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What is this and why is this Archived
I thought pink skulls on TPB were always safe :,(
Thread 33364792 Archived
Hello. I M(21) dropped out of university, but I have one final chance to re-enroll.
Options:
Grant: A good university, they pay me to study.
Local University: I have enough exam points to get in free...
Thread 33362388 Archived
How do I feel more powerful?
/atoga/ - Ask the Opposite Gender Anything Archived
>>33359406
Thread 33363257 Archived
How do you guys cope with having no women or when you think you’re getting along with one, it fades? Genuine question. I’m not doing too good. Also, for those that have met good women, where are they?...
Thread 33364673 Archived
how do i get (female) friends?
i'm a woman (not a troon) and i had my last friend in middle school. i had no friends in hs at all. i ate alone at lunch every single day for those 3 years. so, i haven...
Autism and esotericism losing me friends and my goals are in shambles. Archived
My parents are religious but they basically use religion as a battering ram to start fights rather than something actually spiritual so I was Atheist for a long time. During my formative years I was a...
Thread 33364352 Archived
anybody ever work at an Aldi Warehouse? what's it like? shot in the dark but who knows.
Thread 33363022 Archived
need job related advice
So my stepsister got a job for me, at a restaurant she works at, as a dishwasher, I could start tomorrow. As far as I heard, the conditions are horrid there. I don't know the ...
Thread 33364387 Archived
My Wife greets me at the door with a checklist every fucking day when I get home from work: “Why didn’t you pick up the drink/food I asked for? Did you remember to schedule the blah blah blah? Are you...
Thread 33363246 Archived
Proverbs 4:23
>Be careful how you think; your life is shaped by your thoughts
Your thoughts shape your reality. As hard as it can be sometimes, try to think positive and speak life over yourself, you...
Thread 33361512 Archived
My bipolar m*ther wanted me to block someone. I didn't want to and she took my phone (after I closed it). There's porn (and other stuff) I don't want her to see. How fucked am I? Can she do anything w...
Do I take out a loan? Archived
>26, hate my life
>Stuck at home
>Okay job in a boring place I despise
>Okay skills, I feel I'm pretty average with that edge of being good at looking up stuff on my own
>Better paying, higher-skill...
How can I acquire this? Archived
I want to live a simple quiet life, maybe in the woods or a rural area. A girlfriend would be ideal, sweet, kind and loyal
The problem is the state of the world and the state of my soul; the world is...
Should i go back to a shrink Archived
Or should i cancel the appointment. I said a bunch of embarrassing shit. I dont wanna go back.
Living in a car? Archived
Should I just live in my car while I go to university? I'm currently mooching off my family while in community college, but I'm about to transfer to a four year and the housing costs are insane. Not o...
Thread 33363280 Archived
How do you get a gf as an asocial with no friends?
Sex Archived
I can't get an erection anymore because I don't look like the tall, handsome, big handed, well endowed alphas in hentai and shoujo manga. It makes me think that sex is a divine consummation of a highe...
Where do I go from here? Archived
Quick rundown:
I'm 24. Full Blown Sperg. I stopped attending school at 13 or so, ended up managing to get basic maths/english/science and history qualifications but zero tertiary education. I feel as ...
/atoga/ - Ask the Opposite Gender Anything Archived
Old: >>33356457
Setting boundaries with parents, doing things they don't want me doing, etc., as an adult? Archived
I'm closet LGBTQ, but still living with my strict Asian parents since the 2025 job market sucks. At dinner tonight they were guilt tripping me for having to live with them rather than going out into t...
How do I make my parents suck less at their job. Archived
I still live with my father and I have a younger brother. My parents are divorced and usually alternate who is going to take care of my brother, it doesn't really matter, both are bad parents that let...
Thread 33362586 Archived
>be now
>childhood dog and best friend died that August.
>had adopted another in october, had narcisstic mom return him, giving us a mornings notice.
>As such relationship with her is abysmal. Haven't...
Thread 33363666 Archived
I didn't expect that it would be so hard to stop jerking off. Any tips? I've took on two hobbies so I can keep myself busy, but I still feel tempted to play with my wiener. Any /adv/ice?
Thread 33359835 Archived
I got fired for a first episode psychosis of, at the time undiagnosed schizophrenia, and now I can't get a job ( I've applied pretty much everywhere) (too much time has passed to pursue any legal aven...
married to a perfect woman, still despise women Archived
I was married 2 years ago, spent 1.5 years before that together, I met about 7 women whom I still admire to this day everyday, including my wife all were niche medical/engineering students with good f...
Thread 33361917 Archived
Does anyone know of any forums focused on effective suicide methods? Or does anyone have any effective and perhaps painless methods for suicide?
Thread 33362988 Archived
I’m only 23 and I fucked up and became an alcoholic. I am up to almost a 6 pack a fucking day and I used to cope and say I don’t have a problem and I can control it but now I am pretty sure I have a p...
Can a person truly be happiest alone? Archived
I guess it's assumed people are happier in a relationship than alone since humans are social creatures. I thought so about myself as well but after having experienced one relationship I'm starting to ...
Thread 33362706 Archived
Is it normal for a 22 year old to not be sure what career he should major in? The only interests I have are videogames and animation.
>inb4 why don't you just do that, become an animator or game desig...
How to move forward? Archived
My girlfriend and I broke up after 1.5 years. The reason for the break up was an argument, and she was 'unable to forgive', so she took the initiative to break off our otherwise calm relationship.She ...
Thread 33362242 Archived
My sister's daughter (16) sent me a list of movies to download to watch in the car on a road trip.
One of these movies contains a brief sex scene, m rated.
What do I do?
Here are my options so far:...
Thread 33363539 Archived
Ever since the covid hoax I stopped interacting with the goyim cattle. I just look through them and pretend they don't exist. I don't even greet them or acknowledge their presence. I'm not staring, I'...
Thread 33363770 Archived
>tfw got into drinking with gf during pandemic out of boredom
>now she can't go more than a week without ordering a bottle
>it's gotten to the point that she'll bribe me with sex just so she can drink...
how the fuck do I stay off of this site? Archived
so I originally came to 4chan because I had a whole mental breakdown about nowhere wanting me, and so I figured here (who accepts anyone) would be a good shot.
Issue is, I now actually have many commu...
Thread 33361884 Archived
Where can I find tomboys?
Thread 33361877 Archived
I'm a father of four children, they're from single mom I met on Tinder. I've been taking care of them for 2 years now (I guess technically I'm the stepfather) and I view them as my own children. My fa...
Thread 33363349 Archived
does my bf's friend like me? should i avoid him? or am i just imagining things. i'm just nervous because bf told me this friend is coming to visit us next month. i have no friends irl or even any fami...
SLEEP Archived
I’ve been more uptight about sleep in recent years than I have in my youth…I took my fan a part yesterday in order to clean the dust off of it. It seems to be running fine, but now it is going way fas...
Need some advice with Scammers Archived
Hey, this morning I got scammed to send money to some scammers, I am really pissed that I fell for it, and as usual they are requesting more and more. Don't know if anyone can help here? Or have some ...
Thread 33361636 Archived
Why is it so hard to find women with good digital and financial hygiene?
Thread 33361737 Archived
How do I be more receptive to mental health counseling so I can actually get it to work for me?
Thread 33361664 Archived
Hey /adv/, I went on a downward spiral after my cat died and racked up >$9,000 in debt on three of my credit cards.
I'm essentially un-hireable as I've spent my entire life on disability and only wor...
A way out Archived
>35
>NEET for basically entire life
>no high school or college education
>dropped out of school in 9th grade
>never worked
>have left house maybe 6times in past 15 years
>0 social skills
>obese
>neve...
I'm linguistically retarded. Archived
I attempt to articulate things in ways that just sound dumb, to the point that I think anyone reading anything I type will just stop reading, or get the sense that I am a retard articulating something...
Thread 33361426 Archived
I miss my therapist from college so fucking much. I feel like there's a huge hole inside my spirit every day. She was the first person I ever trusted. I feel anger at the world sometimes, and I know i...
Thread 33362549 Archived
Are beards a bad thing if you don't have a nice jaw/chin?
Thread 33358446 Archived
i went to a park with a guy, it was nice. we talked, ride on the same bicycle for fun, had some candy at the park while talking. went home.
second time: we went to the cinema, i told him in advance i...
Thread 33361114 Archived
Would you get into relationship with your old crush/oneitis (i.e. someone you used to be really downright obsessed with but never actually had relationship with), assuming a long time has passed since...
Spill the beans Archived
What's your most brutal dating Blackpill?
Share only the worst experiences and advice to avoid them in future
Thread 33356904 Archived
In my biology class, there was a girl who was bent over just like this on one of the desks, with her ass protruding towards all the guys. This is deliberate, right? Like there is no way she wasnt awar...
Thread 33362963 Archived
Should I ask my friends to hang out with me, despite the fact that they never invite me anywhere in return and me knowing that I'm their second, if not third choice.
follow-up question, should I kil...
Thread 33360648 Archived
Currently sharing an apartment with an ftm. Why the fuck is society rewarding it as a man but not me?
>It repeatedly brings home girls who fuck it. All the girls (most of whom are straight) seem to li...
How to let it go Archived
Title.
>generally well-liked at work and in personal life
>fairly successful professionally
>garner decent professional and personal respect from people
>decent build (6'3", 250lbs, look strong and ...
Are fetishes caused by demons? Archived
Why do porn addicts often have specific fetishes? Some like furries, some incest, some trannies... Why? It's almost as if there's some specific route where porn addicts are taken depending on their pe...
be real with me. Archived
do I stand a chance outside Asia? I want to be globally attractive.
Thread 33361655 Archived
What can I do with a JD law degree that isn't lawyering? Surely there's some job field that would see that as a plus?
Thread 33360239 Archived
Shes getting blackmailed by a guy on reddit and i want it to stop the guy has nudes of her and a lot of other girls rn my gf doesnt have to send nudes but she needs to make dc accounts for him prob so...
oral sex Archived
I think I have come to the realization that women hate men who like to give oral sex.
first is nice for everyone involved, she gets stimulation form something more dexterous than a dick, he gets all t...
Thread 33357423 Archived
I picked blackberries at this fun farm recently and I genuinely loved it, even after being really stuck by a few thorns and it being hot as fuck outside I kept soldiering on and even got like almost a...
Should I make the move on my coworker? Archived
One of my coworkers that’s pretty attractive has shown interest in me the last few months. She playfully told me “You wouldn’t want to drink with me because I’d probably flirt with you.” And other thi...
Thread 33360115 Archived
How do I quit drinking energy drinks? I tried for about 3 days but the withdrawals got to me. I need to quit because of my health and money. I usually drink a monster is there anything better?
Chad Archived
I'm 6'4"
Handsome
Well-dressed
Funny and socially confident
Why am I not chad? My only weakness is that I have no strong preferences regarding anything at all.
Self respect Archived
What is self-respect and how do I get it?
I let girls string me along, I let friends dictate plans, I hate my job (despite high pay) and do nothing about it, and I moved home a year ago and a failed ...
STOP Archived
To all guys 'seeing someone' but it feels one sided and/or you have doubts:
>If she takes forever to reply to your texts, stop sending them
>If you're doing all the work, stop trying
>If you initiate...
Stick dick in crazy Archived
Can you tame crazy?
About to get my dick wet but any trivial catalyst can just end it.
Thread 33362457 Archived
I rarely come here it used to be I'd give advice myself here but I need something now. I am given to solitude for hours a day. I have no job, I'm awake around 12 hours a day and spend only 2 or so hou...
Thread 33354800 Archived
I'm now 30 years old. Ai has pretty much made me obsolete and I need to start over. I worked in Graphic design, Video editing and social media marketing. I don't care about what the field is. I just w...
Affection towards family Archived
I'm not an autistic edgelord as I love my friends in life. But I don't feel that same affection towards my family. I used to look for validation and praise from my parents, but even then, I never get ...
Thread 33361947 Archived
Extremely socially anxious person here. After a decade of being a hermit, I'm planning to start getting my shit together, starting with a visit to the doctor. Problem is, first I need to call in an ap...
Thread 33355004 Archived
How do I stop thinking that everyone around me hates me?
should i text her? Archived
>me and girl meet online in 2021
>become extremely close and in 2023 confess feelings for each other but stay friends because of distance
>2025, she admits its killing her to just stay friends so she ...
Thread 33362090 Archived
Been job hopping since I've started working. Can't stay at a job for longer than a few months because literally every job I go to has extremely toxic & unhealthy workplace cultures full of corruption ...
What could he do to improve his chances anons? Also soi Boi humiliation thread I guess Archived
If he had that much time and money he would have more chance in SEA methinks
Thread 33353518 Archived
I can't get a girlfriend and im a 23 year old male who goes to college. When I cold approach at places like the gym I can handle a conversation just fine but the girl acts so fucking timid and obvious...
Killing Fags (ladykiller) Archived
I scared off a fag because I’m not a raging homo.
Should I go back to being homophobic and transphobic? Life was much simpler when I thought they were degenerate and disgusting.
I can't stop thinking about fucking women in the ass Archived
Especially hookers. I go to the downtown area daily after work and sometimes I manage to find a prostitute that does it.
Where does this stem from?
How to find friends as an adult? Archived
Most friends I ever made were made in school..they are all long gone in all four cardinals.
Is it even possible to forge meaningful friendships as an adult?
Dating Archived
So I have a date and she's really cute so I'm really looking forward to it and there's something about this making me think she could be the one. She's quite nerdy like me and sort of direct at commun...
I'm in love with best friends gf Archived
I'm good friends with a guy I did my degree with and have gotten to know his gf as a friend over the years, but most recently we are talking every day for hours on end, and my friend is definitely sta...
Thread 33352946 Archived
How do you get the discipline to stop being an alcoholic working a job you hate, and fix your life?
Thread 33353616 Archived
Is there any point in trying to talk to women or get a gf if your dick is 5 inches and under? I can't imagine the confidence that guy's with big dicks have when approaching a bitch, knowing he can mas...
Thread 33361172 Archived
Something in my house is making me sick and I'm losing my mind. Every time I get back to my flat, I feel groggy, sleepy, have severe brain fog and can't think straight. My circadian clock goes haywire...
Thread 33344275 Archived
Should I be jealous of some 28 year old kid that's in college to be a neurosurgeon while I'm 40 years old and have nothing to show for it?
How do you move on from someone you thought you'd spend your life with? Archived
I was with my ex for 7 years, from high school through college and into adult life. I knew her family like my own. I was there for weddings, funerals, birthdays, her nieces and nephews call me uncle.
...
Thread 33360188 Archived
I am unironically going insane because I can't get a girlfriend. I need advice on either coping with being single long term or advice on how to practically and pragmatically get a girlfriend.
Thread 33357909 Archived
My dad thinks I should work full time and take one college class on the side. At that rate, I would finish college in 10 years. Am I wrong for thinking that’s moronic? I feel like I should take the ma...
Who is the sociopath in the situation and why? Archived
This is a repost, this is all a true story and I met up with one person involved.
A year ago I met a e-boy in a discord server that has nothing to do with 4chan. After he cut contact with me he would...
Thread 33359306 Archived
> Be me
> Come from nothing.
> Now late 30s.
> Have a young family, unicorn job that pays squillions, asset rich, travelled the world, got a PhD, very fit and active.
> Nothing really left to do other...
Thread 33353944 Archived
I am having severe trouble relating to people. What do i do?
>browse 4chan
>dont relate, these people are alien to me
>go on reddit
>dont relate, these people are alien to me
>youtube comments
>dont r...
is this serious? Archived
i am 22 i have never been in a relationship, is it okay for me to look for a girlfriend when i don't have a car?
i feel very ashamed for even thinking about dating or women in general when i live in a...
Thread 33357786 Archived
How can you tell the difference when a girl fetishizes you vs having appreciation for your culture?
Im asking this question in good faith cause im really attracted to middle eastern men and love arabi...
how 2 pull men??? Archived
ive never dated before but recently a boy at my hs has grabbed my eye. i wont disclose his name but hes just perfect. hes a blonde with blue eyes, a country male and hes skinny but he has muscle. the ...
Thread 33358417 Archived
Where should I go to meet people? I was homeschooled since 4th grade, and did online college until now for the next 4 years after graduating. I've only got the park and the grocery store.
Thread 33354942 Archived
Anons am I a bad person if I am rude and condescending to customer service staff?
Thread 33359338 Archived
Is cico all that matters for weight loss truly?
I’m 35lbs overweight. Can I lose it all without cutting out beer and carbs ?
are girls who make the first move always crazy Archived
why are only mentally ill cutter girls attracted to me? i never hit on women because it usually goes badly but these types of girls have made the first move on me and i just go along with it because t...
How to stop being a pretentious twat Archived
I have a real issue with people that have zero ambition. I can't help it. I find their very existence distressing. I know that I am in the wrong so I would like to fix this.
Also, just to be clear: t...
Why did I get anxious? Archived
I was having lunch with my mom and we were talking about various topics, books and movies, but also more personal stuff like my job, education, life, emotions. I noticed the waitress was a bit curt wi...
anyone have a positive experience quitting nicotine? Archived
after using nicotine pouches heavily daily for about 2 years, ive finally decided to quit
i tapered for about a week and im currently on day 2 of cold turkey
its pretty rough but i have no doubts that...
How do I focus? Archived
Social Medias such as Tiktok, IG, X, Reddit, etc. that I can doomscroll on and waste my time. I don't know how I can stop myself from using them especially since if I block them on my computer and pho...
AI is better than /adv/ Archived
AI gives better advice than you faggots (I specifically use Gemini pro and it's been better than any thread I've ever posted here). Why the fuck would I post here when a literal soulless chatbot is be...
I can't stop gooning Archived
Since I got laid off it's gotten so much worse. I'm constantly playing h-games and edging to them it's turned into insanity. If anyone would see me IRL like this, I would be deeply ashamed.
I tried qu...
Thread 33359779 Archived
I grew up in a small town. Everybody talked about it like it was some kind of paradise you'd never want to leave, but everyone hated everyone else and no one really seemed happy. They talked about me ...
I like a girl who's currently in a long-term relationship Archived
Need advice here, I already know the answer, I have to stop but can someone tell me how should I get around this? we've been talking and seeing each other on a daily, we've confessed we like each othe...
cant figure out meditation and controlling my mind Archived
>always been fascinated about suffering in life, reading endless counts of different life experiences, reading about pre-civilization and post-civilization and biology
>fascinated how some with nothi...
/atoga/ - Ask the Opposite Gender Anything Archived
Former: >>33354032
Thread 33357910 Archived
>28
>healthy
>intelligent
>artistic
>cultured
>athletic body
>do sports and exercise daily
>don't drink alcohol or do any drugs
>people constantly say I look 18-20
Still no zoomer or milennial women ...
Thread 33350854 Archived
What are the best methods to build confidence and be more assertive? My whole life (26 years) I've been aftaid to bother people. I'm a big guy both in size and stature. And I always thought I could "w...
It was supposed to be a break.. Archived
Jesus I feel so lightheaded, the girl who is supposed to be my girlfriend, noticed how depressed and stressed I was and suggested I go to therapy , it went well for me at first and then she suggested ...
Thread 33356354 Archived
This girl I've fancied for over two years and has long stopped wanting to talk to me has been in a relationship with this other girl for nearly two months now. Glances at their TikTok reposts today sh...
How can we possibly rebuild? Archived
A great societal crisis has been boiling for some time. The masses have chosen to subject themselves to an endless deluge of propaganda designed to transform our world into a modern colosseum. The eli...
how do i not snap and go ob a murder spree because of this? Archived
The actual applied number is beyond 100
been applying endless for 13 days straight now. literally an endless loop of waking up checking my email or voicemale seeing nothing waiting for calls and then...
Talk me out of doing more casual hookups Archived
I feel sort of wrong for doing them, although I can't put into words, why I feel bad it? At first, I justified it to myself by saying "I'm getting more practice in" But that isn't enough.
Why are casu...
Thread 33357720 Archived
How do you deal with the fear of starting over and time?
>turning 25 this year
>just graduated but recent laws trump effected my industry so I have to move to an adjacent one that's doing better
>my g...
How to stop being a loser and change your life 180 degrees? Archived
Hi anons,
how to stop being loser average guy who has nothing in life? The only thing I want in life is to win - to have a roster of baddies, to have money and status, and to have a lot of social opt...
Being punished for not playing the normie game? Archived
Any advice? I feel kind of isolated and alone
Thread 33358247 Archived
I believe in Christianity, I do not want a wife and kids, I think fornication is a sin, but I have lustful urges and so I occasionally have sex but then I know it's sinful and I view the woman as less...
Thread 33358893 Archived
Is it worth sacrificing peace and quiet and taking on roommates to boost your income?
I currently earn about $2,000 per month in passive income and work full-time in a $21/hour manual-labor job. I’m ...
Thread 33358823 Archived
How do I stop wanting to have sex with any moderately decent-looking female coworkers? I'm introverted, socially retarded, and rarely leave the apartment outside of school and work.
Thread 33354836 Archived
what is the BEST way to visualize time? and how do you slow down your perception of it? i know attempting to break routine and doing difficult things works, but other than those, how can i best visual...
How to lighten my skin around hyperpigmentation? Archived
The area around my pussy is darker than the rest of my skin, and i am pretty pale. I am very insecure about this, is there any way to fix it? Some creams or oils that actually work in lightening it? I...
Coomer sexuality? Archived
I don't feel particularly healthy sexually because of abusing porn. Last week I binged porn and masturbated like 8 times. Since then, I haven't wanted to really look at porn because I felt sick afterw...
Money Archived
I've been out of work since February and it looks like my parents are cutting me off for good this time, I'm desperately seeking work but I don't know what to do if I can't make ends meet. I think my ...
Thread 33358402 Archived
Let me just say that I am fortunate to be in my current financial situation, and am mildly economically retarded.
I have ~280k current in a HYSA. I have ~500k in an inherited IRA (which I'll need to ...
Thread 33352667 Archived
How do I know if i'm suppressing being gay?
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