back to /adv/ I went through the archives before making this thread. Every so often I get locked up in doing this >negative feelings come >I do something negative that ends up annoying others or go ...

>check out of society and the small friend group I had (2 friends) >as soon as I left they stopped talking to each other tldr; it was me keeping it all together and it all fell apart after I left

I was often discouraged and/or prohibited to interact with the outside world while growing up and as a result I turned out to be a very lonely and depressed adult, on top of that, I had to move 15 tim...

I have recently realized that I hate the idea of having sex with someone who I don’t have strong feelings for. I’m waiting for marriage and want to find a girl who also is or just happens to still be ...

How can someone become a better human being?

Former: >>33259350

Did anal, and I'm experiencing a lot of side effects since August of last year We both tested negative for HIV, and I tested negative for the primary STD's Yet ever since then, starting the very nex...

> Be me > Make more money than you've ever made in your life > Save most of it > Get laid off > Instead of looking for work, dick around for nearly a year burning money and time on savings, guitar...

Really bored, confused and lost in life. Any ideas?

So, wondering if anyone here might be able to tell me what to expect if I tell my doctor I have been deeply depressed and thinking about suicide. I have had 3 others exit (2 guns, 1 drugs) and I tried...

I've been spending more time with my boyfriend at a shared place and I noticed something. For a big portion of a day he just sits/lies and stares into space. I asked him about it and he said that he's...

There's this friend I have, they're (imma be honest/blunt here*) harder to love than any of my other friends. They're ace, emotionally reserved, and when I usually show my way of affection, that being...

My partner always insists on showering with me and cleaning my penis and butthole, the latter feels really invasive since it's probably just fingering. She doesn't do anything wrong and I don't want t...

We've had sex maybe 3-4 times. I was living somewhere that she could come and stay the night. Now I live with my mom, and she lives with hers, and we haven't had sex in like 8 months. And she never br...

What is it like to be a brothel girl or prostitute? Do they just disassociate? Do they get PTSD?

what job should a lazy faggot like myself go for? ideally not people facing

>GF has seemed a bit distant for the past couple weeks >Not wildly so but enough to notice >Except when horny, we still have good sex often What's going on? I asked her if all is good and she says ye...

How do I professionally explain to a doctor that the reason I have a septal perforation is because I did Coke for a couple months once? I see an ENT tomorrow and I hate seeming ‘casual’ around doctor...

>I have a nice face >I have good hair >Good physique because I exercise regularly >White >170cm >I can be social and fun >Women have given me looks >Some women get nervous when they talk with me >Some...

Women hate you for being too weird, men hate you for the same reasons except some of them only befriend you to fuck you, autist women are usually LGBT and/or trannies trying to be men, autist men are ...

I remember a year ago I tried make a tinder because I felt curious on what a relationship feels like. I got about 90 matches or something and tried the dating thing, the problem is: I don't feel any f...

Do you have to screw this in?I can only get one drillhole aligned because the window is jank however, i'm hearing that really the window is what holds it in. I don't have a drill to make a new drill h...

I'm autistic and artistic. Im considering doing a trade in either carpentry, landscaping, cooking, or public works. Should I do a trade (and which one), or pursue more creative endeavors?

is it normal to take concerta and be exhausted the day after? like it helps my adhd but i always take a couple days off because i am just so tired and that fucks with my productivity. i find i am real...

Does anyone have good advice for improving self-control? I'm tired of being fat. I see pictures of myself from a decade ago and they make me sad because I'm gained so much weight since then. But in th...

I'm 6'3" and I'm talking to a 4'11" girl on bumble and we're about to meet up. How does physical stuff work with such a height difference? The one other girl I've been with was on the taller side, lik...

Basically a colleague of my fried was about to throw away away a server but my fried suggested i get it instead. I did not know what exactly it was until i got it. Now im realizing that its a big, hea...

>Be male, gay, 26 >Realize I still want to be a self-hating closetfag who gets a wife, takes viagra, and thinks about men while doing it Am I fucked up for considering it? Any advice if I do want to l...

If god only helps those who help themselves, what exactly is god helping me with?

Hey. i really need to find an very fast and not painful way to $uic1de. i will be happy reading your suggestions!!!!

Showed these texts to her rebound bf. And asking him when he started dating her. What ended up happening is she ended up deleting him and all her friends. And when I tried talking to her after that. S...

When a woman is smitten with me, I am pushed away and put off. I want an out. I’ve read this is an attachment style issue. Can such a thing even be fixed?

I was skinny all my life but the past year I been eating a lot!!! And I’m slowly becoming fat and I try to exercise and eat less but I can’t I need something that can stop me from eating even if it’s ...

I got this girl’s number on the street. She looks exactly like my ex when did when I first met her. She even has similar mannerisms. I am still not over my ex. Is it therefore a bad idea to go on ...

I have a date in 3 weeks. that is a long ass time and only risks losing the energy. I don't want to leap frog the date with other activates but I also dont want to wait. we see each other once a week...

>Be me, the average guy with glasses and 105% on introversion, nothing special. My mom used to tell me (and still does) how handsome I am. When I was 16, not a big deal. When I was 18, well, not a bi...

33, I have no job because already have money so no work friends, no social media in the last 15 years so lost all the ex-friends from school-uni, tried dating apps but after years of using them i real...

What are women like when they mire men or simp for men?

Anyone else feel like women are just trying to collectively neg men, morally? Like they found out about PUA which used to be a niche internet thing and now they're putting on this whole smoke and mirr...

What are you even supposed to do as a lonely man? I am so lonely and touch-starved that i am incapable of not thinking about a woman romantically. Being around women always end in disaster because I j...

met this guy online a while ago. we talk a lot. we live in the same city but he says he won’t hang out because of the age thing. i can’t stop thinking about him. it’s been months. i thought it would ...

>be me >in college, friend tells me about a girl >she's his friend and she likes to bake >listens to him explaining what she's like >strikes me as an interesting person >2years go by and one day sudde...

What does it mean if a girl; seems to glance at me occasionally; recently approached me unprompted to talk to me, HOWEVER; we were in a group convo recently and she basically had her backed turned to ...

How do I stop being a terrible person? I was just walking home with a coffee and a donut (you know, a healthy breakfast) and some old bitch got out of her van and asked for help with … something. I do...

Can you still truly love your girl if she gave her virginity to someone else?

How do I ask Pan Piano out on a real life date? I donated 9,000 dollars to her and she likes my comments so I know she is interested. How do I ask? I never asked a woman out before and I’m worried I’l...

>Interested in female >Discovered that they were previously in a poly relationship How does your opinion change /adv/?

Neither do I but I wish there was a way to fix how my eyes usually look (the night pic) upper eyelid exposure etc like i took the morning pic right now but they are going to deteriorate soon. I wish t...

I am in college, and shouldve already graduated, but I'm so stupid and very lazy most of the time. My physical health is deteriorating rapidly (bunch of random stomach problems, whenever I get a cold ...

Why can’t I bring myself to message people anymore? I’ve always been nonverbal irl but have always been somewhat excessive with talking to people online or texting. It used to be regular for me to ha...

I am NEVER going to befriend any girl online anymore. Met one that was perfect in every single way (great ass, great looks, great music taste, always questioned everything in terms of politics, we tho...

i bought a wedge of asiago from the store to grate over chicken and pasta and it was super pungent! as soon as i opened it i was knee deep in the stink zone, it was like the elephants at the zoo bad! ...

23 yo professional student musician and I'm going to be ALONE FOREVER. 1/4 American men die every year having never been married. I will be amongst them. How am I not supposed to fail into despair? Th...

Is it a good idea to put deodorant on your crotch? I've noticed that my pants have always been stinky, and people have complained. But I recently started putting deodorant on my balls, and it has mad...

Scared to spend money. I have a fair chunk saved yet I'm scared to spend 400€ on a flight. Or anything luxury that isn't needed. How do I overcome this save save save habit

For the first time in my life, at age 32, a woman is interested in me. We went out on a date, have flirty conversations, it's pretty nice, I don't want to fuck this up. Do I tell her I'm a virgin? If...

I got brain damage from being a terminally online shut-in for many years and now I feel it easier to communicate in English than in my mother tongue. My rizz capabilities specifically are all English ...

I feel like a family member would try to poison me in a subtle way but i'm fairly sure i'm just imagining it. One of my parents has schizophrenia. I've done weird things in the off chance someone was ...

Found out my Jahovas Witness GF had an affair with her swinger boss before she met me while we all worked at the same job AMA

Is there a type of therapist I could talk to about crimes without them contacting the police? Besides Priests.

I'm not talking about the students who are working retail part time. I'm talking about the ones stuck working there for thirty years and that's their only career option. Are they retarded?

I think my dad is a faggot, and I think I was treated like the scapegoat in my family/abused to hide that he's the dysfunctional one. I know that he was abused by his dad growing up and he had it rou...

I'm neurodivergent (AuDHD). My dating life is better than this of majority of diagnosed autists, I'm probably in like top 3%. But it's still noticibly worse than dating and sex life or average normie....

how do i approach this conversation? i’ve been exclusively dating this girl for almost 2 months now. i am ready and quite confident she is waiting for me to make the move. never made it official befor...

Humanity has never had it better. Haven't you heard? Jews are losing bigly and we are winning, in fact we have already won and everything is great now. Patriots are in control. If you aren't living ...

If you had the chance to talk to something — anonymously — about things like rejection, fear of failure, or the lack of emotional connection in your life… would you? I’m currently developing a chatbot...

Does anyone have the video of a bomb making tutorial? There was this guy that made a tutorial for a bomb at home, i dont remember a lot though. You can also give me onion links. Thanks)

I’m engaged for half a year and in relationship for 5 years. I recently met my friend that is a dentist now and does my teeth, she’s also in long relationship and engaged. In the past we shared info ...

I recently remembered something that I did when I was a child, a teenager, it's been many years and I guess I forgot about it, but one night in bed, something clicked, and it all came back to me, and ...

What kind of facial surgery I need to have this jawline?

I just had sex with a hot Chinese prostitute. What should I do now bros?

Im very addicted and i want to quit but struggle too. Please help me, how can i quit

my boyfriend is great, he's very kind and he is also politically similar and has a nice family, and I met him at the church we both attend at university. My religion is so important to me and I though...

Am I going to look weird to people if I have two girlfriends and we live together and when people ask we tell them that we're in a polyamorous relationship?

Ok, 10th try. I don’t know how to use this site. I just thought I’d try it out to make friends in the same state. Someone PLEASE help me figure out how to use this site on mobile

How can I figure out the truth of matters? I feel like I have a natural gift. Sometimes, I feel like I there are certain detectives that are even worse at it than me. Like they won’t even pull the tri...

You know when you're walking down a hallway and you're walking on the right side, but someone is walking approaching opposite direction but on their left side, and when they get close they don't switc...

Fem anons I have a question. Do women think less of a guy who rims their asshole? Like if you hook up with a guy and he starts by licking your asshole do you think less of him afterwards and lose all ...

>25 >fatigue, endless >tried going to gym for 3 months >did not cure the fatigue >no meaning >I live with family, I don't love my family, I don't love my girlfriend, my life is... LE ARTIFICIAL >have ...

>have 3 degrees >make 80k a year at 26 >will have a salary of 100k in 5 years >will have a salary of 120k in 10 years Is this enough for a black guy to get an Asian wife with? Or do I need even mo...

How can I marry a woman with generational wealth and quit my job?

Literally how do I just exist in public without having some kind of excuse? I always bring a book or a laptop to feel like I have the "right" to be there by occupying myself If I just sit there lookin...

Is it even possible to be happy in this world we live in?

My girlfriend likes to dress sexy every once in a while, nothing too crazy, just maybe a short skirt or a little cleavage here and there. she's also got a tramp stamp of a rose, which can be seen when...

Hola, la verdad no sabia a quien contarle esto pero lo que pasa es nos ofrecieron una "oferta" la cual consiste en tener relaciones con mi novia mientras nos graban y subirlo a alguna página, la verda...

>get /fit/ >move out of parents house >get in a band and play original music that I wrote >fuck 20 something hot college women as a 30 year old man >get a large retro video game collection >travel to ...

im sick of being poor bros >tfw 28yrs flip >already im in hard mode >barely passed college and got an IT degree >tfw dreamt of becoming a digital artist or gamedev, but dreams have been dashed >colle...

I had a hard time getting a job after college, so when I finally got offered a position doing support work for a local company, I leapt in without looking. Without revealing too much, I think I made ...

I hate women but I want to have sex with women. Has anyone found a workaround to address this issue?

ITT We ask the opposite gender anything - with a few exceptions (see below). This a thread for questions and answers. If what you're posting is not a reply to another anon, it *MUST* be in the form o...

This is insane, tell me wtf would you do in this situation. >be me >cuddling with a gf in my room >she starts looking at the shelf part of the table >her face looks like she's planning something >as...

I work remotely and I want to live in NYC. I'm not getting any younger and I want to experience it before I'm a crusty oldfag. Of course I'm a fucking poorfag by NYC standards, so I'd be slumming it. ...

I’m new to aged cheeses. This has been sitting in my fridge for a while and expiration date says July 29th 2025. 1. Is this mold? 2. If it is mold is this safe to eat or do I need to cut around it or...

hey male 19 here I am tired of pefiles and other ext I started as I like to call it hunting pedifiles and other people who do stuff to animals or childen I have spent 3 years hunting them finding them...

Took her virginity. Then I broke up with her because she claimed she cheated on me. But later said "I wanted you to think you could lose to me". She begged, but she had done this many times. She sai...

Am I a loser if I've never had a gf?

Why do people say the 2000s were "the good times" when they were already pozzed compared to 90s? 2000s had 9/11, Israel wars, financial crises, "made in China" outsourcing, neoliberalism/neocons, SUVs...

So i’m 19 years old with still one year left of high school and i’m stuck living in a highly dysfunctional family which routinely degrade and patronize me. Regarding my age i’m treated as a complete f...

Why do I cry when people raise their voice and how do I change that and not be sensitive?

These drugs completely destroyed my life and my career, and turned me into an addict. They made me hate my life and want to kill myself, which I never did before taking them. They destroyed all my mot...

Is everybody on 4chan joking all the time? Are you guys always joking? I can't tell anymore. I can't tell if you are joking are you joking? How do i know whats real anymore?

They have destroyed any and all chance for me to live a life that I'm satisfied with, while they get to live their dreams and not have to think even once about what they've done to me. They keep movin...

>that mid chick who thinks and acts like she's a 10/10 What is this phenomenon called?

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How hard is dating as a man of size? I’m 310lbs and 5’9, but I make ok money and have all my hair Could I get a college aged girl with these stats? I’m out almost every weekend

My girlfriend is dying. I won't go into details, but her time is limited. I've asked her for a child. She refused. She says it would break her heart knowing the child would grow up without her. She l...

I deliberately became a loser neet so that women have one less good man available on the dating market. I wasted away all my potential for the sole purpose of becoming a burden on wagies finances and ...

I feel like I’m denying myself growth because I cling to this idea of a clean valent life. I have made myself into a person that choses to help others in everyway I can, but I feel like that gives peo...

la la verdad no sabia a quien contarle esto pero lo que pasa es que nos ofrecieron una "oferta" la cual consiste en tener relaciones con mi novia mientras nos graban para después publicarlo o venderlo...

Does sitting near someone show them you're not afraid of them?

I have a really really negative view of life and im angry a lot, i just have a lot of trouble seeing life as good, what do i do, i cant figure out what to

>dating gf three months >birthday coming up >planned gift, $400 (a bespoke corset from her dream fashion designer) >found out her “main” gift for me cost around $80 but she plans to have multiple smal...

What happens if you tell debt collectors you're broke and going to yill kourself?

I think I've finally come to realization that I'm not interested in a romantic relationship with women. I've been talking to the girl on Hinge for a bit and I hardly feel any motivation to respond. Ev...

I'm very conflicted because I would like to be catholic because its based and tradpilled, but i also want to be able to perform vasectomies on my patients, and I also don't actually know if I really b...

Donald J. Trump is guilty of treason against the people of the United States and an Israeli foreign agent.

my father took it away from me because im a neet and i dont "need it" apparently i agree with him somewhat but he was very abrupt, i had no warning. it was the 36mg dose. it is day 4 and im starting t...

But how do I overcome being gay? Firstly, to clarify, I'm not a full blown homosexual, I wouldn't really say I'm "attracted to men", and secondly, I'm not just going to "accept" this thing about mysel...

first date last night, think it went pretty well. i texted saying i had fun and we should do it again soon and she said definitely we should. what's the proper time to text her about a second date? i ...

Is there anyone here that isn’t a porn addict?? And does anyone wanna chat and be friends lol

im prescribed dexamphetamine for my ADHD. usually i take 5mg in the morning and 5mg in the afternoon so it can last all day because i take the short effect ones. i took 10mg at once this morning bec...

My friend was browsing the 4chan archive, instead of normal 4chan, and he found illegal content. He clicked on it to check if it was in fact illegal, and if so, to report it. He clicked on all of the...

I got laid off on my job last month when the place shut down through no fault of my own and now I have been looking for a career and trying to get unemployment. Thing is I don't have a lot of skills t...

How can i cope with the fact that i ruined my body by being fat, now when i try to lose weight i will have loose skin and look disgusting. How do you make peace with your sex and love life being over ...

Hey this is my first and last post on here. Got my heartbroken. Yesterday she told me that she loves me and today she says I'm a stalker. I'm not even sad, I'm just numb, like im done with everything....