An old friend posted about a game she knew I played, I replied and we started talking again a few weeks ago. I regret it. We spoke last year for the first time since school. I apologised for past slig...

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I have some trusted pals with me that I contact once a month in order to fulfill my social needs. Thing is they don't respond because of irl and emailing is not their thing I guess. Eventually I wil...

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Is adult life just a systematic hell? I feel childhood and adolescence are the only parts of life truly worth living and the rest is just soul crushing wageslaving and dehumanizing rat racing for an e...

hello, /adv/. im 12 years old, ill be 13 in december. i know, its not the best place to tell this stuff, but i need some support ig. i need to talk with people. for those interested, i recently learne...

I have an offer for a $92,000 a year job in Dallas Texas. Is this good enough to live there comfortably? After taxes and deductions this will roughly equal to $5,000 - 5,250 per month.

>be me >lying in bed, about to sleep >overthinking as usual >suddenly feel this weird sensation in my brain >like it just powered up or something >overthinking stops instantly >literally feels like so...

>be 27 living in one of the main cities in Australia >parents have large double story house >have a job but because rent and housing is crazy expensive and my parents house is huge I still live at hom...

Why the fuck do women do stupid shit to solicit a reaction, then get upset when it blows up in their face? Is that what they want? Almost every woman I know does this bullshit. My mother, my girlfri...

But I could never marry her. Should I turn her down? Cashier at my Kroger asked me out. Never had a girl ask me out before, so that was nice. However, she's a hijab wearing black girl. She was born h...

Grew up in 6 countries, have dual nationality (Aus and Northern European nation) > finished my degree in Australia, absolutely hate it and left back to Europe > things outside of my control happen, I...

I have a friend that is constantly negative and trash talking me. Every time we play together or watch something he is throwing shit at me. I know he is insecure and that he does it to inflate his own...

There's this girl I get along great but she has a boyfriend, should I leave it or do more soft surgical attacks?

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>be me >aroace guy (aromantic asexual) >pretty much never had a genuine crush on anyone, never really wanted to have sex much or anything >i just wanna be good friends with people >im a pretty calm bu...

What are some ADHD-friendly hobbies to pursue? I need something to occupy myself when I am not studying. I pick up several hobbies at once and end up not sticking with any at all.

I'm retarded when it comes to these things so I'll ask here. I never travelled abroad alone. I do not enjoy travelling so I always avoided it. But now, I am an exchange student and going to the UK. I ...

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I'm going to be a doctor soon and I want to be able to have vasectomies as a tool. However, I also want to be Catholic I think. I think that God would want me to sterilize people to make society bette...

i keep randomly screaming and crying about being alive, hating life, and wanting to die, literally every single day. I cant stop and i dont know what to do >why do you hate life so much I just hate ev...

Mid women give me the -ick. Ugly women I just feel sorry for them for maybe one second then look away but mid women give me the ick, especially when they open their mouth about some inane bullshit nob...

do you guys have any tips on how to deal with bereavement my mom died a week ago and she was the last member of my family to die i have literally no one now, i am alone and i am already feeling immens...

Please don't judge me, no bullshit, this is my situation >Be me, late 20s >Been masturbating 3 times a day since I was 17 >oddly enough, never masturbated before then because repressed >fapping 3+tim...

Currently I have abandoned notion of irrational insecurity and hatred towards others. But that wasn't always true, sometimes memories of those people return and I just start thinking petty. How do I m...

I'm starting to think my "gf" could actually kick my ass. She's taller than me, she weighs more, and I think her bone density is actually better. Her not being submissive is also a big issue. I'm try...

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Will emulating Andrew Tate finally get me respect in the workplace? I’m 27

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how do i stop being boring, awkward, overthinker, anxious while talking to a girl?

>24 years old and I still have no friends, virgin and can barely make conversation Am I screwed?

I had a really hard reality check recently. I was at a tattoo convention (yeah I know you fags all hate tattoos just bear with me) and in the conversation with the artist, who was younger than me, I r...

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I've decided to stop worrying about or dealing with women that aren't enthusiastic and proactive about talking to me. Is this a good life strategy?

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I used to have a moderately decent following online, mostly just shitposting. But this style of posting ended up grabbing me a lot of detractors (albeit in a niche). Further, I'm being accused of thin...

Is it possible for a person to be cursed?

how do you let go of idealistic views without becoming a bitter cynic?

I am going crazy over constant rejection and ghostings from girls. I'm seriously about to go ER (Elliot Rodger)

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If you've seriously considered killing yourself for around 10 years isn't it safe to say it's not just a phase or being an edgy pussy? I have moments where it gets better but besides the feeling I alm...

How do I be a better trainer at work? I've been thrown to the wolves by management and I have to train a bunch of new people. I've trained people before, but it wasn't as successful as I hoped. It mad...

I think I’m mentally ill. Not a self pity thread but for context due to a long life of terrible events and also chronic loneliness and social rejection I think I might have developed some kind of men...

Or adjustable height desk. It's quite expensive so I can't just go and buy it to try it out. Do i need one ?

I have OCD and the NAC shills are getting to me, alternatively recommend me any other supplements. SSRIs and SNRIs didnt work for me btw

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How do I deal with being alone this 4th of July? I normally hang out with friends the night of the 4th but since last year things have been weird between us so that’s not really an option. How do I en...

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How can I get 4chan to filter out the "I won't read" anon of the /adv/ board?

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I don't know what to do anymore. He's older than me so I thought he would be experienced but he can't me cum at all and his dick goes limp often. I love him but I don't know what I should do.

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I'm a good looking dude, I also have an above average dick and have been told I'm a good lay. I am also autistic and boring as fuck. I'm seeing this one girl right now and she only really reaches ou...

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I just had sex with a hot Korean prostitute. What should I do now bros?

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Alright bros, I gotta let this out. Dec 24th, 2023. Christmas Eve. Just got out of a relationship, was feeling like shit, super down. That night I met this girl online. She said she'd be my friend. N...

I'm have been so bored at my college. Can't get any girls no matter how hard I try, liked some clubs but they always have extremely low participation, the "friends" I make never invite me to anything,...

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I studied very lightly since 18. Now I'm almost 26 and am six moths to one year away from getting my diploma (Industrial Eng) but I have no work exp. How fucked am I realistically? ireally regret hav...

Long story short, this girl at my gym would not leave me alone. Every time I hit a set she was trying to talk to me more and more. I didn't realize she was into me until after the fact. She was basica...

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I lent my roommate $250 for his car repairs in Jan (he was having a breakdown about not being able to pay) and he said he would “get me back in two weeks” That.. was in January. I’ve asked like 3 time...

I am a low IQ retard. How do I become a high IQ not retard?

> muh life problems > muh no gf > muh I'm an ugly loser Just hit the gym bro. What's stopping you from becoming a big buff man respected by everyone around him, men and women alike?

growing up as a gifted kid was dope. my natural intelligence helped me breeze through school without stress. i also had parents who made a decent living, so i was showered with cool gifts that turned ...

I'm 34 years old, don't have many issues trying to find women on my own. Plenty of rejections, but I never aim for someone I don't find physically attractive. Yesterday, a co-worker whom I worked with...

I recently found that my friend (32) beats his wife (29). What the fuck do I do?

Is it a thinly-veiled excuse for them to sleep with exotic men?

>be me >get a job as an intern for a lawyer that's friend of my mom >no job experience whatsoever >make a lot of fuck ups the first few months and do stupid shit >there's this second lawyer behind my ...

me and my bf are talking seriously about getting married and having kids. ive mentioned this since we met, i definitely want this. he seems pretty confident he wants this as well, but i worry he only ...

If a woman tells you she isn’t sure about getting lewd, romantic or just friendzones you, is it a good idea to make her jealous? Like casually showing her and getting opinions on what other women are ...

I hats going to the barber. I'll wait like 6-8 months just to avoid sitting in a barber seat listening to them talk about shit. How did you get over this irrational avoidance? I plan on making it a go...

Recently, me and some friends started programming a game, we decided to use Godot. The devs are me and another person. While he is doing his tasks without any problems, I keep struggling at easy thing...

Last Time: >>33280569 Thread Question: Do you think the RPG roles of dps, tank, and healer are gendered? Which do you prefer to play, and why?

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My VA rating is at 50%. I wonder if I could get it raised higher. Nothing's really wrong with me except plantar faciitis on one of my feet. I heard you can claim more shit for that, specifically, down...

In this age of extreme hoeflation and general thottery, young men are making the extremely grave mistake of overrating women. Thus they are viewing women that are absolutely average or below average a...

so i'm new here and this is my first post. i have no idea what the etiquette is, and i need tips to how to use the website, how to get to certain boards, etc. thank you!!

Is there a way to test women so that you can say whatever you want? I’ve had relationships in the past and alot of time i’ve had to censor myself? Do I boil the frog or expose myself outright?

I feel so shit when someone ignores me.

I hate the voices I can't control in my head. It makes me want to die. I hate the idea of living on psyche meds, and I'd rather die in a way that doesn't hurt much or make a mess. I feel guilty about ...

I am a 26 year old, 5'4" guy. I have never had a girlfriend in my whole life. I used to work as a software engineer. But now I'm doing my PhD. My family is very wealthy and I play classical music. So...

I can't pay for my meds and I'm desperate. I don't know what else to do, I've applied for every single job I've found

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I have been cutting back majorly on the porn usage. However, now when I masturbate I actually get bored part way through and kind of stop. The sensation doesn't feel as strong and I have noticed that ...

My daughter, who is turning 15 later this year, I just discovered to have an instagram account where she has been posting provocative images. Like, as in way too provocative. Pictures of her in lace p...

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How do we destroy the I-wont-read anon?

Can women who are "damaged goods" be saved?

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>get a job >been working there for half a year now, it's going good, been pretty happy during most of that time and a couple of weeks ago boss told me I have been doing very good and gave me a nice ra...

Why is it everytime I try to meet new people, at school or at vocational courses, they are always so judgmental and quick to fire off insults at me cause I dont talk a lot. I feel like men my age love...

So I (18M) work in a kitchen and there’s this girl (22F) who works on the other side. Turns out we went to the same school but I didn’t even know — she did. We started talking a bit, saying good morni...

I'm bald and currently buzz my hair. Could I get away with pic related? Does this look worse than just shaving? I know bald guys aren't on top of woman's attraction list but would they be more attract...

always spoken like this since child hood, ive had different reactions to how i speak, whenever i work it's good well done etc. with friends its different

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I have a BMI of around 29.3, so overweight but inching close to obesity (I have been obese before). Now that I live by myself and can eat anywhere I want (I can't cook in the apartment I'm renting) I'...

My guy friend is trying to seduce me, and while it is working I need to focus on other stuff in my life right now and I don't have time for a relationship. I told him as much outright and he said he ...

How do i find trustworthy moderators without paying them? I'm going to host an imageboard and I know that i'll need a team of mods if i want to avoid cp and other spam. But how do i find people willi...

>haven’t gone outside to actually enjoy myself in months >no friends >no gf >not a virgin but haven’t had sex in a couple years >haven’t showered in over a week >no hobbies >24 >no post high-school ed...

When are these vaxx lepers dying so I can move into their empty homes? I'm tired of waging of paying rent, I just want to be a neet so bad bros, wtf is taking so long.

So the Girl i have been together with for a few months met with a guy who wrote her on Instagram because they apparently went to the same school together and its rare she meets someone from her hometo...

this post may seem very stupid and retarded to many. but that's it, i have an extreme obsession with Suigintou and i fantasize about dating her, i'm very sad knowing that i can't date her because she'...

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hey gamers I really want a six pack but I’m addicted to fast food, if I just quit fast food cold turkey how long would it take for me to do that if I’m skinnyfat/fat and I’m willing to dirty cut

i really want to be a better girlfriend for my boyfriend. we've been dating for a couple of months now and i want to be a better girlfriend for him. i really don't like initiating but i understand tha...

How am I supposed to ease myself into working? I've spent 15 years as a shut-in so every time I try to get a job I end up breaking down within 3 days. I have faith that I could work. But I must find ...

Met the girl of my dreams except for one caveat which is she has a flat ass. I love her to death but my mind can’t be fully and absolutely sexually attracted to her because her ass isn’t fat. Hell, my...

The oldest of my GF's kids told her mom when they were spending time alone together that that I act more like a father than her own father does. This is after spending 4 weeks here on summer vacation,...

Does the existential dread ever end? It makes everything feel meaningless. It's been on and off all my life, Is there a way to fix it. I can't access therapy.

Thinking of going to Romania to find a spouse. My spoken Romanian is meh, but I know enough to get around. I also considered Moldova/Belarus/Ukraine, but I thought it would be a better to get someone ...

i keep getting kinda upset because i failed high school. I mean, i started failing school really bad in 3rd grade and never caught up, and so i had zero chance of passing high school. I feel like a fa...

For about a week now I've woken up attempting to scramble, not bolting up, not sweating, just in the middle of scrambling like I'm climbing a hill. Naturally, I don't get far, on account of the fact t...