/adv/ - 4chan Archive
Libido and LDR Archived
I've been in a long distance relationship for three years now. It's going great, I love my gf and I want to spend more time with her, as well as thinking about spending my life with her.
We see each ...
Should I just do my indoor gardening despite what my family says Archived
Should I just grow weed despite what my family says? Using an indoor gardening system. I am of legal age of growing this and in a legal state. Only thing stopping me is my family. They're afraid of ge...
How to stop being toxic? Archived
How do I stop being a toxic piece of shit in my relationship? I am 100% sure our problems stem from my bullshit. Is it even possible to be 100% non toxic?
Some examples of the bullshit I do:
>I don...
Why is everyone alive. Archived
While studying so i can get a good enough grade to the collage i wanted to get to , i came to a realization that i don't really want to get into this collage , i don't want to get a job , get married ...
Thread 33255968 Archived
Why do my cognitive abilities fluctuate throughout the day? Most of the time I feel like shit, it’s as if I got smashed in the head with a brick. Then there’s about 30 minutes randomly in the day that...
Career change Archived
So, I'm 26 right now, I graduated from a career which I feel very dissatisfied (Journalism). Two years ago I got really into Linux and I would like to make it into cybersecurity (not in a script kiddi...
Japan Internship Archived
Has anyone here applied for the internship program in Japan by Pasona Inc.?
They're doing the AI Contest with the participants today, tomorrow and after, where we have to answer questions online (with...
Thread 33256187 Archived
Is it over for my Indian looking ass?
Thread 33251984 Archived
Someone said I'm all vibe. What does that mean?
How to guess MCQs? Archived
Taking a test in a few hours and have nothing prepared, it's all multiple choice questions.
How do I guess the most amount of correct answers when there is negative marking for each wrong answer?
Thread 33255160 Archived
how do i stop cheating on my girlfriend? i do it sort of compulsively because i'm good in bed and at hitting on women. i have a tremendous sex-drive and i get so horny sometimes that i can't think. i ...
How to stop the urge to be selfish? Archived
Sometimes during interactions and arguments, i really want to do the wrong thing and have my way, winning by using the most, manipulative language possible.
>So now you're against me? I thought I coul...
PLEASE SOMEONE HELP ME FIX BLUETOOTH ON MY LAPTOP!!!! Archived
My laptops bluetooth just turned off. I cant turn it back on so I deleted the drivers from device manager and reinstalled but nothing is there and their is no option to enable bluetooth. Troubleshoot ...
Thread 33252010 Archived
So let me get this straight:
A guy can decline an invitation by saying his girlfriend won't let him go, and everyone just laughs it off "happy wife, happy life," right?
But if a girl says her husban...
Thread 33253102 Archived
This fucking retard just ate a blister beetle. Is he going to die? Should I put him out of his misery? Please help I'm crying.
Thread 33251646 Archived
I'm bisexual and I'm in a relationship with another woman right now. My parents hate it, they keep trying to tell me about eligible guys back home. They act like it's a phase so they don't respect my ...
Thread 33255621 Archived
I hate going out in public and seeing beautiful girls and knowing they would never be attracted to me. How do I stop this?
>Just don't go out in public
I have to to work and get groceries
Thread 33254989 Archived
If everyone lies, how can people ever trust their husband / wives?
The second someone lies to me I find it incredibly hard to ever get over it - even if it's not a massive lie. I've broken off every ...
How do I stop being envy? Archived
Something I realized recently is that part of why I feel miserable is because I tend to hate people that have the things I want:
>Hate people that have financial stability because I never had it and a...
Rape fetish??? Archived
No funny shit serious replies only.
I actually have been raped before so idk. But I’ve had this fwb for almost two years now. I’d already accepted my body is not as reactive and sex is just not as e...
Thread 33255484 Archived
How do I attract women who look like this?
existential dread-dying backup Archived
How do I make a "backup" of legal, medical, economic, etc- instructions in case I, indeed, suddenly die of any random cause on any given day? Things such as: DNR orders\status , stopping myself from h...
Thread 33255620 Archived
I know that PSIP (Psychedelic Somatic Interactional Psychotherapy by Saj Razvi) uses cannabis, but I am thinking of staying home and taking some D9 THC gummies while getting comfy. I took 10mg D9 with...
/atoga/ - Ask The Opposite Gender Anything Archived
ITT We ask the opposite gender (almost!) anything.
This a thread for questions and answers. If what you're posting is not a reply to another anon, it *MUST* be in the form of a question! This is NOT ...
Thread 33253692 Archived
How do you let go of pain and fear?
Moral Cowardice Archived
An old woman just fell down in public in front of me, I wasn't sure if it was appropriate to touch her to help her up. While I was debating it over, schoolgirls came to help her up so I walked away.
...
Questions? Archived
Since all forms of governments are basically thugs/mafia keeping the general population at bay through the monopoly on violence and most people are sheeps and cowards anyway.
Why should I feel any s...
Mall job Archived
How do you get an effortless mall job at like the Vans or Levi’s store? I’ve applied to like 100 with ai written cover letters but, they all ignore me. I’ve been a seasonal sales associate at a Hallow...
Thread 33254286 Archived
How do I stop being obsessed with myself and my thoughts and start enjoying the world around me?
Thread 33254498 Archived
I'm suffering from unexplained lung issues and chronic fatigue and memory and focus issues I never used to have, I've been too ill to do a degree for years, I have no money, got ED post COVID, have no...
life planmaxxing Archived
henlo everyone. i was ostracized and taught to hate socializing so i "forgot" to ever get a job but now I'm 40 and burger job won't even hire me. My mom died young of cancer and left me enough to make...
Thread 33245260 Archived
2nd job i hold where my main colleage implies im autistic just because im not capable of having banter and chit chat about nothing for 8 hours a day. I know im not the most spontaneous person, maybe e...
Rabbits Archived
I have a rabbit problem in my yard. What are some ways to humanely capture them and release them elsewhere? Is it possible to keep one and tame it?
Thread 33254181 Archived
Being envious that someone is living your dream life will make you miserable. It is better to find peace with your current life.
What country can i enter illegally and just stay forever? Archived
I am from Belarus, and have to flee to avoid the draft. However, i don't have the ability to get a visa or any other form of legal residency because i'd get caught. I can fly to a number of countries ...
Manewry gru Archived
Zdrady zbrodnie zamachy stanu polityczne uprawiane jak exluzywne zabiegi kosmetyczne wywolujce kulawe decyzje strategiczne ale to gru i zawody taktyczne ktore opanowaly spolki skarbu pansta ukladajace...
Thread 33246265 Archived
Where do I shop to get a really nice well fitted suit? I went to Men's Warehouse and they made me look like a waiter. I don't want to look like I serve dishes, sell cars, or belong in a wedding. But I...
Thread 33255066 Archived
>my ex of 4 years dumped me saying that the love was gone
>one month later she gets with another dude
>this dude treats her like shit
>she literally comes to me asking for advice on it
>she could as...
help me Archived
study/test my Bible knowledge
ask for advice and I will try to post a relevant verse
ill start
1 John 2:15-17
Thread 33236267 Archived
How do you feel passion for wanting to do things
Not that I don't have things I want to do, just, I lack that burning desire to do them and therefore never do
I used to wake up thinking of all the thi...
Thread 33233998 Archived
June 17th 2025...
Thread 33254499 Archived
How do I fix this? I have an average 10 hour screen time usage in my phone. I wanna stop but browsing 4chan and youtube is the only thing that brings me joy. I also don't know what to do when I'm not ...
Thread 33254833 Archived
I probably won't be able to go to college unless I get more financial support than I have. I've been working a waitress job to get a little extra money to help cover it, but my dad won't be able to he...
Thread 33246389 Archived
i was a virgin and i lost it today
i thought if i felt in control and powerful i'd feel really good but i came in less than 3 minutes and i barely felt anything when i came
is this normal? how do you ...
Thread 33250839 Archived
This has really been bugging me. I just graduated with a CS degree and back to living my parents. Never got an internship and for a very long, it was clear that I hated CS and just wanted to finish th...
No friends, no girlfriend? Archived
Why do girls not like it when they realize I have no friends? I get along fine with my coworkers and family. I just haven't really found anyone worthy of being my friend yet!
Why is that such a deal b...
Thread 33228765 Archived
I'm starting to consider a man being in therapy a HUGE red flag in dating now and I'm wondering if any other women are noticing this?
It seemed for a while, like say the last 5 years or so there has ...
I have checked out of the jewish prison bus Archived
>quit wagie job
>sold everything I had in my name
>all property I own is in somebody else name
>stopped renewing IDs
>stopped paying taxes
>stopped paying car insurance/plates
>free groceries and free...
rich before graduation Archived
wealthy anonnies please heed my call, how do I make a million before I graduate high school? Yes I'm a 0.5 GPA fuck up retard. Yes I'm desperate.
I'm familiar with programming, 2d animation and 3d mo...
Why do some guys have zero standards? Archived
Yesterday at work I was eating a homemade lunch my wife packed me. One dude says it looks great, asks where I got it. I tell him my wife makes all my meals since she’s a stay-at-home wife.
Then two o...
Thread 33231189 Archived
This dude in my dorm keeps making these passive aggressive remarks as he's talking to the other roommates, saying things like "man it stinks in here" and "we already have one dude in here that stinks ...
Thread 33254224 Archived
>No likes after 24 hours on dating apps
What gives? I remember at least getting a few when I was younger. Even getting some matches and phone numbers. I have gotten more attractive since then, not le...
Thread 33253653 Archived
The guy I like had Fox News app on his phone. I was pretty disturbed and don’t know what to think. Is it possible to have such an app and not actually believe those lies?
She's lonely Archived
My girlfriend says she's lonely. I see her once a week because i work full time and im in school part time. She also moved an hour away which makes it that much harder to see each other. Now she says ...
Thread 33254458 Archived
im 22, a neet since 15 yrs old, living with my sister and her abusive boyfriend and her two children, getting yelled at all day by her boyfriend all day because he gets drunk, and could possibly end u...
Thread 33253813 Archived
I haven't spoken to a woman with intent to try and date her in 3 years
36 virgin
I have a job, apartment, car, and I've lost 40 lbs, lifes been crazy and I've just really been focusing on turning in...
I feel like I can't do anything Archived
>Dropped school as a teen due to dad forcing me to work, ending up burnt out and never wanting to leave my bed afterwards
>Developed depression and horrible habits, not wanting to do anything
>Struggl...
Finally banged a family friend Archived
Should I still do it?
A family friend, former neighbor, and I finally had sex. I've known her for 9 years when she became friends with my parents when I was in highschool. She's been a good friend of ...
Thread 33253005 Archived
There's a really cute chick working at a drive thru that I go to frequently. How do I go about asking her out without bothering her at work? I really really want to fuck her!
Tired of being a virgin loser Archived
I'm 18 and tired of being left out of the party. My youth could have shined if I had friends to hang out with, but was gloomy because I didn't and coped with consuming anime and books all day. It's re...
More of a vent than advice looking Archived
In the past week last night (this night)'s dreams and in peculiar this last dream have been overwhelming. Extremely realistic this one with a lot of details and sadly I only remember the last parts. F...
Thread 33248340 Archived
I'm looking to buy a comfortable recliner chair for my bedroom just to relax in. Should I spend the extra money for the high quality la-z-boy brand chair or just get something cheaper? The high qualit...
How to glow up when you're waterboard at life Archived
Hello
TLDR : I need help to glow up to be a better person as a gay closeted depressed for 4 years and verg of unlaliving myself guy = been waterboard from wanting to live and to die
So my life ain't...
Thread 33253787 Archived
Hypothetically, how could I forge/buy a fake philosophy degree to fool retarded academics?
I've studies for a few years and I've decided that I refuse to be deep fried by the current academic system...
Postponing an Exam Archived
I have a clinical biochemistry final in two days from now and there's another exam on the same day. I was severely sick this semester and couldn't study clinical nutrition (~600 pages of dense materia...
how do I cope with this Archived
>spend a decade fixing my mental issues so I can actually maintain a relationship. Have absolutely zero success, despite going out regularly the whole time.
>Nephew has a girl from another school, the...
Is duolicious a good dating app? Archived
Simple. I need a girl and I heart 4 chan and duolicious are connected or smth. Idrk.
Is even possible to get over jealousy? Archived
Hey /adv/. Long time lurker, have seldom posted over the decade or so I’ve been on 4ch as a whole. I want advice on the title, basically. Everyone says develop self worth / self esteem, but sincerely ...
How do i help my friend? Archived
He has really gone off the deep end, he posts things like picrel and is unable to contain himself, always starring with his antisemitic conapiracy theories.
It is unsettling and i want the old versio...
What did she mean? Archived
Went on a first date with this girl who’s a plastic surgeon. We were talking and out of nowhere she goes,
>“You’ve actually got really good bone structure and a good mid face. If you lost some weight...
When is kissing a family member weird? Archived
This retarded girl I know posted a pic with her and her sister pouting their lips right next to each other.
Some people are really kissy these days and I was wondering how other people felt? Where doe...
Thread 33245434 Archived
If you're going to have sex with someone and you'd prefer not to use a condom, what is the etiquette for that? Do you just go ahead and not use one and wait for her to say you need to otherwise it's f...
Thread 33249757 Archived
>buy new laptop
>move a bunch of unimportant files over on a USB
>sign into my Youtube account / Google account to watch videos on it
>just now opened Wizchan, the first thread was linking a file i ha...
In Japan with No Meds Archived
I fucking lost my Seroquel and Lexapro. I’m only gonna be missing two days’ worth of doses, but I’m still scared shitless. How bad are the withdrawals gonna be? Am I gonna have another psychotic break...
quickshot gf Archived
I can't cum with my girl because she taps out too fast.
I've always lasted decently long before climaxing but it was never an issue because the girl would just keep going...
She asks for it a lot, bu...
Thread 33249843 Archived
Is it wrong for me as a female to be uncomfortable and think it’s wrong for having my gay family member touch me inappropriately? Such as groping my breasts, fondling me, etc.. I hate it, but no one r...
Thread 33250907 Archived
>thou shalt make 6 figures, have six hobbies after work, have a siclx pack and six stem degrees if you want ANY WOMAN!
What if I want a mid, cringe woman that will be compatible with me and give me pe...
Thread 33250956 Archived
What's the appeal of a girlfriend?
Don't give me vague answers like love or companionship.
Yes I am autistic.
Thread 33253303 Archived
>gather the courage to approach a girl
>she tells me to read her ring
>it's a heart with the encryption the says "Fuck off"
How do I recover?
Why Archived
I live with my mom in an increasingly bad neighborhood.
We are the only ones who actually do anything about any issue that happens.
Kids hutting cars/fences? We call them off.
Loud ass music at 4am...
How to become a high value male? Archived
Is the bare minimum just dressing well, having good hygiene, being reasonably fit, and having a stable job?
On one hand the dating market, and even the fact that we're using economical terms to descri...
Thread 33243451 Archived
Why do I feel tired all the time when I am at home?
A few years ago I started feeling very tired and sleepy despite getting decent sleep at night. I remember this problem started during a period in wh...
Thread 33253335 Archived
what do you do when you "love too hard"?
i get very attached to people. i can only speak of platonic relationships here, since ive never been in a romantic one but i cant even imagine how terribly i ...
Thread 33252808 Archived
harddrive got corrupted and i lost 9 years of memories going back to when i was 14
screenshots recordings etc
how do i cope/move on? i really want to kill myself right now
Thread 33248041 Archived
what do i sell? how do i make money? if i become homeless/without a home right now, what do i do, after getting a job, to make money? i have a phone, internet, and a laptop.
how do i get interest in something? Archived
my life persists exhausted, i have no hobbies, interests, or musical tastes. how do i get interest in at least 1 thing in my miserable life?
Thread 33252399 Archived
Have people ever told you disturbing shit as an autistic because no one would believe you?
I have had it happen many and I mean many times. For some reason people think I make things up in my head of...
Thread 33253139 Archived
straight woman are into monster fucking and men should be over their lack of self esteem
woman actually like ugly men, this is the basis of heterosexuality. they want to fuck the beast from beauty a...
Thread 33248893 Archived
Got bed bugs in my bed, found a few after checking because I had bites
None of the other beds in the house are affected
I'm normally extremely clean and careful with hygiene
Already dismembered the be...
How do I find a 25-35 European boyfriend with blue eyes who is into my mu taste? Archived
I am a thin European woman and want a pale eu boyfriend with blue eyes to go to black metal /other genres too concerts with . I have been trying for a while but still is hard since all the people who ...
Thread 33242298 Archived
How do I become asexual?
Being straight is such a nuisance.
Thread 33252892 Archived
If any of this rings a bell, please respond.
Back in 2015, as a senior prank there was revenge porn posted of me on pornhub with a Dropbox link full of hacked webcam footage of me when I was a teenag...
/atoga/ - ask the opposite gender anything Archived
The boys edition
Previous: >>33244389
Thread 33252646 Archived
How the fuck can I just forget about a woman? I rarely have contact with any am pretty confident I haven't met a single one outside of work in a decade, but a girl I fell for when I was a teenager sti...
Thread 33244414 Archived
Do moids consider it bad if a woman has 3 cats?
Thread 33251661 Archived
How do I stop obsessing over my height? I have a GF, a good job and I make decent money, yet I can't stop comparing my height to other men around me. I'm around 5'5" and I don't know if it's just my O...
Thread 33249771 Archived
I'm not trans, I'm a femboy. I don't believe in the pronoun game or that a man can be a woman or vice versa. I'm taking estrogen for aesthetic reasons as is my right as a free American.
I hit some mon...
Thread 33248735 Archived
Any NEETs wanna chime in on what constitutes a good use of time? Should I just be homesteading the entire day?
Thread 33252554 Archived
What does /adv/ think of Orion Taraban? I think he's pretty based and gives perhaps the best insight into the woman question, plus he makes R*dditors absolutely seethe with impotent rage!
Thread 33252327 Archived
How do I find hobbies when every hobby from serious ones to copes remind me of human hierarchies and how I will always be at the bottom?
What are some totally solitary hobbies? Reading? Even the subj...
Thread 33248963 Archived
How do i make time move slower? Its already Friday and it feels like the week just started. The weekend will also come and go so fast that i wont be done enjoying it before its monday again.
I want m...
Why are zoomers so anti-social? Archived
I can't even make friends because of them
I'm on my second year in University and I don't live there, I just commute.
It's impossible to make friends there, I don't even know what to do, it's killin...
Thread 33248944 Archived
Anyone here beat his gambling addiction?
Thread 33246503 Archived
The more I put myself out there dating women the more I'm starting to realize that I want nothing to do with them and rather just pay an escort.
Memories tainted. Archived
Every time I think about my old e gf I feel happy until I remember she’s gone.
Even worse, now that she’s gone her ex has been posting about how glad he is that she’s dead.
When I think about her I w...
Thread 33252015 Archived
How do I get over the fact that no women will ever have sex with me and squirt in my face like pic related
Thread 33252310 Archived
Is it important to have “lived a life” before being in a long term relationship with plans of marriage? I’m jealous of some of the women in my life that have gotten to move to a different city after c...
Thread 33251148 Archived
A week ago i made a thread about quitting adderall prescribed for my ahdd. I've stuck to that and I think it's been a week and a half since i've last taken it.
But everything is falling apart now. I'v...
Thread 33250866 Archived
I am about to start graduate school.
I have no direction. I don't want to do it, but I am committed to it. I hate my family and I won't be far enough away from them. I thought that I would be much fu...
Thread 33248300 Archived
My youngest brother (25 years younger) will start school in a couple years. So far my dad has done a good job at not making him an iPad baby.
Will the mental health benefits of not having a smartphon...
Thread 33251901 Archived
i just met one of my friends friend because she told us how weird they are and we wanted to talk to them ourselves. i cant believe she would be willing to befriend such a lowly excuse of a human being...
Is it worth it buying a foreclosed house? Archived
I want to buy a house for my family and I'm thinking of going to foreclosed route and maybe fixing it up. Is this smart? It could be cheaper than just buying one
How can I stop being a degenerate? Archived
I frequent places like /b/ or /gif/ for gooning material but it makes me feel guilty because deep down, what I really long for is being a good person and all of that content makes me feel disgusted
H...
Thread 33251106 Archived
I'm addicted to psychoanalyzing people. I'll hear their interests and make assumptions, who they were at certain age based on their favorite franchises or even down to what specific facts they memoriz...
Thread 33243337 Archived
How to let go of past sins? whatever works.
Thread 33240801 Archived
I (20) never managed to make friends or grow up like everyone else did nor can I handle social interaction or most 'adult' things. I can (barely) hold down a job and drive, but make me go out for fun,...
Thread 33250586 Archived
Any ideas on how to disappear completely?
My life is ruined. There's nothing left. I decided I'm going through with it. I purchased a nitrogen gas tank for a painless end. My plan is to disappear, s...
collect debt Archived
I need advice on collecting a debt from someone who is systematically avoiding to pay. Preferably without involving authorities. Please help me I'd hate to resort to violent solutions.
How do I have fun? Archived
My entire family died and now I'm 30. I've got a good job, I'm tall and work out, but I feel like I'm missing out on life. I've been on one single date in 10 years. I've done a lot of cool stuff caree...
Thread 33246073 Archived
Need help from married, preferably Christian anons; I know there's some of you here.
I'm Orthodox Christian since birth, 26, got a decent job and am pretty comfortable around women. I still got a lot...
Thread 33250845 Archived
This is my second day cigarette-free. I did a stupid thing and got drunk 30 minutes ago and now I desperately want to pull out my vape from behind my dresser (where I threw it to make it hard to retri...
Thread 33251281 Archived
what defines a manchild?
Advice New Zealand Archived
Hello Advice. I'm planning to travel to New Zealand for a working season. I'm 35 years old (Yes very old), but i wish to find s job there in New Zealand. It doesn't matter any job would do, as long as...
Thread 33249511 Archived
is more than 15 % body fat too much?
Thread 33246387 Archived
how do i get people to care about me or pay attention to me? everyone just seems so indifferent to my existence.
my friend is a sex offender Archived
so someone I know came to me and told me about my friend's past, they said he basically groped and molested a young boy and did sexual acts with him, I won't go into detail since I want to remain anon...
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