Does anyone know how these work? I'm looking at flats in the UK with service charges in the thousands of pounds and I've read online that you can get some of the money back... But if you sign an agree...

ITT: We ask the opposite gender (almost) anything. This thread has no rules of its own. The only rules are the 4chan site rules and the /adv/ board rules. We do have a request, please keep your post...

How do I feel the desire to actually do / achieve something Now, I am not saying this in a depressed manner, but just a neutral one Im employed and all that but just kinda dont do much in my free time...

I met her last year when I was 28. Never had a girlfriend before just casual sex. Honestly, I didn’t want one. Too many horror stories from friends and the internet. I figured I was better off alone. ...

>be me >download instafram >see nothing but couples being happy, touching and smiling >feel my soul rot >throw my phone across bed >jerk off like a degenerate >coom >stare at the ceiling >i hate l...

I love being a husband and dad, but getting almost no peace and quiet is wearing me real thin. I used to be able to sit in still contemplation, play piano, work on personal projects, read books, etc. ...

>late 20s with good career and financial situation >working out and building good physique, tall >getting better at socializing and talking to people >met women off soc thread in local threads where i...

So after finishing school I realised that I basically never got along with normies and was never quite interested in normie things. I don't know if it's part of me never really learning to socialize i...

It feels so cringe and masturbatory to do. I keep feeding it information about myself or pics and then I ask it what it thinks of me or to make assumptions about me based on the information I gave it....

>be me chud neet >wake up at 9:30 >scroll /pol/ for two hours to see if anything happened while I slept >after 2 hours of scrolling and shitposting realize nothing happened >have breakfast around noon...

How do I stop being wrong about every single thing ever without exception? If I remember a "fact" I quickly learn that i misremembered it. If I double-check to make sure I'm not a fucktard, I overloo...

I'm 19, 5'10 and weigh 121 pounds. I'm inactive for most of the day in my room and i love my food but i cannot put on any weight. I think its over for me.

>Be me, childhood was nightmare hellhole >No father figure, grew up with abusive mother >at 17 I meet a girl, were each others first relationships >shes perfect: self-reliant but loyal, driven but not...

>be me six years ago >in high school >in friend group with a girl >one day, girl vanishes >stops coming in to school, deleted all her social media accounts, stops talking to all her friends >told that...

How do american incels cope with "lookism" when they literally see 2/10 baboons with hot girls all the time? It's sad and hilarious how autistic american incels are.

When does it start to become unusual to be a virgin and never have a job before? Personally I had sex for the first time at 20 and got a job for the first time at 21 and I'm 21 right now.

I ate a cute Chinese prostitutes asshole and I liked it. What should I do now bros?

How do I find out about non-normie events (such as anime conventions) going on near me?

how do i make friends? i don’t have any (never have) and would like one. real life is no longer an option. i am too autistic. i also live in a very rural area, and any clubs or meetups are far away. ...

I'm 36. Why do Gen Z kids at my job hate me so goddamn much? I don't really try to interact with them. I don't think I'm a cringe millennial. I'm fairly quiet and I don't creep on them or anything. Wh...

What are you meant to do when therapy doesn't work? People always say just go to therapy like it's a panacea or something

What is love supposed to feel like? How do you know when it has you? Do you believe in soulmates?

Did I mess up? I did shrooms a few months ago, nothing crazy I've done them before a few times. This time was really bad though. I had the worst trip I've experienced. To sum it up without going into ...

ALRIGHT help me out here fuckers Just got the number of a girl who is somewhat close to my family through my parents, tried looking for her on Instagram for an easier open but no luck How do I initiat...

Why are most White and Asian men miserable to the point of having such high suicide rates despite making so much money? Because they have zero freedom to use that money; it is tied up in 9 to 5 slaver...

How do I move to Wales? Ancestral citizenship won't work - my family moved to America too long ago

After my divorce I accidentally sent $19,000 dollars to a cosplay model who I honestly thought liked me but I turned out to be a lie. Worse is the judge thinks I’m trying to do some sort of fraud beca...

I haven't worked since 2022 and I was kind of slow at my last job (was an in-store shopper for a grocery store so likely they can verify my performance through their metrics) I ended up quitting that ...

I work a part time nightshift and I live with my family. Could dating work? I've never tried before. If I have to get a daytime job then I'm fucked until my dad's job gets an opening, which won't be s...

it's kind of crazy how much having an IRL social circle changes your life. finally have one after 15 years of basically only being on the internet with other losers >only had one friend in high schoo...

What the fuck is wrong with my body? I usually get about 7-8 hours of sleep(more commonly 7 hours). Most days when I get up, I am okayish. When I get to work and sit down in my chair though, I start f...

Outside of 4chan this would obviously be a cry for help, but here I just wanna get perspectives outside of my head and outside of a hugbox. I know full well what I'm getting into by posting this here,...

I am 35 now and I wanted to have a family etc but I don't think I am going to make it. I am a autistic male and my earlier years were a bit tough for me. My parents were killed. Then I lost the house ...

what do you advise i do/dont do in my 20s so i come out a well made man in my 30s/40s/and beyond?

>be me >sitting by myself (in a busy public area) >a couple of girls come sit next to me >they're taking photos of each other >think about offering to take a photo of them but feel like I don't want t...

best ways to supress hunger while dieting? I also appreciate unconventional ways. I really struggle with dieting, I stick to it for 4 days and then I relapse really hard and eat anything I get my hand...

So I'm 21 soon to be 22 and just got my first girlfriend who's a Chinese immigrant. Besides sex I'm sort of at a loss in terms of what we could/should do together in our spare time or even just what t...

My friend confessed her feelings for me recently, and despite how ridiculously well we get along and how incredible I think she is, I turned her down. Even just a few years ago I would have been ecsta...

Who knows forums where you can write anything? At least one, I'm tired and just want to speak out, but they ban me here

Am I weird if I prefer regular girls over the tattooed botox lips bimbos? My friends have completely different taste when it comes to girls.

why am I such a schizo that even the most mild inconvenience fills my head with "I should kill myself" thoughts and my mood changes from mania to absolute bottom of the barrel self-loathing in literal...

yesterday i went to a party and saw my ex, we kissed and i didn't get hard we tried having sex two weeks ago but i had the same problem after she left the party, i hooked up with a friend and had no i...

Alright this is going to help you out with social skills. I'm going to give you a tip and I want you to use it to help yourself. Instead of when you have a conversation you predict it will work like a...

is my life fucking over >be me >18 m >ben feeling a bit depressed lately >have ben having some intrusive thougts imagining myself shooting up the school tho not anything i am planing to do or want...

hey all. Old timer from 07. And when all else fails, I come here for advice. I'm working on a uni project (yes, im a 40 year old uni student) putting together a montage of drone footage and its very h...

I've been dating this girl for the last 4 years. Something has happened within the last few months to make me lose interest in her sexually. We have been fighting quite often as well. Leading to these...

im 29 just starting with my career and wanting to go out and feel young, going clubbing and meeting women. my mom on the other hand wants me to be like a traditional Hispanic where I settle down and ...

How much does it cost total to get a stripper to come back to my place and do my bidding Tired of women who will barely follow orders and its like pulling teeth to even get my cock slobbered on a litt...

How do you deal with friends that have a different political ideology than you? I feel it’s hard to talk to my one friend because of his beliefs maybe it’s just me :/

If you get stung by a sand bee while at the beach, pee on a tampon and hold it over the swollen area on your foot.

>inattentive >mentally foggy >easily get stressed/anxious >terrible execute function (diagnosed with inattentive ADHD) >as a child did well in verbal subjects but sucked at math >literally every singl...

What's the psychological reason behind me feeling like shit when I fap to real women but feeling good after I fap to 2d ones? Why is this?

Not enough time in the day to do everything I want. I can't keep up with all my interests and I'm falling behind in them all. How do I cope?

I'm still in love with my ex who cheated on me seven years ago. We were together for ten years, married but no kids. I don't know why, but I can't bring myself to hate her or to forget about her. I li...

A girl I had sex with told me to leave and I did. I've been texting her for about a week with no response trying to get something out of her, anything. I thought she wanted me to come over for some re...

how do i get rid of my interracial cuckolding fetish?

How do you find women in the age range is 21-26 with at least some form of non-normalfag interests in Indiana? I don't keep up with anime conventions because I'm retarded with finding shit in my area....

Pirate edition

Is it bad if I feel like a completely different person before and after masturbating to pornography? Before I feel like a poet, a dreamer and a visionary, afterwards I feel like a simple man, a subsis...

Don't put your trust in them. Men really have no positive community. They’re always in competition with each other, who’s the fastest, strongest, who’s had the most/craziest sex, mean to each other a...

Last year Helene hit my town pretty bad, no power or gas for a month. A few neighborhoods close by had no drinking water for a week. So this year I want to get some emergency rations together. We ar...

>25 >neet >fat >porn addict >mentally ill (it's not that bad but avolition fucks me over) where do i even begin to make my life less bad without anyone's help each time i reached out to someone for he...

>online dating sucks >"don't go online bro try meeting girls irl" >irl sucks >"irl is dead bro download a dating app" what do i do now?

24m dropped out of high school in 10th grade. Basically raised on the internet, single mom, terminally online my whole childhood lonely with no friends. I had this weird complex in school where I just...

Why does approaching women no longer work? (assuming you're not recording like vidrel)

Where can I cut the veins on my hand so that it's not fatal? I really need to know, please help. No kidding..And how to do it? Well, I can imagine approximately. Do you need to take a knife and just c...

Should I go on a trip alone? What should I do on that trip?

Can you repair the brainrot acquired from being terminally online for decades? I believe that my constant internet usage from the ages of 8 through 26 have damaged my irl skills in all faculties. Is q...

Hi Anons, First time visiting this site, but heard plenty about you guys. I am coming to you since i have nowhere else to turn... About me: 28yo male, fat 107kg/176cm, eastern european, university g...

Being gang stalked since 12 because I drew some swastikas when I didn't know what they meant with the camps, probably why I've only received contempt from everyone after drawing hitler fat on the comp...

I am wasting my 20s by sitting at home. I am a gym frequent, interested in drawing, music and vidya and all I want is to go out with other people my age and be retarded. Unfortunately I have not made ...

I have a deep hatred of humanity within me. I love my family, and would never dream of hurting them, but I feel like I'm sub-human every day. I don't remember when this started, but there's always a l...

I lose almost every game of chess since I can never predict what my opponent is going to do more than one or two moves in advance and when watching a movie or show, I never know what is going to happe...

ITT We ask the opposite gender anything. (With a few exceptions: see below). This a thread for questions and answers. If what you're posting is not a reply to another anon, it *MUST* be in the form o...

I quit drinking back in september after I day drank one saturday and had severe panic attacks for 4 days following that. I still dont know if it was withdrawals or just in my head, I was only a weeken...

Why do I always feel so weird? Nothing ever feels right, and I often feel like I’m going to panic. If I enjoy something, my mind will search for reasons to be made uncomfortable by it. I have a girlfr...

Women look more aesthetically pleasing with clothes on than they do naked to me. Is this normal

How do I stop drinking alcohol? can you give me some tips? seriously, I really want to quit

I'm a fiction writer and every time I plan a new character I try my best to do thorough research when there's something about them that I do not personally understand. Can be a job, an interest, habit...

I have no idea how I managed to pull this but I got a gf who is a virgin. I didn't know that and the fact that she is 22 makes that really uncommon. I had no idea about this since almost no girl is a ...

Now that I live in Italy, my uncles took my grandmother on a cruise, so I was left alone all week with my two cousins, male and female. What happens is that I never would have imagined that my cousin ...

I've been trying to get a job at this grocery chain I used to work for. On the application, they have a question that asks if I have ever been convicted of a crime, and if so, to provide a couple det...

Is there any way to meet other extreme losers? Like people with no friends, no hope, no pleasure, no happiness? It feels like I'm the only one.

> be me >Eastern Euro diasporoid in a third world shithole >10 years ago >go to 4-year mixed technical high school >have to do a job/internship to graduate >dad forbids me from working >"If you get a ...

There is this fat girl that's into me but I don't feel the same way about her. However I am also considered to be a bad kisser, due to lack of experience. So I am considering using her as a practise g...

I think I’m starting to have auditory hallucinations Sometimes I’ll be focusing on something and white noise will just appear in the background, it’ll get louder and louder until my focus shifts to it...

We have an almost 3 year old and have the following situation. >preschool is supposed to start this September >we only found one school that is fitting but it's 30min with a car away >it has Waldorf...

Why am I a virgin at 23 despite looking like the real life chad meme?

>dating gf with BPD (don't research anything about it when she tells me, just say "okay", only just recently I have researched it more to understand her) >she gets upset at me over run-of-the-mill rel...

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I love being a husband and dad, but damn getting no peace and quiet for working on personal projects or for just still contemplation sometimes is wearing me real thin. The three year old is well-behav...

f18 bro how do i stop being terrified of sex. im so downbad and im trying really hard to get laid cuz i dont wanna be some old loser virgin. I think men are into me enough to have sex but how do i get...

I want to get political asylum in the USA, but if i say anti-government things in my country, i will be jailed and then barred from ever leaving, so i can't get asylum. My idea is to flee the country,...

I am currently being impersonated on steam with my face being shown & my discord tag by someone who I knew a while ago. Hes been doing this for the most petty reasons imaginable, & has been obsessed w...

>Got a emotional, sensitive shy insecure gf >Feels like I spend more time regulating her emotions because anything can set her off >she went on prozac 3ish years ago >Since then she has been more fun,...

I was thinking of taking SSRIs to slow me down before I start talking, giving me time to be aware of what I'm gonna say. Then I stop taking them after the habit is ingrained, since I don't like how me...

2 questions: 1. anyone here managed to pass the bar exam with just one month of studying and how did you do it? 2. What kind of lucrative jobs can I get with a law degree (juris doctor)? I understand ...

What year do you think society will collapse due to climate change? When am I going to die? I live in the United States.

The engineering school has only 55 seats available and offers dormitory, while med school has over 400 seats and no dorms and rent next to it is super expensive, drive from home will take 40 minutes. ...

Hi everyone, need some help. I'm graduating (MA) in Literature next week, and I dunno what to do next. Here are the options: 1. Try the PhD 2. Wait september to sign me up for the Teaching qualificat...

My property has $183k left till pay off. The home value is about $400k without a proper assessment (likely closer to $420k with what I've upgraded in the house). My credit score is 749 after a credit ...

How do I stop ask people so many questions when talking? I don't have much to say so I just ask questions to keep the flow going and I have nothing really in my head of interest

An old friend posted about a game she knew I played, I replied and we started talking again a few weeks ago. I regret it. We spoke last year for the first time since school. I apologised for past slig...

I'm planning on buying a flat in Leeds UK where the avg temperature in winter is between 3C and 8C and the coldest recorded temp is -10C but in my experience in the UK it rarely drops below 0C. I'm a ...

>3 months into my PhD in maths >supervisor tells me he's moving to a different university at the end of the year >it's a plane trip away >the student I'm collaborating with is following him >gf is sta...

I have some trusted pals with me that I contact once a month in order to fulfill my social needs. Thing is they don't respond because of irl and emailing is not their thing I guess. Eventually I wil...

https://files.catbox.moe/e837mn.pdf > i’ve been struggling with feeling like a burden and hating myself in a world that seems built against me so i made this thing. not to go viral or anything. just ...

Is adult life just a systematic hell? I feel childhood and adolescence are the only parts of life truly worth living and the rest is just soul crushing wageslaving and dehumanizing rat racing for an e...

hello, /adv/. im 12 years old, ill be 13 in december. i know, its not the best place to tell this stuff, but i need some support ig. i need to talk with people. for those interested, i recently learne...

I have an offer for a $92,000 a year job in Dallas Texas. Is this good enough to live there comfortably? After taxes and deductions this will roughly equal to $5,000 - 5,250 per month.

>be me >lying in bed, about to sleep >overthinking as usual >suddenly feel this weird sensation in my brain >like it just powered up or something >overthinking stops instantly >literally feels like so...

>be 27 living in one of the main cities in Australia >parents have large double story house >have a job but because rent and housing is crazy expensive and my parents house is huge I still live at hom...

Why the fuck do women do stupid shit to solicit a reaction, then get upset when it blows up in their face? Is that what they want? Almost every woman I know does this bullshit. My mother, my girlfri...

But I could never marry her. Should I turn her down? Cashier at my Kroger asked me out. Never had a girl ask me out before, so that was nice. However, she's a hijab wearing black girl. She was born h...

Grew up in 6 countries, have dual nationality (Aus and Northern European nation) > finished my degree in Australia, absolutely hate it and left back to Europe > things outside of my control happen, I...

I have a friend that is constantly negative and trash talking me. Every time we play together or watch something he is throwing shit at me. I know he is insecure and that he does it to inflate his own...

There's this girl I get along great but she has a boyfriend, should I leave it or do more soft surgical attacks?

should i run away and leave everything behind and if so how should i go about that? every couple of weeks or so i become really irritable and wish i could just drop everyone and go far away never to b...

I'm sick of being a loser Why shouldn't I kill myself