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Ruined relationship all on my own over nothing, need help Archived
I (man) have rOCD (diagnosed, its about relationships, in which I will ruminate on negative thoughts for many hours or google for many hours when I have an intrusive thought) and when I get too close ...
Thread 33212455 Archived
>insane father who stalked me and abused my mother
>tumour that shattered my upper spine at 13
>born into a economically struggling situation with a single mother
>short and realising no girl will eve...
Gibs Archived
How do I get on disability, food stamps, and Medicaid? I am a white male. Am I just doomed?
please stop me from doing IRL femdom Archived
Please give me a reality check\ touch grass tackle, before I do something incredibly unethical and pray a femdom prostitute to beat me up. It's UNFAIR towards poor males (Im a male, a man) to do this:...
I want to kill myself because I can't find a job. Archived
I have been trying to find a job for about 4 months now. I have schizophrenia and I was out of work for over a year and a half so far and I went to a mental hospital for a while. I just want to work i...
Immigration Archived
As a white Brazilian, should I feel bad for immigrating to the US or Canada even though I know that they are sick and tired of 3rd world migrants flooding their countries? I'm 100% willing to integrat...
Body odor Archived
So for the last couple weeks now I have noticed that even if I take a shower, I have a rather noticeable body odor. It's much stronger than it would normally be. I've reduced my caloric intake recentl...
Thread 33213050 Archived
Kind of have driving/travel autism but still want to learn a trade
What are the options out there if I don't really want to be driving to all different locations everyday/multiple times a day. a trad...
Thread 33213438 Archived
Ibneed to either take 2 classes or soend a month studying abroad in Europe to ear my degree by the end of summer. I decided to study abroad, I'll be spending July 15th through August 15th in a Europea...
How do I start bothering people? Archived
Lately, whenever I want to do something involving another person, my brain just shuts it down with "Why bother them?". This happens with people willing to spend time with me (e.g. acquaintances who ca...
Gf fell in love with my autism mask version Archived
anyone else ever deal with your autism mask causing issues in life
been dating a girl for 6 months and it was going rough, and i started to realize that I maybe have had undiagnosed autism for most o...
Ask The Opposite Gender Anything Archived
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22m Archived
I want to get an art job but I'm not sure if I'm good enough. I live in a state that has no art jobs so I'd need remote work.
I wanted to do character concept art.
It's always been my dream as a chil...
Thread 33211148 Archived
Why do I need to be 6' to be treated like a human being by women my age when I already tower over almost all of them at 5'10?
What do I do after highschool. Archived
I don't know what to study after high school, I'm 18 and completely lost. I don't really have any crazy talents and I'm not noticeably good at any specific subject. I have a 3.6 GPA so, I'm pretty ave...
Trauma and Goth girls Archived
I believe I like Goth girls for two things:
1. I like spooky things
2. I can connect with them better because the ones I have met are a bit messed up in the head due to trauma and I can relate to th...
If I had someone I could easily love maybe I could know what feels good about jacking off Archived
Or perhaps I just lack proper exercise and sleep or actually have depression.
I know it's selfish to see if a person you know has the potential to arouse you but I just want to see my full sexual pow...
Thread 33211782 Archived
I'm 25. Is that a good age to worry about making money? I'm not interested in women or anything else except money anymore, but I've never worked and I don't have any. Am I screwed?
How do you find hostels with more girls than guys in them? Archived
I am going to travel through Europe for 3 weeks this summer. I want to use this as an opportunity to talk to more girls and practice my social skills. Is there a way to look for hostels which will hav...
Thread 33212203 Archived
As a guy who is a fan of post apocalyptic and dystopian entertainment, the one thing we can learn from it, is to have grit knowing the world csn be better from what it was despite how gone it has gone...
Going to inpatient soon and I don't want to go Archived
I heard my mom is going to call an ambulance on me soon. I'm malnourished to the point where my bones ache just sleeping. I do want to go and finally find some respite but I'm afraid that after that t...
Should I just fucking castrate myself? Archived
I'm so sick of getting emotionally attached to every girl that shows interest in me. When it doesn't work out I can't get out of bed. My heart constantly aches and I have to curl up in a ball for some...
Thread 33207837 Archived
My sister got knocked up. Her boyfriend/husband cheated on her for 6 years before the other woman told my sister. Her bf leaves the house.
Sister tells my mom to take care of her. My parents already ...
Thread 33210734 Archived
What should I do to look better?
Advice on a romantic matter Archived
I was dating this woman for a few months, and she recently dumped me, around 6 weeks ago. She just invited me to her birthday party, a few days ago, and I’m wondering whether that might indicate any p...
I hate my sister Archived
EVERYONE applauded this fucking bitch. They shouted "come on!", but when I came out NO ONE applauded, I was so nervous that I didn't notice. I hate my sister bitch. She's so popular because she's frie...
Thread 33211827 Archived
I've been visiting Asian massage parlors for the last couple years even though I'm in a relationship. I feel pretty brazen about it to the point where I feel like I'm not going to be caught. What's th...
Thread 33211023 Archived
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Biology Question Archived
I don't know where else to ask this since /qa/ is gone. Obviously the penis grows as you get older.
But what about the vagina? Does it similarly get deeper as you get older?
How can I be a better man for my girlfriend? Archived
I have a very sweet girlfriend but I am a degenerate and I keep having thoughts of thick and busty women, I would never cheat since I think it's the lowest thing you can do to your partner but it's tr...
How do I get out of my head? Archived
>tall (6'2)
>young (22)
>have a good amount of money for my age
>don't live with my parents anymore
>look like at least like a 7 (pic attached) (i know its a dumb pic)
>work with literally zero women
...
Fiancée messaged ex Archived
Fiancée messaged her ex saying she wanted to get back together. Regretted it right after, deleted it, blocked him. Told me a month later like it was nothing. I’m wrecked. Want to call off the engageme...
This is why men are transitioning at an alarming rate Archived
They all want attention and affection, the only way to get it now is to troon out.
Thread 33212324 Archived
>finally match with a girl on dating app
>she seems to like me despite slight autism
>but soon realize she is just a normie girl whos already had long terms relationships and hookups
>lose interest
H...
Thread 33211147 Archived
I got asked to speak at a wedding for a couple I am friends with, the main problem is I know she secretly has had a crush on me for years, and I also have developed a crush on her because I find it at...
Thread 33211449 Archived
Ive been coming down with some sickness since tuesday. Went to a walk-in clinic and they sent me home saying they couldnt figure out what was wrong and to simply come back within the next few days. I ...
Break up with a cunt Archived
Not for me but for my brother. His gf is a cunt and treats him like a dick and is a massive financial drain and dragged him into getting over 10k into debt with her. Hes neen with her a few years i th...
Thread 33178614 Archived
If someone told me that they would end up in jail if they ever got angry, should I avoid being around this person?
How to calm down my wife Archived
Hi /adv/, looking how to more effectively calm down my wife. I am Cuban/Mexican (though fair skin) and my wife is full blown Mexican (brown). We have been married for 1.5yrs and we have a 9 month daug...
what's wrong with me Archived
I like being alone. I've always been alone and honestly prefer it most of the time. But I just want friends/ a partner so goddamm bad sometimes
Thread 33207112 Archived
I have absolutely zero energy when I wake up but I can do a million push-ups and walk a mile in the middle of the night then I get exhausted again when the sun rises.
What causes this?
Thread 33206189 Archived
I have been reading the book of Daniel and the book of Revelation recently and was wondering what the correct way to interpret eschatology was. I read some commentaries with wildly varying views on it...
Am I Fucked? Archived
>Be me
>having a good life say stuff I don’t really mean sometimes
>still a kind hearted man living with parents
>age 17
>mom ask me to borrow money for traveling to Miami to get her tits cut and ...
Have a hot gf, but she is poor Archived
And I don't mean poor in a "she's just starting her career" kind of way, i mean she and her family have less that £500 to their name at any given time.
I am a bit older than her and run a budding mart...
how to suicide WOW SUPER ORIGINAL OH MY GOD WOW HOLY SHIT!!!!!!!! Archived
wow, what a super and omega ultra original question, anyways, last time i tried killing myself i asked in here the same question and somebody gave me a image with some information? anyways, i dont hav...
Thread 33204768 Archived
How do I survive a bear attack?
Quit my job? Archived
I got a job maintaining a government database last year. I WFH for six days doing alternating shifts and get three and a half days off. The pay isn’t bad, around minimum wage, and I have to go in the ...
Thread 33211524 Archived
I'm starting work at a gas station tomorrow. Give me advice to be the best gas station guy ever.
Thread 33197829 Archived
Why do people start singing out loud everytime they're in a room alone with me?
Bad feelings Archived
So idk if this is the right place but like I feel weird 24/7 and it doesn't go away, a lot of things have gotten better and I have friends who make me happy, YET still feel like there is a hole in my ...
Thread 33205757 Archived
I got caught driving drunk, got put in the drunk tank overnight, and have a court date in a month from now. Told my wife, she left me. Haven't told work yet but not sure what they will say.
This was...
Thread 33211364 Archived
Should I join?
advice Archived
I feel totally empty, days go by without purpose, they just pass. I get home just to cu7 mys3lf, and i dont even feel bad, i just need to feel something. I dont cry, sometimes I miss him... I do nothi...
Thread 33206292 Archived
>still have childish dreams of being a pro gamer
>28 yo
Idk what to do
Am I already failing at life? Archived
I feel like a regular guy but everyone around me talks about how I look sad or my parents are too strict. My parents tell me I'm doing a bunch wrong and need to change. I own my own neighborhood busin...
Well I fucked up. Archived
Working this project with a girl, I though I was being smooth by making her my administrative lead, but I think she saw through it as a way to talk more regularly.
It sounds trashier than it is, I m...
just got dumped. how to cope? Archived
2 year relationship down the drain. it was honestly quite toxic but in the end i did love him. idk what to do. like what do i do now? we broke up probably less than a n hour ago and i feel like shit
Thread 33211515 Archived
Being dependent in your 20s to 30s is frowned upon because it is another form of slavery that is socially acceptable.
PLEASE FUCKING HELP ME Archived
PLEASE FUCKING HELP. I'm 23 years old and wrapping up this school year. Im struggling with motivation to do ANYTHING THAT DOESNT INVOLVE ME POSSIBLY GETTING SEX OR GOING TO THE GYM. If I go to class, ...
Should I apologize? Archived
I've had a falling out with a friend we'll call Jerry for about 2-3 months. I've known him since high school. My best friend and his wife want me to apologize so we can all go out to dinner tomorrow.
...
How to be remembered as a bright light in everyone’s lives? Archived
I really want everyone to remember me as someone who always did what they were supposed to do. Someone who really, really cared, and wanted the best for everyone around them.
I want a whole fucking or...
To any addicts here. Archived
Does it really get better when you quit? Or do you just fall back into the same depression that brought you to use drugs in the first place?
Best and worst places to rent a studio in the south bay? Archived
Like, what's up with picrel? $1500 a month with 2 parking spots and utilities included in the middle of San Jose? Is this in the hood or what?
Thread 33207141 Archived
Is it retarded and weird that I've always wanted to get my ass kicked? Like that's something I want to cross off my bucket list. Like challenge a dude to a fight and then get my ass kicked? How do I a...
/atoga/ - Ask The Opposite Gender Anything Archived
ITT We ask the opposite gender (almost!) anything.
This a thread for questions and answers. If what you're posting is not a reply to another anon, it *MUST* be in the form of a question. This is NOT ...
Thread 33210641 Archived
sometimes when im in the subway i feel that a pretty girl is eyeing me up
is it even possible to approach in public transport during the workdays?
pseudogynecomastia Archived
Is it possible to get rid of pseudogynecomastia without surgery? I'm 231ibs used to be 267. I still have a long way to go but i just wanted to know if someone had it and got rid of it without surgery.
Thread 33210157 Archived
What are some things I can say to make an obese fresh off the boat African hoe soggy?
For context I'm a 6 foot tall white guy.
Thread 33210711 Archived
How do I raise my sexual standards
At first it started with fatchicks, then transsexuals, then men, then black woman and now essentially everything from body hair on woman to hyperpigmentation on th...
Thread 33210764 Archived
Posting on 4chan doesn't feel as fun/engaging anymore to me. What happened?
Thread 33207737 Archived
When it comes to recording yourself having sex, what’s the best framerate?
>24fps
>30fps
>60fps or higher
People who failed GCSE/ Performed terribly... Archived
Where are you now? How's life?
Thread 33206034 Archived
How are you supposed to approach women that you're attracted to as a complete stranger?
Thread 33203484 Archived
Is it really a deal breaker for women when a man has seen escorts? Men have sexual needs as well, and for a certain period in my life I seen probably around 30+ escorts in a span of two years. Yes I w...
Why am I so stupid? Archived
I feel my mental sharpness has been waning sharply over the years. I make a lot of small mistakes at work, which although not terrible make me look as though I overlook basic things easily. I also som...
Thread 33209730 Archived
I am a 34 yo kissless virgin. Never dated, never pursued a girlfriend or romance at all. To be honest, the last time I recall having a crush on a girl was in middle school. I would call myself asexual...
Where am I supposed to fit in as a late 20s burnout? Archived
Every subculture I’m drawn to I feel too old for, what do you do when you never grow out of your childish rebellious spirit & general disdain for society? I’m alright at socializing and people tend to...
Get It Off Your Chest (GIOYC) Archived
Can't eat anymore and it's becoming a problem Archived
Wasn't on purpose but I barely ate the past couple months. Just kinda stopped feeling hungry. Didn't even notice it until I looked in the mirror and realized I'm way underweight now. Tried to start ea...
Thread 33210039 Archived
doing pretty much anything with my girl gets me hard - holding hands, cuddling, kissing, fondling, hand stuff, mouth stuff, etc.
but when it comes time to put my penis in her vagina, i go as soft as ...
Having OCD with OCD triggering girlfriend Archived
Having a borderline radfem gf has kind of ruined me. I literally watch things now, and my OCD has infected my brain with “this is problematic, my girlfriend would hate this”. I get made uncomfortable ...
Thread 33200920 Archived
Is life for INTJ supposed to be suffering?
I don't think I've ever met anyone similar to myself, or its at least very rare.
Its like everyone else is an NPC
/atoga/ Archived
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Singles dating events Archived
Has anyone here been to one? I used to do pretty okay when I was 19 and went on nights out especially compared to dating apps but that could also be because I was in better shape then and students are...
Thread 33209974 Archived
Guys I need help, I wanna start streaming, but I don’t know w to start, I mean I have huge with social anxiety it’s only speak but I have huge issues with this, any suggestions?
So exhausted all the time Archived
How to cope
Trying Alcohol Archived
t. 20F university student. Total "late bloomer"
Anons ive been wanting to plan a trip out west for my 21st birthday because all of my prior birthdays have been really disappointing, like imagine spen...
got my girlfriend's mom pregnant Archived
I've been with my girlfriend for 5 years, we've been together since high school and attend the same college now but we decided instead of living in the dorms we got a place together just off campus.
...
I met one of you freaks in the wild Archived
avoiding wall of text, met a cute girl, she wanted to meet up right away great i wanna fuck. she shows me her tits and comes over. in under an hour she pullouts a gun, does a couple lines of coke call...
is it stupid to take the SAT/ACT at 22 years old? Archived
i never went to highschool and im gonna apply for college. i take the ACT in 3 days and i feel like a fool because im gonna be sitting around a bunch of HS kids at 22.
Soured Impression on Love and Relationships Archived
I feel like my impression on love, women, and relationships has soured because of my life.
I won't really go into a sob story or over-explain but I feel this way often and feel like love just doesn't...
this can not be legal Archived
aurora missouri school district use this for disable children as punishment as well as sitting on children even child with bloody noise after new covreage parents coming forward is the only way to cha...
Thread 33204747 Archived
>be me
>go about my day
>suddenly, get *sexually violated* by a random stranger
>it doesn't go the full way, but it's really bad (I don't want to describe in detail)
>feel horrible about myself
>absol...
Thread 33209579 Archived
I knew the CTO of Facebook 5 chats not even in aim chatrooms it was like from 1995 (I was born in 1991) until 2002 we'd chat one day the unfriendly neighborhood homophobes constantly I mean constantly...
I just want to fuck Archived
Should i be straight honest about my intentions from the beginning on tinder? And how should i do it?
How to get invited to parties? Archived
I mean, I already got a friend with whom I would go to clubs, but he wants just to get drunk, while I want to get drunk and talk with some pretty girls. And clubs in my country are usually full of tur...
I just found out I have Archived
Hand herpes how do I cope?
I'm a virgin
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recovery from 5 hours sleep Archived
How long will it take to recover from sleeping 5 hours a night for 5 years? Just got laid off so I'll be unemployed in a few weeks.
Only on weeknights.
Still, that's around 3800 hours of missed slee...
Thread 33202714 Archived
Girl I’ve been seeing for the past 2 months practically blocked me from everything for going to my sisters graduation. Her reasoning was I put myself in a situation where there were other girls around...
How can you be sure that your on the right path?? Archived
How do i make the correlation that what im doing with my life is what needs to be done.
>its been 3 years that i have been on this career path but is this my calling ???
I don't like God's plan for my life Archived
I try to do things myself
> Nothing works out
I pray to God for help
> Nothing works out
I do nothing
> Nothing works out
What do I do? It all feels hopeless and pointless
Thread 33207159 Archived
>nigga stole my bike
>he probably needed it more than me
>total happiness in the world increased
I am very weak
I unironically have this mindset. I would rather lose, I'm quite OK with losing and bein...
How do I become a plapjak? Archived
I love fat chicks so it's literally not a compromise for me. Where do I find chubby girls willing to hook up because it's supposed to be soooo easy i guess. I'm in the US btw
Thread 33209245 Archived
I have this female coworker who I began dating a few months back. She has bpd and a son. She Essentially confessed her feelings to me at her apartment, and I let her know that I felt the same. So We'v...
my school rep is fucked Archived
Basically what happened is that i posted a rage bait instagram note about ice and bitches got too pressed over it. Im talking about these mfrs posted me on their stories (mostly the gay kids) talkin a...
need health insurance /adv/ice Archived
>be me
>25
>trying to work in academia
>grad school admissions fucked
>nothing to do for a year
>trying to get a job
>preferably one w enough leeway for me to improve my application
>nobody is hiring ...
Thread 33205918 Archived
Does hating on a girl, as a man, make you look gay? There's this girl at work I don't particularly like and I've been somewhat vocal about it whenever someone brings up the topic, but the other day so...
Weird spot in vision Archived
For about a week now I've had this weird spot in my peripheral vision. It looks kinda like what you see after looking at a bright light, except it isn't going away. It seems to go away temporarily whe...
Thread 33207789 Archived
I'm pushed so far past my limit. I'm doing a 2 man job alone for work, fixing things around my home that break because the landlords suck and won't fix anything, taking care of my inlaws home because ...
Thread 33208780 Archived
Is /WSR/ or /R/ better for tech and software questions? /G/ is useless.
Sometimes I ask tech questions here since at least you try to help.
Anyone knows if it is possible for an individual to make h...
disgusting lower 3rd Archived
What are my options for fixing my lower 3rd? An orthodontist told me I don't technically have an overbite just the appearance of one which makes me question if I really need braces or not. I don't min...
Thread 33204982 Archived
What program(s) do I need to inlay images on videos like in that temperature sign.
How to cope with hard work? Archived
I have dyslexia, OCD, and ADHD and I can't take ADHD meds because they fuck up my blood pressure and they're ineffective. So I don't take any stimulants. Not even atomoxetine. Not gonna do it.
IQ's 11...
Dysphoria Archived
>start cutting myself because I hate my body
>cuts make my body look even worse
>cut more cause I hate my body
>cuts make body look even worse
I am so fucking retarded, why can't I stop this
Thread 33207010 Archived
Friend of mine died recently
His last post was a extremely cringe Bart Simpson crying edit to xxxtentacion
All forms of empathy went out the window, I didn’t care anymore cause I found him cringe ...
A boyfriend with blondish pubes will cure my depression Archived
I feel no joy in life other than when I am cuddling with a eu guy with blue eyes, lightishs pubes who is in his mid to late twenties. Please date me
Thread 33203265 Archived
I'm really self conscious about my body and my gross balls and penis. Why couldn't God give me one attractive body part? How do I cope?
Classism at work? Archived
Now I’ve always been super social - I went to so many house parties, clubs, races, met girls etc.
I started 3 months ago as a consultant in a big, globally known accounting company. All other grads ...
Too much of a coward Archived
For most of my life, I've always had the same problem: I'm almost incapable of socializing. I feel so mediocre and awkward that I'm afraid people will hate me, so I'm avoidant. But I'm almost an adult...
Setting myself up for happiness when my life is about to implode Archived
This is a wild situation to be in. Basically long story short, my parents are locking in my arranged marriage next year. I thought I could bow out from sheer embarassment because I'm a NEET bum at 28 ...
Thread 33206494 Archived
How do I ask out the waitress at my local Asian restaurant? What’s something that will spark her interest?
It’s one of those restaurants where they sit you down then you have to write the menu number...
Thread 33206465 Archived
How do I get into this chicks social circle if I have no mutual friends with her and it's been years since we've talked to each other or been in contact?
Found out my son is a gay porn star Archived
>be me
>Have 20 year old son currently in college
>Got a little horny last night And decide to browse pornhub for a bit
>Stumble upon a thumbnail with a familiar face
>Watch for a little bit to see th...
Thread 33206808 Archived
If a blatant argument has no concrete evidence or who you are with is superficial, do not worry about them, other than move on with your life doing great things you are meant to do.
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