
I envy my brother because he had sex with our hot cousin before she became a lesbian, can you understand me?

Are face implants safe long-term? Archived

Thread ID: 33266704 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 12:08:22 PM | Posts: 44 | Images: 5
Cause my midface hollow under eye/cheek is so bad I want infraorbital implants so much. And they are a rare thing that not alot offer fml

Thread 33265989 Archived

Thread ID: 33265989 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 5:21:17 AM | Posts: 7 | Images: 1
What is it like to meet someone, looking into each other's eyes, having instant connection, instant vibes, having fun, smiling, joking and laughing all day, and having a man / woman that is sweet to y...

Thread 33267068 Archived

Thread ID: 33267068 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 3:03:10 PM | Posts: 22 | Images: 1
My advice to all of you is this, be selfish. Selfish with your time. Selfish with your energy. Selfish with your money. Reciprocate to others only when they have done for the same for you. Everything ...

Hello i am actual high functioning autistic male that needs advice in life Archived

Thread ID: 33265401 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 1:52:17 AM | Posts: 6 | Images: 3
>i want to get off my medication, i also just recently moved to another town and have no frens and no life. >inb4 yes i had friends were i grew up at. I also need advice on a career change suggestion ...

Thread 33266700 Archived

Thread ID: 33266700 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 12:06:25 PM | Posts: 13 | Images: 1
Is it more likely for a person to stop seeking validation after they finally get it, or after they stop wanting it in the first place? Which one is more realistic?

Can a 20+ year old date a 14 years old? Archived

Thread ID: 33269171 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 10:41:59 PM | Posts: 4 | Images: 1
I am 21M and she is 14F. This summer I will see her and I know she likes me. My friends say that it's fine but I am worried about what other poeple will think about a big age difference.

People don't respect me Archived

Thread ID: 33264992 | Detected: 6/23/2025, 11:29:17 PM | Posts: 13 | Images: 2
I'm always the butt of jokes in friends groups and I can sense people pick on me often. It happens with many people already and they make fun of things they don't with other guys. I don't know if it'...

Thread 33256854 Archived

Thread ID: 33256854 | Detected: 6/22/2025, 4:25:47 AM | Posts: 18 | Images: 1
I need some advice/opinions I just dug up my brand new PSP Go, with the intention to pop it open and remove the battery. To my dismay, a brand new system is sealed, I didn't remember that... So, do I...

Thread 33266740 Archived

Thread ID: 33266740 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 12:32:34 PM | Posts: 12 | Images: 1
What is your preferred coping mechanism against loneliness? By loneliness i dont mean staying at home for a while because just because youre sick in bed. I dont have any family or friends that i love ...

Am I an Incel? Archived

Thread ID: 33268635 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 8:44:59 PM | Posts: 5 | Images: 1
I want to know if I'm an incel and how to change it. I have never been in a relationship before and no girl has ever liked me back so I would be what you consider "khhv" I am autistic and not very att...

Where are the fat women at? Archived

Thread ID: 33266462 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 8:33:23 AM | Posts: 17 | Images: 2
How the fuck do people meet fatties online? All I can find are trannies, lesbians or whores that only want to talk to anyone for money. I don’t want nudes or private videos, I just want a fat, female,...

Thread 33267554 Archived

Thread ID: 33267554 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 5:31:11 PM | Posts: 4 | Images: 2
Is sex work really empowering? I feel like whenever women get into an aggressive role, they already expect theyll be an object of desire, they genuinely think theyre all that and they lure in any man ...

Thread 33267336 Archived

Thread ID: 33267336 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 4:27:16 PM | Posts: 8 | Images: 1
>grew up frequenting incel autist websites >turn 23, still khhv, only went on one date ever, insecurity is eating me up inside >bite the bullet and download tinder >after like 2 months of embarrassing...

Thread 33264717 Archived

Thread ID: 33264717 | Detected: 6/23/2025, 9:46:48 PM | Posts: 31 | Images: 9
Learn to rate women. If you're being brutally honest, most of the women you simp for are probably not even above a 5 on the looks scale, and they know it. They've known it since they were little girls...

Thread 33263378 Archived

Thread ID: 33263378 | Detected: 6/23/2025, 3:29:31 PM | Posts: 14 | Images: 4
So I started dating this girl a while ago. Everything has been running smoothly, except the fact that every time we're intimate, she's told me she wants me to take away her "power" from the dynamic fo...

Thread 33268419 Archived

Thread ID: 33268419 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 7:54:56 PM | Posts: 7 | Images: 2
what the actual fucking dick happened to my car keys

Can porn affect my mental health? Archived

Thread ID: 33266849 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 1:30:09 PM | Posts: 7 | Images: 2
Hey guys, I've been pretty lonely for the past year or so since I cut contact with my friends. Anyways, I feel like porn helps me cope a little, but can porn also make my mental health worse in the l...

Why are white bitches OBSESSED with getting as dark a skin as possible? Archived

Thread ID: 33266729 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 12:26:16 PM | Posts: 3 | Images: 1
As with any other man my dick gets harder for paler skin, it's probably an evolutionary thing signaling chastity like the bitch isn't out of her cave much getting fucked often so a seed isn't making i...

What does it feel like to have or take pleasure in the small joys in life? Archived

Thread ID: 33265066 | Detected: 6/23/2025, 11:59:38 PM | Posts: 15 | Images: 3
Honest question. Much of my life is spent searching for things to distract myself from my various mental illnesses but I very rarely enjoy anything for any substantial amount of time. I see things lik...

Thread 33262775 Archived

Thread ID: 33262775 | Detected: 6/23/2025, 12:39:13 PM | Posts: 22 | Images: 7
How do I hook up with this chick IRL? I'm obsessed with her on IG.

Exposing Evil Archived

Thread ID: 33267975 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 6:36:05 PM | Posts: 2 | Images: 1
How do I tell the world the truth about a corrupt, evil police officer?

Dumb wife = dumb children Archived

Thread ID: 33258117 | Detected: 6/22/2025, 12:56:44 PM | Posts: 30 | Images: 10
I have gf who loves me beyond this world. I want to marry her and have like 7 children and have means to do so, but im hesitant. I'm attractive well above average in inteligence (mechanical engineer c...

Thread 33267958 Archived

Thread ID: 33267958 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 6:34:05 PM | Posts: 2 | Images: 1
Men have declared spiritual jihad on women and it shows as they slowly begin to lose it. This is it anons, the real gender war has begun, not the fake one with countless pronouns that is being shilled...

Never felt so hopeless Archived

Thread ID: 33267472 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 5:12:24 PM | Posts: 7 | Images: 1
>going through a lot since the past 6 months >highly depressed at 17 >know that it's time to face the real world, start earning and want to provide for my family so my father can retire >but can't eve...

Thread 33264000 Archived

Thread ID: 33264000 | Detected: 6/23/2025, 5:51:23 PM | Posts: 9 | Images: 2
How do you get taller? Assuming you are still in the age where that can happen? As long as you aren't malnourished is there anything to do other than just cross your fingers and let your genes do the ...

Thread 33256867 Archived

Thread ID: 33256867 | Detected: 6/22/2025, 4:28:37 AM | Posts: 103 | Images: 7
real girl giving out real advice. i've made it in life and i know it all. let me know any of your problems and i can make them wash away. i know everything. you can test me on this knowledge if you'd ...

90/60/90 17/14/7 Archived

Thread ID: 33267343 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 4:28:34 PM | Posts: 4 | Images: 1
Mal ehrlich – seit wir denken können, hängt dieses bescheuerte Ideal wie ein Damoklesschwert über uns: 90cm Brüste, 60cm Taille, 90cm Hüfte. Danke, Modeindustrie. Danke, Popkultur. Als ob wir alle mit...

90-60-90, was wir wollen… Archived

Thread ID: 33267075 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 3:05:24 PM | Posts: 3 | Images: 1
Mal ehrlich – seit wir denken können, hängt dieses bescheuerte Ideal wie ein Damoklesschwert über uns: 90cm Brüste, 60cm Taille, 90cm Hüfte. Danke, Modeindustrie. Danke, Popkultur. Als ob wir alle mit...

How to stop feeling guilty for disappointing my parents? Archived

Thread ID: 33265360 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 1:40:28 AM | Posts: 4 | Images: 1
In short, my life is a failure but it doesn't really bother me as much as the fact that I disappointed my parents, they were good to me and I'm sad that I failed them, my only cope is reminding myself...

Thread 33263128 Archived

Thread ID: 33263128 | Detected: 6/23/2025, 2:29:56 PM | Posts: 8 | Images: 1
whats a fun new skill i can learn at home while recovering from shoulder stabilizing surgery? something that doesnt require a lot of movement, im still in a sling and leaning over or running for examp...

Thread 33265213 Archived

Thread ID: 33265213 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 1:05:24 AM | Posts: 5 | Images: 1
is it normal and healthy to think about a person you're friends with every waking second and look forward to nothing else but the next time you'll see them? i honestly feel like i'm going insane.

How to convince co-workers that i'm not retarded? Archived

Thread ID: 33266822 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 1:14:41 PM | Posts: 22 | Images: 2
>moved to a eastern european country 6 years ago >still can't speak the language above a basic level >recently got a job at a local company, but everyone will speak english >I know for sure my co-work...

How can i make serious money Archived

Thread ID: 33265225 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 1:08:25 AM | Posts: 13 | Images: 1
I'm 29. Finished my bachelors of computer science at around 24. Im not stupid just lack motivation, a LOT Since then, I could never get a software engineering job. I just wasnt lucky. I was close a ...

Thread 33265945 Archived

Thread ID: 33265945 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 5:07:10 AM | Posts: 17 | Images: 3
How can I get 4chan to filter out "I won't read" anon of the /adv/ board?

Gambling with love Archived

Thread ID: 33263554 | Detected: 6/23/2025, 4:14:52 PM | Posts: 11 | Images: 1
I'm not gonna explain it all unless someone asks but basically I have a very good girlfriend who treats me well and seems to be good wife material, but we just don't click, and she really doesn't have...

creativity advice Archived

Thread ID: 33265155 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 12:43:21 AM | Posts: 14 | Images: 4
what's the point in doing anything if you aren't going to be the best? i started thinking about this at 14 years old and almost 10 years later i cannot answer it. maybe back then i was more delusion...

Thread 33258533 Archived

Thread ID: 33258533 | Detected: 6/22/2025, 4:16:59 PM | Posts: 14 | Images: 1
How can I not be afraid of intimidating people?

Can I find mutual love? Archived

Thread ID: 33256824 | Detected: 6/22/2025, 4:17:40 AM | Posts: 49 | Images: 1
So you are telling me that I will never find a man that will genuinely see me as a 10/10 ? I literally loved worshiped and saw my ex some qt nerdy soft looking guy (my type like the op pic) as a 10/10...

...---... Archived

Thread ID: 33265759 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 3:41:37 AM | Posts: 7 | Images: 2
So, a few months ago, I started talking to a femboy. Nothing much, but he asked me out

Thread 33266459 Archived

Thread ID: 33266459 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 8:26:42 AM | Posts: 2 | Images: 1
What are the best websites artists these days? Is the internet viable anymore as a way of promoting your works? I hate mainstream platforms like Instagram and alternative platforms like tumblr have ve...

Thread 33266378 Archived

Thread ID: 33266378 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 7:32:39 AM | Posts: 7 | Images: 1
Is it realistic to learn python, C#, game dev, hard surface 3d modeling, and 3d sculpting all at once?

Thread 33266274 Archived

Thread ID: 33266274 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 6:49:05 AM | Posts: 6 | Images: 3
how do i stop my gf from bringing up an instance from the past she didnt like? how and when will she resolve it?

Thread 33266380 Archived

Thread ID: 33266380 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 7:32:51 AM | Posts: 3 | Images: 1
I am at my limit. I stagnated so much and my brain functions aren't at the same level they used to be. It feels like alzheimers, I keep asking the same questions several times and then proceed to get ...

Thread 33266025 Archived

Thread ID: 33266025 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 5:30:03 AM | Posts: 7 | Images: 3
How do I find a woman IRL who I can love as much as Emi Ibarazaki?

Thread 33265329 Archived

Thread ID: 33265329 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 1:33:54 AM | Posts: 5 | Images: 1
I'm so tired of hating myself and being myself bros. I honestly want to kill myself because I hate the person I was born as. How do I stop?

/goals/ Thread Archived

Thread ID: 33262949 | Detected: 6/23/2025, 1:48:01 PM | Posts: 24 | Images: 4
It's almost the 3rd Quarter of the year anons. Have you hit any of your new years resolutions? It's important to break your goals into tiers such as yearly, monthly, and weekly. I've achieved most of ...

is there any way to recover from 5 hours sleep for 5 years? Archived

Thread ID: 33262792 | Detected: 6/23/2025, 12:50:02 PM | Posts: 10 | Images: 1
I've been a wagie for 5-1/2 years now and I'm losing my job soon. I've slept 5 to 6, now a hard 5, hours a night on weeknights for that time. I cope with coffee after I fell asleep standing up at the ...

i wanna ask out a guy but im scared, what do i do Archived

Thread ID: 33257952 | Detected: 6/22/2025, 11:21:35 AM | Posts: 37 | Images: 1
real life girl here. i really wanna ask out this guy but im scared, is it true guys are attracted to girls who are confident and straight forward with what they want? some context, im 18 and hes 18 ...

Work Woes Archived

Thread ID: 33265163 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 12:46:45 AM | Posts: 4 | Images: 1
After ~3 months of looking for literally anything I finally had an orientation scheduled that I totally ignored until the last minute, arrived ~12 minutes late and got turned away. It's becoming clea...

How worried should I be about eating little fish and vegetables? Archived

Thread ID: 33258271 | Detected: 6/22/2025, 1:52:38 PM | Posts: 7 | Images: 1
Currently living by myself in an apartment without a kitchen and I'm largely living off of protein (pork, chicken, eggs, snacking on peanuts), and sugars (rice) from cheap eateries and occasionally fa...

Should I bring back my minecraft server? Archived

Thread ID: 33264384 | Detected: 6/23/2025, 8:01:30 PM | Posts: 2 | Images: 1
So about a year ago I handed my minecraft server over to a russian player who promised to keep running it, however he ended up neglecting it. He recently informed me that the world save and the plugin...

Thread 33264904 Archived

Thread ID: 33264904 | Detected: 6/23/2025, 10:59:00 PM | Posts: 4 | Images: 1
Yesterday I met some dudes at a town party and they were pretty nice (got added to their Whatsapp GC and shit) Today's party is even better and I REALLY wanna go, but none of my friends want to. Thes...

how fat can you be and date Archived

Thread ID: 33265592 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 2:45:14 AM | Posts: 4 | Images: 1
assume I'm six feet tall and not looking to give up with absolute landwhales. regular girls are fine not Stacie what is the maximum weight where dating is "hard but doable" and where does it pass int...

I tried but I CAN'T date overweight women! Archived

Thread ID: 33263676 | Detected: 6/23/2025, 4:44:54 PM | Posts: 10 | Images: 1
Am I a volcel if I can't get a woman that I want - 5/10 and slim? Fat/overweight women are easy for me to get online, I went out with a few of them, tried to give them chances, but I can't... I couldn...

Thread 33265457 Archived

Thread ID: 33265457 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 2:04:00 AM | Posts: 4 | Images: 1
I left a piece of trash on the table and forgot to pick it up. My younger sister then yells at me saying how i'm so disgusting and i'm so childish for my age and how i'm incapable yadda yadda I then...

Thread 33264690 Archived

Thread ID: 33264690 | Detected: 6/23/2025, 9:35:43 PM | Posts: 6 | Images: 2
It does not matter if your reason's practicality is as much of a joke as to why a car needs an engine to run, believe in yourself no matter what. Your effort is what will make you. True you didn't get...

How to be a more empathetic person? Archived

Thread ID: 33265299 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 1:28:34 AM | Posts: 3 | Images: 1
I'm starting to realize that I am a bit of a narcissist (I think most people are to some extent) and I want to try to get better. In particular, I have difficulty empathizing with other people. My col...

Get if off your chest Archived

Thread ID: 33252329 | Detected: 6/21/2025, 4:47:53 AM | Posts: 328 | Images: 24
June 20th 2025...

Thread 33263602 Archived

Thread ID: 33263602 | Detected: 6/23/2025, 4:25:22 PM | Posts: 7 | Images: 2
>delete all social media >friends forget about me and think I don't exist It's all so tiresome

Thread 33263513 Archived

Thread ID: 33263513 | Detected: 6/23/2025, 4:02:08 PM | Posts: 3 | Images: 1
How do I stop boring women when I approach in public?

Thread 33262881 Archived

Thread ID: 33262881 | Detected: 6/23/2025, 1:31:01 PM | Posts: 3 | Images: 2
How do I gain the confidence to live authentically and by my own terms rather than others'? I'm tired of putting up with people's bullshit and dealing with stupid people who insist I play by their rul...

how do u learn to be alone Archived

Thread ID: 33262302 | Detected: 6/23/2025, 9:27:43 AM | Posts: 5 | Images: 2
i'm 24 male, f i'm not talking to a woman or in some type of situationship i can't work properly, i feel unmotivated to do anything. should i delete all social media that exposes me to women and give ...

at a crossroads Archived

Thread ID: 33262049 | Detected: 6/23/2025, 7:31:24 AM | Posts: 4 | Images: 1
tried to write out the whole complex backstory with nuance but instead just answer this. should i: a. go to college despite having no idea what i want to study or even if i could handle a normal job (...

I MISS COVID Archived

Thread ID: 33261935 | Detected: 6/23/2025, 6:52:33 AM | Posts: 6 | Images: 2
My life peaked at 18-20 years old during the COVID pandemic. I became an EMT at 16, and the second I graduated HS I was thrusted into the frontlines of the pandemic. I was doing EMS calls, I was colle...

Thread 33263596 Archived

Thread ID: 33263596 | Detected: 6/23/2025, 4:23:36 PM | Posts: 2 | Images: 1
I’ve been a neet for 8 years (37 now) What are the steps I take for 6fig jobs and will I be unhirable because of my gap? My mum is tired of my freeloading ass

Thread 33265308 Archived

Thread ID: 33265308 | Detected: 6/24/2025, 1:30:40 AM | Posts: 2 | Images: 1
How difficult is it to make your Ex an FWB after they just came out of a failed marriage? I warned her this would turn out badly when she first start seeing her loser Ex-husband. Not just me, but man...

autist trying to assess friendship Archived

Thread ID: 33262735 | Detected: 6/23/2025, 12:12:51 PM | Posts: 5 | Images: 2
>socially retarded and don't have many friends >thanks to being terminally online I do have chances to meet people though >meet a guy playing vidya that somehow turns into a friendship over time thank...

Thread 33264979 Archived

Thread ID: 33264979 | Detected: 6/23/2025, 11:24:16 PM | Posts: 3 | Images: 1
back to /adv/ I went through the archives before making this thread. Every so often I get locked up in doing this >negative feelings come >I do something negative that ends up annoying others or go ...

>be me Archived

Thread ID: 33262329 | Detected: 6/23/2025, 9:41:46 AM | Posts: 5 | Images: 1
>check out of society and the small friend group I had (2 friends) >as soon as I left they stopped talking to each other tldr; it was me keeping it all together and it all fell apart after I left

How to make peace with loneliness Archived

Thread ID: 33262843 | Detected: 6/23/2025, 1:17:30 PM | Posts: 4 | Images: 2
I was often discouraged and/or prohibited to interact with the outside world while growing up and as a result I turned out to be a very lonely and depressed adult, on top of that, I had to move 15 tim...

Staying pure and innocent Archived

Thread ID: 33264243 | Detected: 6/23/2025, 7:16:22 PM | Posts: 10 | Images: 1
I have recently realized that I hate the idea of having sex with someone who I don’t have strong feelings for. I’m waiting for marriage and want to find a girl who also is or just happens to still be ...

Thread 33259236 Archived

Thread ID: 33259236 | Detected: 6/22/2025, 7:57:10 PM | Posts: 6 | Images: 1
How can someone become a better human being?

ATOGA - Ask The Opposite Gender Anything Archived

Thread ID: 33261723 | Detected: 6/23/2025, 5:52:47 AM | Posts: 2345 | Images: 136
Former: >>33259350