how do I cure depersonalization? I used to be real, I used to be able to feel things. I can't take this shit anymore, I'm not here. I know I'm doing things and thinking and feeling things but non of i...

I got into a relationship recently. Should I delete my fap folder? I have gigabytes of stuff saved, on one hand I don't want to lose that on the other hand it could be seen as disrespectful to my girl...

Don't get me wrong, but all the lamentations in this post is prophetic to put it lightly. There a literally multi-billion dollar cosmetic, 'self-improvement' industries skinning women and increasingly...

I have been dating a girl for around 4 months, despite the fact that she wasn't a virgin, this time i didnt rush into sex because i actually tried to build something real this time. I have never real...

...but he's supposed to be getting married later this year (to a woman). We were watching this weird film on TV called "The Adventures of Priscilla, Queen of the Desert", it's basically about these dr...

I have an orientation denial/closet fetish and have had it for many years. Just looking for advice. >By 23, I fully realize I'm gay and enter the best relationship of my life with another guy for 3+ y...

i'm 22 living with my boyfriend while he works from home and I go to school. i quit my job because the people sucked and i didn't make shit for money. don't have any savings, it all goes to rent/bills...

>y'all >folks >guys >ours >we These get me so irrationally angry. Why?

I'd say my biggest vices are internet addiction, video games, and porn but the last 2 maybe an hour or two a day only when I am not busy. I can go weeks to months without. I am 30 and am pretty much ...

How the fuck do these faggots know it's me? Am I just going to be banned forever now? All I want to do is make innocuous posts in my film club subreddit. I made an account a month ago and subscribed...

I’m in conflict with my identity. There are charactaristics that seem to be unalterable, and I fear not much can be done to change them. Intelligence, mental disorders, personality, perspective, socia...

Start with this computer exam in high school. We were given four days to complete this typing exam. On the third day, while typing, Amy told me that the classmates had finished their typing because th...

I'm 24M, and there's a girl I work with who’s also a good friend. We sometimes sit next to each other at work, and I genuinely enjoy her company, even in silence. I like her a lot, but she told me bef...

Should I report the spics who sold me and my friend a shitty, overpriced, dry as fuck, not the ingredients I asked for and overpriced burrito to ICE?

I have about two weeks till we shoot. I am having trouble getting my crew together despite being one of the best options in the area right now. we are bringing some real resources to the picture and t...

> I am 23yo w boyfriend > Not usually gay but made exception > dating for a while now > makeout and oral consistently > every time I ask for sex always get “I’m not ready yet” > really bothering me > ...

How do I train my temperance and decision making skills under stress? Today I bumped a car, a passive aggresive asshole looking for a fight went out and for some reason I came out too and tried to re...

How do you deal with the thoughts about your quality of life being destroyed? Sometimes I think about it and feel shame for thinking it. I live life for my disabled grandmother and she has major bipol...

ITT We ask the opposite gender (almost!) anything. This a thread for questions and answers. If what you're posting is not a reply to another anon, it *MUST* be in the form of a question! This is NOT ...

> Not a religion. Not therapy. Not politics. I was spiraling — lost in a sea of vague advice and hollow routines. Then I came across a strange document. It wasn’t telling me what to do. It was watchi...

Tonight I'm having gay sex. I haven't talked to a real person in 7 years. I'm 26. How do I make sure it ends on a good note?

It feels like I was never really independent on my own, since I went straight from living with my parents to living with my bf. I'm kind of frustrated with that. Like I'm envious how guys just go out...

I’ll get straight to it. I’ve been with my girlfriend for 5 years. Over time, I’ve suspected she might have a drinking problem (both her parents are alcoholics), but it became clear a month ago when ...

I'm an Israeli, and I'm really sick and and tired of this bloodthirsty and insane country. Where should I migrate into? I have Romanian citizenship, but I don't have any particular skills.

How do I accept that I am not good at math? I was never good at math. I did well on my SAT years ago (1100), but never touched it after high school. Now, a job I want needs me to be decent in math on...

>eastern european girl >live in central europe >average male height is 177-180cm >average female height is 160-166cm >178cm myself >also ugly How do I make guys care about my personality when they imm...

boyfriend (6’2, 200 something) mentioned he wants to lose weight and i (5’4, 120 ,) felt a genuine strike in my heart. i really really like his current physique and hes healthy!! its fully an aestheti...

Where and how do you find a woman that isn't a whore that goes out partying or going out in general? Its safe to assume that if she goes out to a party or to have drinks then shes a giant whore, its n...

>Married 17 years, 3 kids >Sex died 3 years ago, she rejects every advance. >Constant nagging, fights, says I don't do enough >She went to help her sick dad for 2 months >House was peaceful without he...

how the FUCK are you supposed to meet women in your mid 20s without a social circle, having graduated university, no club/bars, no dating apps. Should men in such situations just go back to uni and ro...

ok so basically I went on a few dates with someone and they told me they love me and I said I didn't love them back because I don't think we've known each other long enough to have those kinds of feel...

Five gay men in completely different occasions made advances on me in a span of less than two weeks. Is it safe to assume that I'm also attractive to women (somehow) or am I coping?

i cant function socially without alcohol, i literally cant speak without alcohol, it comes off very unnatural and forced and people just stare at me like some creep drinking to socialize usually lead...

Hello guys , I recently moved in a neighborhood of Jordanians, east bankers specifically.. the ones who have something called honor killings, I rarely hear English and I see a lot of them have scars o...

Since I was young and discovered the internet, I've fallen into rabbit holes and more rabbit holes, each time reaching increasingly extremist and isolated groups. I feel like I've never been able t...

I was watching the music video to Free Bird that came out recently and it literally ruins the song. It's basically all about consumerism helping you cope with how nothing life is. The consumerism even...

What are some books that actually helped you out? Be it self-help, fiction or guides. I used to hate reading all my life but I've come to a point where I require knowledge about different things. Mai...

What can be done once you've realized you are involved in a Truman Show -type situation?

How do I not get accused of projection if I'm trying to point out someone's behavior is clearly indicative of degeneracy?

>Go on Chaturbate >Watch girl for a while >Want to see her asshole out of curiosity >Ask her to show >She shows >I don't tip >Room becomes awkward >She feels stupid, contemplates her decision, idk why...

Is therapy worth it? Im not like severely mentally ill or anything just kind of a loser incel

How come I feel like I look absolutely repulsive when I use my phone camera or see my reflection in like a car door window but when I look in my mirror at home I think I look average to even a bit abo...

Hello anons! I am currently w my mom in the car BUT, I wanted to give a little update to my first ever threat :D So, in that thread, I said how I was afraid to open up to her about my suicidal ideas...

What am I, a guy, supposed to say to a girl during sex?

How come despite all the things I beat myself up over, I never really cared about my life not having purpose?

Hi, I don't usually frequent this place much but I want to ask for some advice on a situation that happened to me and that honestly terrifies me, a while ago I met a guy on Instagram and we started ta...

Anyone help a millennial buy edibles? I smoked back in the 00s and wasn't picky. Want to get some edibles to take the edge off a rough day but have no idea what to look for. Any advice on how I sh...

I just woke up from some embarrassing ass dream where I was sobbing like a bitch over a girl I’ve been broken up with for over three years now. This shit has got to fucking stop, I would honestly purg...

Recent college grad here. It's pretty tough in the job market, even for STEM majors. I recently got a job offer, and it's super good. The problem is that the offer is contingent on having the COVID va...

How do you deal with insults online? I frequent /pol/ and often get into political discussions. If someone insult me, how should one respond? I tried just ignoring it and answering calmly, but then I ...

>open /adv/ >9 threads in a row are about sex/women/incel pitybait what do i do in this particular situation?

I am a university student, last week I decided to wear a shirt to class for one of my favourite bands. The band is Radiohead and I didn't think there would be any problems because they're a famous and...

Advice on stop being such an emotional wreck over little things? Even when i know that a potentially bad situation has an astronomically small chance of actually being bad i get so worried and sad. It...

How do I lock in >21 m >had exam >studied for it for 3months >father dies >dont do exam >time to re do it >have to study but don't >exam in one week >haven't opened the books I am such a disappoin...

>18 y/o month before grad I have 2 big seizures and miss most of the last month of school >did fine in school ~3.4/5 gpa but didn’t really care (also super easy cause district is full of spoiled retar...

The way I talk is pretty much always inarticulate and I’m usually leaving something out of the stories I tell like they’re not mine to tell. I don’t know how to explain my problems in therapy because ...

>be me >have a high libido >watch porn and jerk off regularly >I get labeled a weirdo and my lifestyle unhealthy and shameful >be chad >have high libido >fuck a lot of women >lot of people think he i...

I feel stupid admitting it, but I have this sort of a mental problem. Several times a day a thought pops into my head and I sort of ruminate over it before I realize what Im doing and force myself to ...

My ex girlfriend had a friend who told her so much shit about me (it was a lie because of jealousy, the girlfriend spent more time with me instead of her) and since they had been friends for a long ti...

Background: she is my tenant and we have lots of sexual tension. She's gotten drunk 3 times before and tried to kiss me among other worse things. My girlfriend, drunk, was in the bathroom with her pul...

>be me >19, homeless failure >have experience working with kids, apply to every childcare job i can >fucking forest service decides to hire me as a contract @ a job corps >goes well, actually doing so...

I need an effective, painless and quick way to self-oof myself with an 9mm gun. Specifically where I must shoot to pass out inmediatly.

I found myself venting about the same problem over and over on the internet and I seemingly cannot be helped with this, or rather I know what the answer is and I know steps I have to take in order to ...

Can I get some recommendations for: 1. a countertop water filter 2. a showerhead filter 3. whole house filter The water in my area is super hard and ultra fluoridated/chlorinated and stuff. It seems l...

Looking to purchase as Indiana sucks and summer camp music festival didn't happen. just2buy1988@gmail.com if you sell or can point me in the right direction. Thanks Scampers.

Hey there everyone. So I started a thread over a week ago about how I met this girl from tinder whom I got pregnant and she’s decided to keep the baby. This is the text conversation we had. I would li...

My son decided he was part of a culture that he had no connection with, moved and doesn't talk to us much anymore. And it's not like he moved somewhere to make a better living, instead he moved to a c...

I bought a used pc case on ebay, however the seller sent me the wrong one. It's not too much of an issue for me since I can use it regardless, it's the same model just the non XL one, but I'm pissed o...

This job I applied for has EIGHT (40) minute interviews. Is this reasonable? How do I get through this?

So I know my Boyfriend is cheating on me, I just need the evidence! Yes, I'm a girl coming to this board for advice, so I know you will try to take away my agency and use tricks and tactics like "logi...

>be me >21 never even kissed a girl >way to busy to date >too much of a NEET to go out to a bar >find a site called fetlife >start chatting on it and finally start to chat with a girl who would take m...

I’m on holidays with my friends and i’m sharing a hotel room with them. It’s fun but I haven’t fapped in 9 days and I won’t be able to for another week. How do i cope? I feel like i’m going insane her...

There's this short girl at my work who I always catch staring at me. I'm 6'3" and she's not even 5' Always nice and cheery, always waving at me. It's one thing to be cordial with coworkers, but she se...

hi, i'm here to discuss my suicide. i have amitriptyline pills up to 60, i don't know how to take them because my tongue goes numb. the most important thing for me is how to speed up the absorption pr...

I was never on adhd medication until just recently, but I had been diagnosed young and was put aside in classes. Now that I’m finally on adderall though I’m not fixed like I thought I would be. I’m st...

Am I meant to trim my pubes and balls? I don't have any hair on my cock, yet around is very bushy but only like 2 inches max. My ball hair isn't very dense. Am I meant to take some scissors and go at...

>working 12 hour shifts >need to study for national exam that is in 115 days. Whats the best approach to studying while working a time intensive job? I have long breaks but Im always exhausted as fuc...

this is my first time on /advice/. i was diagnosed with ASD when i was 10 and always knew i was a difficult child. i was reading what the doctors wrote about me. i find that i was first diagnosed with...

>be me khv >Be slightly above average in studies >5/10 in looks >In highschool and in a fuck ass country so need to join coaching for a fuck ass entrance exam JEE >Be one of the top performer in my b...

I like a girl, she is a good friend a mine we work in the same office space and sometimes even sit next to each other and I enjoy her company even in silence. I like her and she stated that she does n...

Need advice on who my favorite philosopher should be. I have a degree in philosophy. Most philosophers, when polled, had no answer to the question. I want an answer.

Look at me. I'm the captain now.

How do I deal with envy? I'm a virgin. I'm a college dropout. Everything I had to struggle for and eventually fail. Meanwhile, my younger brother is one of those people everything comes naturally to. ...

I'm going to the pool today while my wife is at work. I have no issues doing stuff otherwise like jogging or hiking or going to the gym, but for some reason I feel really guilty now to the point where...

sorry for "worthless trash writes a book of cries" kinda post, i just need to see your thoughts about it or your own story maybe because im tired of thinking about myself. also how do i find an absolu...

I had an argument with my family about waiting until marriage for sex. My thoughts are basically that sex is a right of passage for a boy to transcend into manhood. And they were extremely upset with ...

>talk to a woman online >she gradually starts to answer slower over a few days >responses now take hours instead of minutes like before >responses are also shorter >claims it's because "she's busy" >c...

>be me >have $100 gift card since beginning of year >tried to think of ways to use it, already have 80k+ in the bank >randomly thought of the idea of buying some stuff for my gameboy SP thats been sit...

>20 >living in small town, haven't moved away from parents, basically a shut-in >out of shape, i go to college and i travel to the big city a lot but i hate it and my grades are mid and i don't know w...

Just started a new job at a world famous finance company with a grad team of around 8, in an M&A adjacent team (a relatively impressive role) All the grads are older than me (around 25ish, I just turn...

I am a NEET. I use this time to pursue things that interest me. I spend an hour a day on each subject but I worry that this means I'm not making enough meaningful progress in each subject. Everything ...

I have this fear whenever I leave my home. I'm on a lot of meds but sometimes they don't help. I have this fear when I'm home sometimes too. How do I overcome this fear? What do I do?

i follow back girls i find attractive but when i start a talking stage with a girl the first thing they do is look at my followers and following and get sad, angry or ghost me. i don't even follow mod...

How would I help my friend get a girlfriend, what places should he go

Is it better to have a normie GF, or to date someone you can relate to? Why?

Theres a girl that wants to go on a date with me, and a girl who im interested in but im friends with. Plan is to go out with the girl thats interested in me, just to see what happens. Then ask the g...

>consciously know women only want muscular, masculine men >have the personal desire to be an androgynous twink (I'm not even gay, I just like the aesthetic) What should I do? I'm kinda skinnyfat right...

can work stress worries cause gastroenteritis like symptoms i started my first real job month ago and its second time going home from work because of this, doesn't seem like an actual infection this t...

Im white, tall, slim kinda handsome, above average intelligence guy who talks normally, im not shy while expressing strong manly body language yet i cant get norwegian girls, can someone tell me some ...

How am I supposed to get a girlfriend/wife if a job doesn't pay me enough to afford moving out of my parent's house and live on my own? >just let her live with you and your parents That is not an opti...

I only desire really hot women, I can't find normal women attractive and settle, this is a curse, how do other men do it?

Help me and my barber get this cut right

>Hanging out with the lads >Having fun and bantering >Other people get up to do something and you're suddenly left alone with one other >Sudden feeling of discomfort and desire to escape emerges Simi...

How do I stop thinking about women? I try some hobbies and do some productive things but it still won't budge, overtime it worsens my body dysmorphia and makes me feel ashamed for being who I am right...

I recently took a week off from work since I hadn't had a vacation in about six months. I didn't really have any plans to go anywhere since really I just enjoy lounging around the house, playing video...

>be me >attend wedding in my sleep >make out with a few girls throughout the night >they all slip away somehow >find one a bit more cute >tell her I want her love tonight >we make out and then go to t...

I did some horror story shit. Injected hand sanitizer in my rectum about 12oz. I wanted to die from alcohol poisioning but knew I would throw up if i tried to drink it. My mom found me lying in a be...

I love my man, but he is so farty. Always farting and I wake up at night feeling like I work at a sulphur factory. He giggles when I smell it and screw up my face. What can I do? any herbs or somethin...

can anyone give me a tutorial to make a piss bomb to prank my friends with thanks lmfao)

Where can I find some unhinged friends? I want to be around insane people again. I mean the good crazy, not the going-to-jail crazy. Are they all doing high-risk sports or something? Where do courageo...

I have a few hundred dollars burning a hole in my pocket, do i buy a steam deck or silk aloha shirts?

Dating app advice >re-download hinge like an idiot >no matches after hours >but the premium goy pass >get one match who is like a 4/10 >suggestions are now all ugly. >clearly got put into low elo >ra...

I am a 3rd year pharmacy student. I want to get really good at my major and to develop clinical reasoning and be able to have the actual competencies (theoretical and applied) to do a good job once I ...

Therapy is for women and children. As men, we must take full ownership of our lives. Realize that no one really cares about you outside of your mother, and even that isn't guaranteed. This doesn't mea...

has your father passed away? how did you deal with it? any tips?

If we concede that porn and masturbation are more pleasurable than sex by design, why exactly should I be giving them up in order to make sex better? I have never had sex that I've enjoyed more than ...

It feels like despite all therapy I keep going around these topics and can't make any progress >Untraced future. Can't feel passion for anything despite having wide interests >Social Incompatibility. ...

>People only care about themselves >People only care about what they can get from you >People only want to talk about themselves >People only want to know you when they can get something from you >The...

How do i deal with constant bacne? Ive had it since high-school and it goes from being bad to average but it never goes away. Any anons have had this problem in the past and fixed it?

How do I best approach the idea of a threesome (female) with my fiancee? We are both very "kinky" in certain ways, and we have vaguely discussed the idea of hooking up with a couple we know who are sw...

for context, my dad has been paralyzed from the neck down for almost 12 years now. for the first few years of that, he was in and out of facilities and after a while, he got his own house and moved ba...

Not actual tism. Just socially retarded. >Mumbly voice >Very restrained and inhibited when talking to people (even close friends, to an extent) >too scared to even talk out loud in my own room (paren...

Imagine if you're a White man who doesn't look full White because you have a grandparent from the Middle East. Which type of women would be interested in you? Mudsharks hate Whites and Racialists want...

>29 >dad dies >sink into depression >live off savings >gf and I break up >have to move away >move in with my my poor family >have to live on couch past few months since there's no room for me >struggl...

Want to start a job but afraid they'll either humiliate me or walk on eggshells for being anti-work and mentally ill. How can I tell when someone just wants to humiliate me because they don't like me?...