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Fuck it bro Archived
Do you ever do a cheeky one and call in sick when you're not actually sick?
I work a pretty relentless job where burnout is very real, there seems to be an unspoken agreement of "don't ask, don't tell...
what do i need to study to become an industrialist? Archived
i really love the values and people of my country, but we dont have an economy, we dont have any industries, we have a national wealth of barely a few billion usd, i want to know what it would take to...
Suicide Archived
In my course, I looked at men's crotches by accident, and now I think I'm getting doxed, like what happened in the past.
In the past I've tried to kill myself by hanging myself, but I escaped in the e...
Architecture Archived
Any of you fellas work in architecture?
I'm a second-year interior architecture student in New Zealand.
My academic work is pretty good, but I don't know much about the actual practice.
Do you fellas...
Moving out advice Archived
Hey anons, I'm 22 currently living with my parents and I want to move out hopefully by next year having 25-30k saved up. I acknowledge I could save up a lot more if I stay longer be to be truthful, my...
Thread 33241219 Archived
I grew up religious because of my Catholic father and found meaning in faith as a child. After he left, I gradually lost my belief and eventually abandoned religion. As an adult, I miss the structure ...
I get nervous when people are nice to me Archived
Just what it says on the tin. When someone seems to GENUINELY like me as a person, I get very anxious.
I fear that they don't really like me. I fear that they're only pretending to like me because th...
/atoga/ - Ask The Opposite Gender Anything Archived
Last time: >>33239022
Thread 33245612 Archived
My parents have told me multiple times now that they enjoyed visiting me this week. How can I tell that they’re lying?
people pleasing x dating Archived
been talking to a few women at the same time. finally got one that wanted to come through on a couple of dates. 2nd date in, we started kissing and touching and stuff.
so that's it, right? i should ...
boyfriend is obsessed with fat gay furry porn, not attracted to me.break up with him? Archived
We have dated for 5 years and 99% of the time I'm the one who initiates sexual interactions. He says he has ED and pelvic floor dysserngia from daily constant masturbation and gooning. we've been tryi...
Thread 33233499 Archived
What do you guys do when a progressive chick on a dating app inevitably asks you about your political stance looking to weed you out?
Thread 33245321 Archived
Where the fuck do people go to make new friends nowadays? I've tried work, I've tried hobbies, I've tried the gym, I've tried bars, I've tried events. Friendships never manifest. All of my school frie...
Thread 33242905 Archived
What are the pros and cons of WMAF
Ways to Die Archived
Suicide gets more appealing each day I’ve made a God out of it biasing it as the only solution Nothing to loose, No one to care There’s no way I could get a gun Too unlucky to overdose Not near of a t...
Hermit Life Archived
Hey anons,
I'm so incredibly alone all the time. Some of it is my fear, some of it is just that I'm lame and uninteresting. I figure I can go full reddit incel or just run off and be alone forever.
...
sex and women overshadowing my life Archived
Something that ive realized over the years is that I value a woman in my life over literally everything else, because nothing brings me as much pleasure as that. And of course i mean physically. Whene...
I'm asking for a friend. Archived
He was into amateur boxing in western europe. Hw won some local championship. Had few dozens of fights. He is in his 30's and in good shape.
I know most of you are /k/ anons and veterans.
He was loo...
Gaming Archived
Why can't I play video games anymore? I keep coming back to try every few weeks or every month but I still get bored within an hour or two? My only other hobbies are watching wrestling and anime so ho...
Thread 33243040 Archived
There's this female coworker who had a crush on me but I ignored her and now she hates me, how do I get her to pay attention to me again? She just keeps avoiding me and when I do try talking to her sh...
Girlfriend wants to make it official Archived
I’ve struggled with weight my whole life. COVID made it worse. I ended up hitting Class 2 obesity. Two and a half years ago I finally snapped. Started lifting, eating right, stayed consistent. Dropped...
feeling stuck Archived
i struggle to cope with the fact that i'm an adult, when physically and emotionally i still feel like a boy, like i stopped growing before everyone else or missed some critical development milestone. ...
Thread 33244840 Archived
So I forced myself to socialize, I'm inside a community where lots of youths come. I see girls and talk to them, but they're still all incredibly shallow. Spending years studying a culture is a total ...
Is this a bad idea Archived
/adv/ I've found myself in a bad spot. I just turned 30. I haven't girlfriend of about 9 months now, and it's gone well but lately I've felt distant, like I'm not sure if she's the one. She's kind, an...
Thread 33227347 Archived
Yes i know i will be insulted for this, and i hate myself too. Here is my story
>Be me, 5'2 femanon
>Four months ago landed a new BG
>Nice, charming, more than decent job
>Suddenly, when speaking wit...
Girl help. Archived
Asked girl to hangout. She said whatchu wanna do. I was thinking of inviting her over but not sure what to do from there. She is in a relationship but told me personally that she wants to cheat.
Should I contact her again? Archived
So this girl stood me up at our date despite being into me and teasing and flirting with me and then apologized for being shitty towards me and hugged me
But since then I cant get her out of my head a...
Thread 33238685 Archived
How do you grab gfs boobs without it being sexual assault?
I have a "perfect" girl and I want to end the relationship. Archived
I have been alone most my life. I am a 30 year old male, decently attractive, and I come out as confident in conversation, so I have had women interested in me and dated - lets say something like once...
Thread 33240742 Archived
>Girl in high school I like, she's 8/10 in my eyes
>She's in accelerated classes, likes to read, and is athletic
>I'm like a 4 or 5/10 but I still want to get together with her
>Whenever I'm around, s...
preparing for disappointment Archived
im going back to college next semester to finish my degree
how do i prepare myself for the emotional letdown that will occur when i fail to make friends
ive been alone my whole life on account of bein...
Thread 33244495 Archived
What should I do if I sweat a lot in public?
I know I'm being rude but I don't know how to avoid it. This week has been the hottest week all year (and maybe the hottest week in all my life) and I'm s...
Thread 33229830 Archived
Im a people pleaser who never learned to say no or how to actually ask for what I want out of my own life and im only learning that 5 years into marriage.
What do I do? She's not a bad girl at all bu...
Thread 33238596 Archived
Will an engineering degree make me happy? What is this all for?
Little sister might be cooked Archived
My little sister (15) has a bad habit of getting boyfriends online, normally they are much older than her. Our dad won't do anything about it. I've tried telling her to stop, but she won't. She meets ...
Thread 33244131 Archived
I'm such a fucking faggot people pleaser and I can't stand it. I'm so averse to confrontation and shatter like glass if I think someone is mad at me
Okay maybe not that bad but I do have a hard time ...
Dealing with lack of sex/initmacy Archived
To start, this isn't an incel thread really. I've had girls in the past, and it's only been about two months since my last relationship. If I really wanted to, I could "grind" and in about 2 or 3 mont...
All advice boards Archived
Curious how home heating fuel is cleaned of debris after being pumped from an existing tank. Looking to clean debris and resell.
Weight loss Archived
>be me M16 5’10’’ 225lbs
>hate being fat
>decide to be anorexic to lose weight
>nothing but coke 0 and gu
>do nothing but play vida
>lose 40lbs in a few months
>am now 20 and slowly started eating ...
Thread 33244431 Archived
How much are you expected to know about something before you can use it for leverage? I ask because I don't know if I should tell people about my casual hobbies.
Thread 33244460 Archived
All of my hobbies have been infested by troons, hood weebs and retarded kids. Every social media platform is filled with these people now, ready to cancel you at a moment's notice over every little th...
Whats the best darkweb market now? Archived
Archetyp recently got taken down so wondering whats the current best site?
careers in demand Archived
I need to grow up and find a real career. What fields are in demand and won’t dry out soon because of AI or outsourcing? Additional info is I prefer to work alone or at most a small group.
rock bottom Archived
hello first post on 4chan i dont really know how to use this but whatever
i think i’ve hit rock bottom. i dont know how to help myself anymore. basically i know this is super embarrassing but the re...
Thread 33239692 Archived
HELP I CAN'T STOP FARTING
Unblackpill onself Archived
I am being reminded daily by life, that there's no point of trying and no goals are to be achieved. How tf can one stay positive if 100% of things that happen to are plain bad? I am a 35yo oldfriend t...
Thread 33240625 Archived
How do I stop THINKING ABOUT SEX AND GETTING GIRLS?? ALL I WANT IS SEXSEXSEXSEXSEXSEX AND GIRLS. I CANT THJNK ABOUT ANYTHING ELSEEEREEEEEEEE
Quitting YouTube Archived
I can't do it anymore. I'm neurodivergent and my brain feels so fragmented because YouTube throws so many different topics in so little time at me that it's hard to keep a single straight thought. Mos...
Thread 33244134 Archived
So I took you guys' advice and got a practice gf about 8 months ago. She's nice and all, but the problem is she's now talking about our future together and idk what to say to that. I don't want to cut...
Thread 33238515 Archived
am i abusive? i ask my boyfriend nicely last night if he can gently wake me up this morning. i have night terrors and being woken up violently is scary. i come to and he’s shaking me. back and forth. ...
Thread 33242818 Archived
how do i cry? do NOT ask me why.
anyone know if frenulum breve is fixable Archived
Not sure if anyone here has had this but I have this issue with my dick where my frenulum is too short (and so retracting the foreskin is hard)
I cured my phimosis by just stretching, but not sure if...
Weaning off lolicon Archived
Has anyone tried to get away from lolicon for reasons such as moving to a country where the thing is banned or getting a girlfriend and having to do away with porn in general? What's the most challeng...
Thread 33243339 Archived
I just wish my country (or state at the very least) was brown-free. Russians have to deal with churkas but that's just the nature of them wanting to hold onto central asian territories. Wesern/Norther...
How long should a woman Archived
Stay in her hoe phase? As long as she is bangable?
jpeg. and .gif Archived
I have a lot of files in my phone to turn into stickers for message apps such as WhatsApp or Telegram that need to be edited first.
Please recommend me software to make this changes, bonus point for ...
Thread 33241750 Archived
is there a trick to making your throat more clear?
sometimes I just get mucus or something stuck and cough while talking or have like a smoker-voice-like voice from mucus or something
Thread 33243329 Archived
Is it true that someone can have weak digits which makes them ill-suited to typing on a keyboard?
Thread 33243359 Archived
You just have to accept that if you are sub 8 nowadays you will likely be a virgin for life.
Thread 33242959 Archived
How do you get a nice clean pink tongue like her? I try to scrape my tongue with a knife daily and get bunch of the jizz layer off but it never becomes fully clean
Thread 33235339 Archived
How can I find good hentai/porn again? After jacking off to a bunch of hentai and using three different sites it became more difficult to easily find new and good titles. It is frustrating to find bad...
Last words to an abusive dad Archived
Tl;dr my dad is going to die very soon after burning all his bridges with his entire family and becoming extremely abusive. Anyone who’s been in a similar situation, what do you regret not saying befo...
Hey jannie Archived
EAT NIGGER DICK AND DIE OF CANCER MAGGOT
Thread 33242808 Archived
>21
>Uni, studying engineering
>Living with parents
>Never have any motivation
>Never have any friends to encourage me
>Parents from the old country don't understand what i do
>May possibly have ADD/A...
Thread 33242853 Archived
Can an introverted 33 year old man find a gf if the only places he goes to are a study group and a gym? I work remotely. I feel like I'm not doing enough or behave not like other people in that regard...
Thread 33241944 Archived
Ive damaged and destroyed grey matter in my brain from years of internet addiction, mindless scrolling, porn addiction and drug use. Is there anything I can do to regenerate my brain? Everything ive r...
Thread 33233946 Archived
Genuinely speaking, how do you approach women without coming off as creepy?
How can I stop being attracted to my mom? Archived
I have posted her asking for advice on how to seduce my mom but I realized that is unhealthy. The problem is that I cannot get hard to anything else, I have deleted all my porn, bookmarks and even adv...
/atoga/ - Ask The Opposite Gender Anything Archived
ITT We ask the opposite gender (almost!) anything.
This a thread for questions and answers. If what you're posting is not a reply to another anon, it *MUST* be in the form of a question! This is NOT ...
What should I do? Archived
We ended on good terms but he left me very confused, claiming that he felt the same way about me but that he wasn't happy in the relationship. The day before I talked to him and I was upset with him b...
Thread 33240043 Archived
Why would my friend not tell me where he went for his trip? Even after asking countless times why he won't tell me. And why would his sister tell me after asking her "don't worry he's back and he's sa...
Pic unrelated Archived
My phone is overheating, what can I do?
I remember in the past I used a function of an app to cool it down. IIRC it was an archive app and it worked. Can't find it anymore though.
I have a galaxy S10.
Thread 33237091 Archived
Fucked up by procrastinating and gave 3 weeks to conclude my thesis, but I failed last semester and had to revise a lost of stuff this one. I'm mega depressed and can barely get out of bed too, even t...
Thread 33232971 Archived
Why should I trust doctors when they are the only people profiting from me being sick? Isn't their goal to keep me as unhealthy as possible?
Thread 33242188 Archived
>"Why do you talk like an incel?"
she said.
>"You're attractive. Only ugly, bitter basement dwellers talk like that. Misogynists who can't get laid."
She said
>Why do you mistreat me? I love you
She ...
Thread 33242839 Archived
my whole life I've always felt overly deferential and very passive in general. I had very little of that teenage rebellion thing in me, hardly ever broke out of the boundaries, would pretty much alway...
Thread 33236262 Archived
I am 34 and still live the partying and booking up every weekend lifestyle
I ascended” from inceldom at 28 so I’m making up for lost time
But all my peers and family think it’s cringe and I need to gr...
how to be closer with your own father Archived
I feel like I never knew my father, how do I get closer with my own father
I never have anything to talk about with anyone Archived
I got a new job a few weeks ago and I see maybe 20 of the same people every day and every time, I have an opportunity to talk to get to know them and make myself known, but I never do. I just dont hav...
How can I cope with the fact that I'm not attractive anymore? Archived
I used to be kinda cute but then I became a gooner and lost my hair since it started thinning a lot and I would say the stress also aged me
How can I cope with it? I know it's all my fault but I woul...
Can I report a Mail Truck for illegally parking? Archived
There is a mail truck that consistently parks illegally on my street. He parks directly in front of a no parking sign. It causes cars to risk driving head on in order to drive around it.
It's not a s...
Thread 33242696 Archived
What is the most effective way to solve math problems and learn math? Please give me some advice, I got a math assignment and I decided to masturbate instead of solving it lol.
How to efficiently improve credit score? Archived
My mom was a bitch and ruined my credit score. Now I’m an adult and just got my Discover card. How do I minmax this card to get the most FICO points I can each month?
Thread 33235838 Archived
I’m sure there’s a billon suicide threads on here all the time but I just need to scream into the void at this point.
I’m 20 and I’m already tried of this life. I don’t know what there is to say real...
Thread 33242462 Archived
do skinny brunettes still exist, and if so, where do I find them?
I have mental retardation, will drugs help? Archived
I have an IQ of 59, which was professionally tested via mensa. Lately, I've been wanting to blow my brains out to help clean the gene pool, but my friend told me there's a way to increase my IQ by abo...
Thread 33235564 Archived
Been talking to/flirting with a coworker for about 2 and a half months we genuinely enjoyed talking with each other but recently I found out that she's potentially seeing another guy and wants to be f...
How do you guys afford therapy? Archived
I looked at betterhelp and 90 dollars a week sounds ridiculous and I'm too poor to want to pay that much to talk to anybody. So I downloaded an app that said it's an "ai model for therapy" and it's fr...
Thread 33242010 Archived
Will I incur legal/financial trouble if I use AI generated portraits of nonexistent people for a self-published book cover?
Should I buy a house? 29 yrs old here. Archived
I have 3 years of actual job experience. I spent my life chasing small time jobs out of anxiety and feelings of inadequacy. I could never hold down a job before this one. I dropped out of uni thrice. ...
Do I have thyroid eyes disease? Archived
My one eye is noticeably more bug like than the other. I am planning to visit the doctor but I am so upset since i don't think medication can fix this and the surgery is too risky.
If you click my e...
Thread 33241612 Archived
what to do with this bitch at werk who keep disrespecting me for no reason? questioning everything that i do and whantnot
Thread 33241823 Archived
How can I get my hair to look kind of like this? What about it makes it so cute? My hair isn't as long but I'm already growing it out.
How could I ask a barber or someone for this without showing them...
getting over someone Archived
I'm male, almost 25, I ended a 4 years relationship with a girl that was near perfect, like 10 on looks and super funny but a bit awkward. How do I get over her? But it's not only her, I also lost my ...
Thread 33238772 Archived
I keep sleeping too much and getting tired too often. Like ive been awake 12hrs sleeping 12hrs on average. Today i just woke up 3 hours ago after 8 hours of sleep and i am already falling over tired, ...
Thread 33241630 Archived
Need some help in knowing how I can deal with the suffering that is associated with a sheltered life. Am seeing a therapist and on pills. But being 30 and sheltered due to mental incompetency has real...
Decisive action Archived
I have decided to ask her to make plans very soon, depends how things go but might take a day or two. Once I commit I will have no option to back out.
This is an accountability thread. Fist message a...
Socializing Archived
I'm a 30 something year old friendless boomer. How do I even talk to people? I want to start a business, but that's not going to happen as most people detest my presence. I've tried being polite, peop...
is it trudeau-ver? Archived
>leaf, 36m with wife and two kids
>STEM degree in indian/arab saturated market
>dodged the jab, moved back to rural hometown (border town, migrant worker central)
>spent the last 5 years struggling to...
Accidentally Screen Burned Porn onto my Brother's Work Laptop Archived
my brother left his work laptop with me and I ended up getting porn burned into the screen. it's a Lenovo Thinkpad with a 4K OLED screen. Idk what to do it's extremely explicit and very noticable. He ...
Some one is in my attic Archived
Bout to go up and bust a cap up in their ass!!
Is it worth becoming a cop these days? Archived
I'm a 25 year old white dude in decent shape (5'11, a strong 190) with a charismatic demeanor and a soft spot for people in trouble.
My family has a pretty colorful history when it comes to drugs and...
Security Guard? Archived
I'm a college student and in need of a part time job, my Dads friend actually recommended I do security since I'm a pretty big guy.
Would getting a security guard license be worth it? In my area you ...
Worried about becoming a cop as a black woman. Archived
I really want to leave a positive legacy. I feel like I can’t let all the effort my family, especially my mom, poured into me go to waste.
I know I’m destined for great things.
Should I be worried abo...
Office Job Archived
I'm looking for a standard 9-5 office job. What would be the best degree to pursure in order to secure a half-way decent and stable office career? I was leaning towards accounting, but it seems a bit ...
Crazy Horse Archived
Hi to you all. Sadly a new neighbor turned to be a histrionic woman. Crazy horse, as I will refer to her from now on, it's trying to frame me as a crazy dope fiend. Crazy horse even hides her kids, cr...
Thread 33240702 Archived
Don't let people's paranoia get to you. They can label all they want, but labels are for soup cans not people. On top of that, social exclusion ain't the end of the world.
relation Archived
In short (no space or time for a detailed description): almost was with a girl but turned out she had been using me for attention and y'know love cuz she was healing after two breakups with exes (one ...
It’s Over Archived
So I tried to reach out to her yesterday and it went horrible
She said she doesn’t hate me for asking her out but can’t let it go despite it being months later
I told her I wanted better closure with ...
Work anxiety Archived
I have an irrational fear that I am a moment away from being fired at work, and a series of catastrophic events to follow.
>losing my home
>losing insurance and getting sick
>starving to death in the ...
Outfit Advice Archived
Any tips on adding some flair to my outfits?
Is it that bad?
Thread 33240305 Archived
I think I'd have more confidence if my dick was bigger, and it's killing my confidence. How do I solve this issue?
WHAT THE FUCK AM I SUPPOSED TO DO Archived
36-years-old
>Never had a GF because of my height v165cm tall Australian women view me as dirt because of this.
>Can't afford a house because kikes flooded my country with street shitting jeets and D...
Thread 33239662 Archived
Was i molested? shiny lycra has been my fetish ever since i was a young boy and my mom made me fondle her vagina through her biking shorts while we were sitting on the floor in the hallway and she shi...
Repeating a cycle Archived
I've realized I'm stuck in a cycle I can’t seem to break, and it's been really frustrating. It feels like I invest time and emotions into online friendships — with girls who are great company in the m...
Thread 33240176 Archived
How do I get to meet and know russian girls?
I want a russian gf.
Pic unrelated
Thread 33240839 Archived
At what weight can a 5'8" male with almost no muscle be considered a twink?
Thread 33238892 Archived
how do i make the existential anxiety/dread and fear of death go away
i cant even enjoy anything because of it
Autistic Parents having a baby Archived
What happens when two autistic people really love each other and have a baby? Will the autism offset itself? Or not
Thank you
Thread 33239684 Archived
It's summer, I feel stuck and got lonely, seeing all those couples around so I created a dating profile on an app where you can text girls without matching them.
I was wondering, should I state in my ...
I have checked out of the jewish prison bus Archived
>quit wagie job
>sold everything I had in my name
>all property I own is in somebody else name
>stopped renewing IDs
>stopped paying taxes
>stopped paying car insurance/plates
>free groceries and free...
Thread 33235837 Archived
Got a banking/relationship question
My fiance and I want to have a joint checking account to make daily expenses easier to manage. We've all heard horror stories about bad breakups/divorces, so today ...
Thread 33240187 Archived
i attended an event hosted at my workplace today and everything went terrible. i might have overcome my social anxiety, i feel pretty calm around people now but i'm still a mess of social awkwardness....
Anon Seeks Truck Repair, Finds Existential Dread Archived
Alright, anons, gather 'round, 'cause I've just had my faith in humanity absolutely nuked from orbit. I was just trying to do something productive, something normal, like find some goddamn info on fix...
You ever have those days where you're like 100x more autistic than normal? Archived
I'm normally at least sort of cool calm and collected and socially not completely fucked up. Today though, it seemed like I caught autism or something. Like I just cock up every interaction and it jus...
Thread 33237707 Archived
is my life already over if the highlight of my day is spending 5+ hours on this website at 18. i havent left the house for something other than the gym in months, i am currently a neet, i dont remembe...
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