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Thread 33248944 Archived
Anyone here beat his gambling addiction?
Thread 33246503 Archived
The more I put myself out there dating women the more I'm starting to realize that I want nothing to do with them and rather just pay an escort.
Memories tainted. Archived
Every time I think about my old e gf I feel happy until I remember she’s gone.
Even worse, now that she’s gone her ex has been posting about how glad he is that she’s dead.
When I think about her I w...
Thread 33252015 Archived
How do I get over the fact that no women will ever have sex with me and squirt in my face like pic related
Thread 33252310 Archived
Is it important to have “lived a life” before being in a long term relationship with plans of marriage? I’m jealous of some of the women in my life that have gotten to move to a different city after c...
Thread 33251148 Archived
A week ago i made a thread about quitting adderall prescribed for my ahdd. I've stuck to that and I think it's been a week and a half since i've last taken it.
But everything is falling apart now. I'v...
Thread 33250866 Archived
I am about to start graduate school.
I have no direction. I don't want to do it, but I am committed to it. I hate my family and I won't be far enough away from them. I thought that I would be much fu...
Thread 33248300 Archived
My youngest brother (25 years younger) will start school in a couple years. So far my dad has done a good job at not making him an iPad baby.
Will the mental health benefits of not having a smartphon...
Thread 33251901 Archived
i just met one of my friends friend because she told us how weird they are and we wanted to talk to them ourselves. i cant believe she would be willing to befriend such a lowly excuse of a human being...
Is it worth it buying a foreclosed house? Archived
I want to buy a house for my family and I'm thinking of going to foreclosed route and maybe fixing it up. Is this smart? It could be cheaper than just buying one
How can I stop being a degenerate? Archived
I frequent places like /b/ or /gif/ for gooning material but it makes me feel guilty because deep down, what I really long for is being a good person and all of that content makes me feel disgusted
H...
Thread 33251106 Archived
I'm addicted to psychoanalyzing people. I'll hear their interests and make assumptions, who they were at certain age based on their favorite franchises or even down to what specific facts they memoriz...
Thread 33243337 Archived
How to let go of past sins? whatever works.
Thread 33240801 Archived
I (20) never managed to make friends or grow up like everyone else did nor can I handle social interaction or most 'adult' things. I can (barely) hold down a job and drive, but make me go out for fun,...
Thread 33250586 Archived
Any ideas on how to disappear completely?
My life is ruined. There's nothing left. I decided I'm going through with it. I purchased a nitrogen gas tank for a painless end. My plan is to disappear, s...
collect debt Archived
I need advice on collecting a debt from someone who is systematically avoiding to pay. Preferably without involving authorities. Please help me I'd hate to resort to violent solutions.
How do I have fun? Archived
My entire family died and now I'm 30. I've got a good job, I'm tall and work out, but I feel like I'm missing out on life. I've been on one single date in 10 years. I've done a lot of cool stuff caree...
Thread 33246073 Archived
Need help from married, preferably Christian anons; I know there's some of you here.
I'm Orthodox Christian since birth, 26, got a decent job and am pretty comfortable around women. I still got a lot...
Thread 33250845 Archived
This is my second day cigarette-free. I did a stupid thing and got drunk 30 minutes ago and now I desperately want to pull out my vape from behind my dresser (where I threw it to make it hard to retri...
Thread 33251281 Archived
what defines a manchild?
Advice New Zealand Archived
Hello Advice. I'm planning to travel to New Zealand for a working season. I'm 35 years old (Yes very old), but i wish to find s job there in New Zealand. It doesn't matter any job would do, as long as...
Thread 33249511 Archived
is more than 15 % body fat too much?
Thread 33246387 Archived
how do i get people to care about me or pay attention to me? everyone just seems so indifferent to my existence.
my friend is a sex offender Archived
so someone I know came to me and told me about my friend's past, they said he basically groped and molested a young boy and did sexual acts with him, I won't go into detail since I want to remain anon...
I don´t really know how to be supportive Archived
So, my best friend is going through rough times with his GF, they lived together for almost 3 years and they been in a relationship for 10 years. He texted me telling me he´s not ok because they been ...
Odd sleep disorder Archived
I am twenty-one years old and male. I have a pretty demanding special ed educator job. Lately (since about September) I have started to see what sounds like a sharp, abrupt decline in my metabolic rat...
Had to cut off all my friends and now im alone Archived
Friend 1 - called me retarded for going on a walk and changing my diet (he tried to blackpill me it won't change my life anyways)
Friend 2 - sabotaged my career when I started becoming successful
Fri...
why? Archived
why men do this to me so often?
i been in a low achievement community with a bunch of resentful ugly men and this guys are the ones who bully me saying things like “why don’t you look like that?” *p...
how do i get motivation to improve? Archived
for 2 weeks i studied 6+ hours as if it was the norm and i thought i already had everything set for my future. from a day to another i dont have any will to do shit. how do i actually become a sigger?
Thread 33250471 Archived
I cut my (slight) neckbeard because of workplace dress-code and women have been giving me way less looks, I guess I lost the bear phenotype a little bit.
What do I do to get the female attention back?
Feelings of undeservedness Archived
How do you deal with feelings of guilt and undeservedness over positive outcomes you didn't work for?
I got a return offer at a nepo internship in a field where getting entry level jobs is really hard...
Thread 33244072 Archived
I have to go to this class every week. And at the end of the class, we have to go to the teacher to have our papers signed so we can get credit for the class.
Thing is, as we line up to get our paper...
How do wagies cope? Archived
>graduate
>construction
>army
>pharmacy
>grocery store
And since then it’s been horrendous. Especially after the Army.
I’m sick and tired of being treated like cattle, i got docked an hour of pay fo...
Grower Archived
When I'm flaccid, my dick is really small, like 2 to 3 cm. But when I get hard, it grows to about 13–14 cm. Is that something women would find weird or off-putting? I have tonight a girl over and feel...
Looking for a reason to do stuff Archived
I have been thinking, and sometimes trying, to be better in life but havent found a good reason or motivation to do so. Everytime I tried, everything I have searched about, never gave me a reason that...
Thread 33250127 Archived
Do you have a personality defect if you enjoy setting up arguments between people and just sitting on the sidelines as they go at it?
Thread 33237900 Archived
is a psychology degree worth it? curious if anyone here already has some experience in this field of work. Did different things before (worked in IT for a while absolutely hated it) and am now studyin...
Thread 33249921 Archived
I can't talk to people normally. All I can think of is just how to respond in ways that will make them like me, or how I can use them, I've never been able to look at people as individuals, because th...
Thread 33245868 Archived
What the fuck are you supposed to do for a living if your only interest in life is videogames?
Thread 33248748 Archived
Is there a skill that:
>can be self-taught.
>can let me earn a living or at least give me a huge advantage in the job market.
>will not be totally overtaken by AI in the next decade.
I am living on ...
How to lose weight while taking antipsychotics? Archived
I'm a sperg and I've been taking risperidone for the past two years. I've gained 90+ pounds and want to lose weight.
Risperidone makes you sleepy, really hungry and slows down your metabolism. Not to...
Dating a close friends sister? Archived
I have recently gotten out of a very long relationship and reconnected with some old childhood friends. I was barbeceuing with a friend and his family, that's where I met his sister again. She was rea...
Thread 33236138 Archived
I'm an autistic girl with huge breasts. J-cups. No I'm not fat. Almost all shirts give me tactile discomfort. The only exception is compression shirts, which are very comfortable for me but they're sk...
Thread 33249490 Archived
The best method to kill niggers?
Thread 33245676 Archived
Why does getting respect/ basic human decency as a neet at 27 feel like pulling teeth?
Thread 33248405 Archived
Why does listening to other people make me feel bad and yet I still get lonely? Sometimes I enjoy speaking but I usually have nothing to say
Appearance and Mood Archived
I've realise that how I (think I) look has a huge impact on my mood. Probably more than anything else. On the rare occasions I think I look alright or even good I feel pretty good. More motivated, pos...
Thread 33246088 Archived
How would I approach a guy. For years I've been wondering how I'd go about this but in the end I either fail or chicken out. I just want to be able to make a friend or even get a bf. I am female but h...
Thread 33248917 Archived
What does it mean when people turn all the lights off and go into a different room at a party? Should I follow?
Hey Jaaaaaannie Archived
EAT NIGGER DICK AND DIE OF CANCER MAGGOT
Got doxxed and threatened, what to do :D Archived
Just got doxxed after getting into an internet argument and exchanging insults with someone, they got a friend's Facebook, and yeah threatened to contact my family and fuck with them, what should we d...
Dating as a christian Archived
So I'm a 24yr old christian male. I'm white, tall and fit. I take good care of my appearance. I live on my own and pay all of my own bills. I'm not some creepy incel, I have female friends. I don't ha...
Genuine femcel. Future looking bleak Archived
> Be me
> Dropped out of high school in second or third week.
> Stayed indoors playing eroge for pretty much 7 years.
> Not many friends. Only ever liked one guy and he's 32 and married.
> Feel like I...
Collecting royalties for my meme Archived
I was the first person to come up with the NPC meme back in 2011. I referred to customers at the computer store as NPCs and I can only assume my colleague spread it from there. How can I collect royal...
Thread 33247340 Archived
Almost finished with my Bachelor’s Degree in English. Should I pursue a Master's Degree if I can get an employer to pay for it or should I not bother?
He hates tradwives... Archived
When we dated and got married it wasn't so bad at all, but overtime my mom and his mom and remembering how my father raised me have drilled in the idea that as his (biological) wife, I am his property...
Just picked up my daughter from a "sweet 16" party Archived
and I totally forgot how much teenage pussy can smell. Holy shit it was dreadful. If rank was in the room it would've been a physical apparition.
What the fuck would help me other than mouth breathin...
/atoga/ - Ask The Opposite Gender Anything Archived
ITT We ask the opposite gender (almost!) anything.
This a thread for questions and answers. If what you're posting is not a reply to another anon, it *MUST* be in the form of a question! This is NOT ...
how do i end a grudge Archived
a former close friend scammed me, gloated about it and then blocked me like three years ago
it doesn't affect my life or anything, but every time i remember it happened i genuinely cant contain my ra...
Thread 33226219 Archived
Is it wise to drink out of a fountain after witnessing someone literally have their mouth touching and covering the faucet as they loudly slurp the water like they're sucking the juice out of a lemon?
Thread 33246978 Archived
Is it a problem if I always make jokes with everyone and nobody can tell if im serious, retarded, a slacker or something-or-other. When someone tells something to me I heard before I just perk up and ...
Thread 33246576 Archived
I love the art teaching job idea.
I love the cybersecurity money $$$ and sense of responsibility
Which do I pick my dream was both. I'm worrying to death I want to be a genderfluid lesbian and not...
Thread 33202950 Archived
What places are you most likely to meet a neetgirl/femcel/non-normie girl/autistic girl when they go outside?
Thread 33239895 Archived
men and women... is this true?
Thread 33241232 Archived
I still live with my parents since they worry about me a lot. I don't go out a lot or talk to people, because I always felt kind of weird in my own skin.
I experimented with gender stuff, and got far...
How do I know if my girl is with me for the right reasons Archived
So over the past 5 months I have gone on dates with this gorgeous Russian girl (I am in America). We have gotten super serious going first exclusive and then a proper couple 3 months ago and one month...
Why am i so angry today Archived
Why do I suddenly have anger issues today? How do I stop this and go back to normal?
I never ever feel rage or the need to express anger physically. Literally never.
today i was on monkeytype, which...
Thread 33245642 Archived
Am I a beta for waiting until marriage for a girl who is not a virgin? I always anticipated marrying a virgin (I grew up in a devout religious community), and it pained me to find out the girl I am se...
She Aborted Our Kid and Lied About It Archived
>Be me 29
>Get sent on a work trip, 3 states away.
>5 days in, fiancée calls me crying, and says she had a miscarriage.
>Says she was in pain, her mom drove her to the hospital, baby’s gone.
>I’m dest...
Mid women give me the -ick Archived
Doesn't matter if they are 18 or 25. Ugly women I just feel sorry for them for maybe one second then look away, but mid women give me the fucking ick especially when they open their mouth about some i...
Thread 33243635 Archived
i keep hearing stories about dudes making a girl cum multiple times in one sexual intercourse, like 3 or whatever. How can you do that? How can you last that long? Isn't it like at least 30 minutes or...
Thread 33229802 Archived
How do you find other introverts?
It feels like everyone in this country is an extrovert. People are always with their friends or messaging over social media and such.
I only want to be friends with a...
Thread 33231061 Archived
I jerk off to anime girls getting shot in the head.
How can i fix myself?
Why the Fuck Aren’t Gingers Considered? Archived
>be ginger
>ginger hair, green eyes
>avg height
>genetic throwback to ancient Celts, not some Mediterranean mutt
>transparent skin, blue veins like roadmaps of Europa
>perfect representation of northe...
Impossible to Focus on Something Archived
Why do I find it so difficult to focus on something.
I don't mean like ADHD. It's more about making changes in life.
Any good idea I have, positive change I want to make, something I take an interest ...
Thread 33242759 Archived
I’m not joking about this — I’m currently $400 in debt and I have just a few days to pay it off.
Is there any online job or way I can start working immediately to earn that $400 fast?
I seriously nee...
Thread 33245995 Archived
I just ate a cute Asian prostitutes ass. Why do I feel kind of weird about doing this bros?
Thread 33240456 Archived
>new girl clearly not over ex
>but also has him blocked and they are no contact
I don’t think I’m a rebound but she had approached me first and it’s clear she’s very into me, but what would you do /a...
Thread 33246744 Archived
>have high sex drive, jack off often
>go to doctor for dick pain and muscle issues, doctor said to use lube and to not be as forceful
>live with very controlling parents still, anti-sex household so j...
Thread 33245618 Archived
>hang out with chick for a year
>never get any action
>confess my feelings (yes I know this is a mistake)
>she cringes but keeps me around as a friend for some reason
>I start feeling like an orbiter/...
Terrible relationship dynamic with my mom Archived
(1/2)
I'm a 23 year old male and ever since I was about 14 years old I've had a terrible relationship with my mom. It all started when I was that age, she suddenly became extremely dominant and would ...
Thread 33245684 Archived
i love my boyfriend
but should i apologize to him?
i came to ask him a question about a game he's good at (which i'm playing) and he didn't know, so he googled it, and the first result was a reddit ...
Thread 33240406 Archived
how do you keep friends?
Thread 33246369 Archived
Every single woman from my graduating class, perceived whore and non whore alike, has gone to concerts wear pasties(nipple covers) and proudly posted photos to Instagram. Why are women insistent on be...
Thread 33246431 Archived
I have ZERO hobbies outside of my job and I don't give a fuck. And no cooking doesnt count. Is that considered a problem?
Thread 33242690 Archived
Im an Australian, is it possible for me to go to america and buy a gun from some random anon so i can an hero myself? I prefer to do that in a forest with no one around instead of splattering my brain...
Thread 33246589 Archived
I have a date with a girl on Saturday, and another with a different girl on Sunday. I am 28, KHHV, and have never been on a date. How fucked am I?
What the fuck am I supposed to do? I suck at small t...
How to deal with narcissist Archived
Thread 33246454 Archived
i want to kms. i just turned 18 recently and went to a local shooting range to get a membership but it takes way too long and there r other nuances to it, other public ranges only have rifles and they...
Thread 33246434 Archived
What do you think about the Son Of Sam case? I have looked into the case as well as read the book The Ultimate Evil.I feel very skeptical about this case, give me your thoughts, hypotheses, conspiracy...
Thread 33242713 Archived
I want to have a kid, but I don't want it to be a crying little bitch as a toddler. Is it genetic or shit parenting causing toddlers to cry and throw tantrums in public? If genetic, I am probably safe...
Thread 33245597 Archived
At what point is a life so ignoble or wasteful that it is the more honorable/moral thing to end it all?
How to get money/job without interacting with recruiters Archived
Ok guys, hear me out. Every resume I ever send gets rejected, and I rarely make it to interviews. I swear those bitches from human resources with their hysterical attitude hate me or something.
I don...
I have no idea on what to do with my life Archived
>been working as a part timer in low administrative positions for almost a year, my contract will end in october, i have a chance of being promoted, but for that, there needs to be room in the company...
Why do people infantilize me so much? Archived
I'm trying to form a friendship with my older cousins because I've always wanted to be closer to my extended family members, so I've been going to game nights with them for quite a while now, they're ...
Thread 33245184 Archived
>tfw the internet and social media personalities told me dont go to college
>tfw I kind of listened to them
>+depression
>Dont go to college
>years pass
>better now
>No degree
>realize it was a psyop...
advice on how to shoot amateur porn Archived
Lately when I'm fapping 8/10 times I end up closing the professional porn I have on the screen and open the videos I shot myself with the girls I've been fucking these months
thing is the videos look ...
It’s Officially Over Archived
So I tried to reach out to her yesterday and it went horrible
She said she doesn’t hate me for asking her out but can’t let it go despite it being months later
I told her I wanted better closure with ...
Fuck it bro Archived
Do you ever do a cheeky one and call in sick when you're not actually sick?
I work a pretty relentless job where burnout is very real, there seems to be an unspoken agreement of "don't ask, don't tell...
what do i need to study to become an industrialist? Archived
i really love the values and people of my country, but we dont have an economy, we dont have any industries, we have a national wealth of barely a few billion usd, i want to know what it would take to...
Suicide Archived
In my course, I looked at men's crotches by accident, and now I think I'm getting doxed, like what happened in the past.
In the past I've tried to kill myself by hanging myself, but I escaped in the e...
Architecture Archived
Any of you fellas work in architecture?
I'm a second-year interior architecture student in New Zealand.
My academic work is pretty good, but I don't know much about the actual practice.
Do you fellas...
Moving out advice Archived
Hey anons, I'm 22 currently living with my parents and I want to move out hopefully by next year having 25-30k saved up. I acknowledge I could save up a lot more if I stay longer be to be truthful, my...
Thread 33241219 Archived
I grew up religious because of my Catholic father and found meaning in faith as a child. After he left, I gradually lost my belief and eventually abandoned religion. As an adult, I miss the structure ...
I get nervous when people are nice to me Archived
Just what it says on the tin. When someone seems to GENUINELY like me as a person, I get very anxious.
I fear that they don't really like me. I fear that they're only pretending to like me because th...
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Thread 33245612 Archived
My parents have told me multiple times now that they enjoyed visiting me this week. How can I tell that they’re lying?
people pleasing x dating Archived
been talking to a few women at the same time. finally got one that wanted to come through on a couple of dates. 2nd date in, we started kissing and touching and stuff.
so that's it, right? i should ...
boyfriend is obsessed with fat gay furry porn, not attracted to me.break up with him? Archived
We have dated for 5 years and 99% of the time I'm the one who initiates sexual interactions. He says he has ED and pelvic floor dysserngia from daily constant masturbation and gooning. we've been tryi...
Thread 33233499 Archived
What do you guys do when a progressive chick on a dating app inevitably asks you about your political stance looking to weed you out?
Thread 33245321 Archived
Where the fuck do people go to make new friends nowadays? I've tried work, I've tried hobbies, I've tried the gym, I've tried bars, I've tried events. Friendships never manifest. All of my school frie...
Thread 33242905 Archived
What are the pros and cons of WMAF
Ways to Die Archived
Suicide gets more appealing each day I’ve made a God out of it biasing it as the only solution Nothing to loose, No one to care There’s no way I could get a gun Too unlucky to overdose Not near of a t...
Hermit Life Archived
Hey anons,
I'm so incredibly alone all the time. Some of it is my fear, some of it is just that I'm lame and uninteresting. I figure I can go full reddit incel or just run off and be alone forever.
...
sex and women overshadowing my life Archived
Something that ive realized over the years is that I value a woman in my life over literally everything else, because nothing brings me as much pleasure as that. And of course i mean physically. Whene...
I'm asking for a friend. Archived
He was into amateur boxing in western europe. Hw won some local championship. Had few dozens of fights. He is in his 30's and in good shape.
I know most of you are /k/ anons and veterans.
He was loo...
Gaming Archived
Why can't I play video games anymore? I keep coming back to try every few weeks or every month but I still get bored within an hour or two? My only other hobbies are watching wrestling and anime so ho...
Thread 33243040 Archived
There's this female coworker who had a crush on me but I ignored her and now she hates me, how do I get her to pay attention to me again? She just keeps avoiding me and when I do try talking to her sh...
Girlfriend wants to make it official Archived
I’ve struggled with weight my whole life. COVID made it worse. I ended up hitting Class 2 obesity. Two and a half years ago I finally snapped. Started lifting, eating right, stayed consistent. Dropped...
feeling stuck Archived
i struggle to cope with the fact that i'm an adult, when physically and emotionally i still feel like a boy, like i stopped growing before everyone else or missed some critical development milestone. ...
Thread 33244840 Archived
So I forced myself to socialize, I'm inside a community where lots of youths come. I see girls and talk to them, but they're still all incredibly shallow. Spending years studying a culture is a total ...
Is this a bad idea Archived
/adv/ I've found myself in a bad spot. I just turned 30. I haven't girlfriend of about 9 months now, and it's gone well but lately I've felt distant, like I'm not sure if she's the one. She's kind, an...
Thread 33227347 Archived
Yes i know i will be insulted for this, and i hate myself too. Here is my story
>Be me, 5'2 femanon
>Four months ago landed a new BG
>Nice, charming, more than decent job
>Suddenly, when speaking wit...
Girl help. Archived
Asked girl to hangout. She said whatchu wanna do. I was thinking of inviting her over but not sure what to do from there. She is in a relationship but told me personally that she wants to cheat.
Should I contact her again? Archived
So this girl stood me up at our date despite being into me and teasing and flirting with me and then apologized for being shitty towards me and hugged me
But since then I cant get her out of my head a...
Thread 33238685 Archived
How do you grab gfs boobs without it being sexual assault?
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