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Security Guard? Archived
I'm a college student and in need of a part time job, my Dads friend actually recommended I do security since I'm a pretty big guy.
Would getting a security guard license be worth it? In my area you ...
Worried about becoming a cop as a black woman. Archived
I really want to leave a positive legacy. I feel like I can’t let all the effort my family, especially my mom, poured into me go to waste.
I know I’m destined for great things.
Should I be worried abo...
Office Job Archived
I'm looking for a standard 9-5 office job. What would be the best degree to pursure in order to secure a half-way decent and stable office career? I was leaning towards accounting, but it seems a bit ...
Crazy Horse Archived
Hi to you all. Sadly a new neighbor turned to be a histrionic woman. Crazy horse, as I will refer to her from now on, it's trying to frame me as a crazy dope fiend. Crazy horse even hides her kids, cr...
Thread 33240702 Archived
Don't let people's paranoia get to you. They can label all they want, but labels are for soup cans not people. On top of that, social exclusion ain't the end of the world.
relation Archived
In short (no space or time for a detailed description): almost was with a girl but turned out she had been using me for attention and y'know love cuz she was healing after two breakups with exes (one ...
It’s Over Archived
So I tried to reach out to her yesterday and it went horrible
She said she doesn’t hate me for asking her out but can’t let it go despite it being months later
I told her I wanted better closure with ...
Work anxiety Archived
I have an irrational fear that I am a moment away from being fired at work, and a series of catastrophic events to follow.
>losing my home
>losing insurance and getting sick
>starving to death in the ...
Outfit Advice Archived
Any tips on adding some flair to my outfits?
Is it that bad?
Thread 33240305 Archived
I think I'd have more confidence if my dick was bigger, and it's killing my confidence. How do I solve this issue?
WHAT THE FUCK AM I SUPPOSED TO DO Archived
36-years-old
>Never had a GF because of my height v165cm tall Australian women view me as dirt because of this.
>Can't afford a house because kikes flooded my country with street shitting jeets and D...
Thread 33239662 Archived
Was i molested? shiny lycra has been my fetish ever since i was a young boy and my mom made me fondle her vagina through her biking shorts while we were sitting on the floor in the hallway and she shi...
Repeating a cycle Archived
I've realized I'm stuck in a cycle I can’t seem to break, and it's been really frustrating. It feels like I invest time and emotions into online friendships — with girls who are great company in the m...
Thread 33240176 Archived
How do I get to meet and know russian girls?
I want a russian gf.
Pic unrelated
Thread 33240839 Archived
At what weight can a 5'8" male with almost no muscle be considered a twink?
Thread 33238892 Archived
how do i make the existential anxiety/dread and fear of death go away
i cant even enjoy anything because of it
Autistic Parents having a baby Archived
What happens when two autistic people really love each other and have a baby? Will the autism offset itself? Or not
Thank you
Thread 33239684 Archived
It's summer, I feel stuck and got lonely, seeing all those couples around so I created a dating profile on an app where you can text girls without matching them.
I was wondering, should I state in my ...
I have checked out of the jewish prison bus Archived
>quit wagie job
>sold everything I had in my name
>all property I own is in somebody else name
>stopped renewing IDs
>stopped paying taxes
>stopped paying car insurance/plates
>free groceries and free...
Thread 33235837 Archived
Got a banking/relationship question
My fiance and I want to have a joint checking account to make daily expenses easier to manage. We've all heard horror stories about bad breakups/divorces, so today ...
Thread 33240187 Archived
i attended an event hosted at my workplace today and everything went terrible. i might have overcome my social anxiety, i feel pretty calm around people now but i'm still a mess of social awkwardness....
Anon Seeks Truck Repair, Finds Existential Dread Archived
Alright, anons, gather 'round, 'cause I've just had my faith in humanity absolutely nuked from orbit. I was just trying to do something productive, something normal, like find some goddamn info on fix...
You ever have those days where you're like 100x more autistic than normal? Archived
I'm normally at least sort of cool calm and collected and socially not completely fucked up. Today though, it seemed like I caught autism or something. Like I just cock up every interaction and it jus...
Thread 33237707 Archived
is my life already over if the highlight of my day is spending 5+ hours on this website at 18. i havent left the house for something other than the gym in months, i am currently a neet, i dont remembe...
Thread 33239755 Archived
I won't give any context for this thread because I don't think it will be needed.
So, I was with my bf in he's car after a party, he was bothering me the whole time about how much I drank, so I was a...
How to make money? Archived
I need a summer job and every place nearby I've applied to isn't taking summer hires. I don't have a car, so I can't work too far from home. Any ideas?
How do you get a job these days? Archived
How the fuck do you get a Job in Insurance in 2025? I've gotten 2-3 interviews with companies only for them to casually tell me through email that they're not interested. IRL places I've applied to ne...
Thread 33236110 Archived
Is it easy being a muslim in the USA?
I live close to a mosque and will be moving closer to it pretty soon because I love the area. I've been to it a few times and really like the people and Islamic ...
ATOGA - Ask The Opposite Gender Anything Archived
Former: >>33234249
Thread 33235480 Archived
Uh. So installed duolicious.
One women in the entirety of Australia. Advice? How do I not fuck this up.
Thread 33238839 Archived
Every since I gave myself brain damage, my mind has been non stop generating cognitohazards and I can't imagine any of the nice scenarios I used to to cope with my shitty existence. How do I get it to...
/atoga/ - Ask The Opposite Gender Anything Archived
ITT We ask the opposite gender (almost!) anything.
This a thread for questions and answers. If what you're posting is not a reply to another anon, it *MUST* be in the form of a question! This is NOT ...
Thread 33233285 Archived
Are there any drugs that actually work for combat related PTSD?
Seem like they will feed us anything, but it's like we are guinea pigs
We're all abusing, but with no clear intent, we're guessing
Found nudes on dads phone wtf!!! Archived
Hi 4chan >.< !! I was helping dad with his technical issues w/his photos. He said he kept receiving unwanted photos/videos on his phone and wanted them gone. So i opened his gallery and unfortunately ...
Should i ropemaxx Archived
18f, im fat and currently losing weight. But i have strechmarks and will probably have loose skin. I have cellulite in my thighs and my arms are fat. I will never find a boyfriend, whats the easiest w...
Thread 33239073 Archived
I tried to iron my flag but now it has heat damage and you can still see the wrinkles too... can I still fix this or is there no other way but trash it and buy a new? I'm so sad
Thread 33239230 Archived
Why have 8 menopausal boomers given me dirty looks out of nowhere today when I was walking down the street, I havent seen it from anyone else, mostly women in specific but also a few old men. Whats go...
Thread 33239095 Archived
Is it cuck/simp behavior to give a girl something sweet after she swallows my seed? Or should I make her endure the bad taste? [pic related]
Upset that a woman kissed me Archived
I hadn't had my first kiss up until recently and I am 30 unfortunately. Anyway, I had been on two dates with her and she kissed me at the start of our second date. Not even at the end. Externally I di...
Thread 33237976 Archived
>be me
>apply for a job
>didn't pass, feel like absolute shit
>apply for another job (equally good)
>feel like shit
Why do I feel like this? The moment I got it, I said shit like "the battle is not o...
Thread 33236452 Archived
Try not to let the dread of life get to you. Looking at all the times I've acted out of control, that all came from letting dread get to me.
how to get roommates? Archived
i guess this sort of happens organically, right?
i dont know
any information or stories about how you came to live with roommates would be appreciated
i dont want to live in a cheap apartment
Thread 33239201 Archived
My longest relationship lasted around 2-3 months and it was my first at the age of 21.
I'm 28 now and I only had casual flings that lasted few days to few weeks since then.
Is that a red flag?
Thread 33235123 Archived
dropped out of highschool, no support network, don't want to be a slave to my BPD mom like chris chan was
what do ido
i feel like no matter what i do i'd end up back here
my dad sits in the laundry ro...
Thread 33238645 Archived
My college thesis is one page too long. Yes I tried making the text smaller and remove blank pages, it still is too long.
How do you choose which things to remove from it? Everything I wrote sounds im...
Thread 33239183 Archived
4 of the last 5 women I've dated were child sex abuse victims. trying to work out if this is my type or i'm their type, or if it's just common.
I am a high trust male, fairly Asexual, ambivalent abou...
Thread 33233764 Archived
>33
>NEET for basically entire life
>no high school or college education
>dropped out of school in 9th grade
>never worked
>have left house maybe 6 times in past 15 years
>0 social skills
>never had a...
Weird camera and strange room in my new rental unit Archived
So I am moving into a house turned into 2 apartments. There is this room within my private entrance I wasn't shown as part of the walkthrough, I didn't really look at first. But I checked it out today...
Thread 33236943 Archived
Hi /adv/, I have some questions about hiatal hernia and reflux:
1. Are there new treatments for hiatal hernia? I've been taking omeprazole for more than a decade (1 x 20g a day). I was told I needed ...
Want to cheat on gf Archived
>gf gone for 8 days illl have house to my self
>how do i find a girl i was thinking about hitting on a girl at the mall or a dating app
>biggest worry is her finding out
>I will not take just don’t...
Now highly successful but unable to get over wasted years Archived
My childhood was fairly awful growing up. Absent father who drank too much and left when I was young then my mother lived on benefits which she spend inappropriately. I no longer see mum see dad once ...
Thread 33238888 Archived
>gf dated a 31-year-old at 20
>it lasted two years, ending only because he cheated on her
>she still stayed, until the guy literally moved the other woman in
>this was one year ago
I'm honestly disgu...
soon to be wagecuck Archived
is anyone else mentally disabled but also forced to work? if so, how do you manage it? my main issue is that my illness makes it so I have no motivation at all, no will to do anything, even the things...
Thread 33224626 Archived
I keep seeing these ads for these AI girlfriend apps. Like this one in the pic.
If I instal and use them, does that make me a loser cause I'm can't get a real girlfriend instead?
giving advice Archived
Looking at the most common threads asking for advice I see some common underlying issues: the people asking for advice are tentative in how they approach life; the people asking for advice have a scat...
Should I start with digital or traditional art? Archived
I want to start a new hobby. But I want to livestream it so I can make friends and force myself to follow a schedule. But I don't know whether I should stream digital or traditional art. What are the ...
Thread 33238337 Archived
I don't think I'm gonna make it past this year, Financially I'm fucked, Socially, I have no friends, every hobby I used to have has been mogged by time and disinterest, even drawing depends on how dep...
Thread 33238374 Archived
When I was 13, I went to this shitty ghetto hood rat school in South Florida. It was like a prison for children. Since I was not black, I never really fit in and would get targeted at times. Luckily I...
Thread 33236960 Archived
So I've been seeing this 19 year old girl for the past 6 months. Nothing serious (at least for me), just giving her money, taking her out, paying some bills. I guess you know, the usual deal. Sugar ba...
Thread 33238398 Archived
How does anyone do anything? I don't know anything about anything. Everything is too hard and boring. I just can't do anything except neet and watch youtube. It's all I know.
Thread 33236983 Archived
This is a strange feeling but basically I really sat down and did an overhaul on what foods work and dont work with me and I noticed I got leaner. You may think this is good news, but honestly I feel ...
Thread 33236685 Archived
Never be around people who no matter what they refuse to see the good in you, especially when you put blood, sweat, and tears into it.
Educational recipe advice Archived
Asking for a friend who is a chemist researching a project. How is recipes for things such as Molly learnt if not readily accessible and well known. As he is very interested in this topic...
lost in mental haze Archived
I think I'm a loser because my brain lacks perspicacity. Other people's brains recognize connections and dimensions in reality that I am oblivious to. From my point of view, what they do seems very st...
FML Archived
How do you guys make friends?
Thread 33236160 Archived
How pathetic would it be if I gave money to a girl or escort to act like a girlfriend for a month or two and then break up with me to calm my parents down? Should I do it?
Thread 33236700 Archived
I start therapy on Tuesday. Do any of you have experience with it? How do you know if you need to switch to a different one? I don't know what to expect.
Thread 33234774 Archived
When I'm at the edge of falling asleep and hear loud noises my eyes become bloodshot and hurt and I can't fall asleep, any solutions to this?
Thread 33237774 Archived
How do I get into her friend group if I haven't spoken with her or seen her in 10 years? Realistically how do I go about this without being accused of being a stalker?
Moving from CA to NE Archived
What should I expect if I wanted to move to Nebraska from California?
Id be moving with my girlfriend of a year
Im working currently a mobile detailing business from my truck, and I have savings to ke...
Am I about to ruin my life? Archived
>Be me
>Stoner degenerate in college
>Somehow do pretty well anyhow and get a decent finance job offer at a mid-size bank
>Offer is in January, job starts in June
>Quit weed cold turkey thinking I'll ...
I hate coming over to my best friend’s place Archived
I have to drive 1h30 to see my best friend (3h total) and I always come back feeling awful. She lives in a dirty apparemment, her husband is a weed addict. Both are unemployed.
I always have to sleep ...
Thread 33234473 Archived
alright anonymous you want some advice. alright I give you advice.
Thread 33237179 Archived
You do not need human contact
Emotions besides anger are fucking gay.
Immediately cut off contact with everyone you had a relationship with. It may be hard, but just put all doubts to the back of your...
Thread 33236404 Archived
i met a girl and she blocked me then i called her on my other phone and she said it was creepy and threatened to contact authorities.
she left clothing at my house and im planning on finding somewhe...
:) Archived
I built an app for introverts for months because i'm introvert but now idk how to get users
Thread 33226013 Archived
How do I become more tolerant of autism?
It's becoming a barrier between myself and acquaintances that I would like to see as friends. There's an autistic person in the group, and I can't stand them....
Securing a relationship Archived
I'm just wondering on how to have a stable relationship. I feel like I'm past the washy wishiness and rainbows and I see relationships as something that's little more like a business, knowing it's not...
Thread 33232614 Archived
>go to bar in my neighborhood and everyone acts like im scary or an asshole
>go to restaurants waiters imply they're going to spit in my food
>try to hit on women they dont want me
>no job no experien...
high heels Archived
thoughts on wearing high (ex 5 inch) heels as a relatively tall & junior associate in the workplace? does it give the impression that i think i'm more important than i am?
also, opinions on high heel...
wtf to do next? Archived
>31 years old
>wagecucked in factories for 5-1/2 years now
>learn the company is going out of business in 2 months
>have 70k savings
>live with parents
>burnt out and sleep deprived
>girlfriend lef...
Help Archived
So a while back, 2 of my friends found my Reddit account.
Thing is, it was loaded with yaoi hentai and traps pics (I actually never uploaded...just asked for source)
Now one friend is convinced my acc...
Where do you meet fat girls? Archived
Is there any specific places where fat girls like to go to?
Thread 33222862 Archived
There's this dude I'm considering as my roommate.
Problem is, while using public restrooms, I've seen him miss the bowl quite a few times, AND, on top of that, not wash his hands after doing his busi...
Thread 33236364 Archived
>finally build up the courage to talk with this hot blonde college girl who is a virgin femcel cutie after lifting and getting a better job and car
>tells me I look really cute and good looking but sh...
Thread 33233360 Archived
Anyone of you anons ever get crippled? Like a life altering thing that left you disabled in some significant way?
What happened? How did you cope? What did you do with yourself?
Thread 33236367 Archived
i’m a depressed bitch sometimes i start to make moves to improve my life or pursue my ambitions but i ultimately abort them every time before i ever really start them in earnest because i convince mys...
Thread 33232047 Archived
is there any actual advice for what to do about constantly hating life and wanting to die? you name it, ive tried it. Been to 3 mental wards, tried countless pills, therapists, reading self help, phil...
Why stop now? Archived
>be me
>addicted for 4 years, never saw any point in quitting
>tried alternatives, most dont work
>high > sober
I dont wanna be dependent forever, but dont see any real point in quitting.
Whats on...
Where can I find a nice but edgy gf? Archived
I feel like I'm doomed to be forever alone. I like women that have great smiles and are nice to people. But also think saying racial slurs are funny but aren't actually racist. I can find lots of cute...
Want gf to lose weight Archived
Love my gf and am extremely compatible with her, but she is overweight and it's impacting my ability to maintain arousal (I have to fantasize about other women or scenarios when we have sex).
I've see...
Fell in love with a girl that's miles away from me Archived
So I fell for the meme bros. I never thought that would happen to me of all people the most stone cold incel from this place. But she captured my heart alright, I never felt this towards anyone else.
...
Thread 33234900 Archived
Since I don't watch basketball, dont have a gf, and don't have sex. There's not a ton that I can talk about with my fellow grown ups. What should I do?
Advice for JROTC Archived
My little brother in highchool just enrolled in jrotc, and he asked me if i can write this thread for him, because he’s still underage.
He’s just looking for advice from any graduates of the AJROTC ...
Gibs or Work Archived
I make 1450 in SSDI and make 1100 working 80 hours every months on top of 150 food stamps and public housing 400 dollars. I got a offer at the union electrician office for a job but I’d be working cra...
Thread 33236161 Archived
The idea that men have this irrational fear of approaching girls and rejection is overblown imo. A legitimate intense fear is so bad you couldn't be paid to confront it, but I bet if you paid most guy...
Do insects have feelings? Archived
I always feel terrible when I have to kill them
Thread 33226633 Archived
>normally slur my speak occasionally and stutter
>put into a roleplaying game where I act our a country lawyer
>speech is near perfect despite having to improvise things
?????
why does my brain do thi...
Moving advice in Central Florida Archived
I'm thinking about moving to Orlando, but I don't want to drive. I get that Florida is car centric, but surely there has to be some areas where I can walk from the house to do shit without a car, righ...
Fucked up my life and don't know how I can come back from this Archived
I graduated from college 6 months ago and I am struggling to find a full time job. I majored in IT but a lot of my coursework was in software development and I had an internship a few years ago from t...
How do I get revenge on an animal abuser? Archived
I am a girl with autism so I have trouble communicating but my first and only ex boyfriend is a pedofile who manipulated me into living with him and working for him. I became very close with his cat i...
Thread 33228455 Archived
How do I reprogram myself into being okay with being evil when I've been moralfagging my entire life?
Thread 33235067 Archived
would you be ok working a job where your shift can end 21:30 and the next one start next morning at 7:00
How do I deal and discuss unwanted limerance? Archived
Very long tldr is that I go to a therapeutic program for adults and one of the interns is around my age and I've gotten uncomfortable and unwanted limerence related thoughts about him. I deal with him...
How do I become more emotionally supportive of my girl? Archived
Hello, I have never been in a relationship before and I have been seeing this girl for two years and I have made many improvements when it comes to dealing with her and changing myself to be better fo...
How do I become a creative? Archived
All my life I've wanted to write, make stories, and draw comics, but the motivation to actually go through with it has never really been there for me. I've never completed a multichapter in my entire ...
Thread 33213041 Archived
If I'm in ketosis, is my body odor supposed to smell like milk and honey?
Fuck is going on here?
How is it SO FUCKING HARD TO GET A TEACHING JOB Archived
I hear it constantly - "Teacher shortage teacher shortage" - and I can barely land an interview. Then when I'm lucky enough to even GET an interview I don't get hired. WTF am I doing wrong?!
dealing with my brother Archived
I've made a few threads before about the odd relationship my brother and I have and I'm not sure how to proceed.
My brother appears to have a superiority complex, especially with me and the family. I...
Thread 33232228 Archived
What’s a type of loan where I can get like $8000 cash even if I have no/low income and pretty poor credit?
My gf gained a few hundred followers on tiktok and now things are weird Archived
Now she gets tons of DMs from guys, some kind of famous (lower tier influencers and pro athletes). How do I navigate this? I don't want to neg her, but I also don't want to feed any delusions about be...
I am sooo fricked up from stress Archived
I did some extrememly morally correct stuff that caused me a LOT of strife.
I’m so freaked out all the tome. I think I have PTSD.
How do I persevere in the face of all the horrible things that have ha...
Men's health issues and my attractive woman doctor Archived
I'm in my 30s and have a doctor appointment/physical today, and honestly I'm unsure how to build up the courage to talk to my attractive doctor about some men's health issues. I don't know if I should...
Thread 33234414 Archived
Should i just ask my Japanese family to hook me up with a date? as tinder is depressing.
filipino women pretending to be japanese.
landwhales, keep your weight under control maybe?
insagram/onlyfan w...
I can’t move past being homeschooled Archived
>be me
>23
>last year of undergrad, prepping for law school
>joined the army, have friends and make friends easily
>was homeschooled, was rough. Family didn’t let me leave the house on my own for year...
Thread 33235284 Archived
How can I find the video where Bonnie blue got fucked by over1000 dudes and the video with this cute girl name Julie she apparently did a video with?
Thread 33232652 Archived
My best friend is a guy, he's always been a little weird but I've always thought he was the most fun person in the room anywhere we went. My other friends and our families both think we're together bu...
no friends Archived
if you’ll just call me a loser please don’t reply to this thread. ive lost all my friends in the last 3 months today today it hit me i genuinely have no one i could call a true friend anymore and i wa...
I need help with a text for a wedding Archived
Hello, my friend had his wedding yesterday
Im want to write a card for them
They met in Peru and i want to write the text in spanish
i wrote a german text and translated it, but need input (ideally fr...
Worried that I look retarded? Archived
I’m a black woman, and a little insecure about my experience.
Some people comment on how I look, like, retarded almost.
Is that a rational thought?
Cumming on antidepressants Archived
I take antidepressants and just started dating someone. Sometimes I can't finish during sex because of the meds. The first time it happened she started crying. It's embarrassing for both of us. Shit s...
Thread 33235016 Archived
im completely consumed by anxiety and fear because of the fact that i am going to get extremely sick and die, no matter what i do
what the fuck do i do im terrified i cant sleep and barely want to ea...
Thread 33232307 Archived
So I just learned what pickup artists are. Why didn't you tell me about this instead of force feeding me doomer blackpills?
How to gain weight and not fucking die Archived
Me and my gf of 1 month (known her for 2 years) were discussing fetishes and I opened up about my feedee fetish. She then said it'd be cute if I did gain weight and said she doesn't want me to be able...
Thread 33234518 Archived
I have brain damage, and it occasionally results in waves of symptoms lasting weeks/months that can be crippling.
This seems to be less common over time but it csn still happen, especially if I face ...
need adivce on what to do Archived
aurgh i usually dont post about this type of shit online but my hallucinations have been getting more frequent and shitty ive taken up sh again and do it like each week almost i barely go outside i ju...
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