>>33452689
OP here again (I’m like 3/4 of the posts):
Not to be raunchy, but can you describe the kink stuff? I have had threesomes and foursome with women who all acted submissive, and one who demanded to be hit (we had a safe word). To be honest, they had a great time and it became a regular thing, taking shrooms and being intimate. One woman had a hard birth, so she’d pee when she came and it wasn’t a big issue for all the participants. I think the taboo of bodily functions (and resultant kinks) is antithetical to most relationships, as anyone in a dedicated relationship gets pretty comfy with each others poop stink, body odor, period blood, and urine. Being accepting of that makes the variety of sex more versatile than just vanilla missionary.
As for other kinks, like BDSM, those are easy to achieve and develop. I worked as a hypnotist, so I would set anchors that I could telegraph to my gf in “prim and proper setting” until she’d be bursting at the seams to get relief. As long as she knows that I won’t hurt her but be able to bring her up to the line of novelty without harm, they lived it.