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Thread 33313861 Archived
My girl best friend, who's also an ex from 2 years ago, is in love with me. We stopped talking when we broke up and I got into a new relationship since but now I'm single again and we've gotten closer...
Thread 33312585 Archived
How do I stop trying to look for relationships or situationships? I haven't dated anyone in a while, but I still constantly try to fill that missing piece of someone else. I don't care how long that t...
Thread 33312870 Archived
Give it to me straight: is there any hope for the future?
Losing Weight Archived
In order for me to actually lose weight even a little bit, I need to consume around 1400 calories per day.
>But... why?
Because I am racist against exercise. Also, I am short.
Anyway...
Taking a loo...
Coping with brown inferiority Archived
How do I cope with being an inferior brown boy especially as I grew up on /pol/ along with a 95% white high school? White guys are the tallest, smartest, strongest, most attractive, wealthiest, bigges...
Thread 33312224 Archived
>Just landed a job as a substitute teacher
>Tell my mom because I’m excited about the opportunity
>”You should get two jobs anon that’s not good enough”
>Tell her I wish she just told me good job and...
Curing my Autism Archived
How do I cure my autism? I'm tired of it ruining my life. I can barley make any friends because of it, let alone get a girlfriend. It's fucked me too hard for too long now. I just want to have some me...
Your /adv/ of the day. Archived
If you are a female, your goal is to capture the seed of a high ranking male. If you are a male, your goal is to continually level up.
That's it. All there is to it.
You're welcome.
Can we have a thread about money? Archived
Talk about money: ideas on how to earn more, how to spend less and everything in between
>inb4 Go to /biz/
/adv/ is about advice, so I can ask for money advice here.
Thread 33311590 Archived
How do I ask my friend if she reciprocates the romantic feelings I have for her while shifting all of the pressure and stress from me onto her?
Dealing with self hating white parents Archived
I’m an adult but I still live at home with my parents. I love my parents and don’t mean to diss on them, but they’re both self hating whites and super liberal. My mom literally just told me she doesn’...
Thread 33313224 Archived
So my friends have told me to start talking about the issue, so i'm gonna just throw it here.
My friend got some news, their dad died. They weren't close to him, hardly knew him. But they wanted to me...
Just got my IQ tested, scored 79. Archived
I feel like a defective piece of shit retard...it's probably because I am. Gonna blow my brains out soon, so I can help clean the gene pool. Unless you anons know any way to increase my INT stat?
Thread 33313729 Archived
My mom raised me and my older brother as a poor single mom. I now think is a narcissistic bitch. I KNOW for a fact that she will never admit any of mistakes she made when raising me (she treated me li...
Nude leak Archived
How do I cope with getting my nudes leaked? This has not happened but it will tomorrow unfortunately and there's nothing I can do to stop it. Huge betrayal and man if he sees this thread I will just d...
Thread 33313266 Archived
What motivational advice would you give to someone that limbless, blind, deaf, and mute? (You would be able to communicate with them by writing letters on their skin)
Pushing Archived
I’m too much of a pussy to kill my self. I realized how much of my life I’ had let slip by me. I couldn’t let a diagnosis ruin my life because I am essentially killing myself in a sense. Anxiety ruine...
Relationship advice? Archived
I'm 22 and there is 17 yo girl that's into me and she's initiating relationship. I'm neet and have never been in a relationship. What do I do? This may be my only chance to be with a woman and also a ...
Thread 33309540 Archived
how do i relate to other people? Is it possible to live a decent life once you've failed milestones? How can someone gracefully handle starting late in life?
Got put in a psych ward Archived
I took way too much bendryl and apparently the police got called up to my parents cottage and they found me hiding in the anchor well of a boat.
They took me out of the compartment and accused me of ...
Thread 33283863 Archived
Is sex without a condom really that much better or not really?
/atoga/ - Ask the Opposite Gender Anything Archived
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I got poisoned Archived
My MIL has a pot of meltable microplastics for some miniature crafts and somebody in the family put it in my waterbottle, toast, pasta and crocs. There are no children in the house so it must have bee...
Thread 33312949 Archived
is it easier to talk, (and make connections) to people irl or online? I haven't had a genuine conversation with anyone in years so please recommend with unironic tips to start making friends, please a...
dunno wtf to do Archived
I'm 24M, graduated a year ago. Didn't socialize at all during college because COVID made my schooling online and because of the poor asian family grindset. For the past few years I only cared about ge...
Thread 33313073 Archived
Why do I keep passing out when someone yells at me or I do public speaking? Any anons have this type of experience?
always tired around 9-12AM Archived
even if i sleep for 8h i get so fucking tired around 9am
how do i overcome/fix this?
Thread 33312626 Archived
What causes a momcest fetish? Is there a cure?
Thread 33312494 Archived
how to stop being needy over a woman? We aren’t dating, but she might be interested
Thread 33312561 Archived
My dumbass friend just let me eat 50 milligrams worth of weed gummies without telling me what they were. I've never smoked weed or done edibles before. What the fuck am I in for soon? How do I get thr...
Thread 33312727 Archived
Why the hell is so difficult for me to do anything work or studies related?, i can't read or write anything for my essay without it feeling like torture, i constantly daydream or switch tabs just to a...
Thread 33312468 Archived
A boomer on my route today told me "don't be bashful" after offering me a bottle of water
How do I not be bashful? To me it seems wise to minimize my presence. I've always thought women preferred it t...
Thread 33312132 Archived
I feel like I've hit a brick wall with trying to improve my social skills. I am better at making small talk with people now but I still can't forge connections or be natural with people. It is startin...
Thread 33311384 Archived
how do i get my gf to stop doomscrolling and thinking her life is "over"?
her and i both graduated university a year ago in computer related fields. we got jobs as teachers and she fucking hates it. ...
I can't get a job Archived
I'm a 25-year-old Canadian and I've been unemployed for 2 years now. It's been making me really depressed on top of other issues.
I've applied online and in person. I follow up over the phone or some...
Thread 33307408 Archived
>I am very addicted to my primal urges.
>I binge eat, masturbate excessively, have to very often fight the urge to go see a prostitute (I have spent more money than I would like to admit) and have fal...
Gf hates sex Archived
How do i not finish so fast? My gf and i were about to have sex and after 2 thrusts i finished. This happens every time. I'm very anxious but i want her to be pleased. I feel like i don't satisfy her....
Thread 33312317 Archived
Is it possible to make a blood oath to accomplish a goal or do you need two people for it?
I have maybe 400 Emotional IQ. Archived
AMA if you need advice.
Holiday Depression Archived
I get Depressed super fast around the holidays. And 4th of july is gonna suck hard. Alll my friends are visiting each other and their family’s are gonna be occupied. But im here fkn sick AND for years...
How to stay loyal Archived
I wanna cheat on my bf. It pains me, I wish I didn’t have these impulses. I pride myself on being as loyal as a dog, however, whenever I get this weird feeling he doesn’t love me, my brain IMMEDIATELY...
What is the best way to attract people to my stream? Archived
I recently broke up with my girlfriend, so I’ve been streaming alone. Honestly, I don’t know what to do. I stopped making clips for my other social media because I don’t feel the need to talk, be funn...
how to stop porn and jacking off Archived
I have been in a relationship for about 4 years now, I love her so much. We are great together but I have been addicted to porn now for maybe 2 years. In that 2 years we have had sex maybe three times...
G.I.O.Y.C Archived
Vent here
Navigating a break-up? Archived
How do I navigate this?
>want to break up with girlfriend
>both are 26 years old
>started dating November 2023
>we live together and have a 12 month lease we needed to pay in advance, paid a month ago...
Thread 33308656 Archived
>at small event with friends and my fiancée
>her bestie scrolling through Insta
>"lmao girl your ex got some girl pregnant, didn't he say he didn't want kids? maybe he just didn't want them with you"
...
Should I show her these paintings? Archived
There's this girl I work with, whom I was taken with at first sight. I'm interested in her for who she is, the way she walks, talks, dresses, does her hair, etc.. And she's beautiful, too. I think she...
Its over Archived
Failed my road test today.
Permit expires in less than two weeks.
Im 26. There are 16 yos driving.
Before I off myself at the manhattan bridge this evening, what should I do legally to address any...
A way out Archived
>37
>NEET for basically entire life
>no high school or college education
>dropped out of school in 9th grade
>never worked
>have left house maybe 6times in past 15 years
>0 social skills
>obese
>neve...
how to come down from a fap bender Archived
hi all so its the middle of summer vacation for me right now and i litterly have had nothing to do for a good while thought i do have something coming up soon.
anyways becuse of the lack of things i ...
Moral dilemma cause why not Archived
Let's say you one day see a 20 something ready to throw themselves of a bridge, and are suddenly granted with intricate knowledge of their life. Right now the 20 something, let's call them K, is extre...
I use to see escort and i'm deeply ashamed Archived
I use to see escorts for about 10 years. I feel disgusted with the whole thing now. I feel like a rapist or prevert. Anyway How do i get over this?
it's legal where i live, so i know it's not insane...
HOW DO I ROP SONGS OFF YOUTUBE Archived
HOW? HOW DO I DO IT?
Thread 33309859 Archived
>21 years old
>no job
>haven't had a friend since april 2015
>no car
>no drivers license
>only 13 dollars to my name
>shitty PC
>sleep on the floor
>recessed chin
>bad jawline
>hair is starting to thi...
I wish to learn: Archived
- Pure and applied mathematics
- Electrical Engineering
- Computer Science
- Core concepts of Software engineering
- Philosophy (From Ancient Greece to Contemporary)
- Physics (classical and modern)
-...
Thread 33303487 Archived
what advice would you give an ignorant 28 years old who's just now about to face the real world? I wasted half my 20s and spent the other half up to now working in a trade, no gf, grew apart from frie...
Thread 33311654 Archived
My bd is coming up(early 30s) and I've been abstaining from alcohol for a couple of months now, planning on going teetotal for ever.
But I feel I need something to alter my mind on my bd and I really ...
Getting bullied by girls on dating apps Archived
trying to put myself out there more and joined Hinge because I thought the girls on here are meant to be more mature than on Tinder but I keep getting messages where they make rude or meanspirited com...
Thread 33305528 Archived
i feel like i have such horrible hair and i dont know what i can do anymore ive tried anti thinning shampoos ive tried oils and different conditioners . i got a buzz cut last year bc it was worse than...
Lost my comfy WFH job, how do I get a job as a bartender? Archived
Lost my office job and started going to stenography school, but I want to be working in the meantime. How do I go about applying at a local brewery or bar if they dont have anywhere to apply online? D...
/atoga/ - Ask the Opposite Gender Anything Archived
ITT: We ask the opposite gender (almost) anything.
This thread has no rules of its own. The only rules are the 4chan site rules and the /adv/ board rules.
We do have a request, please keep your post...
Thread 33311088 Archived
Is it even possible to find a moid that isn't porn-brained and thinking about sex 24/7?
life is strange Archived
I am paranoid schizophrenic and have aspergers the thing I need advice with is that other people bother me with it I like to actually be in social settings and go out and go for walks around the city ...
Trans goes to prison and needs help Archived
Copied from LGBT:
Hi, I´m a former twink/femboy going the commercial trans/shemale route. Idc if I´m just gay, autogynophil or really trans. I had relationships and intercourse with men since I´m 19 ...
How to find my "dream" Archived
How can I find my "dream?" You know, the thing they always ask kids and teenagers. I don't have any clue on what I want to do in the "adult world" whatsoever. I have never known.
How do I find this ...
Thread 33310790 Archived
so errm are there any lasik complications? Can you recover from that?
Thread 33311393 Archived
i told my ex she is autistic and now she won’t talk to me.
she said “i don’t want you to diagnose me”
but she clearly is! she won’t talk to me now, not that i care much. but if i was to approach her ...
I CAN'T BREED Archived
I really love having sex with my girlfriend but I can't orgasm/cum. It's kinda nice in a way because I can last really long before getting tired and I can finish her several times an hour, but still I...
Age gaps in a relationship - what's the reality? Archived
What's it like to be a man in a relationship with a woman who is 7 years older than you? In this case, 23 and 30.
I've only ever dated women who were, coincidentally, within a 2-month age window from...
Hook up culture Archived
Im trying to get into hook up culture but it truly breaks my heart but I just don't fall in love with those girls and the girls I do fall in love with they don't like me. Dammit. Hook up culture truly...
WHERE CAN I COOM? Archived
How do I get pussy if I am 32 years old and I live with my folks? (Grown ass Virgin btw)
I work a shitty job, but I have a couple hot co-workers I think I might have a shot with… But how / where am I...
Urgent Archived
Okay guys, here is the problem, I going to meet my ex tomorrow, things can take another way or not, but today for some reason my dick can't stay up, what should I do??? I even bought some cialis 5mg b...
Thread 33302322 Archived
How come even though I'm a heterosexual male, it's not in my nature to pursue women?
Thread 33310203 Archived
I used to be an alcoholic drug addicted club crawler and you wouldn't believe how many guys like this there are. They're 6'3" with hair like a shampoo commercial and a jawline that can cut glass. They...
How to set goals and achieve them? Archived
What are some useful ways I can make sure the things I want to do happen?
Thread 33306953 Archived
please give me advice on how to date women who are taller than me
it might be hopeless but if i ever have children i'll make sure that they have it a bit better than me
Thread 33309476 Archived
So like I don’t know if this website is still active but so
Basically I need some advice to get over some one. Recently me and my ex broke up even tho bro was all over me and then was talking with so...
Is it realistic for a father to not have the money to visit the kids Archived
If he lives far away? Does this happen often?
Is the solution to narcissistic games to: Archived
Remind yourself of the facts and only act based on them, and not on the emotions they make you feel?
To keep a long story short: I unintentionally upset someone and they used the opportunity to guilt...
Thread 33310512 Archived
>father and his brothers went bald like their uncle
>their father's hair thinned but didn't go completely bald like his sons
>maternal grandfather had a thick head of hair most of his life and then me...
Thread 33308332 Archived
How do I cope with being an 18 year old virgin? I expected to lose my virginity at 16 when I was 11 and now it's been 2 years since and I'm still a virgin. I'm thinking of just not beating off ever ag...
Thread 33310043 Archived
Tomorrow is my last exam. If I pass, I graduate college. If I fail, I have to try again next year, and it will be a whole year lost. Should I cheat? I'm extremely worried I won't pass.
how can i ease the irritability from stopping cold turkey from drugs Archived
i abused lyrica to 5g daily for 2 weeks, i stopped cold turkey a couple days ago, and now im so irritated over the smallest things, like im so annoyed by sound, what can help?
Thread 33310609 Archived
It's impossible to move on. It's been 2 years and he's with someone else, yet I'm still stuck with the fantasy that we will eventually work out. Every day when I get home I look at their social media ...
How do I know if it's limerance? Archived
I'm a 24 year old man. I met a 30 year old woman and we've been hitting it off, and she suggested last weekend that we should date more formally, rather than the occasional weekly meetups we've been h...
Thread 33308455 Archived
I just had a panic attack. Im feeling a little more calm now but now I have this intense feeling of sadness and loneliness. Please give me any help lads or any words or encouragement. And pray for me.
Doxx Archived
Hey guys, can you help me doxx someone?? I have things like a phone number and stuff :v
Help Archived
Imagine you were suicidal since you feel like a burden because you have been unable to get a good job for two years while recovering from severe health issues. Now that your health is better, you want...
Thread 33305309 Archived
Is your life just done by the time you reach 25?
Basically this entire year of my life has felt much more void than 24
Don’t feel like doing anything ever
Just go to work and come home
Not a tiring jo...
How do I deal with my brother resenting me for being my grandmother’s favorite? Archived
I’ve always been the golden child in my grandmother’s eyes. I think it’s probably because I was born a couple months before my uncle (her son died). Ever since then, my brother has been number 2 and w...
If it wasnt for misfortune Archived
I would have no fortune at all.
A huge number of people have dropped out of my indi film, making the whole project unstable.
The first girl to give me the time of day in years is moving out of state....
Can women love an impotent man? Archived
I have very sick and twisted fetishes that prevent me from getting hard. I have decided to quit porn and try my best not to masturbate ever again. That said I probably will always be a sexual deviant,...
Thread 33309055 Archived
How do I look good naked?
Thread 33307769 Archived
Has anyone here worked at one of those AI training companies, like DataAnnotation or something? Is it a complete scam? I'm getting desperate for any sort of stable income
Thread 33305984 Archived
I'm very tired without adderall.
How can I break this cycle?
Chronic difficulty in pissing Archived
I have this problem where it’s really difficult to start peeing, when I do start peeing it doesn’t flow well it flows really weak, and can never get all the pee out. And I also have to pee frequently
...
if i like trans women does that make me gay Archived
i don't like men, i tried kissing with dudes and it felt horrible and gross, i like the femininity of a woman, her fragance, skin, clothes, even if she's trans and has a dick i mean for example this o...
Skateboarding on campus Archived
>got caught skateboarding in the hallways at around 3 am
>security guard told me I was caught on cam
>Said I've been warned
>Also told me that skateboarding is fun and to just wait until he was gone ...
bacne Archived
hi, i just started going to the gym so ignore my nonexistent muscles haha. is it weird to see a female with back acne out in the gym? i dont want to get made fun of. would people just ignore it and fo...
Thread 33299068 Archived
How to cope with being a short desi in Canada? Especially all the Indian hate now my social opportunities feel limited. Not only am I 5'4 I'm Indian too which is like being a Jew in Nazi Germany. Even...
Thread 33307783 Archived
I stole music from a famous artist like 2 years ago. People are still trying to find me, dox me, and they attribute their music to me. How do I fix this?
SHAME Archived
I need to ask people for things and I feel ashamed.
They told me if I get a doctor's note for some bullshit I could drop some poor grades from 2018-2020. A doctor's note for whatever mental illness. I...
Medicine…? Archived
Can you peacefully overdose on Hydrocod/ Acetaminophen? How much do you need for it to be toxic?
Any ideas on where to find this info would be a huge help.
Thread 33307380 Archived
There are millions of women around my age in the world (I am 24), so what are the GPS coordinates to find my perfect beautiful thin loyal virgin gf?Where and who?
Thread 33308450 Archived
Is it realistically possible for an alcoholic to become a responsible drinker, or is cold turkey the only solution?
Medicine Archived
How do I find the toxicity of a prescription medication. For reference the medicine is called Hydrocod/ Acetaminophen
How to commit? Archived
I've been thinking about suicide for a few years now. Does anyone know what the best way to do it is? What has the best chance? What is painless? Don't give me any "this is a permanent solution for a ...
Thread 33308671 Archived
I have autism and so have a very hard time communicating through email, text.
I just cannot interpret what anyone is saying or what they want, or how to respond, so can go around for hours and hours ...
Thread 33306211 Archived
Is it possible that being too funny will land one in the friend zone? I know women like funny guys, but do they want a laidback careless cool guy or a funny one? Hard to find a good balance
Thread 33305065 Archived
>be me
>neet chud
>wake up at 9:30
>scroll /pol/ for two hours to see if anything happened while I slept
>after 2 hours of scrolling and shitposting realize nothing happened
>have breakfast around noo...
Did I do the right thing? Archived
>Work at some building
>we have this "earthquake drill"
>see cute girl from another office
>not sure where she's working
>new year's dinner party
>see her there again, and identified her area by the c...
Poetry Archived
This might be a little more trivial than some other threads on here, but I'll give it a shot anyway.
My mother's birthday is coming up and she's hinted that she wants a poem. I recently learned that s...
Thread 33302680 Archived
It’s official. I’m fucked. I was in class (college, psych major) and I have a fetish for public masturbation/exhibitionism. I am usually not very daring with it. So I figured I’d be kind of bold. So I...
Thread 33305231 Archived
My spouse never gets time off but once a year. I thought that he'd plan a fuckin vacation but instead he's home playing metaquest while I have an extra mouth to feed and clean after
Thread 33306587 Archived
>tell mom every job I applied to rejected me
>reeeees at me that there’s a gazillion jobs and I’m lazy (she doesn’t even know how online job search works)
>finally get some shitty job and the manager ...
Thread 33308591 Archived
Does anyone pay for Amazon Music or Spotify or anything? Why? All this music is available for free and more on Youtube for free. Trying to understand.
Schizotypal gf Archived
How do I cope? I love her, she is the best person I could come across and we get along great unless when she:
> is forced to socialize or spend time with someone, the stress makes her self-destructive...
14 and Might Get Arrested + More Archived
I am 14 years old
I got admitted to a psych ward in 2024 cuz I went on the dark web and more out of curiosity
police took away my iPad, phone and laptop, but forgot to take away my xbox
I then got ...
Best sites for escorts in Germany? Archived
I'm an 18yo kissless virgin, never had a gf. I want to get rid of my shameful virginity and insecurity by paying for sex, but I heard terrible stories about brothels which is why I'm scared of going t...
is it over for me Archived
i buzzed my hair as an 18yo female
ugly = no job = no money
ugly = kms
i quit 20mg lexapro a while ago and the first week or two was maybe intense, i don't know, but i think any sort of side effects...
I'm addicted to male attention Archived
Like the title says. I only ever get attention from males. I'm a male too, but I'm 5'3", 115lbs, long hair, soft jawline, can't grow facial hair, etc etc the list fucking goes on. Tbh women never paid...
The addiction brutality Archived
I’m 18 years old and struggling with something I’ve been carrying alone. I wanted to share it here, hoping to find some understanding, because I haven’t really had anyone to talk to about this. I’ve b...
Thread 33308862 Archived
Are you Machiavellian? Statistically, you're not. But let's pretend.
Most people are too emotional to play the game, too mentally handicapped to see the board, or both. This server has been made for ...
Thread 33306795 Archived
Can things really get better even when you can't see a single way anything turns out okay and doesn't hurt . Like you can't heal from anything and the stuff normal people do feels out of your reach ev...
Date in 7 Days. Archived
I have a date in 7 Days, help me get prepared frens.
Thread 33293062 Archived
How do you ask out a stranger? Like a passerby in a mall or something
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