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idk i feel weird about that Archived
>be me
>straight dude 17yo
>meeting with other two male straight friends
>chilling at one of them's house
>small amount of alcohol
>laying at the freind's parent's bed
>it's getting late
>decide to st...
Am I becoming an abuser? Archived
I'm 24m and live with my mom, but I'm starting to notice how easy it is to make my mom give in to things. She doesn't stand her ground very well, and I'm starting to form manipulative patterns around ...
/atoga/ - Ask The Opposite Gender Anything Archived
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Thread 33368646 Archived
My male best friend's gf is seething and wants him to cut contact with me just because he told her we had sex a few times over 10 years ago as teenagers.
We talk literally every day and she wants him...
Thread 33361794 Archived
>Be me, 19
>Work at supermarket
>Just a cashier and bagger who stands around all day bored as shit
>All my co workers are these fat black girls because it's a black neighborhood so I don't really talk...
Texting a girl after securing a date Archived
I met a girl at a bar, talked for a couple minutes, got her number and then asked to take her out the next week
how much should i be texting her in between? She is definitely very receptive and attra...
Thread 33372028 Archived
Is getting a virgin wife still possible? Or worth it? Or are microchimerism and telogony the only way forward?
Giving up on life at 18 Archived
Hey /adv/ I'm 18 right now and considering just giving up and retiring from life. And you can give me advice whether it's a good idea. here's why I want to do it
>Been a loser since 2020 because I nev...
SSRIS ARE EVIL DEMONIC BULLSHIT Archived
Don’t take SSRIs unless you want to:
-Be stuck on them forever because withdrawal is brutal and can last years
-Gain 100lbs
-Experience depression 1000x worse than what you have now
-Permanently lose ...
Comfortable chair Archived
I want a new chair. I want it to be comfortable. The herman miller embody and aeron are 25% off right now but I really dont want to pay that much for one. Any recommendations?
Thread 33371973 Archived
I plan on doing my MEPs physical next week. I have a lot of recent self harm scars. Would it be wise to use concealer to hide them?
Thread 33372876 Archived
Hi so my girlfriend is a "virgin" (her exes were only allowed to finger lick and get their dick sucked) and she's like super perverted and watches yaoi all the time. She's heavily autistic. She has ma...
Being stupid Archived
I can’t help but feel/know I’m far more retarded than most of the world. I’m 21 in college, but I still struggle with geography, science, math, and basic economics.
I pass all my classes via tutors ...
Thread 33372900 Archived
>People only care about themselves
>People only care about what they can get from you
>People only want to talk about themselves
>People only want to know you when they can get something from you
>The...
Thread 33374014 Archived
How do you deal with workplace cliques? I was a consultant promoted some time ago, and despite efforts to be helpful to others I got a "bad" performance review by a overly zealous manager who said bec...
untreated cancer life Archived
what happens if you have a cancer, say advanced (Stage III), or Leukemia, etc and you only take the bare minimum meds to not die?
does it hurt\cause pain less ,or, more, than chemo\ radiation\ blood t...
Medical Advice Archived
I've been having a GI bleed for a couple of weeks. I ignored it at first, but after a few days I'm filling the whole bowl up multiple times a day with blood. And now there's a sharp stabbing pain in m...
Thread 33373169 Archived
how do i fix this thing where i can't be attracted to men who act desperate/simp-y at all because my type is my old crush who was the opposite of desperate around women? how do i change my type?
99% ...
I dont like sex Archived
Sex is too materialistic imo, I personally like romance, spending time, innocent joy with a woman, this love should need not be matrialised with sex, sex reduced it to a very small form, just pure inn...
Thread 33369279 Archived
I get actually angry when men glance or look at me since I know there's now a possibility of being approached, and I don't want to have to reject anyone since I have abf. And in general as well strang...
Thread 33372061 Archived
What do you do if you have nothing to talk about or run out of things to talk about on a date?
i really hate women, jeets, arabs and negros. how can i get over this? Archived
i live in a smaller city in germany and literally everywhere i go you can see them grouped up.
when i was a kid there were only germans, turks, russians at most and the city didn't look like shit.
i d...
Why am I attracted to dead people? Archived
I don‘t know why but I find dead people more attractive than living people. It‘s just something about their cold pale skin and lifeless eyes that makes them so attractive. Why am I like this?
No one acknowledges me at work Archived
I’m genuinely tired of this I’m gonna crash out WTF am I doing wrong.
I’m 21, 6mnths into a new grad role at a big finance company - all of the other grads suddenly act like I don’t exist anymore. It...
How do I stop being scatterhearted and focus on a passion and life direction? Archived
My greatest weakness is that I look at others and their paths in life and think 'why didn't I do that?'. I'll look at a famous Hollywood director and think "why didn't I try filming my own movies?"
An...
Thread 33373715 Archived
Do you really have to keep being a bisexual male a secret to the grave to get a girlfriend?
Black woman keeps trying to throw her work at me Archived
I am an accountant, and I work closely with the data entry team. Basically, they copy/paste data from the tax forms into our software, while I am tasked with reviewing everything and then managing the...
Thread 33373507 Archived
How do I cope with the fact that I will always be a loser no matter how hard I try?
Thread 33373326 Archived
how do i find a gay monogamous boyfriend in miami
Thread 33372576 Archived
>open hinge
>’someone sent you their weekly rose! Thats a big compliment, check them out!’ Pop-up
>look
>400lb juggernaut
>all of my other ‘likes you’ were overweight to varying degrees as well
Its so...
Thread 33372301 Archived
how do you break out of a rut?
seems like things have been going ok, i just don't feel happy. i have a decent job that pays a liveable wage, am fairly active throughout the week either walking my dog...
Thread 33367464 Archived
I was playing pickleball the other day with a homie against two strangers and decided to be a silly retard after dumping a ball into the net. I let out these weird Indian like war cry like " AEYAYAYAY...
Thread 33372920 Archived
As a test, I wore a shirt for a week then gave it to my girlfriend. She didn't seem to like it and washed it. Should I beak up with her?
Thread 33366436 Archived
What should you do if someone intentionally shoulder checks you or tries to hit you with their umbrella? I live in Tokyo and there's a fuck ton of people so sometimes there's no avoiding it. But I'm t...
Thread 33371637 Archived
What exactly are women looking for exactly during their "bad boy phase"?
How do I stop being a bitter paranoid misanthrope who hates everybody? Archived
My entire childhood was arbitrary and pointless negative social reinforcement constantly - from peers, teachers, and my parents. Because of this I am bitter but also feel no shame. I always expect the...
Thread 33367804 Archived
I want to steal a guy's girlfriend from my church. What's the best way to subtly do it without making me look bad?
She looks like pic related
Thread 33372811 Archived
I love beer. I love drinking alone and listening to music. Except that sometimes it ends with a 3 day cocaine binge. Once I start drinking there's no stopping. Why can't I just go home after 4 beers m...
Thread 33368483 Archived
How do you have fun at the beach?
How do you have fun if you go alone?
What should you plan if you want to invite friends?
Thread 33369941 Archived
I have suicidality that is completely disconnected from circumstances. For instance i notice i want to kms just as much when im happy as sad, it doesnt matter, even like right after completing a goal,...
Thread 33368358 Archived
I know my life would be better if I were less influenced by the internet, but I'm struggling to cut down on my internet usage.
I have to use my computer for at least a few hours per day due to my job...
HEY JAN Archived
ITS TIME FOR YOUR DAILY ASS LICKING
Thread 33372218 Archived
>women hate being fat
>men love fat women
Why is this
How to get to know a girl more if I'm quiet Archived
I'm a quiet guy who usually doesn't talk much. When I'm with my friends they usually do most of the talking. I have two experiences with girls, I was in one short relationship and went to one date wit...
Thread 33372433 Archived
what is the best painless way to commit suicide? I don't wanna read the "bro don't do it" bullshit, just tell me how
girl won’t stop harassing my innocent mom Archived
literally just my mother trying to live trying to live
> this girl keeps harassing my poor mother, who doesn’t realize she’s being prank called
this bitch calls my mother names, no one in my family k...
How do I become a creative? Archived
I've always wanted to be a creative ever since I was young. I've day dreamed about being one and tried working my ass off trying to write ever since I was around 12. My parents tried pushing me toward...
Thread 33371599 Archived
What are the signs of a woman being in love with you?
Thread 33359568 Archived
How do you forget a best friend who doesn't want to be friends anymore
It all hurts so bad
How to stop wanting stuff Archived
I am being forced into social security because I have autism + anxiety and still live with my parents, the money they'll give to me isn't to be used on anything fun. How do I stop being materialistic ...
Thread 33368226 Archived
How do you convince people once and for all to stop having kids? There's so many good reasons not to but it's like they're not good enough.
I took the herbpill Archived
Alright so these are the pills I'll start to take on a daily basis:
nac
l-theanine/suntheanine
omega fish oils
magnesium glycinate
passion flower
5htp
l-tyrosine
egcg
mucuna pruriens
rhodiola rosea e...
currently in the hospital with a pneumothorax Archived
yesterday I got sent to the hospital after my xrays and apparently had been suffering from a pneumothorax
The doc made a cut under my armpit somewhere and shoved in some metal rots and a tube of some...
I CAN'T GET A FUCKING JOB Archived
I can't take this shit anymore man I have a degree (economics) and have been looking for a job since I graduated but no one fucking wants me. Low pay menial hobs tell me I'm overqualified and the jobs...
How do I explain to this guy that he's wasting his life? Archived
So I have this guy in my phone contacts. We know each other, we talk sometimes, we're not friends, but I do see his status updates.
From what I've seen in his status updates, which he makes sure to up...
Thread 33370218 Archived
I just lost my virginity (Vaginally) and I blew my load all over my hookup's ass. This was about 3 minutes ago and she's still lying there with cum on her ass. What do I do next? Start cuddling? She's...
How do I cope with the fact that I made the wrong choices for my life? Archived
Five years ago, I decided to move to Europe thinking it would be fun. But the experience has become unbearable for me personally. Your lifelong neighbors become strange aliens, it's hard to make frien...
Thread 33368434 Archived
My whole life I went to church and they always said we're supposed to help poor people and like not to judge others lest we be judged, and so on.
A man who looked like a drug addict walked up to my b...
How to want things Archived
I've always been told things like people can do anything, they just have to want it hard enough.
Well how do I make myself want things more?
There are things I kinda want, but I want to want them more...
Shrooms? Archived
How do I go about buying shrooms? New to the drug scene so no idea how to do this.
Thread 33371314 Archived
How can I master my dark side?
Thread 33371527 Archived
Best AI to undress girls I know?
Thread 33369565 Archived
I think I got about 2 more attempts with girls I would actually desire in me before I say fuck it, going to settle for single mom
Yes it's cucked and pathetic, but there could be upsides. I could get...
fear of sex and really anything with women Archived
I can talk to women, but the moment sex enters my mind my anxiety kicks up so hard. If anything seems to be going in that direction, my stomach literally hurts. I dont like talking about it, i dont li...
Thread 33371364 Archived
I really like wanna play videogames and spend all my money on it. But I somewhat wanna go to college bc I know it's good career options. problem is I gotta spend some of my money on it. what to do?
where should i work as an autist with poor social skills? Archived
ive been a neet pretty much since i dropped out at 15, im 22 now and i really need to escape neetdom for real this time...
Are they sucking dick? Archived
I don't want to be that guy but I am starting to think the girls in my industry are sucking dick to get jobs.
I can't shake the feeling that the reason all the young pretty girls get jobs first isn't...
Do good looking people get treated better or worse? Archived
Which happens more: getting treated like shit because people envy you or are you treated well for being good looking? People usually treat me really well or really poorly. I rarely encounter situation...
Thread 33365075 Archived
I want to have an affair with my neighbor's wife... um... any advice?
sup w my accent Archived
i need to improve on my pronounciation, can you listen to it and point out the biggest problems and gimme some advice? i think my issue is mainly with vowels, english vowels are retarded. but so am I
...
Your best dates Archived
What did you do? Was it a first date, or further into a relationship? Was it your idea?
I'm looking for fun date ideas.
Convince me not to do it bros Archived
I feel so alone it isn’t even funny. I have no group to belong to, no friends I can truly open up to. I don’t fit in with almost anyone in California because of politics, and have no ability to move. ...
Who was the sociopath in the situation? Archived
This is a repost, the advice im looking for is who do you think was the abusive one/sociopath
A year ago I met and mutually flirted with someone in a discord server that had nothing to do with 4chan...
Thread 33370998 Archived
Is this a valid reason to cancel a doctors appointment?
Tomorrow I have an appointment with a ~1 hr commute on public transit. I will need to walk ~15minutes once in the area, to reach the practice. ...
Thread 33369514 Archived
I fucking hate sleeping. It is the worst thing in the entire world, worse than puppies being shoved into wood chippers. I dread sleep. As the day grows long, I start to feel anxious about what is to c...
Rotting alone Archived
Some days I feel like I’m not really part of this world. Just a ghost, watching life happen from the sidelines. Anyone else feel like this? Im 19 now and it feels like clocks are just beating on.
get internship to take me back? Archived
hallo frens. i was supposed to be good this summer, going to my internship and the gym, and i did good in a June, but i accidentally did a tiny widdle fuckie wuckie and stopped going or doing anything...
Thread 33371367 Archived
>try to help my parent despite how hard it is mentally for me to do that
>i mess up one small thing
>they make a scene and start shouting over 1$
>trying to hold back tears
>I don't know why that hurt...
Thread 33367574 Archived
How do I learn to draw?
/atoga/ - Ask The Opposite Gender Anything Archived
A new dawn, a new thread
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Thread 33367596 Archived
How do I text women?
What do I text women about? Can't think of anything because autistic.
How do I build rapport with a woman?
Thread 33358663 Archived
do the talented and successful know that there are people who want to commit suicide out of self-hatred and resentment towards them? how do they feel about how much suffering their lives cause others?...
Thread 33370469 Archived
How do I hook up with this chick IRL? I'm obsessed with her on IG.
is it over? text from my ex Archived
thank you for your letter and the flowers — i can tell a lot of thought went into both. i appreciate you taking responsibility and sharing what you’ve been working on. it means a lot to me, and I do s...
Thread 33370432 Archived
When do you "Put yourself out there"
And When do you "Change yourself"?
How do you do the first, and when do you so the second? Do you systematically talk to every person in class, do you systematica...
dating apps scare me Archived
I'm very used to irl approaches but the opportunities to do so keep dwindling. thinking about dating apps but the thought of it is honestly more troubling to me than irl approaching.
i do pretty good...
My dick don't work right Archived
I can't ejaculate from sex. I hooked up with a girl last Sunday week who I found really attractive and was able to give her a good time but like 2 hours in with us both exhausted I just couldn't let l...
Thread 33369349 Archived
>one of my biggest fears is wasting my youth
>tell myself I'm not going to waste my youth being a loser shut-in
>decide to try and be social
>hate every second of it
>try again because FOMO
>still hat...
Thread 33369307 Archived
As someone who only recently learned how to feel, how do you deal with causing emotional confusion, causing an existential crisis, in someone and they aren't interested in your apology?
I did it again Archived
I made my 2 favorite camhoes cry and contemplate their life decisions
They are currently having a breakdown....
Does /adv/ have any advice for me?
Having Massive Black Fatigue Archived
>Rap music blaring in every venue, every store, every commercial, every street
>Every zoomer nowadays uses the same retarded sounding slang, barely comprehensible English
>Every other gif on social me...
Thread 33366484 Archived
I need help writing a best man speech. Any chance I can get an opinion on which of these 3 sounds the best? For context my brother (the eldest) hands me the mic so I can get a quick joke in on the gro...
Milf aunt Archived
So basically, I went out for drink last night with my aunt who I rarely see, and she was practically on my arm the entire night. I joked she looked like a cougar and she found it hilarious. Ended up r...
Thread 33370302 Archived
I've been acting way too often like a howie in the outside world it is ridiculous. I keep needing an answer for everything all the time in every detail, and can't know when enough is enough. Do you al...
Thread 33368285 Archived
Alright, /adv/, code monkey here, got a huge crush on the new frontdesk. How do I make a move without fucking it up?
Thread 33368799 Archived
This girl has thoroughly put me in my place and I don't know what to do. We almost never see each other anymore. I'm talking months between hook ups/hang outs. But almost every night she hits me up to...
Scored 69 on my IQ test. Archived
I paid to take this IQ test only to find out that I have an IQ of 69. Why is God so fucking cruel???? Just fucking kill me now. I'm gonna fucking rope soon, guys. Unless there is a way to increase it?...
How do I completely stop being an egomaniac forever Archived
I could go on but don't really wanna. Are there any tried and true ways to do it? I feel like it is what all my suffering boils down to. I can't think of anything without thinking of myself relative t...
Thread 33361830 Archived
How do I stop living selfishly for myself and learn to love living for others? Girls always want to get married and start families and i know i want that some day and I think its good, but right now I...
Thread 33370021 Archived
Why does Orion Taraban make roasties seethe so hard?
Thread 33369471 Archived
should i tell him i play an anime card game? he's a normie and says that anything with anime girls as the main selling point is pedo. which is true for the game i play. but i just like cute animu aest...
Thread 33352950 Archived
Is it over if you're short? I'm talking 5'9" or under
Ghosting women out of insecurity Archived
I have 5 dates lined up for this week and the next, and I find myself regularly ghosting/semi ghosting women while texting or taking hours since I am insecure that they will lose interest, I think im ...
I am thinking of ending things Archived
Just a question. Will chatgpt report me to the authorities if i ask questions about planning my suicide and funeral?
Playing jazz piano as my old man career Archived
How viable is it to play jazz standards and classical renditions to get pussy and money?
I’m 40 and I’m on track to retire up in New England. What can I expect for playing places like Newburyport, Og...
Thread 33369148 Archived
Autistic schizo here. I went swimming earlier today and decided to make funny dolphin noises whilst I was porpoising in and out of the water. One dude told me to grow up and it hurt my feelings. Assho...
Thread 33366536 Archived
How realistic is it for a guy to achieve pic related?
How long would it reasonably take to achieve the standing splits from nothing?
How to deal with envy? Archived
First off I'm ashamed to admit that I'm a terrible person, having this serious feelings of envy.
There's this guy on a local subreddit (har de har har) and he becomes famous for posting memes but als...
Thread 33362609 Archived
How do I learn how to play the guitar in as short of a time as possible?
Am I at fault for his loneliness? Archived
I groomed a 17 year old when I was in my early 20s. I still talk to him and he says hes lonely.
He had a girlfriend his own age and allegedly treated her badly according to him.
My question is, is m...
Thread 33367125 Archived
How do I reach the state of apathy? I'm tired of being stuck in a cycle of anxiety, rage and depression
Help me pls Archived
Hi, first of all I am not an English speaker so sorry for the way that I express myself here.
I am a woman in my 25 with autism and borderline, I was living in Germany until my ex decided to become ab...
Thread 33369275 Archived
>been going out with girl for about ~2 months now
>seems to be going great, we get along well
>she mentioned that she was "left leaning" early on and that she wanted someone who shared her worldview
...
Thread 33367404 Archived
>Failure is not the only punishment for laziness; there is also the success of others.
What do you do when it feels like you're behind in life? I'm 26, making just over 30k/yr as a personal assistant...
Indian American here wondering how to process the rise of hate against us in America Archived
I grew up in the west and have been living here for several decades now and am alarmed by the rise of racism against in these last few years. Before it seemed people had positive to no opinions about ...
Thread 33367936 Archived
How to make money online from Africa? I want something legal and cool...
Should I See Him? Archived
>Be me senior year of college
>Go on a hinge date with guy who lied about height+barely speaks
>Accidentally agree to a second date.
>We go on 7 more dates after this.
>Opens up about his anxiety. T...
How hard is it to move to the U.S. if I buy a house there first? Archived
I’m done with Germany. I love guns and this eurocuck shithole treats gun owners like criminals. Tired of the government, tired of the people, tired of the entire vibe here.
Divorced, barely see my tw...
sex life Archived
I have a problem with my bf (23yo). We're dating since december. He said that he doesnt desire me. Im conventionally attractive, a lot off man gives me attention. I weigh 55kg and I am 5,6 ft tall. I ...
Debilitating insomnia Archived
Past week, i've been sleeping on a grand total of 10 hours i think.
I swallowed an ungodly amount of sleeping pills, alcohol and admitted to ER yesterday morning. I'm not sleeping and billed still.
...
Gamifying porn addiction? Archived
I have been suffering from pretty bad coomer porn addiction. I have tried nofap many times and failed. I think my issue is that I can't comprehend really ever quitting(unless I had a girlfriend). So I...
Christianity is Real Archived
You’re literally watching the antichrist AI digital surveillance control grid prison built up around you. Where do humans fit into that? The purpose is to eradicate humanity, not make our lives better...
Thread 33360923 Archived
Unironically, where do I meet women like this?
Thread 33366192 Archived
Is it true that asian girls are the best girlfriends/wives? Should I strive to marry an asian girl someday?
35~ bucks left to my name, and homeless Archived
ive said many times abt why im homeless so ill js say a small reminder of what happened;
tried to kms
failed
got embarassed
ran away.
i've been living in an "abonanded" house since, which nobody resll...
Thread 33367440 Archived
>girl asks for height in first 5 mins
Am I wrong to consider this just disrespectful? I am average height, but to me, asking this is like asking for bra size or beach pics so that I can better analy...
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