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How to calm down my wife Archived
Hi /adv/, looking how to more effectively calm down my wife. I am Cuban/Mexican (though fair skin) and my wife is full blown Mexican (brown). We have been married for 1.5yrs and we have a 9 month daug...
what's wrong with me Archived
I like being alone. I've always been alone and honestly prefer it most of the time. But I just want friends/ a partner so goddamm bad sometimes
Thread 33207112 Archived
I have absolutely zero energy when I wake up but I can do a million push-ups and walk a mile in the middle of the night then I get exhausted again when the sun rises.
What causes this?
Thread 33206189 Archived
I have been reading the book of Daniel and the book of Revelation recently and was wondering what the correct way to interpret eschatology was. I read some commentaries with wildly varying views on it...
Am I Fucked? Archived
>Be me
>having a good life say stuff I don’t really mean sometimes
>still a kind hearted man living with parents
>age 17
>mom ask me to borrow money for traveling to Miami to get her tits cut and ...
Have a hot gf, but she is poor Archived
And I don't mean poor in a "she's just starting her career" kind of way, i mean she and her family have less that £500 to their name at any given time.
I am a bit older than her and run a budding mart...
how to suicide WOW SUPER ORIGINAL OH MY GOD WOW HOLY SHIT!!!!!!!! Archived
wow, what a super and omega ultra original question, anyways, last time i tried killing myself i asked in here the same question and somebody gave me a image with some information? anyways, i dont hav...
Thread 33204768 Archived
How do I survive a bear attack?
Quit my job? Archived
I got a job maintaining a government database last year. I WFH for six days doing alternating shifts and get three and a half days off. The pay isn’t bad, around minimum wage, and I have to go in the ...
Thread 33211524 Archived
I'm starting work at a gas station tomorrow. Give me advice to be the best gas station guy ever.
Thread 33197829 Archived
Why do people start singing out loud everytime they're in a room alone with me?
Bad feelings Archived
So idk if this is the right place but like I feel weird 24/7 and it doesn't go away, a lot of things have gotten better and I have friends who make me happy, YET still feel like there is a hole in my ...
Thread 33205757 Archived
I got caught driving drunk, got put in the drunk tank overnight, and have a court date in a month from now. Told my wife, she left me. Haven't told work yet but not sure what they will say.
This was...
Thread 33211364 Archived
Should I join?
advice Archived
I feel totally empty, days go by without purpose, they just pass. I get home just to cu7 mys3lf, and i dont even feel bad, i just need to feel something. I dont cry, sometimes I miss him... I do nothi...
Thread 33206292 Archived
>still have childish dreams of being a pro gamer
>28 yo
Idk what to do
Am I already failing at life? Archived
I feel like a regular guy but everyone around me talks about how I look sad or my parents are too strict. My parents tell me I'm doing a bunch wrong and need to change. I own my own neighborhood busin...
Well I fucked up. Archived
Working this project with a girl, I though I was being smooth by making her my administrative lead, but I think she saw through it as a way to talk more regularly.
It sounds trashier than it is, I m...
just got dumped. how to cope? Archived
2 year relationship down the drain. it was honestly quite toxic but in the end i did love him. idk what to do. like what do i do now? we broke up probably less than a n hour ago and i feel like shit
Thread 33211515 Archived
Being dependent in your 20s to 30s is frowned upon because it is another form of slavery that is socially acceptable.
PLEASE FUCKING HELP ME Archived
PLEASE FUCKING HELP. I'm 23 years old and wrapping up this school year. Im struggling with motivation to do ANYTHING THAT DOESNT INVOLVE ME POSSIBLY GETTING SEX OR GOING TO THE GYM. If I go to class, ...
Should I apologize? Archived
I've had a falling out with a friend we'll call Jerry for about 2-3 months. I've known him since high school. My best friend and his wife want me to apologize so we can all go out to dinner tomorrow.
...
How to be remembered as a bright light in everyone’s lives? Archived
I really want everyone to remember me as someone who always did what they were supposed to do. Someone who really, really cared, and wanted the best for everyone around them.
I want a whole fucking or...
To any addicts here. Archived
Does it really get better when you quit? Or do you just fall back into the same depression that brought you to use drugs in the first place?
Best and worst places to rent a studio in the south bay? Archived
Like, what's up with picrel? $1500 a month with 2 parking spots and utilities included in the middle of San Jose? Is this in the hood or what?
Thread 33207141 Archived
Is it retarded and weird that I've always wanted to get my ass kicked? Like that's something I want to cross off my bucket list. Like challenge a dude to a fight and then get my ass kicked? How do I a...
/atoga/ - Ask The Opposite Gender Anything Archived
ITT We ask the opposite gender (almost!) anything.
This a thread for questions and answers. If what you're posting is not a reply to another anon, it *MUST* be in the form of a question. This is NOT ...
Thread 33210641 Archived
sometimes when im in the subway i feel that a pretty girl is eyeing me up
is it even possible to approach in public transport during the workdays?
pseudogynecomastia Archived
Is it possible to get rid of pseudogynecomastia without surgery? I'm 231ibs used to be 267. I still have a long way to go but i just wanted to know if someone had it and got rid of it without surgery.
Thread 33210157 Archived
What are some things I can say to make an obese fresh off the boat African hoe soggy?
For context I'm a 6 foot tall white guy.
Thread 33210711 Archived
How do I raise my sexual standards
At first it started with fatchicks, then transsexuals, then men, then black woman and now essentially everything from body hair on woman to hyperpigmentation on th...
Thread 33210764 Archived
Posting on 4chan doesn't feel as fun/engaging anymore to me. What happened?
Thread 33207737 Archived
When it comes to recording yourself having sex, what’s the best framerate?
>24fps
>30fps
>60fps or higher
People who failed GCSE/ Performed terribly... Archived
Where are you now? How's life?
Thread 33206034 Archived
How are you supposed to approach women that you're attracted to as a complete stranger?
Thread 33203484 Archived
Is it really a deal breaker for women when a man has seen escorts? Men have sexual needs as well, and for a certain period in my life I seen probably around 30+ escorts in a span of two years. Yes I w...
Why am I so stupid? Archived
I feel my mental sharpness has been waning sharply over the years. I make a lot of small mistakes at work, which although not terrible make me look as though I overlook basic things easily. I also som...
Thread 33209730 Archived
I am a 34 yo kissless virgin. Never dated, never pursued a girlfriend or romance at all. To be honest, the last time I recall having a crush on a girl was in middle school. I would call myself asexual...
Where am I supposed to fit in as a late 20s burnout? Archived
Every subculture I’m drawn to I feel too old for, what do you do when you never grow out of your childish rebellious spirit & general disdain for society? I’m alright at socializing and people tend to...
Get It Off Your Chest (GIOYC) Archived
Can't eat anymore and it's becoming a problem Archived
Wasn't on purpose but I barely ate the past couple months. Just kinda stopped feeling hungry. Didn't even notice it until I looked in the mirror and realized I'm way underweight now. Tried to start ea...
Thread 33210039 Archived
doing pretty much anything with my girl gets me hard - holding hands, cuddling, kissing, fondling, hand stuff, mouth stuff, etc.
but when it comes time to put my penis in her vagina, i go as soft as ...
Having OCD with OCD triggering girlfriend Archived
Having a borderline radfem gf has kind of ruined me. I literally watch things now, and my OCD has infected my brain with “this is problematic, my girlfriend would hate this”. I get made uncomfortable ...
Thread 33200920 Archived
Is life for INTJ supposed to be suffering?
I don't think I've ever met anyone similar to myself, or its at least very rare.
Its like everyone else is an NPC
/atoga/ Archived
Ask the opposite gender anything
Singles dating events Archived
Has anyone here been to one? I used to do pretty okay when I was 19 and went on nights out especially compared to dating apps but that could also be because I was in better shape then and students are...
Thread 33209974 Archived
Guys I need help, I wanna start streaming, but I don’t know w to start, I mean I have huge with social anxiety it’s only speak but I have huge issues with this, any suggestions?
So exhausted all the time Archived
How to cope
Trying Alcohol Archived
t. 20F university student. Total "late bloomer"
Anons ive been wanting to plan a trip out west for my 21st birthday because all of my prior birthdays have been really disappointing, like imagine spen...
got my girlfriend's mom pregnant Archived
I've been with my girlfriend for 5 years, we've been together since high school and attend the same college now but we decided instead of living in the dorms we got a place together just off campus.
...
I met one of you freaks in the wild Archived
avoiding wall of text, met a cute girl, she wanted to meet up right away great i wanna fuck. she shows me her tits and comes over. in under an hour she pullouts a gun, does a couple lines of coke call...
is it stupid to take the SAT/ACT at 22 years old? Archived
i never went to highschool and im gonna apply for college. i take the ACT in 3 days and i feel like a fool because im gonna be sitting around a bunch of HS kids at 22.
Soured Impression on Love and Relationships Archived
I feel like my impression on love, women, and relationships has soured because of my life.
I won't really go into a sob story or over-explain but I feel this way often and feel like love just doesn't...
this can not be legal Archived
aurora missouri school district use this for disable children as punishment as well as sitting on children even child with bloody noise after new covreage parents coming forward is the only way to cha...
Thread 33204747 Archived
>be me
>go about my day
>suddenly, get *sexually violated* by a random stranger
>it doesn't go the full way, but it's really bad (I don't want to describe in detail)
>feel horrible about myself
>absol...
Thread 33209579 Archived
I knew the CTO of Facebook 5 chats not even in aim chatrooms it was like from 1995 (I was born in 1991) until 2002 we'd chat one day the unfriendly neighborhood homophobes constantly I mean constantly...
I just want to fuck Archived
Should i be straight honest about my intentions from the beginning on tinder? And how should i do it?
How to get invited to parties? Archived
I mean, I already got a friend with whom I would go to clubs, but he wants just to get drunk, while I want to get drunk and talk with some pretty girls. And clubs in my country are usually full of tur...
I just found out I have Archived
Hand herpes how do I cope?
I'm a virgin
/ATOGA/ - Ask The Opposite Gender Anything Archived
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recovery from 5 hours sleep Archived
How long will it take to recover from sleeping 5 hours a night for 5 years? Just got laid off so I'll be unemployed in a few weeks.
Only on weeknights.
Still, that's around 3800 hours of missed slee...
Thread 33202714 Archived
Girl I’ve been seeing for the past 2 months practically blocked me from everything for going to my sisters graduation. Her reasoning was I put myself in a situation where there were other girls around...
How can you be sure that your on the right path?? Archived
How do i make the correlation that what im doing with my life is what needs to be done.
>its been 3 years that i have been on this career path but is this my calling ???
I don't like God's plan for my life Archived
I try to do things myself
> Nothing works out
I pray to God for help
> Nothing works out
I do nothing
> Nothing works out
What do I do? It all feels hopeless and pointless
Thread 33207159 Archived
>nigga stole my bike
>he probably needed it more than me
>total happiness in the world increased
I am very weak
I unironically have this mindset. I would rather lose, I'm quite OK with losing and bein...
How do I become a plapjak? Archived
I love fat chicks so it's literally not a compromise for me. Where do I find chubby girls willing to hook up because it's supposed to be soooo easy i guess. I'm in the US btw
Thread 33209245 Archived
I have this female coworker who I began dating a few months back. She has bpd and a son. She Essentially confessed her feelings to me at her apartment, and I let her know that I felt the same. So We'v...
my school rep is fucked Archived
Basically what happened is that i posted a rage bait instagram note about ice and bitches got too pressed over it. Im talking about these mfrs posted me on their stories (mostly the gay kids) talkin a...
need health insurance /adv/ice Archived
>be me
>25
>trying to work in academia
>grad school admissions fucked
>nothing to do for a year
>trying to get a job
>preferably one w enough leeway for me to improve my application
>nobody is hiring ...
Thread 33205918 Archived
Does hating on a girl, as a man, make you look gay? There's this girl at work I don't particularly like and I've been somewhat vocal about it whenever someone brings up the topic, but the other day so...
Weird spot in vision Archived
For about a week now I've had this weird spot in my peripheral vision. It looks kinda like what you see after looking at a bright light, except it isn't going away. It seems to go away temporarily whe...
Thread 33207789 Archived
I'm pushed so far past my limit. I'm doing a 2 man job alone for work, fixing things around my home that break because the landlords suck and won't fix anything, taking care of my inlaws home because ...
Thread 33208780 Archived
Is /WSR/ or /R/ better for tech and software questions? /G/ is useless.
Sometimes I ask tech questions here since at least you try to help.
Anyone knows if it is possible for an individual to make h...
disgusting lower 3rd Archived
What are my options for fixing my lower 3rd? An orthodontist told me I don't technically have an overbite just the appearance of one which makes me question if I really need braces or not. I don't min...
Thread 33204982 Archived
What program(s) do I need to inlay images on videos like in that temperature sign.
How to cope with hard work? Archived
I have dyslexia, OCD, and ADHD and I can't take ADHD meds because they fuck up my blood pressure and they're ineffective. So I don't take any stimulants. Not even atomoxetine. Not gonna do it.
IQ's 11...
Dysphoria Archived
>start cutting myself because I hate my body
>cuts make my body look even worse
>cut more cause I hate my body
>cuts make body look even worse
I am so fucking retarded, why can't I stop this
Thread 33207010 Archived
Friend of mine died recently
His last post was a extremely cringe Bart Simpson crying edit to xxxtentacion
All forms of empathy went out the window, I didn’t care anymore cause I found him cringe ...
A boyfriend with blondish pubes will cure my depression Archived
I feel no joy in life other than when I am cuddling with a eu guy with blue eyes, lightishs pubes who is in his mid to late twenties. Please date me
Thread 33203265 Archived
I'm really self conscious about my body and my gross balls and penis. Why couldn't God give me one attractive body part? How do I cope?
Classism at work? Archived
Now I’ve always been super social - I went to so many house parties, clubs, races, met girls etc.
I started 3 months ago as a consultant in a big, globally known accounting company. All other grads ...
Too much of a coward Archived
For most of my life, I've always had the same problem: I'm almost incapable of socializing. I feel so mediocre and awkward that I'm afraid people will hate me, so I'm avoidant. But I'm almost an adult...
Setting myself up for happiness when my life is about to implode Archived
This is a wild situation to be in. Basically long story short, my parents are locking in my arranged marriage next year. I thought I could bow out from sheer embarassment because I'm a NEET bum at 28 ...
Thread 33206494 Archived
How do I ask out the waitress at my local Asian restaurant? What’s something that will spark her interest?
It’s one of those restaurants where they sit you down then you have to write the menu number...
Thread 33206465 Archived
How do I get into this chicks social circle if I have no mutual friends with her and it's been years since we've talked to each other or been in contact?
Found out my son is a gay porn star Archived
>be me
>Have 20 year old son currently in college
>Got a little horny last night And decide to browse pornhub for a bit
>Stumble upon a thumbnail with a familiar face
>Watch for a little bit to see th...
Thread 33206808 Archived
If a blatant argument has no concrete evidence or who you are with is superficial, do not worry about them, other than move on with your life doing great things you are meant to do.
Thread 33192865 Archived
Where am I supposed to draw the line in my life between reasonable and unreasonable expectations of sex in marriage? I admit it, I watch porn more than I should but idk if that's all my own fault or i...
Thread 33207302 Archived
Pussy hunting... Just follow my gut, right?
It tells me to join some discords and try to find a nerdy qt
Thread 33207409 Archived
How do I date hot 20 year old women as a 34 year old man?
Is the manlet intimidated? Archived
Is he the most intimidating or is he intimidated by the tall guys?
Where do I meet women during the summer? Archived
I'm a college student, where and how am I supposed to meet and find girls when school is out?
I had a break up and I don't know where to get a new girlfriend outside of school
How do I know if my ex is into me? Archived
She came over to my room last night with a friend and after she bailed on us after 10 minutes we spent like 3 to 4 hours just talking and laughing together. We haven't spoken like this in months and i...
Thread 33204791 Archived
Any femanons here? What can I do to improve my face?(Besides getting leaner)
Thread 33205134 Archived
Why do people hate me?
How to make sure she's a virgin? Archived
This is not another "I'll only date virgins or none at all", I've dated both virgin girls and girls who had sex before meeting me, I have nothing against it.
Thing is for reasons that I'll not go into...
/atoga/ - Ask The Opposite Gender Anything Archived
ITT We ask the opposite gender (almost!) anything.
This a thread for questions and answers. If what you're posting is not a reply to another anon, it *MUST* be in the form of a question. This is NOT ...
Any tips or advices for my Foreign Language exam and project? Archived
I have about...20 hours left before My verbal Exam. What do I do to efficiently use my time to memorize at least Katakana Characters on time?
Also, I have an upcoming Katakana Test on Saturday, so ye...
How can I tell Archived
I have a mom-son fetish which I obviously cannot confess to her but how could I bring up a more sugar-coated way of telling her about my fetish?
Thread 33204797 Archived
Im a half retarded loser with no prospects living out of my moms place and im pushing 30. Ive meditated on this for a long time and life the way im living doesnt have any more to offer me. so instead ...
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Can I get a porn site to take down pics that aren't mine? Archived
I have no idea how, but I found out that nudes only she and I ever had access to were uploaded to a porn site years ago. I was a dumbass in my youth and didn't protect/hide sensitive files like the nu...
Thread 33205697 Archived
>can’t drive
>34
>ugly
>neet. No job since 2017
>autism. 85 iq brainlet
>fear of flying animals
>never interacted with a girl irl
>only friend is a methhead
Seriously it feels over. Can I be salvage...
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Giving up on woman? Archived
>>33194022
I just needed to write this somewhere. I need someone to put some fucking sense into me.
I've been a KHHV my whole life. My first --and last-- love was a BPDemon that tore me to pieces. We...
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Need to hide a box-sized amount of... stuff from my family. 50x50cm max. Serious. Archived
I live on a 2500m family farm. There’s the main house, some extra buildings (bathrooms, animal sheds), and I have my own room.
I need to hide a collection of items that, together, would fit in a box r...
Thread 33204067 Archived
How has your life changed after being diagnosed with autism? I probably have the tism, but every other average becky stealing valor by claiming to have autism when you wouldn't be able to tell unless ...
Thread 33170110 Archived
Is it unreasonable of me to not be friends with people who don't use headphones while in public or rooms with strangers?
Thread 33203871 Archived
>went out with girl
>had a good time
>agree to hangout again
>setup hangout for today
>confirm date
>she says shes down but asked if it was cool that she invited her guy friend
So I got 2 options now...
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I’m done with being hateful and I want to heal my heart Archived
I broke my six month long streak of watching no gore and as I watched videos of combatants and robbers getting killed, I felt excitement. I felt excitement that justice was done, even if the combatant...
weird eating discipline question Archived
For years I've needed to lose weight, I'm right on the cusp of having to switch from metformin to actually shooting insulin and I'm on ozempic as a last ditch this year
Even after I've eaten my meal ...
Questioning Life Path Archived
Help, my family always indoctrinated me that I have to become an engineer or an architect or some shit like that, but I don't really care about those things. I don't want to work for any company at al...
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Thread 33206044 Archived
Why does my eye hurt, it feels like there's something in there but i've hit it with the eyedrops a couple times
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literally is there any way to get an actual lobotomy Archived
i genuinely think it would fix me just a few severed brain nerves and life wont be so fucking impossible to live with but like they dont fucking do them anymore. like. can i go pay for it and sign pap...
Thread 33203908 Archived
Any Ulcerative Colitis or Chron's anons on here?
Thread 33202075 Archived
Let the world be its weird self and you keep going despite it.
I beat up my GF and her brother and have a warrant Archived
Long story short,
I have been w my gf for 2 years now.
I found out she cheated on me with a co-worker at medschool.
I had a strange suspension when she was in the shower something was off. I get on he...
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Should I quit /fit/ness? Archived
I'm at a crossroads anons. I'm 23, single, khv, black and still living with my parents. I'm 6 foot with a skinny physique. I'm not a TOTAL dyel but I could benefit from the looks department from lifti...
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violent sibling Archived
my sisters an aggressive paranoid cunt who's accused me of putting bleach in her shampoo. today she confronted me and punched me and tried to trash my laptop, and is threatening to beat up my face and...
Thread 33202747 Archived
how do i cope if im solitudemaxxing?
how ambitious should your gf be for marriage material? Archived
what are the traits to look for long term
what are some red flags
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Bullying Archived
Someone thought they were a killer and sent some threats here’s him and mommy and there instas :)
Thread 33195656 Archived
I can't stand the way that 95% of people speak online nowadays. Just a catalog of accepted phrases, valley girlisms or ebonics.
Where do I go that's not filled with these people?
Thread 33202821 Archived
hate birthdays
hate christmas
hate new years eve
hate chinese new year
hate eid
hate diwali
hate weddings
hate funerals
anyone else? these "special days" send me into a 3 day long depression.
How can I get rid of a scat fetish? Archived
I want to shit on a girls mouth but I know that won't happen so I want to get rid of it
Why am I like this?
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What's a good third place for gamers? Archived
I grew up in a foreign country and have basically zero friends. The only people I talk to are from work. I've tried going to events and I've gotten numbers but it basically goes nowhere because there'...
Just how fucked is modern dating/marriage situation?? Archived
For context, I've been out in the trenches irl trying meet up with women in person and I've been friendzoned, or better to call it, "brozoned" on atleast 8 different occassions over the past 3 years. ...
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